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Should A Wife Wait For Her Husband Before She Eats Or She Should Eat Alone? by ashewoboy(op): 9:14pm On Oct 01, 2021

What is your take? should a wife wait for her husband to come back from work or wherever he is before she eats or she should eat alone?

Share your take.

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Re: Should A Wife Wait For Her Husband Before She Eats Or She Should Eat Alone? by chatinent: 9:17pm On Oct 01, 2021

When they are together, they eat.

Waiting is a personal decision.

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Re: Should A Wife Wait For Her Husband Before She Eats Or She Should Eat Alone? by vibbb: 9:20pm On Oct 01, 2021

Lol, for new couple at honeymoon stage (1- 2 years) 100% allowed. But at see finish stage if u meet your food on the diny table you are blessed not to talk of eating together because mostly at this stage you are tends to dish your food all by yourself.

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Re: Should A Wife Wait For Her Husband Before She Eats Or She Should Eat Alone? by slawormiir: 9:22pm On Oct 01, 2021*

Damnnn niggarrrr

For this twenty first century...way husband nor dey quick come house in the evening.....

Na hungry go kill the woman

Make she dey wait...
Imagine me a real niggarrr go come manage to marry last last.....then my wife go dey wait for me.....me way go dey enter house around 2am and 3am after enough booze with my niggarrrrs for bar...

Then if na the period way she take dey nag......she nor go even see me for house for like three days.....

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Re: Should A Wife Wait For Her Husband Before She Eats Or She Should Eat Alone? by emae009(m): 9:25pm On Oct 01, 2021

Marriage or relationship is not a script... This is why there's a high rate of divorce these days. Everybody wants to follow what everybody does when the fact is that every relationship is unique.
If eating alone is what works or waiting for your husband, discuss it and do what works.

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Re: Should A Wife Wait For Her Husband Before She Eats Or She Should Eat Alone? by yinkus6750(m): 9:33pm On Oct 01, 2021

Wait for husband that hangs out with the boys every evening after work, and cones home around midnight ?
The wife is definitely not hungry.

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Re: Should A Wife Wait For Her Husband Before She Eats Or She Should Eat Alone? by Tokskob2008: 9:34pm On Oct 01, 2021

I don't think there's a written rule or manual to this things as what works for A might not work for B so it all depends on the individuals. If both are at home and feel like eating together why not and if it's the other way round too I don't see any big deal in it. It's not mandatory to wait for one's spouse before eating.

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Re: Should A Wife Wait For Her Husband Before She Eats Or She Should Eat Alone? by ashewoboy(op): 9:38pm On Oct 01, 2021

chatinent:
When they are together, they eat.
Waiting is a personal decision.

won't waiting promote cohesion? couples that eat together, bond together cheesy

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Re: Should A Wife Wait For Her Husband Before She Eats Or She Should Eat Alone? by ashewoboy(op): 9:41pm On Oct 01, 2021

vibbb:
Lol, for new couple at honeymoon stage (1- 2 years) 100% allowed. But at see finish stage if u meet your food on the diny table you are blessed not to talk of eating together because mostly at this stage you are tends to dish your food all by yourself.

how many years anniversary is the "see finish" stage? cheesy

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The husband should dish his food by himself?what happens to the wife kneeling and serving her husband? shocked

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Re: Should A Wife Wait For Her Husband Before She Eats Or She Should Eat Alone? by ashewoboy(op): 9:48pm On Oct 01, 2021

emae009:
Marriage or relationship is not a script... This is why there's a high rate of divorce these days. Everybody wants to follow what everybody does when the fact is that every relationship is unique.
If eating alone is what works or waiting for your husband, discuss it and do what works.

won't the husband find it disrespectful? "like are you supposed to be eating before I return?" what if that is what the husband wants? what should the wife do?

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Re: Should A Wife Wait For Her Husband Before She Eats Or She Should Eat Alone? by ashewoboy(op): 9:50pm On Oct 01, 2021

yinkus6750:
Wait for husband that hangs out with the boys every evening after work, and cones home around midnight ?
The wife is definitely not hungry.

It doesn't mean. A wife material would wait. If he says he doesn't want to eat then she can now eat her own food. That is how wife materials do cheesy

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Re: Should A Wife Wait For Her Husband Before She Eats Or She Should Eat Alone? by ashewoboy(op): 9:52pm On Oct 01, 2021

Tokskob2008:
I don't think there's a written rule or manual to this things as what works for A might not work for B so it all depends on the individuals. If both are at home and feel like eating together why not and if it's the other way round too I don't see any big deal in it. It's not mandatory to wait for one's spouse before eating.

What about the dishing of the food? The wife should dish it?

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Re: Should A Wife Wait For Her Husband Before She Eats Or She Should Eat Alone? by Tokskob2008: 9:57pm On Oct 01, 2021

ashewoboy:
What about the dishing of the food? The wife should dish it?

Why not if that's their arrangement.

Re: Should A Wife Wait For Her Husband Before She Eats Or She Should Eat Alone? by illicit(m): 10:10pm On Oct 01, 2021*

Waiting is old school

Eat when u are hungry not when ur partner is around....

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Re: Should A Wife Wait For Her Husband Before She Eats Or She Should Eat Alone? by Solofresh2: 10:11pm On Oct 01, 2021

ashewoboy:
Today's episode on let's talk with ashewoboy.

what is your take? should a wife wait for her husband to come back from work or wherever he is before she eats or she should eat alone?

share your take.

E be like say hunger never wire you before

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Re: Should A Wife Wait For Her Husband Before She Eats Or She Should Eat Alone? by vibbb: 10:50pm On Oct 01, 2021

Lolz, see finish stage is also refers to as fighting stage where responsibility of kids and family expenses drives and bcom overwhelming; Where ego erupts anger and un-submissiveness. This stage is bwt 5 -15 yrs. Couple cross this difficult stage without divorce tends to make a perfect and happy home, till death do them apart.

ashewoboy:
how many years anniversary is the "see finish" stage?.

The husband should dish his food by himself?what happens to the wife kneeling and serving her husband?.

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Re: Should A Wife Wait For Her Husband Before She Eats Or She Should Eat Alone? by emae009(m): 6:33am On Oct 02, 2021

ashewoboy:
won't the husband find it disrespectful? "like are you supposed to be eating before I return?" what if that is what the husband wants? what should the wife do?

like I said... discuss it with your partner and come up with what works for the two of you instead of listening to strangers and doing more damage than good

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Re: Should A Wife Wait For Her Husband Before She Eats Or She Should Eat Alone? by Obaxxx(m): 7:06am On Oct 02, 2021

Like what my brother chatinet already said, waiting is a personal decision....

But lemme quickly ask this--"what if that's the last meal,and there's no money to prepare another meal,or Probably it's night already? Wouldn't it be a nice idea or an expression of love for the banny to wait for her hubby?

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Re: Should A Wife Wait For Her Husband Before She Eats Or She Should Eat Alone? by ashewoboy(op): 7:10am On Oct 02, 2021

Lalasticlala.

Re: Should A Wife Wait For Her Husband Before She Eats Or She Should Eat Alone? by helinues: 7:39am On Oct 02, 2021

The wife never hungry, if hunger knack her head, she go eat without waiting for the husband

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Re: Should A Wife Wait For Her Husband Before She Eats Or She Should Eat Alone? by placeofallure(f): 7:54am On Oct 02, 2021

There's no one size fits all in marital issues. What works for couple A may not work for couple B. We are different people, different backgrounds, different lifestyles, different ideologies.

My marriage is a little over a decade now but we still dip our hands into the same plate to eat any meal that we eat at home. That's not to say we don't have differences or we don't fight. But you should know that when couples do stuff together, it helps them to bond. Hubby and I eat together, take a stroll together, shower together, attend shows together. The more together time, the better for marriages.

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Re: Should A Wife Wait For Her Husband Before She Eats Or She Should Eat Alone? by Goldenheart(m): 1:10pm On Oct 02, 2021

Now playing.

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Re: Should A Wife Wait For Her Husband Before She Eats Or She Should Eat Alone? by free2ryhme: 1:10pm On Oct 02, 2021

ashewoboy:
What is your take? should a wife wait for her husband to come back from work or wherever he is before she eats or she should eat alone?

Share your take.

Do what works for you. Every family is unique

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Re: Should A Wife Wait For Her Husband Before She Eats Or She Should Eat Alone? by Kingrefreshed: 1:11pm On Oct 02, 2021

ashewoboy:
What is your take? should a wife wait for her husband to come back from work or wherever he is before she eats or she should eat alone?

Share your take.

You that is asking this question sef no get sense

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Re: Should A Wife Wait For Her Husband Before She Eats Or She Should Eat Alone? by punisha: 1:11pm On Oct 02, 2021

Re: Should A Wife Wait For Her Husband Before She Eats Or She Should Eat Alone? by xpressionx(m): 1:11pm On Oct 02, 2021

If you are hungry eat.
If you are not hungry,wait for me.

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Re: Should A Wife Wait For Her Husband Before She Eats Or She Should Eat Alone? by constance500: 1:11pm On Oct 02, 2021

B like hunger never wire the wife

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Re: Should A Wife Wait For Her Husband Before She Eats Or She Should Eat Alone? by GIANTPLUSHUB: 1:11pm On Oct 02, 2021

Omoh! Not sure couples are waiting for each other again. What some practice now is Dear, you will meet yours in the cooler. Have gone to sleep. grin

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Re: Should A Wife Wait For Her Husband Before She Eats Or She Should Eat Alone? by McOluOmo: 1:12pm On Oct 02, 2021

vibbb:
Lol, for new couple at honeymoon stage (1- 2 years) 100% allowed. But at see finish stage if u meet your food on the diny table you are blessed not to talk of eating together because mostly at this stage you are tends to dish your food all by yourself.

Mama Femi can relate

Guys wey no get girlfriend get peace of mind

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