DMerciful:
So he is indirectly paying for sex?

You can never really enjoy a one-sided sex, it's frustrating.

No sex before marriage sucks!

Know that and know peace... Every man pays for sex(even with your wife indirectly) .. Otherwise, the woman call the shot

You're wrong. Not everyman pay for sex....change your mentality. Sometimes in marriage, the woman pays more ,not necessarily in monetary terms but other resources

AutoC:


Know that and know peace... Every man pays for sex(even with your wife indirectly) .. Otherwise, the woman call the shot

DavidNative:
hmm. Thank you Sir 4 this, this is what i had been doing, i had tried not to even react negatively since, but could get tiring, sometimes i had to masturbate of if i cannot bear it again , last week wen i brought it up with her even in a very gentle and romantic atmosphere , we could not sleep as she was crying all through that i was not understanding , i had to plead with her never to bring it up before we could sleep at midnight

Do you have kids yet?
Does she have spiritual husband?

If she's naturally low on libido, try throwing in some Viagra into her drink without her knowledge, she will be Hot and open her legs wider than ever.

Later, only she go dey draw you for a repeat performance

From there, she starts to build and sustain interest.

However, you say you do a lot of preintimacy, has she ever climaxed during a heady session?

Are you heading her correctly?

Has she ever told you how to love her?

Do you follow instructions to the letter?

Abeg make your wife free something for my fellow nler joor.

DMerciful:
You're wrong. Not everyman pay for sex....change your mentality. Sometimes in marriage, the woman pays more ,not necessarily in monetary terms but other resources

Okay I hear u... If u like, don't put house keep+money to look good down for ur wife when u marry and be expecting bum ass sex from her... Na average sex u go dey get plus insult... I'm talking from 8 years experience n if u dnt like don't listen...

I just dey laugh you. I'll be 10yrs in marriage with 3 kids in February.

AutoC:



Okay I hear u... If u like, don't put house keep+money to look good down for ur wife when u marry and be expecting bum ass sex from her... Na average sex u go dey get plus insult... I'm talking from 8 years experience n if u dnt like don't listen...

thorpido:
It's funny how some of you without sense come here saying something is not someone's business. What is the thread about in the first place and if the thread is not my business what the eff are you looking for here?!
if you had some understanding, you will have an idea why i asked that question. It was to know her sexual experience which may be playing a big role in the wife's behaviour.

wat sexual behavior are u looking for? Someone already said dey didn’t have sex because that was their agreement and ure asking if she was a virgin or not. Eku ise Owner of sense worldwide and beyond.

petitejolie:
wat sexual behavior are u looking for? Someone already said dey didn’t have sex because that was their agreement and ure asking if she was a virgin or not. Eku ise Owner of sense worldwide and beyond.

Awww, i expected you shake me up a bit but you just showed poor sense of judgement again. Is it possible to not be a virgin and yet decide to be celibate till wedding? Use that thing between your ears.

WHEN SOME WOMEN ARE LOOKING FOR SUCH DICK

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

SINCERELY SOME WOMEN ARE LOOKING FOR SUCH DICK, AND IF YOU ENTER THEIR TRAP, YOU WILL NEVER REMEMBER YOUR WIFES NAME AGAIN.


CHECK , MAYBE YOUR WIFE IS CIRCUMCISED

BECAUSE THOSE LADIES WHO ARE NOT CIRCUMCISED CAN TAKE ANY SIZE AF DICK THAN THOSE WHO ARE NOT

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

It's great you're doing the bolded, you are on track as a family man.
You can turn your wife into whatever you want in the other room.
Make Love to her mind first & she's already dripping wet long before you get to the duvet.
Her brain/mind is her best sex organ.
Naughty,steamy romantic texts on your way to work, will arouse & stimulate her mind & get her in the mood for the action slated for the evening or anytime you want.
Non sexual touch is very important too.
Hold & touch your wife all the time when you are not having anything about sex.
Non sexual touching creates bonding and intimacy.
Don't rush her into anything, keep up the compliments.
Eventually, when you have unleash her latent wild tigress, Bros, don't run here looking for solutions to quench the raging fires you have deliberately kindled.

DavidNative:
Pls i need an honest and kind advice . I will deeply appreciate

Has she given birth yet? If no then allow her to gv birth 1st.her sexual urge could grow...but shaa this life no balance

Amanda4life:
WHEN SOME WOMEN ARE LOOKING FOR SUCH DICK

Thank you everyone , am deeply grateful , i had to take some time off through yesterday to read through , am deeply encouraged , And i will take some decision and steps. Good afternoon

DMerciful:
I just dey laugh you. I'll be 10yrs in marriage with 3 kids in February.

Okay, so aw is it going sharing the bill or allowing ur wife to pay the bills??

My wife contributes 40% of her income towards the home while I contribute 85% of my income. She's meant to help me not make my life harder and she's doing a good job!

BTW, this formula was agreed on. Before she got a job, I was doing 100% so it's love and mutual understanding

AutoC:


Okay, so aw is it going sharing the bill or allowing ur wife to pay the bills??

DMerciful:
My wife contributes 40% of her income towards the home while I contribute 85% of my income. She's meant to help me not make my life harder and she's doing a good job!

BTW, this formula was agreed on. Before she got a job, I was doing 100% so it's love and mutual understanding

My only prayer as a brother to you is that God will bless you beyond ur imagination that 5% of ur income will be able to catter for your household feeding, school fees, wife upkeep etc...

DMerciful:
I just dey laugh you. I'll be 10yrs in marriage with 3 kids in February.

If you like stay 50 years in marriage, what you don't know you dont know. Sex is never free, you always pay for it and the mode of transaction or currency is not always money. Women always have sex with you with the mindset that they are losing something, so something must be paid in return.

I pray God continues to give you power as a provider in your home, God forbid that you run into a financial situation that lingers for 6 months, that's when you will know that sex is not freely given. You will beg for it and almost cry, even as a married man.

Whether you believe it or not, it is what it is.

thorpido:
Awww, i expected you shake me up a bit but you just showed poor sense of judgement again. Is it possible to not be a virgin and yet decide to be celibate till wedding? Use that thing between your ears.

so because ure not a virgin, u don't have the right to make a decision for yourself that u don't want to have sex anymore. People decide to stop smoking, people decide to stop drugs, people decide to stop alcohol, but a non virgin cannot decide to be celibate? He or she doesn't have the right? It's an addiction so it's in impossible to stop it? Or every one who's a non virgin is a sex addict? You're very myopic and stagnant thinker. Shake u for wetin because u be milk shake? Abeg shift jaare u no follow.

truthsayer009:


If you like stay 50 years in marriage, what you don't know you dont know. Sex is never free, you always pay for it and the mode of transaction or currency is not always money. Women always have sex with you with the mindset that they are losing something, so something must be paid in return.

I pray God continues to give you power as a provider in your home, God forbid that you run into a financial situation that lingers for 6 months, that's when you will know that sex is not freely given. You will beg for it and almost cry, even as a married man.

Whether you believe it or not, it is what it is.

Scary stuff right here.

petitejolie:
so because ure not a virgin, u don't have the right to make a decision for yourself that u don't want to have sex anymore. People decide to stop smoking, people decide to stop drugs, people decide to stop alcohol, but a non virgin cannot decide to be celibate? He or she doesn't have the right? It's an addiction so it's in impossible to stop it? Or every one who's a non virgin is a sex addict? [/b[You're very myopic and stagnant thinker. Shake u for wetin because u be milk shake? Abeg shift jaare u no follow.

Chai! You're just so dumb!
Who's talking about not having a right to decide to be celibate even if no longer a virgin? Is that what you interpreted from what i wrote?

Let me try to explain all over to you . I asked if she was a virgin which might be the reason why the wife is cold towards sex. You quoted me asking what is my business with that (obviously because you don't know anything about cause and effect).
You replied me saying if they didn't have sex then why i'm i still asking if she is a virgin and i replied you saying you can choose to be a non-virgin and have a no-sex relationship till marriage.
Where did you get your own understanding that i'm saying 'being a non-virgin means being a sex addict'?
If after all these explanation you still don't get it, then i can't help you further.

Well, each to his own.

truthsayer009:


If you like stay 50 years in marriage, what you don't know you dont know. Sex is never free, you always pay for it and the mode of transaction or currency is not always money. Women always have sex with you with the mindset that they are losing something, so something must be paid in return.

I pray God continues to give you power as a provider in your home, God forbid that you run into a financial situation that lingers for 6 months, that's when you will know that sex is not freely given. You will beg for it and almost cry, even as a married man.

Whether you believe it or not, it is what it is.

Get her Gorontula seeds, it will solve your problem or try Spanishfly.

Foodqueen:
Continue talking to her, one day she will reciprocate.

yinmu

KarinaLove:
Try and respect her decision. She said she is not the sex type. Then leave her.

Must marriage be all about sex?

I don tire.

Everytime Men And Sex....Tueeehhh

Can't men use their time for something more productive in life

May God help you to grow up

David Native

It is a good thing you decided to wait till after wedding before sex.

I will suggest you put porn out of this because what mostly happen therein is 'make believe'. And you can't compare your honorable wife with the ladies in porn. It is not befitting.

What you need to work on, firstly, is Communication. You both should communicate well on what you want and how sex should be made. Make her feel very relax and comfortable. Play game of intimacy by asking sex related questions.

Take note of what pleases her when you go oral and try the same with your penis. Ensure she is well lubricated down there before going in. Then, go in gradually not all at once.

If after trying the above method, the story is the same, i have a natural aphrodisiac she can that will make her very wet and easy to drill. In fact, she will yearn for you. Just let me know if you need it.

Oyindidi:
Be very gentle while at it. You can't be big and rough at the same time

Really

KarinaLove:
Try and respect her decision. She said she is not the sex type. Then leave her.

Must marriage be all about sex?

I don tire.

Everytime Men And Sex....Tueeehhh

Can't men use their time for something more productive in life

See your life

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

Welcome to marriage my friend. You guys might be sexually incompatible. You needed to know each others sexual compatibility before marriage and many religious folks shy away from this important topic during courtship.
You have to talk to her and probably change your approach. Best of luck.

Octopusssy:
Oga, what is the measurement of the said oversized preek? I want to check something

Why you dey find measurements, you be dick tailor.?

nairaman66:
Even the Bible says, too much of everything is bad. Sometime, just do little and leave the rest, it is not every time you’d spend hours on top of her, you have to learn to understand her sexual needs.

Forget all these people who says big dickk is this and that, I spend minimum of 1hrs on my wife etc. You can’t believe all these! You are having sex and at the same time being the time keeper?

There is honor in moderation.

And why is she not to try to understand his sexual need?

KarinaLove:
Try and respect her decision. She said she is not the sex type. Then leave her.

Must marriage be all about sex?

I don tire.

Everytime Men And Sex....Tueeehhh

Can't men use their time for something more productive in life

Are you ok?.
Why marry when you don't want sex.? That is why i am very careful with the so called religious sisters when i was dating.
The poor guy kept himself all this while and waited for marriage to have sex.

This marriage may not last long if this issue is not addressed.