Hmm

Kdon2:


You should be ashamed of yourself if you are a man of dignity. But no you choose to take advantage of the girl.

Many people go do am, no go even talk am.


Bros, everyone errs. Oga where is the story leading to ?

Kdon2:


You should be ashamed of yourself if you are a man of dignity. But no you choose to take advantage of the girl.

There was an offer on the table, the girl took it.

Did he force her to sleep with him?

Or is it all offers you accept?

Coolgent:
What's the name of this movie

lies from the pit of hell

Ok

Poor girl...just to save her job..
This life no just balance

The disadvantage of being marketer.

Very cold zobo

Cherry lost, job secured.
Poverty driving morality to the slaughter

Wife her and take her off the labour market; the labour (money) market is a force that completely turns a moral person into an immoral pig.

She is a good girl for keeping her virgin pride up until you broke it. Anyone could have broken it but, if you do want a wife (as a young man), she is the best bet you can get because she isn't loose and can pair bond because again; you are her first!

The dating market is saturated with alpha widow women who do filth for money but here is a chance to snap and save one before she reaches the street.

If you do not , please check my profile for my email and DM me her number let me advice her like I did you.

Hmm

Another misogynistic and narcissistic fictitious tale by the usual idle suspects... I kept yawning from the first line of the lengthy fabrication.

Why do y'all keep pushing these things to Front Page... This is actually worse than BBNaija threads.

I dey cum

If your intention is genuine between you and your maker call her up again. But let her know it's not just for hookup. Let your intention be clear to her. And don't mind your so called friends. Sometimes people meet love in strangest of circumstance.

I am going to be honest with you bro
This is ur fantasy

Iamagoodgirll:
So I came across this post in a group

NL guys have you experienced this?, also share your view.

I NEED ADVAISE FROM A MALE READERS:

And no, my story is not made up. It’s for real, actually very real. I am a top executive of a very successful conglomerate my father founded. I resumed the job early this year when I returned from the U.K after completing my MBA.
As a result of my job, I usually find myself frequenting places I ordinarily wouldn’t want to- Ikoyi club, society weddings, conferences, etc. I’m a geek for the most part, and something of a recluse. I would rather stay in my house at the end of day and watch TV. When I became Deputy CEO of the company, I realized that I had to start hanging out at these places to build a social circle, mostly for business reasons. I am not a very sociable person, but with the help of my more outgoing cousins, I have been able to build a pretty decent network of Lagos ‘big boys’ between January when I returned and now.

During a conference in Lagos this year, I was approached by a young lady banker. She was working in the Marketing department at one of these banks, She’s pretty young- about 7 years my junior. I’m 28; this lady is about 21. You know how young these graduates are these days.

Anyway, she walked up to me and started persuading me to consider opening up a bank account with her bank and told me all the benefits of the account, etc. She looked so innocent and desperate, and practically begged me for an opportunity to see me again so that she could convince me. I ended up giving her my complimentary card. I usually don’t just give out my card like that, but I did.
Three days later, when I was hanging out with my new-found friends and my cousins at a bar at one of the Hotels on the Island during the early evening, this girl called me and reminded me who she was. She said she really needed me to open an account, and that she was eager to convince me on why I needed to open an account. My friends noticed I was talking to a girl on the phone. You know how guys are; they teased me and asked me to just play around with her and invite her for drinks.
I asked her to come over to the Hotel, and surprisingly, she said she would be there in 20 minutes. The branch she worked in is on the Island, so she apparently took a Bike and came to meet us. This was about 6pm. The girl came, and my friends all saw her. They smiled and talked among themselves in hush tones, and I talked briefly with her for like 5 minutes and told her I would make a decision on banking with her or not. She was desperate from what I could see, and she was eager to get my account.

When she left, my friends all laughed mischievously and told me in plain terms that I had to sleep with the girl. They went on talking about how all these bank marketers sleep with different men before getting deposits, and insisted that I must not be any different. Now, I’m not a virgin; I’ve had my own fair share of sex in the past, but I’ve never been one to take advantage of a girl. I knew she was desperate as she had a target to meet up to, or something of the sort. But when you’re a guy hanging out with guys, it’s pretty difficult to be the odd one out. All my friends made me promise that I’d sleep with the girl. I promised; I didn’t want to look like some geek. And I’m really trying to feel among these guys.

To cut a long story short, two days later, when I was in my office, this girl called me and tried persuading me to bank with her. As she was talking to me on phone, I asked her jokingly: “What are you willing to do in order for me to open an account with you?”

She hesitated and then she told me: “Anything you want sir.”

Gbam! That was my cue. I asked her to meet me at one hotel for drinks later that evening. I asked my PA to book a room for me at the Hotel. She came to meet me. We had drinks, we chatted. She told me that her bosses had ordered her to deliver N10million to the bank that month, and that so far, she hadn’t gotten anything. Her job was on the line, and she had only just started working there 3 weeks before. I asked her to follow me to the room. She did. I slept with her.

Surprisingly, it turns out she was doing it for the first time. She was actually a Virgin. The bed sheet was stained with her blood and all that stuff, and I was just amazed. I thought being a marketer and all, that she would have been sampled many times. But no, she was a virgin. When we finished, she was shy of looking at me in the eye. We didn’t talk much. I gave her money for a Taxi, and gave her the name of the Finance director of the subsidiary I am in charge of. I asked her to meet him the following day to open up a corporate account. I instructed the guy to open up an account worth a few hundreds of millions- probably enough to meet her target for the next 2 years if there is such a thing in commercial banking circles. I don’t know how these banks work.

Anyway, she called me and thanked me profusely for saving her job. My friends now know I have slept with her, and I have solidified my place among them as a ‘bad’ guy.

The issue is this: I haven’t been able to stop thinking about her. It’s been like six weeks now. I haven’t called her since then, even though she keeps sending me text messages asking after my wellbeing and thanking me for banking with her. She deals directly with my Finance guy so we don’t talk money ever. But I think about her every day. I think I actually have feelings for her, and the idea that I was her first makes me feel like she should belong to me. I’ve never been a Lady’s first. I’m actually going crazy with thoughts about this girl.

Am I crazy? Should I call her up and ask her out? How would that feel? How would she react? Also, considering that my friends all see her as the bank ‘LovePeddler’ would it be a good idea to still ask her out? How will my friends see me? I’m not looking for sex from her; I’m looking for something real, something intimate. I want something that’d last- probably forever.

I’ve never felt this way about any other lady in a really really long time. What should I do?

Simple MARRY HER

Story story! Story! Once upon a time; .....

@OP abeg complete the phrase

Just like that she gave up her virginity? After twenty one year to save her job? Wow.

Well, was about dishing out a little advice until my eye caught your moniker.

it happens

Don't rush to ask her out, take your time to confirm if what you feel is love or list.

If u really wanna go for her, u need to be fast about it before plenty other guys devour her oooo.thats even if her own manager in the office haven't started chopping her too.
u need to get her outa that marketing bank job ASAP if u r really interested in her cos most of her own Female circles in the bank too will corrupt her in no time.Am speaking from experience cos i have lot of female friends that work in the bank.u can contact one of her boss in the bank too to change her job role in the bank since u got a huge sum in the bank.theu will yield to pressure cos they too can't afford to loose u as a customer.

Well...deed is done, try to get past it & move on with your life, if you feel the need to date her. Then she needs to resign from that job cuz u can't have her sleeping around to meet to get customers for the devilish bank.
But trust me it's just ur conscience & Lust playing with ur head...There is nothing special in being a ladies first...nothing special bro.

Well, you had the opportunity of attempting to have sex With her just to see if she'd yield then in the process , you'd stop her and advise her, she's young and naive and desperate, you never know if she's supporting a family or parents so she needs the job, your advise would have made her a better person, but now you've made her worse, she'd continue along that line seeing it as a means to an end.

Many of us in life downplay the impact of luck in our lives, the fact that your parent left you money is pure luck, you didn't struggle for it, even if you did, by virtue of being born in the wrong family and not having good educational background could be one factor that separates the rich and poor.,not hardwork, when you're faced with an opportunity to lend a good hand don't take advantage of them, it doesn't make you smarter, you're just furtunate and lucky and anybody could have been in your position simply because they exist and was dealt a good hand by the universe

Wait, no be u dey find job for nairaland?


All this una lie no dey finish

Modified

Thank God say u don confess

keep her as close as possible, but dont ask her out

take her out when you feel like, dont mix pleasure with business too, be strict with her, be the one to call the shots..now kill that feeling you have for her, na pure lust

spend enough time with her to know if shes worth keeping, 6 weeks is too early decide if you should keep her/

and also., inform her u are not interested in serious relation, but you enjoy her company, you like her around you

This kind of story is the reason I've been working my ass out. My daughter won't be at the mercy of someone like this.
I may end up not owing a conglomerate of businesses but hey! my kids have got everything they will need prepared for them, as they move on in life.

Leave her alone...