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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by pennywys(m): 12:23pm On Oct 01, 2021
DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls
continue with the head job till the gate widely open
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by iomoge2(f): 12:23pm On Oct 01, 2021
One mans meat…. Mschewwwww

That’s why it’s good to test your goods before you pay.

See as this my sister is frustrating this man.

Oga buy her stimulant like Spanish fly and co.
Buy pills to turn her on big time.
Add intimacy gadgets to your game
Lubricant
Tell her to try cow girl
Do it in the bathroom or kitchen

And if you know you are too long, don’t penetrate her fully.

You can sexually frustrate her by putting only the tip inside….. she would beg you to go deeper.

I hate what I hate.

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Freelane33(m): 12:24pm On Oct 01, 2021
My grandpa always say this to me when I was young .. FREELANE33 if u love your wife marry one wife but if you love yourself marry two wives . The ball is in your court brother .
DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Tripssy: 12:24pm On Oct 01, 2021
She is a lesbian shocked

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by iamtardey: 12:24pm On Oct 01, 2021
Lol she will be horving pyant for one lil dicky lol

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by biafranrealson: 12:25pm On Oct 01, 2021
dont go too deep just maintain half level.
was she a virgin before marriage? if not she doesnt love you but the small cash on you.

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by DavidNative(m): 12:25pm On Oct 01, 2021
honestly , its well
Titto93:
Dis kind thing z common with religious people.
Most times, Una principle to please eachother end up hurting u.

This is what u should have resolve during dating.
Btw, why did u marry her?

because she's God-fearing or what?
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by mu2sa2: 12:25pm On Oct 01, 2021
Truth is some women are just not enthusiastic about sex. Your wife appears to be one. Just adjust yourself to her level by not making sexx the centre of you marriage.

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Gate050: 12:25pm On Oct 01, 2021
DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls
Any kid yet?
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by DMerciful(m): 12:25pm On Oct 01, 2021
You had it coming. You like sex but decided to marry a lady who does not like sex(to keep yourself without it till marriage means you're probably not driven by it). Truth is she'll not get better, na one chance you enter.

You don't even know if she was a Virgin when you married her but relying on what she said
DavidNative:
She has been exposed to porn in the past from what she said. All saying am comparing her to other ladies. i had bought books sex to help, she enjoys its when i perform romance and oral o her, but when i request for sex or she should give me some, she says she cant cos of my size and i should give her time, but its been a year, hence why i had to voice out
Thanks alot once again for your comment ma

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Tannhauser(m): 12:25pm On Oct 01, 2021
grin
Three things
1. She's naturally frigid (long thing)
2. She's a closet lesbian
3. She doesn't love you, just manipulating you with her tears.

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by AutoBodyParts(m): 12:25pm On Oct 01, 2021
Don't jump into penetration immediately. pre-intimacy is key let her be very aroused and that her complain will stop

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Freelane33(m): 12:25pm On Oct 01, 2021
O r i e , o f o k a s I b e grin
iomoge2:
One mans meat…. Mschewwwww

That’s why it’s good to test your goods before you pay.

See as this my sister is frustrating this man.

Oga buy her stimulant like Spanish fly and co.
Buy pills to turn her on big time.
Add intimacy gadgets to your game
Lubricant
Tell her to try cow girl
Do it in the bathroom or kitchen

And if you know you are too long, don’t penetrate her fully.

You can sexually frustrate her by putting only the tip inside….. she would beg you to go deeper.

I hate what I hate.

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by okoh66(m): 12:26pm On Oct 01, 2021
Bro buy kyc lubricant and use it. She is not very wet that is why. Also there are things you will give her to make her sexually active. There are some supplements she will take that will drive and Increase her sexual drive. Once you keep that up over time she will be totally use to you and will want you at all time. But please avoid having a side chick

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by MufasaLion: 12:26pm On Oct 01, 2021
You have to be patient with her even though it might take long before she get to be active like you or almost like you.

You are in for a long ride, anyways. grin grin grin

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by tempex88(m): 12:26pm On Oct 01, 2021
you no go get correct answer here....go meet marriage counselors

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by DavidNative(m): 12:26pm On Oct 01, 2021
Not yet
Gate050:

Any kid yet?
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by FutureIsFemale(f): 12:26pm On Oct 01, 2021
DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls
Don't go too deep.
Don't stay too long.

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by frank202012: 12:27pm On Oct 01, 2021
DavidNative:
hmm. Thank you Sir 4 this, this is what i had been doing, i had tried not to even react negatively since, but could get tiring, sometimes i had to masturbate of if i cannot bear it again , last week wen i brought it up with her even in a very gentle and romantic atmosphere , we could not sleep as she was crying all through that i was not understanding , i had to plead with her never to bring it up before we could sleep at midnight

Crying for what kwanu,its either she is addicted to porn or something even worse.....
Let her be but put ur eyes on the ground some thing is definitely wrong somewhere....

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by murmee: 12:27pm On Oct 01, 2021
thorpido:
There was no pre-marital sex while you were dating, was she a virgin when you married her?
That is the question!
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Timothyoj(m): 12:27pm On Oct 01, 2021
MASTERYANKEE:
Get one side chick pregnant not time men

Pls do not complicate this guy's issue na....

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by rosechika1994: 12:27pm On Oct 01, 2021
I have met someone like that, you said she said she never had sex, test her yourself like a man, be a lion and the truth will come up, I stayed with someone like these for over 3 years not knowing that someone have been shopping her till the day I truly shopped her well, that day I knew everything.

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by od501: 12:27pm On Oct 01, 2021
DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

This gender shaa...give them big, they need it small, give them small, they will need it big.

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by mannasseh(m): 12:27pm On Oct 01, 2021
After at least a childbirth there will widen a little. If head fit come out from there then Pr+×k suppose fit enter

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by MufasaLion: 12:27pm On Oct 01, 2021
iomoge2:
One mans meat…. Mschewwwww

That’s why it’s good to test your goods before you pay.

See as this my sister is frustrating this man.

Oga buy her stimulant like Spanish fly and co.
Buy pills to turn her on big time.
Add intimacy gadgets to your game
Lubricant
Tell her to try cow girl
Do it in the bathroom or kitchen

And if you know you are too long, don’t penetrate her fully.

You can sexually frustrate her by putting only the tip inside….. she would beg you to go deeper.

I hate what I hate.

Good girl.

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Toks2008(m): 12:27pm On Oct 01, 2021
Ynix:

Play a simple game...

Write this word on paper and say,

I CANNOT TAKE THIS ANY MORE, BYE BYE WISHING YOU ALL THE BEST IN LIFE

Drop it and travel to a friend's place

Notice her reaction, if disturbed, don't come back until she begs and after that prepare a written agreement. Also be an alpha man

Not a good decision to make by my reckoning.

It's not worth the stress.
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Naijaolosho2: 12:27pm On Oct 01, 2021
DavidNative:
Well, i believe .r

Not all ladies bleed when disvirgined. That could be the case with her but unfortunately even you are a learner not to know the true status of your wife before the wedding.

I wish you well,go deal with it. I just hope she's not seeing someone else.

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by delzbaba(m): 12:28pm On Oct 01, 2021
Cut ur prick small.

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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by sylve11: 12:28pm On Oct 01, 2021
Octopusssy:
Oga, what is the measurement of the said oversized preek? I want to check something

grin shocked cool
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by murmee: 12:28pm On Oct 01, 2021
Octopusssy:
Oga, what is the measurement of the said oversized preek? I want to check something
I'm laughing!
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Toks2008(m): 12:28pm On Oct 01, 2021
Freelane33:
My grandpa always say this to me when I was young .. FREELANE33 if u love your wife marry one wife but if you love yourself marry two wives . The ball is in your court brother .

Gbam!
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Gate050: 12:28pm On Oct 01, 2021
Freelane33:
My grandpa always say this to me when I was young .. FREELANE33 if u love your wife marry one wife but if you love yourself marry two wives . The ball is in your court brother .
Was the name given to you by her too? FREELANE33 Liar grin grin grin

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