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Re: My Girlfriend Keeps Showing Me Chats Of A Guy Asking Her Out. by RPG2020(m): 8:57pm On Sep 18, 2021
MrBrownJay1:
just like when you go to auction house.... if someone puts a higher bid, you can either raise your bid or fold and get out. the girl is making you understand that you gotta raise your game if you wanna keep her.... ball is in your court!

PS the fact that your girl doesnt block this fool is a sign that you've almost lost her already (whether with this guy or the next)


You be witch shocked
You are very correct I'm a living testimony
Re: My Girlfriend Keeps Showing Me Chats Of A Guy Asking Her Out. by debbydams(f): 8:58pm On Sep 18, 2021
Nanpon96:
Good evening Nairalanders, pls there is something that has been bothering me for sometime. My babe has been screenshotting the chat another guy has been asking her out. Please what is her motive of doing this? Is it to make me Jealous or to proof her loyalty to me? Please Nairalanders help me out here.
see don't mind this people above oo grin..she's telling u she's loyal and for a lady to screenshot her chats means she loves you,I dont think she's showing you yellow card..she loves u,u can tell her to stop doing that..as a lady she truly loves you..don't listen to all this nl o..



If I'm in love t I don't hide anything form my man even my password.. Your babe is bn plain

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Re: My Girlfriend Keeps Showing Me Chats Of A Guy Asking Her Out. by AntiWailer: 8:58pm On Sep 18, 2021
Selective Honesty.

One of the 48 laws of power.

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Re: My Girlfriend Keeps Showing Me Chats Of A Guy Asking Her Out. by Clinghton: 8:58pm On Sep 18, 2021
Does she show you the chat to make you feel insecured or ...?
Re: My Girlfriend Keeps Showing Me Chats Of A Guy Asking Her Out. by NobleSeed(m): 9:01pm On Sep 18, 2021
na watin make the girl dey press op mumu button na
If na some guys fear no go even let the girl trying seif her mind go dey.
MNDY:


Na where most guys dey gock demselves for girls be dat. And girls use it take guys for fools.

You as a guy should settle your mind that you are not the only one bleeping your girlfriend and STOP CLAIMING AND THINKING ONLY YOU OWN THAT womanliness

A girl (easily deceived in nature) is comfortable and sees nothing wrong if another guy or other guys are hitting it. But one mumu guy will be thinking she is exclusively his. Do you know how many guys toast a girl in a day?
Re: My Girlfriend Keeps Showing Me Chats Of A Guy Asking Her Out. by openmine(m): 9:01pm On Sep 18, 2021
chatinent:
Dear Deputy Boyfriend,

Anybody wey love you no go dey give en number out to another man, let alone dey hear chyking.

- Chatinent, 2021.
smiley smiley
Nice one!

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Re: My Girlfriend Keeps Showing Me Chats Of A Guy Asking Her Out. by placeofallure(f): 9:02pm On Sep 18, 2021
purples25:


The same for me. I have politely told him to stop asking me to come around. I asked him politely because he is crazily relentless. He has been coming back every year for some years now. New number every time. Always I say no because I know he doesn't have any plan for me.

I have someone who is so focused on me. I wonder why a Bleep boy thinks I will leave that person and follow him. One day my guy checked my phone and I said 'check everything, that is the guy that always asks me to come whenever his flight brings him to Abuja.' I showed him everything, revealed all.

I don't think OP should suspect his gf. I do that too, I am only trying to show that I am not hiding anything. So what would make op satisfied? She's baring it all now, guys said she isn't faithful. If she hides too or doesn't say anything, she's still bad.

This is a clear case of honesty. What guys are saying about that girl is unfair. Everything they think is biased and twisted. Always thinking evil of women. Very bad!

Na their way on Nairaland be dat. Too much Redpilling things. I really don't care about their endorsement anyway.

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Re: My Girlfriend Keeps Showing Me Chats Of A Guy Asking Her Out. by Rhozabeth(m): 9:03pm On Sep 18, 2021
Bros, it is only you that can actually decipher what it means to send u such!
Either you are not treating her well and she is directly trying to tell u that she has another option or she is trying to prove her loyalty. Na only you go fit talk determine what she means. However,, u can also imagine that she did not tell or show but u stumbled on the chat somehow, how would u feel?
Re: My Girlfriend Keeps Showing Me Chats Of A Guy Asking Her Out. by flokii: 9:07pm On Sep 18, 2021
AntiWailer:
Selective Honesty.

One of the 48 laws of power.


You know wassup..

The same girl showing the poster screenshots of one chat might have multiple side guys she has sex with steady.. it's not dem say, it's what is happening.
Re: My Girlfriend Keeps Showing Me Chats Of A Guy Asking Her Out. by NLKing01: 9:09pm On Sep 18, 2021
She's telling you... Omo ma sun o(Don't sleep)
Nanpon96:
Good evening Nairalanders, pls there is something that has been bothering me for sometime. My babe has been screenshotting the chat another guy has been asking her out. Please what is her motive of doing this? Is it to make me Jealous or to proof her loyalty to me? Please Nairalanders help me out here.
Re: My Girlfriend Keeps Showing Me Chats Of A Guy Asking Her Out. by BarrSly: 9:10pm On Sep 18, 2021
She is trying to make you bothered and apparently she has gotten you!

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Re: My Girlfriend Keeps Showing Me Chats Of A Guy Asking Her Out. by Haipre: 9:16pm On Sep 18, 2021
Nanpon96:
Good evening Nairalanders, pls there is something that has been bothering me for sometime. My babe has been screenshotting the chat another guy has been asking her out. Please what is her motive of doing this? Is it to make me Jealous or to proof her loyalty to me? Please Nairalanders help me out here.
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Guy... Act like you don't care, show less interest... she's trying to free herself of future guilt.. that is if nothing has happened yet.

Just smile with her.. and move on sharpaly..

Trust me.. girls still plenty, you only live once.. please don't use it to cry over a girl or her attitude... Abeg

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Re: My Girlfriend Keeps Showing Me Chats Of A Guy Asking Her Out. by femi4: 9:30pm On Sep 18, 2021
Nanpon96:
Good evening Nairalanders, pls there is something that has been bothering me for sometime. My babe has been screenshotting the chat another guy has been asking her out. Please what is her motive of doing this? Is it to make me Jealous or to proof her loyalty to me? Please Nairalanders help me out here.
To proof her FAKE loyalty. If she's indeed loyal, she would have block the guy's number. Ma fọ o

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Re: My Girlfriend Keeps Showing Me Chats Of A Guy Asking Her Out. by Sanusak: 9:33pm On Sep 18, 2021
The fact still remain that, no girl/lady is hostile to all other men they meet even when she is with her "LOML". She is only showing you one out of many conversations she is having with different guys.
She can be given all guys that are on the queue the same attitude.

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Re: My Girlfriend Keeps Showing Me Chats Of A Guy Asking Her Out. by CXLVII: 9:34pm On Sep 18, 2021
Nanpon96:
Good evening Nairalanders, pls there is something that has been bothering me for sometime. My babe has been screenshotting the chat another guy has been asking her out. Please what is her motive of doing this? Is it to make me Jealous or to proof her loyalty to me? Please Nairalanders help me out here.


Are you fvckin rich?

If you are not, let me know. I will advice you on the perfect way forward.
Re: My Girlfriend Keeps Showing Me Chats Of A Guy Asking Her Out. by Tinyemeka(m): 9:38pm On Sep 18, 2021
NobleSeed:
na only screenshots them dey show my guy grin grin
The ones way the guy dey do from the other side she no dey show you ooh na screenshot , maybe seif na tinted screenshots seif.

smiley

I misread your username as "nosebleed".

Nice anagram. smiley

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Re: My Girlfriend Keeps Showing Me Chats Of A Guy Asking Her Out. by emonis88: 9:39pm On Sep 18, 2021
placeofallure:


Do you think I haven't told him I can't be with him? It was when I saw he was hard of hearing that I started blocking him. He'd get another number, I'd block him and that's how we've been playing hide and seek. He even used a fake name and picture to come be my friend on fb, I blocked him there too. I told my husband initially and we laughed over it. But I never bothered him again about all his other stupid moves. He'd think I encouraged him in a way, that's why he kept coming back. Meanwhile, I didn't.
I think u should call that motherfucker n tell him that d next time he tries that shit u il report him to d Police, n u n ur husband will get him arrested for stalking.
Re: My Girlfriend Keeps Showing Me Chats Of A Guy Asking Her Out. by Silentgroper(m): 9:39pm On Sep 18, 2021
MrBrownJay1:
just like when you go to auction house.... if someone puts a higher bid, you can either raise your bid or fold and get out. the girl is making you understand that you gotta raise your game if you wanna keep her.... ball is in your court!

PS the fact that your girl doesnt block this fool is a sign that you've almost lost her already (whether with this guy or the next)
Can u give a vivid explanation to y d other guy is a fool?
Re: My Girlfriend Keeps Showing Me Chats Of A Guy Asking Her Out. by emonis88: 9:43pm On Sep 18, 2021
Me I no know o! But op just let her know that if she is still interested in a relationship with u she should let u know n if she wants to be with d said guy should make up her mind , n to stop play such games with you.if such was coming from u, how il she feel? Me I no dey play hide n seek o!
Re: My Girlfriend Keeps Showing Me Chats Of A Guy Asking Her Out. by Silentgroper(m): 9:43pm On Sep 18, 2021
debbydams:
see don't mind this people above oo grin..she's telling u she's loyal and for a lady to screenshot her chats means she loves you,I dont think she's showing you yellow card..she loves u,u can tell her to stop doing that..as a lady she truly loves you..don't listen to all this nl o..



If I'm in love t I don't hide anything form my man even my password.. Your babe is bn plain
But u are hiding yourself 4rm me.. Hw's that 4 nt hiding anything 4rm ur man.
Re: My Girlfriend Keeps Showing Me Chats Of A Guy Asking Her Out. by Jefferyhi86(m): 9:49pm On Sep 18, 2021
Person wen dem wan de dock soon
Re: My Girlfriend Keeps Showing Me Chats Of A Guy Asking Her Out. by Assumptabeke(f): 9:50pm On Sep 18, 2021
The moment the person you're in a relationship with, starts using other people that have romantic interest in them to make you feel jealous, it means they're looking for a way out of the relationship.

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Re: My Girlfriend Keeps Showing Me Chats Of A Guy Asking Her Out. by debbydams(f): 9:52pm On Sep 18, 2021
Silentgroper:
But u are hiding yourself 4rm me.. Hw's that 4 nt hiding anything 4rm ur man.
do I know you?
Re: My Girlfriend Keeps Showing Me Chats Of A Guy Asking Her Out. by Silentgroper(m): 9:56pm On Sep 18, 2021
debbydams:
do I know you?
Yes, u do.
Re: My Girlfriend Keeps Showing Me Chats Of A Guy Asking Her Out. by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:01pm On Sep 18, 2021
Silentgroper:
Can u give a vivid explanation to y d other guy is a fool?
123papas:
Why will you call a follow man, trying to woo a YOUR woman, a fool.

the other guy is not only a fool but also a donkey.... here is a simple clue: what you catch with honey, you'll lose with honey. a girl who can sneak to listen to suitor's offers while being with you, will do the same to these suitors when they are finally together. these low life biitches are not loyal to anything. if you bring something better to the table, the biitch is gone!

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Re: My Girlfriend Keeps Showing Me Chats Of A Guy Asking Her Out. by Nobody: 10:01pm On Sep 18, 2021
Nanpon96:
Good evening Nairalanders, pls there is something that has been bothering me for sometime. My babe has been screenshotting the chat another guy has been asking her out. Please what is her motive of doing this? Is it to make me Jealous or to proof her loyalty to me? Please Nairalanders help me out here.
If she loves you she won’t even give her number out. The medium is the message
Re: My Girlfriend Keeps Showing Me Chats Of A Guy Asking Her Out. by justmondris: 10:02pm On Sep 18, 2021
She does not want to hide anything from you because she truly loves you. Don’t misinterpret her action and start acting funny and childish.

I will advice you support her to fly over this temptation
Re: My Girlfriend Keeps Showing Me Chats Of A Guy Asking Her Out. by Silentgroper(m): 10:11pm On Sep 18, 2021
BRATISLAVA:


And boys are clearly more emotional than girls.

They can't have girls so they masturbate more, then come online to drop angry incel posts.
We can understand it is abt time u hit menopause nd u're getting scared, angry nd frustrated cuz no man has ever nd never want u.

One lil advice to rid urself of d pain u're feeling. Go hug a transformer or jump off 3rd mainland bridge. If those doesnt work, try sniper nd spare us all of ur bullocks

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Re: My Girlfriend Keeps Showing Me Chats Of A Guy Asking Her Out. by Rubbiish(m): 10:13pm On Sep 18, 2021
placeofallure:



I agree with you but do you know some men can be stubborn?

A certain guy keeps changing his numbers to chat me up. I counted about 5 or so. Each time I know it's him, I block his ass. He will still call, I know he will. I don't know how he got the number in the first place and I politely told him I'm married but that won't deter him.

As for OP, if you are not comfortable with it tell her to stop. How he got her number matters too.
This can only continue when a lady enjoys the attention she gets from men! If u continue to block without any interaction, no matter how stubborn a guy is, he will lose interest & let go. But a lot of girls enjoy the attention they get from these toaster by engaging them, reason they keep trying.
Re: My Girlfriend Keeps Showing Me Chats Of A Guy Asking Her Out. by Noblewealth(m): 10:15pm On Sep 18, 2021
The handwriting is crystal clear.. start breaking your own heart in between they knack her like say you dey pay for her service...

If you think she's loyal cos she's sending you screenshot you already in hell just that you haven't get burnt...if she truly loves you she won't give out her number..No any iota of respect or loyalty at all..belive her at your won peril
Re: My Girlfriend Keeps Showing Me Chats Of A Guy Asking Her Out. by Rubbiish(m): 10:22pm On Sep 18, 2021
BRATISLAVA:
[s]This must be the 17th thread about females in one day.

Emotional men drinking the red pill box are becoming a moaning nuisance.

When all of you have turned gay or chronic masturbators, who will feel it more? You content creators should take a break and get married on a Saturday, like you always do after moaning.

Pretty soon, a lot of people will deactivate. If this is traffic, the lights are now red. It's going to be a forum for just embittered young men. Maybe it will become the next incel forum[/s].
Na everything u women for dey cry!
If this is the 17th thread about female, is anyone stopping u from creating 100 thread about male? Every little thing u people will start crying. Go create male thread, no one is stopping u abeg!
Re: My Girlfriend Keeps Showing Me Chats Of A Guy Asking Her Out. by Okhuadams(m): 10:23pm On Sep 18, 2021
Nanpon96:
Good evening Nairalanders, pls there is something that has been bothering me for sometime. My babe has been screenshotting the chat another guy has been asking her out. Please what is her motive of doing this? Is it to make me Jealous or to proof her loyalty to me? Please Nairalanders help me out here.
She is already blowing up the guy,get brain but if no sense inside the brain borrow sense but if you get sense borrow brain to mange the sense.

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