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Why Are Nigerian Girls Really Stressful To Date? by MikeofKd(m): 5:42pm On Sep 25, 2021
Good day Nlanders ,Mhen I just broke up of recent ,me and my ex had a good thing going but all of a sudden she started changing from bad to worse ,a heated arguement lead to our breakup and its crazy cause i had a lil business to do with one lady like dat ,dis lady was much more older than me and man dis was strictly business no strings attached but my ex got mad saying ive been cheating on her all these while bla bla bla , well to be very honest I no too send her papa like dat rn, but yeah I realised I'm not alone in all these ,few days ago a friend of mine hit me up complainng heavily bout his babe well they just broke up too after 2 years of dating and staying together ,my friend did everything for her but she too changed all of a sudden and I've been seeing peoples post on Nairaland as well , were guys complain heavily about thier girlfriends mischievous attitudes ,from promiscuous behaviour to awkward attributes and all crazy things they be doing .

So I'm asking why are Nigerian girls really stressful to date ? It's like they are so confused they see white and know its white but they would rather die than say it's white and then call it yellow ,like wdf do these Nigerian girls wants ? what can really keep them ? cause money is not enough reasons for them to stay and if they do when the money finishes they are gone like the wind , loving and caring isn't enough, nothing is actually enough for Nigerian girls to want to stay with you through trying times , I've had a few decent girls in the past but these days with what am seeing, decent girls has finished totally it's now useless girls with fish brains up and down everywhere now . Local man cannot can .
Tbvh it's really stressful dating Nigerian girls sigh cry.


And guys please I'm pleading with y'all do away with drama queens ,they bring quarrels outta nothing ,like I remember one time I had a female friend we use to vibe very well and all but then I realised she started getting jealous and angry when she sees me around other girls ,ok so I asked her out so she could at least stop getting angry at me but she said she cant date me so then I asked why she was always getting angry at me at for chilling with other girls and she started yelling at me calling me all sorts of names and all ,well that was the last I spoke with her ,she came begging but nah I wasnt having any of it ,idk Why Nigerian girls are hell bent on giving a nigga sleepless nights with lots and lots of emotional trauma ,Mhen it ain't really easy ,with the the rate of which girls are going wayward now ,mans so stressed out cause you can't even find a decent girl to marry or date now ,it's crazy Mhen. What you wanna talk about ? Is it their unfaithfulness ,sending men to their early graves cause of paternity fraud or a man sending them to uni only for dem to graduate and say they are no longer interested ,seriously man it's crazy.

May God help every nigga out there get a decent wife cause one good girl is worth a thousand bitches they say , but you hardly find a good girl these days ,make God help us all Amen.

Sipping booze rn cause man I don tire ,I can't take it anymore .

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls Really Stressful To Date? by chatinent: 5:43pm On Sep 25, 2021
well to be very honest I no too send her papa like dat rn,
Leave her old man outta this. That slang is very offensive even if brainless comedians use it.
2 years of dating and staying together

If you mean in a roof, it's very wrong.

or a man sending them to uni only for dem to graduate and say they are no longer interested ,seriously man it's crazy.
Baba, whether they will be interested if they graduate or not, I cannot sponsor a girl in a University...unless a wife, sister, or charity.

What works:
In my religion, we place huge emphasis on dating when one is ready for marriage. We also shun premarital sex!

So what I'll do is this. If I am ready to marry in... let's say some months, a year, or couples of years, I will begin to date now.

The girl in question knows I am not interested in sex or all whatnot.

You know why I place must value on morals? Because the world has lost it.

If you aren't principled, an honest five-minute fun can ruin your life forever.


Yes, the “edition” of girlfriends nowadays are nothing to write home about. Meanwhile, I put it to you; there are still nice ladies out there.

We could stop looking for outer appearance while choosing a mate. It is not the primary thing to look for. You may like a very beautiful shoe in a shoe shop and it wouldn't still fit you. Would you buy it just because you love it? Sth that is practically useless?

How about buying a car?
The physical appearance doesn't always say the car is good! 504 that is working is still better than a died Benz.

What is killing us is our hunger for what pleases the eyes more: fine face, big this, elaborated that...that we often forget compatibility! What's the miscibility between you both? Have you checked if she is spiritually, financially, and medically compatible?

Some think it is not important because they are only there for the fun...to be with that person for the trophies, gossips amongst friends, or count scores.


Dating should be a stepping stone to marriage!

Action Plan:
• Date next time when you are ready for marriage. Then, you will be very ready to tell if sb will make a wife from the very moment of your date.
• Steer clear of premarital sex.
• Look beyond physical features. Beauty fades. Hips depreciate. Boobs go still look toe one day...but a good character appreciates.
• Do a compatibility test.
• Don't plunge into dating or marriage because everyone is doing it.
• Take your time and choose wisely.
• Being single is also normal. Don't see it as a sickness.
• Avoid what friends say. Build on yourself first on how to become a good husband and father.
• You should treat your girlfriend the way you treat your siblings. If it is not working that way, there is a problem.
• Pray. Why? Yes, pray.


You are welcome.

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls Really Stressful To Date? by Jeon(f): 5:44pm On Sep 25, 2021
Beebah2000 come comment on my behal..

Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls Really Stressful To Date? by HRHQueenPhil(f): 5:50pm On Sep 25, 2021
MikeofKd:
Good day Nlanders ,Mhen I just broke up of recent ,me and my ex had a good thing going but all of a sudden she started changing from bad to worse ,a heated arguement lead to our breakup and its crazy cause i had a lil business to do with one lady like dat ,dis lady was much more older than me and man dis was strictly business no strings attached but my ex got mad saying ive been cheating on her all these while bla bla bla , well to be very honest I no too send her papa like dat rn, but yeah I realised I'm not alone in all these ,few days ago a friend of mine hit me up complainng heavily bout his babe well they just broke up too after 2 years of dating and staying together ,my friend did everything for her but she too changed all of a sudden and I've been seeing peoples post on Nairaland as well , were guys complain heavily about thier girlfriends mischievous attitudes ,from promiscuous behaviour to awkward attributes and all crazy things they be doing .

So I'm asking why are Nigerian girls really stressful to date ? It's like they are so confused they see white and know its white but they would rather die than say it's white and then call it yellow ,like wdf do these Nigerian girls wants ? what can really keep them ? cause money is not enough reasons for them to stay and if they do when the money finishes they are gone like the wind , loving and caring isn't enough, nothing is actually enough for Nigerian girls to want to stay with you through trying times , I've had a few decent girls in the past but these days with what am seeing, decent girls has finished totally it's now useless girls with fish brains up and down everywhere now . Local man cannot can .
Tbvh it's really stressful dating Nigerian girls sigh cry.


And guys please I'm pleading with y'all do away with drama queens ,they bring quarrels outta nothing ,like I remember one time I had a female friend we use to vibe very well and all but then I realised she started getting jealous and angry when she sees me around other girls ,ok so I asked her out so she could at least stop getting angry at me but she said she cant date me so then I asked why she was always getting angry at me at for chilling with other girls and she started yelling at me calling me all sorts of names and all ,well that was the last I spoke with her ,she came begging but nah I wasnt having any of it ,idk Why Nigerian girls are hell bent on giving a nigga sleepless nights with lots and lots of emotional trauma ,Mhen it ain't really easy ,with the the rate of which girls are going wayward now ,mans so stressed out cause you can't even find a decent girl to marry or date now ,it's crazy Mhen. What you wanna talk about ? Is it their unfaithfulness ,sending men to their early graves cause of paternity fraud or a man sending them to uni only for dem to graduate and say they are no longer interested ,seriously man it's crazy.

May God help every nigga out there get a decent wife cause one good girl is worth a thousand bitches they say , but you hardly find a good girl these days ,make God help us all Amen.

Sipping booze rn cause man I don tire ,I can't take it anymore .

Nigerian women are the best to date and marry...the issue is u pick the wrong woman...they are like watermelon, if u no sabi pick..u will choose the unripe and be pissed off wink grin grin grin grin grin
The secret to choosing a good woman is not to waste her time fvcking ...if u don't have money to marry her, Remain only friends ..if she agrees, u can do friends with benefits therefore she is not tied down and u are not grin grin
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls Really Stressful To Date? by habsydiamond(m): 5:52pm On Sep 25, 2021
U have to read the full edition of how to date a Nigerian girl before u proceed... There are 1000 editions with each having nothing less that 1000 pages... If u proceed without reading anything u see while dating a Nigerian girl manage am oo... We need to start studying them in school nowadays cos nobody understands them anymore. They are just fluctuating like Nigerian weather.

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls Really Stressful To Date? by Jeon(f): 5:53pm On Sep 25, 2021
New trend in edo state for Yahoo boys [ now their oracle is requesting for virgins ].

People pls becareful.. And know what you accept from beings, even though he/she is a friend.

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls Really Stressful To Date? by Jeon(f): 6:05pm On Sep 25, 2021
MikeofKd:
Good day Nlanders ,Mhen I just broke up of recent ,me and my ex had a good thing going but all of a sudden she started changing from bad to worse ,a heated arguement lead to our breakup and its crazy cause i had a lil business to do with one lady like dat ,dis lady was much more older than me and man dis was strictly business no strings attached but my ex got mad saying ive been cheating on her all these while bla bla bla , well to be very honest I no too send her papa like dat rn, but yeah I realised I'm not alone in all these ,few days ago a friend of mine hit me up complainng heavily bout his babe well they just broke up too after 2 years of dating and staying together ,my friend did everything for her but she too changed all of a sudden and I've been seeing peoples post on Nairaland as well , were guys complain heavily about thier girlfriends mischievous attitudes ,from promiscuous behaviour to awkward attributes and all crazy things they be doing .

So I'm asking why are Nigerian girls really stressful to date ? It's like they are so confused they see white and know its white but they would rather die than say it's white and then call it yellow ,like wdf do these Nigerian girls wants ? what can really keep them ? cause money is not enough reasons for them to stay and if they do when the money finishes they are gone like the wind , loving and caring isn't enough, nothing is actually enough for Nigerian girls to want to stay with you through trying times , I've had a few decent girls in the past but these days with what am seeing, decent girls has finished totally it's now useless girls with fish brains up and down everywhere now . Local man cannot can .
Tbvh it's really stressful dating Nigerian girls sigh cry.


And guys please I'm pleading with y'all do away with drama queens ,they bring quarrels outta nothing ,like I remember one time I had a female friend we use to vibe very well and all but then I realised she started getting jealous and angry when she sees me around other girls ,ok so I asked her out so she could at least stop getting angry at me but she said she cant date me so then I asked why she was always getting angry at me at for chilling with other girls and she started yelling at me calling me all sorts of names and all ,well that was the last I spoke with her ,she came begging but nah I wasnt having any of it ,idk Why Nigerian girls are hell bent on giving a nigga sleepless nights with lots and lots of emotional trauma ,Mhen it ain't really easy ,with the the rate of which girls are going wayward now ,mans so stressed out cause you can't even find a decent girl to marry or date now ,it's crazy Mhen. What you wanna talk about ? Is it their unfaithfulness ,sending men to their early graves cause of paternity fraud or a man sending them to uni only for dem to graduate and say they are no longer interested ,seriously man it's crazy.

May God help every nigga out there get a decent wife cause one good girl is worth a thousand bitches they say , but you hardly find a good girl these days ,make God help us all Amen.

Sipping booze rn cause man I don tire ,I can't take it anymore .


Why did you throw them away?
Probably they're not ur spec and we have plenty fishs in the ocean.

Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls Really Stressful To Date? by Jeon(f): 6:08pm On Sep 25, 2021
MikeofKd:
Good day Nlanders ,Mhen I just broke up of recent ,me and my ex had a good thing going but all of a sudden she started changing from bad to worse ,a heated arguement lead to our breakup and its crazy cause i had a lil business to do with one lady like dat ,dis lady was much more older than me and man dis was strictly business no strings attached but my ex got mad saying ive been cheating on her all these while bla bla bla , well to be very honest I no too send her papa like dat rn, but yeah I realised I'm not alone in all these ,few days ago a friend of mine hit me up complainng heavily bout his babe well they just broke up too after 2 years of dating and staying together ,my friend did everything for her but she too changed all of a sudden and I've been seeing peoples post on Nairaland as well , were guys complain heavily about thier girlfriends mischievous attitudes ,from promiscuous behaviour to awkward attributes and all crazy things they be doing .

So I'm asking why are Nigerian girls really stressful to date ? It's like they are so confused they see white and know its white but they would rather die than say it's white and then call it yellow ,like wdf do these Nigerian girls wants ? what can really keep them ? cause money is not enough reasons for them to stay and if they do when the money finishes they are gone like the wind , loving and caring isn't enough, nothing is actually enough for Nigerian girls to want to stay with you through trying times , I've had a few decent girls in the past but these days with what am seeing, decent girls has finished totally it's now useless girls with fish brains up and down everywhere now . Local man cannot can .
Tbvh it's really stressful dating Nigerian girls sigh cry.


And guys please I'm pleading with y'all do away with drama queens ,they bring quarrels outta nothing ,like I remember one time I had a female friend we use to vibe very well and all but then I realised she started getting jealous and angry when she sees me around other girls ,ok so I asked her out so she could at least stop getting angry at me but she said she cant date me so then I asked why she was always getting angry at me at for chilling with other girls and she started yelling at me calling me all sorts of names and all ,well that was the last I spoke with her ,she came begging but nah I wasnt having any of it ,idk Why Nigerian girls are hell bent on giving a nigga sleepless nights with lots and lots of emotional trauma ,Mhen it ain't really easy ,with the the rate of which girls are going wayward now ,mans so stressed out cause you can't even find a decent girl to marry or date now ,it's crazy Mhen. What you wanna talk about ? Is it their unfaithfulness ,sending men to their early graves cause of paternity fraud or a man sending them to uni only for dem to graduate and say they are no longer interested ,seriously man it's crazy.

May God help every decent nigga out there get a decent wife cause one good girl is worth a thousand bitches they say , but you hardly find a good girl these days ,make God help us all Amen.

Sipping booze rn cause man I don tire ,I can't take it anymore .


If you want the best,you have to be the best
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls Really Stressful To Date? by Starzo: 6:16pm On Sep 25, 2021
You guys should stop complaining and completely ignore them(Nigerian girls) just as I've chosen to do.

Stay away from the present crop of eligible Nigerian girls if u want peace of mind.

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls Really Stressful To Date? by Pumpumking: 6:25pm On Sep 25, 2021
MikeofKd:
Good day Nlanders ,Mhen I just broke up of recent ,me and my ex had a good thing going but all of a sudden she started changing from bad to worse ,a heated arguement lead to our breakup and its crazy cause i had a lil business to do with one lady like dat ,dis lady was much more older than me and man dis was strictly business no strings attached but my ex got mad saying ive been cheating on her all these while bla bla bla , well to be very honest I no too send her papa like dat rn, but yeah I realised I'm not alone in all these ,few days ago a friend of mine hit me up complainng heavily bout his babe well they just broke up too after 2 years of dating and staying together ,my friend did everything for her but she too changed all of a sudden and I've been seeing peoples post on Nairaland as well , were guys complain heavily about thier girlfriends mischievous attitudes ,from promiscuous behaviour to awkward attributes and all crazy things they be doing .

So I'm asking why are Nigerian girls really stressful to date ? It's like they are so confused they see white and know its white but they would rather die than say it's white and then call it yellow ,like wdf do these Nigerian girls wants ? what can really keep them ? cause money is not enough reasons for them to stay and if they do when the money finishes they are gone like the wind , loving and caring isn't enough, nothing is actually enough for Nigerian girls to want to stay with you through trying times , I've had a few decent girls in the past but these days with what am seeing, decent girls has finished totally it's now useless girls with fish brains up and down everywhere now . Local man cannot can .
Tbvh it's really stressful dating Nigerian girls sigh cry.


And guys please I'm pleading with y'all do away with drama queens ,they bring quarrels outta nothing ,like I remember one time I had a female friend we use to vibe very well and all but then I realised she started getting jealous and angry when she sees me around other girls ,ok so I asked her out so she could at least stop getting angry at me but she said she cant date me so then I asked why she was always getting angry at me at for chilling with other girls and she started yelling at me calling me all sorts of names and all ,well that was the last I spoke with her ,she came begging but nah I wasnt having any of it ,idk Why Nigerian girls are hell bent on giving a nigga sleepless nights with lots and lots of emotional trauma ,Mhen it ain't really easy ,with the the rate of which girls are going wayward now ,mans so stressed out cause you can't even find a decent girl to marry or date now ,it's crazy Mhen. What you wanna talk about ? Is it their unfaithfulness ,sending men to their early graves cause of paternity fraud or a man sending them to uni only for dem to graduate and say they are no longer interested ,seriously man it's crazy.

May God help every nigga out there get a decent wife cause one good girl is worth a thousand bitches they say , but you hardly find a good girl these days ,make God help us all Amen.

Sipping booze rn cause man I don tire ,I can't take it anymore .


angry
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls Really Stressful To Date? by Pumpumking: 6:27pm On Sep 25, 2021
MikeofKd:
Good day Nlanders ,Mhen I just broke up of recent ,me and my ex had a good thing going but all of a sudden she started changing from bad to worse ,a heated arguement lead to our breakup and its crazy cause i had a lil business to do with one lady like dat ,dis lady was much more older than me and man dis was strictly business no strings attached but my ex got mad saying ive been cheating on her all these while bla bla bla , well to be very honest I no too send her papa like dat rn, but yeah I realised I'm not alone in all these ,few days ago a friend of mine hit me up complainng heavily bout his babe well they just broke up too after 2 years of dating and staying together ,my friend did everything for her but she too changed all of a sudden and I've been seeing peoples post on Nairaland as well , were guys complain heavily about thier girlfriends mischievous attitudes ,from promiscuous behaviour to awkward attributes and all crazy things they be doing .

So I'm asking why are Nigerian girls really stressful to date ? It's like they are so confused they see white and know its white but they would rather die than say it's white and then call it yellow ,like wdf do these Nigerian girls wants ? what can really keep them ? cause money is not enough reasons for them to stay and if they do when the money finishes they are gone like the wind , loving and caring isn't enough, nothing is actually enough for Nigerian girls to want to stay with you through trying times , I've had a few decent girls in the past but these days with what am seeing, decent girls has finished totally it's now useless girls with fish brains up and down everywhere now . Local man cannot can .
Tbvh it's really stressful dating Nigerian girls sigh cry.


And guys please I'm pleading with y'all do away with drama queens ,they bring quarrels outta nothing ,like I remember one time I had a female friend we use to vibe very well and all but then I realised she started getting jealous and angry when she sees me around other girls ,ok so I asked her out so she could at least stop getting angry at me but she said she cant date me so then I asked why she was always getting angry at me at for chilling with other girls and she started yelling at me calling me all sorts of names and all ,well that was the last I spoke with her ,she came begging but nah I wasnt having any of it ,idk Why Nigerian girls are hell bent on giving a nigga sleepless nights with lots and lots of emotional trauma ,Mhen it ain't really easy ,with the the rate of which girls are going wayward now ,mans so stressed out cause you can't even find a decent girl to marry or date now ,it's crazy Mhen. What you wanna talk about ? Is it their unfaithfulness ,sending men to their early graves cause of paternity fraud or a man sending them to uni only for dem to graduate and say they are no longer interested ,seriously man it's crazy.

May God help every nigga out there get a decent wife cause one good girl is worth a thousand bitches they say , but you hardly find a good girl these days ,make God help us all Amen.

Sipping booze rn cause man I don tire ,I can't take it anymore .


See yor Togo head like monkey jacket...why wunt Nigerian women be stressful when u dont hav moiney....GO N FIND JOB MY FRIEND!!!!!(no oofense) angry
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls Really Stressful To Date? by MikeofKd(m): 6:30pm On Sep 25, 2021
chatinent:

Leave her old man outta this. That slang is very offensive even if brainless comedians use it.

If you mean in a roof, it's very wrong.


Baba, whether they will be interested if they graduate or not, I cannot sponsor a girl in a University...unless a wife, sister, or charity.

What works:
In my religion, we place huge emphasis on dating when one is ready for marriage. We also shun premarital sex!

So what I'll do is this. If I am ready to marry in... let's say some months, a year, or couples of years, I will begin to date now.

The girl in question knows I am not interested in sex or all whatnot.

You know why I place must value on morals? Because the world has lost it.

If you aren't principled, an honest five-minute fun can ruin your life forever.


Yes, the “edition” of girlfriends nowadays are nothing to write home about. Meanwhile, I put it to you; there are still nice ladies out there.

We could stop looking for outer appearance while choosing a mate. It is not the primary thing to look for. You may like a very beautiful shoe in a shoe shop and it wouldn't still fit you. Would you buy it just because you love it? Sth that is practically useless?

How about buying a car?
The physical appearance doesn't always say the car is good! 504 that is working is still better than a died Benz.

What is killing us is our hunger for what pleases the eyes more: fine face, big this, elaborated that...that we often forget compatibility! What's the miscibility between you both? Have you checked if she is spiritually, financially, and medically compatible?

Some think it is not important because they are only there for the fun...to be with that person for the trophies, gossips amongst friends, or count scores.


Dating should be a stepping stone to marriage!

Action Plan:
• Date next time when you are ready for marriage. Then, you will be very ready to tell if sb will make a wife from the very moment of your date.
• Steer clear of premarital sex.
• Look beyond physical features. Beauty fades. Hips depreciate. Boobs go still look toe one day...but a good character appreciates.
• Do a compatibility test.
• Don't plunge into dating or marriage because everyone is doing it.
• Take your time and choose wisely.
• Being single is also normal. Don't see it as a sickness.
• Avoid what friends say. Build on yourself first on how to become a good husband and father.
• You should treat your girlfriend the way you treat your siblings. If it is not working that way, there is a problem.
• Pray. Why? Yes, pray.


You are welcome.



Thanks man very insightful. Big ups to you

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls Really Stressful To Date? by Sonnobax15(m): 6:44pm On Sep 25, 2021
lipsrsealed
Normally the only reason why I still dey chop naija bannies pot of beans na because of say I never get raba......Naija bannies na the other definition of life time wahala.

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls Really Stressful To Date? by Cokahot: 6:50pm On Sep 25, 2021
Student,face your books.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls Really Stressful To Date? by Nobody: 7:37pm On Sep 25, 2021
Jeon:

Beebah2000 come comment on my behal..
this op thread, e get as e be ooo cheesy cheesy

Mr MikeofKd please leave Nigerian girls alone.
After Una don flex finish, Una wan end up with good girls. E no go work cheesy cheesy
Please leave Nigerian girls alone, go and date white girls.

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls Really Stressful To Date? by seniorgozman(m): 7:53pm On Sep 25, 2021
Does it mean that you guys are not sensitive? When next you have anything to do with a Nigerian girl, always pay attention, it will save you from future problems

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls Really Stressful To Date? by BENRAZY(m): 8:07pm On Sep 25, 2021
Wahala for who no d single, brother man op watin fit vagina people na to f***ck them and move to the next one, no strings attached grin

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls Really Stressful To Date? by MikeofKd(m): 9:25pm On Sep 25, 2021
Beebah2000:
this op thread, e get as e be ooo cheesy cheesy

Mr MikeofKd please leave Nigerian girls alone.
After Una don flex finish, Una wan end up with good girls. E no go work cheesy cheesy
Please leave Nigerian girls alone, go and date white girls.

Flex wetin ? Bia tell your fellow creatures to stop stressing men ,Biko.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls Really Stressful To Date? by MikeofKd(m): 9:27pm On Sep 25, 2021
BENRAZY:
Wahala for who no d single, brother man op watin fit vagina people na to f***ck them and move to the next one, no strings attached grin

Na wetin I go dey now be dat ,cuz d stress done dey too much cry
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls Really Stressful To Date? by Nobody: 9:45pm On Sep 25, 2021
MikeofKd:


Flex wetin ? Bia tell your fellow creatures to stop stressing men ,Biko.
u be Igbo guy bah?? Because na Igbo tongue I use read am grin grin grin

Mr Mike please tell your fellow niggas to leave Nigerian girls alone, u niggas should go and date white girls. Abeg, na beg we dey beg ooo.

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls Really Stressful To Date? by Adsexpert: 10:55pm On Sep 25, 2021
chatinent:

Leave her old man outta this. That slang is very offensive even if brainless comedians use it.

If you mean in a roof, it's very wrong.


Baba, whether they will be interested if they graduate or not, I cannot sponsor a girl in a University...unless a wife, sister, or charity.

What works:
In my religion, we place huge emphasis on dating when one is ready for marriage. We also shun premarital sex!

So what I'll do is this. If I am ready to marry in... let's say some months, a year, or couples of years, I will begin to date now.

The girl in question knows I am not interested in sex or all whatnot.

You know why I place must value on morals? Because the world has lost it.

If you aren't principled, an honest five-minute fun can ruin your life forever.


Yes, the “edition” of girlfriends nowadays are nothing to write home about. Meanwhile, I put it to you; there are still nice ladies out there.

We could stop looking for outer appearance while choosing a mate. It is not the primary thing to look for. You may like a very beautiful shoe in a shoe shop and it wouldn't still fit you. Would you buy it just because you love it? Sth that is practically useless?

How about buying a car?
The physical appearance doesn't always say the car is good! 504 that is working is still better than a died Benz.

What is killing us is our hunger for what pleases the eyes more: fine face, big this, elaborated that...that we often forget compatibility! What's the miscibility between you both? Have you checked if she is spiritually, financially, and medically compatible?

Some think it is not important because they are only there for the fun...to be with that person for the trophies, gossips amongst friends, or count scores.


Dating should be a stepping stone to marriage!

Action Plan:
• Date next time when you are ready for marriage. Then, you will be very ready to tell if sb will make a wife from the very moment of your date.
• Steer clear of premarital sex.
• Look beyond physical features. Beauty fades. Hips depreciate. Boobs go still look toe one day...but a good character appreciates.
• Do a compatibility test.
• Don't plunge into dating or marriage because everyone is doing it.
• Take your time and choose wisely.
• Being single is also normal. Don't see it as a sickness.
• Avoid what friends say. Build on yourself first on how to become a good husband and father.
• You should treat your girlfriend the way you treat your siblings. If it is not working that way, there is a problem.
• Pray. Why? Yes, pray.


You are welcome.



And if you date a person,marry them , Bleep already and end up divorced will that not be as well called fornication in ur religion?
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls Really Stressful To Date? by chatinent: 11:02pm On Sep 25, 2021
Adsexpert:


And if you date a person,marry them , Bleep already and end up divorced will that not be as well called fornication in ur religion?

There are also grounds for divorce, and it is adultery.

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls Really Stressful To Date? by Adsexpert: 11:35pm On Sep 25, 2021
chatinent:


There are also grounds for divorce, and it is adultery.

Lmao �.. but what of a person decides to leave ur religion what will happen to the person?

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls Really Stressful To Date? by chatinent: 11:46pm On Sep 25, 2021
Adsexpert:


Lmao �.. but what of a person decides to leave ur religion what will happen to the person?

Nothing.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls Really Stressful To Date? by Moz22: 12:37am On Sep 26, 2021
chatinent:

Leave her old man outta this. That slang is very offensive even if brainless comedians use it.

If you mean in a roof, it's very wrong.


Baba, whether they will be interested if they graduate or not, I cannot sponsor a girl in a University...unless a wife, sister, or charity.

What works:
In my religion, we place huge emphasis on dating when one is ready for marriage. We also shun premarital sex!

So what I'll do is this. If I am ready to marry in... let's say some months, a year, or couples of years, I will begin to date now.

The girl in question knows I am not interested in sex or all whatnot.

You know why I place must value on morals? Because the world has lost it.

If you aren't principled, an honest five-minute fun can ruin your life forever.


Yes, the “edition” of girlfriends nowadays are nothing to write home about. Meanwhile, I put it to you; there are still nice ladies out there.

We could stop looking for outer appearance while choosing a mate. It is not the primary thing to look for. You may like a very beautiful shoe in a shoe shop and it wouldn't still fit you. Would you buy it just because you love it? Sth that is practically useless?

How about buying a car?
The physical appearance doesn't always say the car is good! 504 that is working is still better than a died Benz.

What is killing us is our hunger for what pleases the eyes more: fine face, big this, elaborated that...that we often forget compatibility! What's the miscibility between you both? Have you checked if she is spiritually, financially, and medically compatible?

Some think it is not important because they are only there for the fun...to be with that person for the trophies, gossips amongst friends, or count scores.


Dating should be a stepping stone to marriage!

Action Plan:
• Date next time when you are ready for marriage. Then, you will be very ready to tell if sb will make a wife from the very moment of your date.
• Steer clear of premarital sex.
• Look beyond physical features. Beauty fades. Hips depreciate. Boobs go still look toe one day...but a good character appreciates.
• Do a compatibility test.
• Don't plunge into dating or marriage because everyone is doing it.
• Take your time and choose wisely.
• Being single is also normal. Don't see it as a sickness.
• Avoid what friends say. Build on yourself first on how to become a good husband and father.
• You should treat your girlfriend the way you treat your siblings. If it is not working that way, there is a problem.
• Pray. Why? Yes, pray.


You are welcome.


you have sense.. I won't lie

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls Really Stressful To Date? by Judybash93(m): 1:22am On Sep 26, 2021
Pumpumking:



See yor Togo head like monkey jacket...why wunt Nigerian women be stressful when u dont hav moiney....GO N FIND JOB MY FRIEND!!!!!(no oofense) angry

What has this got to do with anything?

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls Really Stressful To Date? by cooooooks(m): 3:51am On Sep 26, 2021
I have dated a few Nigerian ladies.

The FEW too much drama, shady ones: amicable end.

The less drama (las las drama go dey wink ), sensible, lovely, etc ones: amazing relationships (past & non-past).

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls Really Stressful To Date? by Lilsameey: 4:00am On Sep 26, 2021
Jeon:



If you want the best,you have to be the best
,..So he is not the best, Aye e ti ta pao, bi popcorn

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls Really Stressful To Date? by SenecaTheYonger: 5:03am On Sep 26, 2021
If money is not enough then try more money?

You simps have lost your way. I don’t blame you sha. Anytime someone ask for advice concerning relationship, the first comment is usually go and make money and women will come.

All I can say is Good Luck with the kind of women you will attract with money.


Also most of you Nigerian men have very terrible personality. And since most of you are incapable of introspection, then ask your closest friend to tell you about yourself and to be brutally honest (if they’re capable of such a thing).

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls Really Stressful To Date? by Pumpumking: 5:12am On Sep 26, 2021
Judybash93:


What has this got to do with anything?


U dont have moiney yet u shacing Nigerian women has if u can aford them...even ordinary Pegi23 , Bobrisky or Beebah2000, u cannot toast. Bro please stay Gay if I don't have moiney to shase women & leave them for us ballers..we have moiney!(no oofense) angry

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls Really Stressful To Date? by Victerica(m): 7:20am On Sep 26, 2021
Mhen, I think, I'm scared of women

I'm even scared of being friends with them.

I don't understand them.

God, please help me to understand them.

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Girls Really Stressful To Date? by MikeofKd(m): 7:56am On Sep 26, 2021
HRHQueenPhil:


Nigerian women are the best to date and marry...the issue is u pick the wrong woman...they are like watermelon, if u no sabi pick..u will choose the unripe and be pissed off wink grin grin grin grin grin
The secret to choosing a good woman is not to waste her time fvcking ...if u don't have money to marry her, Remain only friends ..if she agrees, u can do friends with benefits therefore she is not tied down and u are not grin grin

Nah bro you are missing the whole point here, ok let's assume u think you've married the right woman and all of a sudden she starts sleeping outside ,starts nagging , start calling u names and starts all sorts of things that gives u headache ,how would u feel ? Stressed right dats what I'm trynna preach here .

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