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Mikester:
It may seem that most men appreciate a woman like this or most women feel comfortable sharing the bills but it isn't really true. Most men feel emasculated in such situations and most women will not submit totally to their husbands nor give them due reverence while sharing the bills which pierces the man's ego and make him demand respect through physical actions which hardly ends well for both.

It is best a man remains the provider. Men should hope and work towards being rich and comfortable, this is how most homes remain happy and satisfied with less trouble from the woman.

That's what I know.

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Mikester:
It may seem that most men appreciate a woman like this or most women feel comfortable sharing the bills but it isn't really true. Most men feel emasculated in such situations and most women will not submit totally to their husbands nor give them due reverence while sharing the bills which pierces the man's ego and make him demand respect through physical actions which hardly ends well for both.

It is best a man remains the provider. Men should hope and work towards being rich and comfortable, this is how most homes remain happy and satisfied with less trouble from the woman.

That's what I know.

Bros are u sure u ain't speaking for urself. just because ur wife carry less than 30% of d bills it becomes a source of disrespect.

It simply means she never respected u from f beginning, dats why it's gud to keep ur wife on d loop when it comes to household stuffs especially bills, No go forming dangote for ur wife woh She is ur partner

That's what feminist/feminism is for, madam. To help and support husband to financially run the home continuously and persistently.

Nothing new - so keep it up ma'am.

We no plenty for this world, na only me and her dey this country.

For the very fact that this was posted online to score cheap points, makes all the efforts invalid....... that’s if the story is true. You assisted for once, you want the whole world to know, all that he has been doing, how many people did he tell?

Amb1045:
I need these kind of a lady for serious relationship

hahahahaha

Noshitboi:
God bless you and may He continue to bless the work of thy hands. You're truly a virtuous woman not the one I have in the house. I buy everything in the house even the chewing gum that she chews too

Olodo24:
Men are the ones that gave women the entitlement mentality everyone complains of

But this type of woman is no good coz you can't control her.

Sonnobax15:

Mennnnnnnn,this kind of woman,na only once in a millennium God dey create dem..

Limited edition

JOACHINpedro:
Rare breed indeed.
The man must have crossed seven rivers, sacrificed a pregnant mosquito and had rode on a mad bull to get this kinda wife.

lafmaoooo

chiiraq802:
The kind of women I need right now, are the ones that would come to my house, give me head and Fuc.k the hell outer me. Then I give them t-fare so they can fucking get out of my life.

You are never entitled to.anybody pocket.

But you can rush to the social media to announce it. See level of pride. I hope you enjoy that marriage.

Keep your marriage from the social media home destroyers,

Amb1045:
@jagzangel: My first salary came yesterday and immediately I received alert, I rushed to my husband and asked him how much he needs me to contribute after informing him that my salary has been paid.

Oga thought I was joking and mentioned a figure thinking I was going to contest because it was almost all my salary, I just carried my phone and transferred it to him.

It was doing him like film, I then went ahead to pay the salary of our children's lesson teacher so that he would stop thinking about it.

That's when I realized that he was doing so much without complaining He sees it like his duty and even when the financial burden is too much, he struggles to pay without asking me.

He was so surprised and happy, I know that my money is just a fraction of what he brings but he felt like I gave him millions.

I then told him that I am putting in the effort to make more money so that I can still reduce his stress. He didn't marry a responsibility, he married an helper and he should be feeling more relaxed than when he was single.

I have never felt entitled to anybody's pocket and I won't do that with my husband.

Omo, oga went to the market without even telling me, stocked up the home.

Cooked and served me o, this small support has gone a long way to settle silent quarrels that I didn't even know about.

I will keep working harder and doing my best, men also need support, they are not supermarket. Men needs our support too

Written by a virtuous woman!

“Men are not Supermarkets”... they still need help �

AutoChick4U:
The one I gave half of my savings escaped without trace. So its only my husband I can support like that because I understand it ain't easy.

hahahahahaha lafmaoooo

JOACHINpedro:
Rare breed indeed.
The man must have crossed seven rivers, sacrificed a pregnant mosquito and had rode on a mad bull to get this kinda wife.

Thought I was the only one thinking the same.

Silentgroper:
Where is uyailncomparable dat tink a man's wife is his responsibility.

I am here. And yes, it's a man's obligation to take care of his wife, and her, him. Most importantly, the man. When he does this, the woman by default reciprocates. If you sow the wind, you will reap the whirlwind.

Baawahala:
I date one now.

No take her for granted I take GOD beg you �

Mikester:
It may seem that most men appreciate a woman like this or most women feel comfortable sharing the bills but it isn't really true. Most men feel emasculated in such situations and most women will not submit totally to their husbands nor give them due reverence while sharing the bills which pierces the man's ego and make him demand respect through physical actions which hardly ends well for both.

It is best a man remains the provider. Men should hope and work towards being rich and comfortable, this is how most homes remain happy and satisfied with less trouble from the woman.

That's what I know.

You are very wrong, if she willing contribute to the growth of the family, that doesn't reduce the respect for the man.

If you have a woman that doesn't respect her husband, it doesn't matter if she contribute, she will always disrespect her husband.

You kept saying, he should work harder to make money, if he dies or loose the ability to provide for the family, is there a way to avoid the disrespect?

If she's respectful, contributing to the well being of the family won't stop it.

Silentgroper:
Where is uyailncomparable dat tink a man's wife is his responsibility.

Lol, please leave that @uyailncomparabl of a girl, nah cruise she dey catch for NL, I have met her in person but she didnt know I have, and she's a cool headed girl I swear....

Nah hard working girl she be self, make unah no let her deceive unah here

Bifwoli:
But this type of woman is no good coz you can't control her.

Why do you want to control someone? An adult for that matter.

Amb1045:
@jagzangel: My first salary came yesterday and immediately I received alert, I rushed to my husband and asked him how much he needs me to contribute after informing him that my salary has been paid.

Oga thought I was joking and mentioned a figure thinking I was going to contest because it was almost all my salary, I just carried my phone and transferred it to him.

It was doing him like film, I then went ahead to pay the salary of our children's lesson teacher so that he would stop thinking about it.

That's when I realized that he was doing so much without complaining He sees it like his duty and even when the financial burden is too much, he struggles to pay without asking me.

He was so surprised and happy, I know that my money is just a fraction of what he brings but he felt like I gave him millions.

I then told him that I am putting in the effort to make more money so that I can still reduce his stress. He didn't marry a responsibility, he married an helper and he should be feeling more relaxed than when he was single.

I have never felt entitled to anybody's pocket and I won't do that with my husband.

Omo, oga went to the market without even telling me, stocked up the home.

Cooked and served me o, this small support has gone a long way to settle silent quarrels that I didn't even know about.

I will keep working harder and doing my best, men also need support, they are not supermarket. Men needs our support too

Written by a virtuous woman!

“Men are not Supermarkets”... they still need help �

I need this type of lady for serious relationship

wunmi590:


Lol, please leave that @uyailnco.mparabl of a girl, nah cruise she dey catch for NL, I have met her in person but she didnt know I have, and she's a cool headed girl I swear....

Nah hard working girl she be self, make unah no let her deceive unah here

See, you need to approach me with your full chest o.

Now, you're getting creepy.

I know you'll see me tomorrow. Please, call me when you do.

dingbang:
she is actually a charitable woman, she helped me when i was in need. She is not what she portrays on nairaland, she has a caring heart.

Thanks for coming to my rescue.

UyaiIncomparabl:


See, you need to approach me with your full chest o.

Now, you're getting creepy.

I know you'll see me tomorrow. Please, call me when you do.

I will try my best

He was so surprised and happy, I know that my money is just a fraction of what he brings [/b]but he felt like I gave him millions.[b]

Mann, I love this part. Men who rarely receive help feels this way. I do too.

When she will be making her returns in folds she won't return here to give us this epistles.. All this kind thing na to just sit down read, comment and leave the thread..

wunmi590:


Lol, please leave that @uyailncomparabl of a girl, nah cruise she dey catch for NL, I have met her in person but she didnt know I have, and she's a cool headed girl I swear....

Nah hard working girl she be self, make unah no let her deceive unah here

Eh en. I would just take ur word for it.

I guess u r still single bro cuz if u r already married then u will understand what marriage is all about, the truth is that marriage is a sweet thing depend on ur mindset, the write up there is truly one of the things that makes a sweet home, MARRIAGE NO BE BY GRAGRA BRO.quote author=Mikester post=105846073]It may seem that most men appreciate a woman like this or most women feel comfortable sharing the bills but it isn't really true. Most men feel emasculated in such situations and most women will not submit totally to their husbands nor give them due reverence while sharing the bills which pierces the man's ego and make him demand respect through physical actions which hardly ends well for both.

It is best a man remains the provider. Men should hope and work towards being rich and comfortable, this is how most homes remain happy and satisfied with less trouble from the woman.

That's what I know.[/quote]

I guess u r still single bro cuz if u r already married then u will understand what marriage is all about, the truth is that marriage is a sweet thing depend on ur mindset, the write up there is truly one of the things that makes a sweet home, MARRIAGE NO BE BY GRAGRA BRO.

dingbang:
she is actually a charitable woman, she helped me when i was in need. She is not what she portrays on nairaland, she has a caring heart.

Woah! .. I'm surprised she has guys vouching for her.. Bt wait, i hope it's nt dat u're related to her

NohurryInLife:

No take her for granted I take GOD beg you �

Yes of course I will never.
Only fools after being in paradise decides to go to hell.

JOACHINpedro:
Rare breed indeed.
The man must have crossed seven rivers, sacrificed a pregnant mosquito and had rode on a mad bull to get this kinda wife.

Gbam!