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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by austinelex: 4:52pm On Oct 01, 2021

First of all how long do u last on bed also try to give her pre-intimacy without penetration with time she we be used to it

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by pedrilo: 5:03pm On Oct 01, 2021*

As a married man, one have to pray against evil infiltration in marriage. The devil is constantly searching for happy homes to destroy.
In my case, I dated my wife for a while, d pre marital sex was mind blowing and she got enuf flesh in her front and back which made sex very enjoyable for me.
But as soon as we got married and she fell pregnant, I lost interest in sexing her, anytime she comes from ante natal, she will tell me that she was told she needs alot of sex as a pregnant woman, but anytime I climb her and see her big tummy, my D goes flat, we started getting frustrated with sex, d pregnancy n unborn baby was d only reason holding us togeda, we cud go weeks without touching each other. I started wondering how I found myself in a marriage with someone I had no sexual appeal.
But we prayed togeda and asked God to take control of our marriage.
After our baby was born, I encouraged her to start exercising to get her shape back, she'll buy lemon and cucumber, mixed with water and drink to reduce her fat.
All of a sudden, my baby started looking sexy in my eyes again, na so I carry her one day and almost killed her with sex.
We both wondered what happened.
Since then na fire for fire like it was b4 we got married and we both found our happiness again.
So pray togeda and invite God into ur marriage.

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Nobody: 5:10pm On Oct 01, 2021

You see, the reason why you should nack before marriage, it would have saved you from this situation. Before you marry, the compatibility of your sexual life is one of the things that you should check out.

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Rollitout: 5:19pm On Oct 01, 2021

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

This is what other women are looking for, very big manhood and ability to last long but you have it all and your wife didn't appreciate that, we need to confirm if your wife isn't having a very tiny private part because this could be a problem too.

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by samwillyco1(m): 5:22pm On Oct 01, 2021

Show us the pix

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Nathayas: 5:26pm On Oct 01, 2021

let us see how big is so that we can advice you how to control it

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by CaptainAyub: 5:32pm On Oct 01, 2021

felibrain:
Listen, Your wife has what is called Candida yeast infection. She should see a gynecologist. They will give her a drug (gynamed) to be inserting into her vagina and some antibiotics. If she insert the drug for like 3 days, make love to her and see wonders. She will beg for more.

I had same problems with my wife but today things are changing fast. My wife now comes to me for sex.

But if your wife is refusing to work out a solution with you then she has a spiritual or psychological problem and you should play the game someone suggested to you in page one and see if anything changes.

You're not even sure of the problem op has grin

On one hand you think it'd candida, on the other you think it's spiritual cheesy

Op done suffer cheesy

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by austinelex: 5:32pm On Oct 01, 2021

First of all how long do u last on bed also try to engage pre-intimacy without penetration with time she we be used to it

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by thorpido(m): 5:33pm On Oct 01, 2021

petitejolie:
I don't think it should be your business. It's their decision wether they were virgins or not. Just give him d advice for the issue he's facing or just leave it.

It's funny how some of you without sense come here saying something is not someone's business. What is the thread about in the first place and if the thread is not my business what the eff are you looking for here?!
if you had some understanding, you will have an idea why i asked that question. It was to know her sexual experience which may be playing a big role in the wife's behaviour.

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Killermamba: 5:33pm On Oct 01, 2021

DavidNative:
Pls i need an honest and kind advice . I will deeply appreciate

Try water base lubricant and also avoid full penetration.

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by janejive(f): 5:36pm On Oct 01, 2021

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

Have you tried out aphrodisiac?

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by DigitB: 5:37pm On Oct 01, 2021

Go and read this book. "No more Mr nice guy" download it at pdfdrive.net

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by muelzik(m): 5:42pm On Oct 01, 2021

If there is one thing I have going for me in marriage, it is that of the mutual planning exercise that we took time to draw.

Tell your mind that 10 or 15mins or less (depending on what she wants) must be enough for every sex session per day.

Your woman should agree with you.

Now, find out the particular sex position that gets you to reach top level, you know what I mean.

This is what works for me. I have a position I know if I start with after all the faaji, both of us will understand we're almost done, so body must prepare for the climax.

Get used to what works for you, or work your mind to accept to a mutual expectations.

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by rick1dude(f): 5:49pm On Oct 01, 2021

Since you did not engage in Premarital Sex, same way you were patient with her during courtship, be patient with her during Marriage, Teach her how to...

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Nobody: 5:55pm On Oct 01, 2021

DavidNative:
She has been exposed to porn in the past from what she said. All saying am comparing her to other ladies. i had bought books sex to help, she enjoys its when i perform romance and oral o her, but when i request for sex or she should give me some, she says she cant cos of my size and i should give her time, but its been a year, hence why i had to voice out
Thanks alot once again for your comment ma

This is not fair for you. You're pleasing her but she's not pleasing you. She's complaining about your size, but has she even made an effort to try? Based on your comment, I think your answer is no

You cannot continue like this. There should be mutual benefit. Negotiate with her. Tell her than you can only please her if she's willing to please you too. If she's not willing to please you, she doesn't deserve you pleasing her

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Nobody: 5:56pm On Oct 01, 2021

KarinaLove:
Try and respect her decision. She said she is not the sex type. Then leave her.

Must marriage be all about sex?

I don tire.

Everytime Men And Sex....Tueeehhh

Can't men use their time for something more productive in life

Men and women are not the same. Men want sex much more than women. Both genders are just built differently

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Nobody: 5:59pm On Oct 01, 2021

DavidNative:
hmmm

Don't listen to that comment. Please, don't. It's emotional abuse and manipulation. It will lead to the breakdown of your marriage

Instead, focus on open, direct, and honest communication

Another point, does she have feelings for you? A woman who loves you would do anything to please you. Maybe she doesn't have feelings for you and she's just using you

Either way, as I said in my previous comment, negotiate with her. If she's not willing to please you, don't please her. Tell her directly and negotiate. Both of your needs are important. Mutual benefit is important in marriage

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by lifeandjoy: 6:02pm On Oct 01, 2021

foleskay:
Like you abi. Don't worry I have it big and curve

I am male you this homosexual

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by PastorFire: 6:04pm On Oct 01, 2021

KarinaLove:
Try and respect her decision. She said she is not the sex type. Then leave her.

Must marriage be all about sex?

I don tire.

Everytime Men And Sex....Tueeehhh

Can't men use their time for something more productive in life

The man wife na your type of person. Make God no just kuku punish sinnerman with wife like u kiss

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Oyindidi(f): 6:08pm On Oct 01, 2021

DavidNative:
She has been exposed to porn in the past from what she said. All saying am comparing her to other ladies. i had bought books sex to help, she enjoys its when i perform romance and oral o her, but when i request for sex or she should give me some, she says she cant cos of my size and i should give her time, but its been a year, hence why i had to voice out
Thanks alot once again for your comment ma

Be very gentle while at it. You can't be big and rough at the same time

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by sexyto(m): 6:24pm On Oct 01, 2021

[quote author=litaninja post=106344125]Thats not how a vagina works.
tell me what I don't know?

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by rollandben(m): 6:31pm On Oct 01, 2021

Engage her house maid and get her pregnant...trust me your wife infidelity or madness will automatically stop. Stop being a gentle man, no woman deserves that

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by eguarojeona: 6:59pm On Oct 01, 2021

Simdyofficial:
lol. So you dey whine me before. Bekiaful o

Lol,abi na.No vex maama. grin

Have a great weekend.

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by credon: 7:04pm On Oct 01, 2021

Octopusssy:
Oga, what is the measurement of the said oversized preek? I want to check something

Small small na, he is someone's husband o

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by skj1377(m): 7:06pm On Oct 01, 2021

Your wife is frigid. You may seek medical attention. Next time test your goods before purchase. But if she is not frigid she has reached the law of diminishing marginal utility

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Felicity001(m): 7:09pm On Oct 01, 2021*

DavidNative:
Thank you ma.
Has any one gone through this pls, how were you able to fix. kindly help a brother, its been a lot of struggle , something i just sleep and just wait to go to office the next day so i can distract my mind, i am deeply struggling on my inside as a man,

Trust u r good now

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by credon: 7:10pm On Oct 01, 2021

Octopusssy:
She is still learning after one whole year of marriage??

maud Adams is the real octopussy I hope say she give you permission o

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Octopusssy(f): 7:11pm On Oct 01, 2021

credon:
maud Adams is the real octopussy I hope say she give you permission o

I wrote to the filmakers and they granted me permission cheesy

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by credon: 7:12pm On Oct 01, 2021

Octopusssy:
I wrote to the filmakers and they granted me permission

Hmmm

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Octopusssy(f): 7:13pm On Oct 01, 2021

credon:
Hmmm

You are one of the very few people on this forum that recognises the username and did not automatically assume something else. Kudos wink

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by xamodans: 7:14pm On Oct 01, 2021

Ynix:
Play a simple game...

Write this word on paper and say,

I CANNOT TAKE THIS ANY MORE, BYE BYE WISHING YOU ALL THE BEST IN LIFE

Drop it and travel to a friend's place

Notice her reaction, if disturbed, don't come back until she begs and after that prepare a written agreement. Also be an alpha man

are you married?

Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Hassanmaye(m): 7:16pm On Oct 01, 2021

MASTERYANKEE:
Get one side chick pregnant not time men

Hahahhahahaha

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