So that one day you won't come and see full pot of soup without meat inside.

psucc:
That's their office. You dare not try shit with Efik woman's pot.

Same thing with Anambra women. Ofe onugbu no be for children.

1,BECAUSE WOMEN BELONG TO THE KITCHEN.ITS THEIR NATURAL OFFICE.
2, BECAUSE THEY KNOW WHAT FATHERS FACE BEFORE MAKING THE MONEY .

1,BECAUSE WOMEN BELONG TO THE KITCHEN.ITS THEIR NATURAL OFFICE.
2, BECAUSE THEY KNOW WHAT FATHERS FACE BEFORE MAKING THE MONEY USED TO MAKE IT.

Enn214:
Why is it that they don't allow people to serve themselves once the pot of soup is involved... But if it's beans or rice, you are allowed to serve yourself..

Is it the meat they are protecting??

The soup can easily go sour

2. It is meant to serve for at least 2days, hence it should be protected.

because swallow na our main dish and a house without pot of soup is a disaster waiting to break.

Munzy14:

Lol...udi mmadu gi, dika i nwete onye ozo na akuku ite ofe ishiri wahala... like ndi mummy di strict.

. Translate pls.

The pot of soup is the pot of money. Responsibility breeds carefulness. I believe every youth will know why soonest, meanwhile, enjoy the little you get now from Mama's pot.

Reading This almost got our ribs cracked @ Certy AgroAllied


OP, it's part of discipline/ethics instill in us by our mother.

Children will trespass if allowed to take charge of the pot of soup

Aside this, ECONOMY HARD as people would say.
May God continue His blessings on our parent

Enn214:
Why is it that they don't allow people to serve themselves once the pot of soup is involved... But if it's beans or rice, you are allowed to serve yourself..

Is it the meat they are protecting??

Because if the young ones in the House allow to get it themselves, due to greed, someone will spend more time checking the whole meat for bigger size. So, better mom serve everyone. Whatever you find in your soup, you can't complain

Not in my home ... My mother allow you to take what you want in her pot of soup. Take what you can finish ..

Enn214:
Why is it that they don't allow people to serve themselves once the pot of soup is involved... But if it's beans or rice, you are allowed to serve yourself..

Is it the meat they are protecting??

OLDESTWARRIBOY:



Yeah, my Mom then always hides the pot of soup, stew anything that has Meat/fish in it cuz my sisters & I were experts in the act of making meats disappear

My WhatsApp group people.....

Too many hands spoil the soup.

Enn214:

Dem value pot of soup pass anything...even the ones wey no sweet sef

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armyofone:


True
It will cycle back and taste like cod fish and not that authentic okporoko cod-dyfied (that smell/aroma)

Yes. Like, watered down flavour.

What I usually do is to soak in cold water for some few minutes, scrub thoroughly with salt, then rinse off under running tap water.

Chochovini:
. Translate pls.

Wetin konsine you?

Davash222:

I taught my girlfriend how to cook.


I don't even soak, I wash and pour inside immediately. No time

Nice. person wey like food suppose know how to cook.


I hope say you no dey add those insects join

Munzy14:

Random thought with your love for culinary.....

Owu nani random thought?

There I was, trying to be subtle, gi a chiputa’m ukwu n’ama.

Enn214:
Why is it that they don't allow people to serve themselves once the pot of soup is involved... But if it's beans or rice, you are allowed to serve yourself..

Is it the meat they are protecting??

U fit go mishandle the soup which will make it sour

Enn214:
Why is it that they don't allow people to serve themselves once the pot of soup is involved... But if it's beans or rice, you are allowed to serve yourself..

Is it the meat they are protecting??

Women value their pot of soup so much that, many can't joke with it.
First, I'll say is because the woman always thinks of the trouble it takes to go to the market, buy and prepare the soup, takes time, alot of efforts and energy sapping.
Moreover, allowing everyone assess, to your pot of soup, means all hands will touch the spoon, and there will not be any control of the quantity of soup and meats to be taken by every individual.
It is also to teach self control and greed.
This issue of "Pot of Soup" varies from one culture to another and family.

mariahAngel:


Owu nani random thought?

There I was trying to be subtle, gi a chiputa’m ukwu n’ama.

Ladies that give mom vibes, I feel they can be strict with Ite ofe ha..

Or kitchen as a whole...

Munzy14:

Ladies that give mom vibes, I feel they can be strict with Ite ofe ha..

Or kitchen as a whole...

I wu agbara?

M nuruhala na usekwu ehn, o ja agbakashi’m ahu ma mmadu bia nuru nga ahu. Jus were ihe owula I choro I we, mee puwa.
Achodighi’m enyemaka unless I ask for it.
If I don’t call you, a biaketekwala.

mariahAngel:


I wu agbara?

M nuruhala na usekwu ehn, o ja agbakashi’m ahu ma mmadu bia nuru nga ahu. Jus were ihe owula I choro I we, mee puwa.
Achodighi’m enyemaka unless I ask for it.
If I don’t call you, a biaketekwala.

Ewooo!!!

But, have you given it a thought of being in your marital home, and your man is one of the few who enjoys being in the kitchen with his woman either to help out or normal couple's kitchen gist..

Ka o wu ihu ya na kitchen, gi ebisia ihu... juo ya ole ihe i mege nga now..lol

Munzy14:



Ewooo!!!

But, have you given it a thought of being in your marital home, and your man is one of the few who enjoys being in the kitchen with his woman either to help out or normal couple's kitchen gist..

Ka o wu ihu ya na kitchen, gi ebisia ihu... juo ya ole ihe i mege nga now..lol

Well, what love cannot do does not exist!

Na love make Delilah cut Samson hair.
Na love make King Solomon worship idol.
Na love make David kill person to collect him wife.

mariahAngel:


Well, what love cannot do does not exist!

Na love make Delilah cut Samson hair.
Na love make King Solomon worship idol.
Na love make David kill person to collect him wife.

Hahahahaah okwaya?

That's part of the sacrifices that people make...A case of re-adjustment of Principles.

But wait o, so onwehu ihe nwaanyi mere di iche maka love in the bible?..

Chochovini:
. Translate pls.

Your type appears like one who Will not allow anyone near her soup pot...Like strict mothers.

Munzy14:

Hahahahaah okwaya?

That's part of the sacrifices that people make...A case of re-adjustment of Principles.

True.
Love can make you do things you never thought you could.

But wait o, so onwehu ihe nwaanyi mere di iche maka love in the bible?..

A lot na.

Owu owuhu ihunanya mere ka Ruth jiri soro nne di ya laa?

Munzy14:

Your type appears like one who Will not allow anyone near her soup pot...Like strict mothers.

Jishi ike nnoo!

mariahAngel:


Jishi ike nnoo!

mariahAngel:

True.
Love can make you do things you never thought you could.



A lot na.

Owu owuhu ihunanya mere ka Ruth jiri soro nne di ya laa?

Surely...makes one side step principle...


Hehehe...ihunanya by proxy...