tenry:
Please don't mind my grammatical blunders .My brother in law called my wife and I tonight sobbing profusely and confused about what to do.

He caught his wife cheating on a man erroneously believe to be her daddy's friend.

It all started when his wife's phone was bad and he gave him to repair it for him while coming from work. Engineer repaired the phone and on his way home, he curiously checked his wife's phone and discovered sex chat his wife had with the man she called her daddy's friend.

His wife snapped her private parts and sent to the man. They exchanged so many dirty videos including pornography . All the wife's family members (mother, sisters) all knew the man introduced to the husband as dad's friend.

Her dad is late. Their wedding is one year this month with a three month old girl child.

He is worried about the father of the child cos according to him, his wife had visited the man shortly after their wedding.

My wife and I have been disturbed seriously on this matter. The husband called for advice on the step to take.

Please I need your advice cos we are in shock as we didn't expect that from the lady.

Mood11:
While we wait for the elders to arrive let me quickly update the list of titles we should beware of ;

Daddy's friend
Uncle
Course mate
Former neighbor
Church unit leader
Colleague
Pastor
Bestie


Quote me with anyone I missed out and I'll update the list speedily

tenry:

Bro, I can't be wasting my time here at this time when I should be enjoying my sleep. My wife and I cannot sleep. Few minutes ago we called them, he had already packed her things in their sitting room, waiting for a day break before sending her to her parents. Still appealing to him to call her parents that she will be coming and also release her phone to her. We felt this is necessary should anything happen , her family won't request him to produce their daughter.

AquaPetals:





He is your brother in law right? That means he must be married to your sister, right?
If the wife in question is your sister then I find the bolded statements a little bit odd. You are making reference to her family from an outsider's point of view.

valentineuwakwe:
"All the wife's family members (mother, sisters) all knew the man introduced to the husband as dad's friend".

This caption caught my attention, was the wife family members aware of the whole game plan and confused the husband too? This he needs to find out, and if true..end the marriage.

Also, if you still love your wife n for the sake of the little baby....don't escalate or spread the message to any other family members except he takes the case further. Tell him to stop talking about it if he wants to forgive the wife n continue with the marriage.
That's one thing with woman...take heart!

tenry:
Please don't mind my grammatical blunders .My brother in law called my wife and I tonight sobbing profusely and confused about what to do.

He caught his wife cheating on a man erroneously believe to be her daddy's friend.

It all started when his wife's phone was bad and he gave him to repair it for him while coming from work. Engineer repaired the phone and on his way home, he curiously checked his wife's phone and discovered sex chat his wife had with the man she called her daddy's friend.

His wife snapped her private parts and sent to the man. They exchanged so many dirty videos including pornography . All the wife's family members (mother, sisters) all knew the man introduced to the husband as dad's friend.

Her dad is late. Their wedding is one year this month with a three month old girl child.

He is worried about the father of the child cos according to him, his wife had visited the man shortly after their wedding.

My wife and I have been disturbed seriously on this matter. The husband called for advice on the step to take.

Please I need your advice cos we are in shock as we didn't expect that from the lady.

Beebah2000:
Na wa ooo......
Make them just divorce because chai....! I am speechless.
Some women dey shameless, she don marry she still dey send nude to another person.
Chai.......!! Make I face my business.

AquaPetals:





He is your brother in law right? That means he must be married to your sister, right?
If the wife in question is your sister then I find the bolded statements a little bit odd. You are making reference to her family from an outsider's point of view.

Akinbahm:


Do you intentionally omitted Oga Ogun/Balogun aka Ex boyfriend factor I do tell some guys you see the new guy is not the problem but the old guys she has had beautiful moments with, those guys have her mumu button.

iLegendd:
Since I couldn't sleep tonight, let me just reply.

6 things that make married women cheat.

1. The ex is so great in bed, but he wasn't financially buoyant to marry her, so she dumped him because of family pressure and married a man who is ready (you). In a case like this, she'll likely cheat. (Okafor's law).

2. The husband isn't giving her the sex game she's used to when she was a public property. (She'll likely cheat).

3. The husband was the first to cheat and thought the wife didn't catch him. (She'll pay back when the opportunity arises).

4. Financial issues in a toxic marriage and she's tired of suffering. If she meets a rich man who's willing to pay, she may spread legs as long as the rich man is not a kiss and tell. Nobody likes to suffer.

5. ChatDîctor: If she meets a naughty talker who's her spec and he makes her laugh and happy while you, the husband, (who isn't her spec, but she married you because of your money or family pressure) is boring and all you think about is making money and going to work, she'll cheat with the man that makes her happy.

6. The man she cheated with used voodoo. (Trust me, voodoo works — but not as powerful as God).

She has cheated and she must be dumped. Sadly, we are talking about marriage here. It hurts and this is why we teach men not to fall in love. Like her, but keep love in your pocket.

Only love after 10 to 20 years in a happy marriage and she has had all the kids you want. Loving a woman leads to depression when things crash. This is why we advise men to only like, not love.

Any man who doesn't have access to his woman's phone or chats is a weak man. Most men think not checking is strength and trust. No, it's fear, weakness, and stupid trust.

Note: if you must have access to your woman's phone, make sure she has access to yours too.

Don't marry a woman who talks about uncle a lot or addicted to social media.

Your in-law or whatever should just be bold and open up, then do a DNA test. He should amicably dissolve the marriage even if the child is his.

Cheat once, cheat forever is the rule of cheating. Cheats are just like Fulani herdsmen or bandits. If you like, force a bandit or a jihadist to repent — you're wasting your time.

Cheats cry a lot when you catch them and you'll feel tempted to forgive because of how remorseful they'll appear, but don't be deceived, it's part of the manipulative script.

As long as the man she cheated with is better than you in bed, but you have more money, she'll still do it again 6 months or less later and this time around, you'll never catch her — it's just a matter of time.

So, tell him to confidently open up and tell her what he found. She'll deny and after showing her evidence, she's going to faint and starts shedding crocodile tears. We know how they work.

Tell him to keep an ambulance or a doctor ready before he opens up.

Note: Men are not allowed to forgive a cheating woman. It's a taboo and a disrespect to the man. Only a woman is to forgive a cheating man.

Any woman who tells you to forgive a cheating woman is a chronic whóre.

igbowoman:


Why was he checking her phone
This is why men should never check their wife's phone.Busy body husband.
That he saw sex chats doesn't mean anything happened.
It is a woman's world, please tell him to be a good husband and never to check her phone again.
Infact he needs to go apologize to her for invading her privacy

(I just gave the response we hear when the cheating spouse is the man.Now let me read responses)

AquaPetals:





He is your brother in law right? That means he must be married to your sister, right?
If the wife in question is your sister then I find the bolded statements a little bit odd. You are making reference to her family from an outsider's point of view.

igbowoman:


Why was he checking her phone
This is why men should never check their wife's phone.Busy body husband.
That he saw sex chats doesn't mean anything happened.
It is a woman's world, please tell him to be a good husband and never to check her phone again.
Infact he needs to go apologize to her for invading her privacy

(I just gave the response we hear when the cheating spouse is the man.Now let me read responses)

Joe4real1988:
Thats why she is going back to her father's house.........nonsense

GOFRONT:
......and DNA paternity testing laboratory is coming to Lekki in October 18.....

Sha.....Nawa for these Fallopian people oo.....

Well, the future is female..

igbowoman:


If he can pay rent and feed without her income

chris51:
I hate infidelity in marriages with passion. How can a married woman send her private part pictures to a man? NO, NO.

1st thing is for your brother to privately do the DNA of their child.

2nd thing is to call the meeting of both families and lay down the evidence and end the marriage.
No sentiments at all. He needs his peace of mind. His life is in danger. Marriage is based on trust.

If the child belongs to your brother, fine, he can accept the child, if not, he should send the wife and the child out of his life.

igbowoman:


Why was he checking her phone
This is why men should never check their wife's phone.Busy body husband.
That he saw sex chats doesn't mean anything happened.
It is a woman's world, please tell him to be a good husband and never to check her phone again.
Infact he needs to go apologize to her for invading her privacy

(I just gave the response we hear when the cheating spouse is the man.Now let me read responses)

Nicklaus619:
End of the road for the marriage, anyne that advises him to continue with the marriage does not like him

Ammishaddai:
Op, the marriage is over. And if your in-law decides to continue with it he'll be frustrated with the memory of his wife's infidelity . This is something a lot of men cannot handle so it's best they both go their separate ways

igbowoman:


If he can pay rent and feed without her income

Mood11:
While we wait for the elders to arrive let me quickly update the list of titles we should beware of ;
Daddy's friend
Uncle
Course mate
Former neighbor
Unit leader
Colleague
Bestie
Quote me with anyone I missed out and I'll update the list speedily

AquaPetals:





He is your brother in law right? That means he must be married to your sister, right?
If the wife in question is your sister then I find the bolded statements a little bit odd. You are making reference to her family from an outsider's point of view.