jaxxy:


So once u cheat it is over??




The scenario u painted here is more common than u think. It just doesn’t get discovered or talked about.

Steps to take.
1. Find out when it started(probably b4 she even meet her husband)
2. Ask how it started and why
3. Why she continued even after meeting and marrying her husband.
4. Now it’s discovered what does she want to do? Resolve the issue or go with the fathers friend or divorce? Let her speak
5. If u want to resolve if and if the man has th capacity to forgive her errors then let her start a process to retrace her steps. She might have been naive to get into such a relationship in the 1st place.

psalmz:
It’s so sad ,pls let him run a dna test on the baby,if it ends positive ,he should just quietly see reasons to why the wife would go infidel,let him giver her one more try ,maybe he is not romantic on bed with her ,but it’s gonna be risky cos a cheating wife will always remain a cheating wife,she will only feel guilt if caught,just jejely dissolve the marriage before it gets messier,take your child and send the woman to her lover

zeenaman:

Please delete this your comment. No excuse whatsoever is worth giving for a wife to cheat on the innocent man that went through hell to marry her. Do you know what it costs a man to marry and sustain the marriage? Only a very wicked woman will cheat on her husband

lonelydora:


The only sin approved by the Bible (assuming he is a Christian) that leads to divorce is adultery. A cheating woman will never stop.

iLegendd:
Since I couldn't sleep tonight, let me just reply.

6 things that make married women cheat.

1. The ex is so great in bed, but he wasn't financially buoyant to marry her, so she dumped him because of family pressure and married a man who is ready (you). In a case like this, she'll likely cheat. (Okafor's law).

2. The husband isn't giving her the sex game she's used to when she was a public property. (She'll likely cheat).

3. The husband was the first to cheat and thought the wife didn't catch him. (She'll pay back when the opportunity arises).

4. Financial issues in a toxic marriage and she's tired of suffering. If she meets a rich man who's willing to pay, she may spread legs as long as the rich man is not a kiss and tell. Nobody likes to suffer.

5. ChatDîctor: If she meets a naughty talker who's her spec and he makes her laugh and happy while you, the husband, (who isn't her spec, but she married you because of your money or family pressure) is boring and all you think about is making money and going to work, she'll cheat with the man that makes her happy.

6. The man she cheated with used voodoo. (Trust me, voodoo works — but not as powerful as God).

She has cheated and she must be dumped. Sadly, we are talking about marriage here. It hurts and this is why we teach men not to fall in love. Like her, but keep love in your pocket.

Only love after 10 to 20 years in a happy marriage and she has had all the kids you want. Loving a woman leads to depression when things crash. This is why we advise men to only like, not love.

Any man who doesn't have access to his woman's phone or chats is a weak man. Most men think not checking is strength and trust. No, it's fear, weakness, and stupid trust.

Note: if you must have access to your woman's phone, make sure she has access to yours too.

Don't marry a woman who talks about uncle a lot or addicted to social media.

Your in-law or whatever should just be bold and open up, then do a DNA test. He should amicably dissolve the marriage even if the child is his.

Cheat once, cheat forever is the rule of cheating. Cheats are just like Fulani herdsmen or bandits. If you like, force a bandit or a jihadist to repent — you're wasting your time.

Cheats cry a lot when you catch them and you'll feel tempted to forgive because of how remorseful they'll appear, but don't be deceived, it's part of the manipulative script.

As long as the man she cheated with is better than you in bed, but you have more money, she'll still do it again 6 months or less later and this time around, you'll never catch her — it's just a matter of time.

So, tell him to confidently open up and tell her what he found. She'll deny and after showing her evidence, she's going to faint and starts shedding crocodile tears. We know how they work.

Tell him to keep an ambulance or a doctor ready before he opens up.

Note: Men are not allowed to forgive a cheating woman. It's a taboo and a disrespect to the man. Only a woman is to forgive a cheating man.

Any woman who tells you to forgive a cheating woman is a chronic whóre who masks her own whoreism with religion.

Akinbahm:


So fast, you forget the popular maxim that says a cheating wife who failed to kill her self will definitely kill her husband.

Religion self no give room for adultery.

TWLifestyle:
but do you forgive adulterous husbands Lol

Joe4real1988:
Thats why she is going back to her father's house.........nonsense

viktohmarkz:
Another DNA saga,
But whats up with our ladies ¿

No one wanna be faithful again


The unmarried are sharing it inter state, over and across the shores
While the married are going against the vows


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Midas01:
I don't understand.. so cheating is bad only when it's women doing it. Lol.

In her defense she's only servicing men who are "polygamous in nature" since you all claim men are polygamous in nature and have right to cheat with impunity doesn't that mean women have to be sexually available for them to fulfill their innate polygamous desires ?

Shey if na man cheat you hypocrites would say he paid her bride price and has the right to... Why are y'all crying now that women are getting better at cheating than men.

Go and watch "warroom" and remember to pray and fast while also hitting the gym to lose that pot belly of yours and maybe she can change.

Agugbadin:

So many Nigerian women are unfaithful, they are deceptive, they lie and are perpetual cheats.

ANDREW91:

From ur comments, you will cheat on ur husband without remorse
God help us

chris51:
I hate infidelity in marriages with passion. How can a married woman send her private part pictures to a man? NO, NO.

1st thing is for your brother to privately do the DNA of their child.

2nd thing is to call the meeting of both families and lay down the evidence and end the marriage.
No sentiments at all. He needs his peace of mind. His life is in danger. Marriage is based on trust.

If the child belongs to your brother, fine, he can accept the child, if not, he should send the wife and the child out of his life.

wany:

Hypocrite but a woman can handle with no qualms right.he should manage her forgive and build his home,no where is better. Put her in prayers he will one day smile.

TWLifestyle:
see this smelly hypocrite - you people can not take one tenth of what you dish out - if a woman now cheays exactly rhe way mwn cheat u people will be crying up and down like puppy they just beat with cane. What should women now do the way you people donate dick up and down ? Lol . U dudes are weak as fvck .
And see how u are using curse words up and down like a fish seller . U men are weak pvssies , Walahi..

Joe4real1988:
Sure, he will. Any man that forgives a cheating wife is doomed to die before his time. Not everything u compare yourself with a man.

lajid:


I wanted to reply this but then I figured you’re a woman so I pretty much know how you think and why you justified her cheating. But then it’s all good, have a nice day.

chukwuibuipob:
U have Enuf evidence.Such a Jezebel is deadly.Throw her out this very Monday morning and shut Ur ears to any plead/beg

iLegendd:


I have realized women don't understand men when it comes to cheating. A man has pride just like a male lion in the jungle.

The moment a man's wife cheats, that image will never erase from his head. He keeps imagining the dick size of the man she cheated with, how she sucked and kissed him, etc.

Whenever he wants to kiss his wife, that image will flash and his mood will change. He'll feel he's not man enough and that's why she cheated.

The moment you make a man feel he's not man enough, he'll never forgive you completely even if he is a pastor.

Sex is sacred in marriage and any woman who doesn't uphold that does not deserve a second chance.

In dating, a woman has the power and the decides the man she wants to date. In marriage, a man has the power and he decides the woman he'll finally marry.

Sleeping with another man is like taking the power away from your man to another man.

Since you've already given another man the power, just divorce your husband and stay with that other man. Simple.

A man should NEVER pray for a woman who cheated on him to change for him — he should pray for her to change for her new husband.

oshorstan:
You see that daddy's friend, he was the one that disvirgined her. She cannot do without him. Most women are disgustingly shameless. God please I don't want to be in this condition, because I go kill person. Pls Lord, give me a gift called Good wife. I don't want anyone that will give me wahala. I beg you Lord

tenry:

May be wrong choice of title. Please what do you call your wife's younger brother? He is my wife's younger brother. By the way, we are so close and he manages one of my investments for me.

Burgerlomo:


Also the DNA paternity testing laboratory is doing a promotion with whooping 75% discount

Lexusgs430:



He should start with DNA.........

If the child is his, and his wife is truly apologetic..... He should forgive her.......

If he refuses to forgive her, can he swear he has never cheated on his wife?.....

Hassanmaye:

What do you mean is there nature sir, women can be so stupid when they are young they will running from D TO D without regard for marriage, na after clock strike she will now desperately look for a simp to settle with whom she NEVER love, then start giving free puna to a cultist free

TWLifestyle:
looooooooooooool see my father mouth like " such a jezebel is deadly " . Deadly ko sickly ni .. men are 100 times more deadly . Do you see women wailing up and down like puppies? My father Better sit his hypocritical ass down .. no be only deadly jezebel , murderous Adonis nko?

Bigfish121:
A woman that is capable of committing adultery is also capable of committing murder. So the best advice I can give is to end the marriage.

PerfectlyPerfect:

I don't know about you but my rule is to NEVER forgive a cheating partner. A hoe will always be a hoe

AutoChick4U:
I don't understand, why not sex chat with hubby and send nudes to him? Nawaooo, probably her sugar daddy.

She does not rate her husband at all.

Nicklaus619:


Which kind talk be this?

So hypertension should kill the young man because he does not want to divorce

It's easy to dish out advice when you are not the one affected

valentinos22:


so many things has already gone wrong When a married woman spreads for another man. Emotions, feelings, likeness, love etc have all been tilted in favour of the other man..even the risk of std, pregnancy, losing her marriage, being caught by husband, friends, family members etc she no longer considers. At that point the husband would only be seen as an obstacle to her lifes single mission...
In summary, if she could take all these risk for another deeek, killing you is a lesser risk. That she didnt kill you is because God was with you...
Forgive such a woman by running very far away from her.