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I wonder what people discuss before marriage. The day any woman in the name of wife ever uses sex denial on me, her box will reach her parents house.

You are proud and loquacious , see the lengthy things you wrote instead of going straight to the point ,your wife try abeg , you must be a nagging husband

Court has once declared that there is nothing like rape in a marriage. A marriage that has not been dissolved for that matter

WoundedLamb:
Oh... but there is.

deltateam:
I wonder what people discuss before marriage. The day any woman in the name of wife ever uses sex denial on me, her box will reach her parents house.

You must be doing her a favour by marrying her �
She must be a woman you picked from gutter and gave a new life hence you are sounding like that @ her box bla bla bla

Small children putting their lolipop licking mouth inside marriage issue .shior

Sex is overrated,

Brother control your self and wait for your turn she will come begging when she is tired and in need then u go show your self,e be like say u sef too like that thing.

Paulajeigbe:
I know this may rock the table at various point with various reasons. Yet, I want to ask the women and the wife's, who may be in this at this time or who have done this before as a get back response to pepper their man just for offending them. Did this solve the matter? And then I am asking, please what lesson or point do you want your man to get or gain, when he offends you and he is asking to be intimate with you and you are carrying the gateway to his kingdom away?

Has this pepper him approach solved any thing? I don't think so.

I wish we know that sex in marriage is a powerful tool. And so to use it againt your husband is like using a weapon against yourself. It does not end well. It will affect your whole family. Because once your man is no longer focused at work,all he now sees are ladies in the mini's and the bikini's and the spaghettis and noodles, things he has been seeing but because he has a woman who is giving it to him well and with joy, na wahala dey knock o.

So what should you do woman?
Your bobo offended you, and one way or the other he hasn't apologize yet. He is forming and shurning and not even paying attention to you. So it looks as if the both of you are doing Tom and Jerry in your home.

Then 10pm he is coming close to you bringing his key. He want to enter Into the tabernacle and just be lost there. Abeg wife, woman, this is not the time to turn , then you look at him , and then you now hissed and cover yourself with the duvet. Noooo!!!
He has only come to resolve matters. Lol! Welcome him, calm him down and then take him to paradise gradually and steadily. Don't raise the matter of what he has done yet. While he is still worshipping and doing all of the different worship styles let him. When you have taken him there and then back, this is the time to open up your heart. Tell him his offense and how hurt you have been. Pour out everything.

I know some men are insensitive. Immediately they have stood up from the place of worship, and then dash out leaving the woman just their. Yet, for a majority this is the time they just want to listen and truly listen. When a man truly know what it means for him to have been taken to the tabernacle of worship and back by his wife whom he has offended, he will apologize. For someone like me, I won't only apologize alone, I ma take her shopping, I will make feel like the woman she is. I will kindly that light again. Sabi it was the tabernacle you she took you to, Kai !!! Wait until she takes you to paradise all because you triggered the girls and the beautiful woman in her.

We men have lost our wives because we weren't sensitive. And by the time we are realizing the damage has gone too deep and things done spoil far.

So in summary, and in conclusion, denying your husband sex because of offense isn't the way. There are better ways and approaches that brings the result you desire.

Kindly leave you comments I would be reading and replying. Peace.

I will never use sex as a tool against my partner but if my partner tried it "she go regret am ooh".

At the beginning my partner wan try that kind parole with me. I just begin knack one smallie like that wey don dey eye me since. After two months my woman come ask me say since she said no I never ask her for sex again or beg her whether me dey Bleep for outside?

I can niether confirm nor deny me come give her this proverb "if your pikin come meet you say mama give me food hungry dey worry me. Food dey house ooh but you come deny your pikin food. Wetin u think say go happen if your pikin carry empty belll go neighbour house and neighbour come offer the pikin food?

As I talk finish I just wear my clothe go gist for my guy house.

When I come back that night na she come serve me the kpekus. The next morning I just tell smallie say sorry I don turn a new man.

But we still dey yarn time to time and I dey sort out some of her money matter but no knacking.

Through out the tryst with the smallie I wear sheen guard before this small girls go spoil my blood.

determination21:
Wait married folks are coming!

You no wan answer university questions when you still dey secondary school. I know your sense. Good of you.

Achor1111:
Bros, is there anything hard to apologize when you have offended?
Is it because it is your wife?
pls, remove this African mentality or whatever.
Your type can apologize to a sidechick but never to his wife.

The bold faced, that is what really saddens me. I have seen this happen so many times with colleagues and friends.

chatinent:
Baba, lol, forcefully doing it will bring more harm than good. Remember, rape does not become irrelevant in marriage! If it is not consensual, it is rape! You will be jailed and treated a rapist! Peace always wins. What's the use of having sth by force you no go enjoy las las? No bi juju?


In this eleventh hour, a simple “babe..baby..you are still angry? Stop snubbing me naw. Ok ok, about what happened the other time..yeah, I must say I was very angry and overreacted..but you know you really also made me angry sha.” (Try teasing...lol, of course, she will leave-me-alone you. Don't give up, throw some bubbles of Shakespeare's sonnets..don't just make it 14). “Babe..we are bigger than this naw. Okay, to show I value our peace than being right, I take the responsibility, I am sorry.” (Tease again...and tease...until the leave-me-alone becomes as weak as Nigerian’s economy...and it surely will). Every normal wife will welcome peace especially if the husband kills the pride and apologize. The problem is that many men would rather die than apologize!

Let's embrace peace.

Pride doesn't do it!

Stop waiting for the first person to come and make it up. What if the other person too have vowed not to? Take the initiative! It doesn't make you a loser! It makes you mature! No bi because of uncle conji you go remember rites. She has her rites too!

You are welcome.

Guy... you good
But i still pity you Sha
You ain't married and you know all this and for your mind ..you will be able to handle things when you eventually get married...

Sha know that it doesn't work that way Sha...
I pray you marry your own.

Sue her for damages

I laugh in Spanish

WEAPONIZING SEX ??BRO MARRY ANOTHER WIFE

Starz825:
Guy... you good
But i still pity you Sha
You ain't married and you know all this and for your mind ..you will be able to handle things when you eventually get married...

Sha know that it doesn't work that way Sha...
I pray you marry your own.

What if I am a consultant? Lol. What if I am married? Lol

No b ur wife scope her naw. U know as e dey b

WoundedLamb:
OP, if you're fighting with someone to the point that you guys aren't talking, it's only logical that the person wouldn't want to make love to you. I mean, how exactly do you expect the person to just open her legs for you, look the other way while you have fun? She is not a prostitute, making love to her involves body contact and also emotions, and I don't see how someone who's pissed at you can possibly enjoy it. I think it's only logical to discuss the issue before doing it if it's that serious.

I know we normally use the expression "she's denying me sex" but that doesn't apply here. If you guys are in good terms and she wouldn't let you touch her, then she's denying you sex. But if you're fighting, you're simply fighting. That means you're not talking or doing other things you used to do together. Don't isolate sex and make a deal of it as if she was meant to keep doing that even when you guys aren't talking. If you're fighting with your spouse and she's not talking to you but the thing that matters to you is that she's not opening her legs, then there's a bigger issue in the marriage.

I know you're likely to be the breadwinner of the family but you're not commercializing affection. I am just saying you should address the main issue first and everything will follow. Just an opinion. Best of luck!

I wish I can like this comment million times. God bless you

Honestly I don't understand what you are trying to say

chatinent:
Oga, it will not remove any hair from your body to stop being puffed up with pride, apologize for your wrong, and enjoy peace!

Is it a military regime?

Your whole body offend person dey keep malice but your odogwu dey form emissary.

By the way, I see you are seeing cheating as an alternative! It is wrong! Cheating is not among your options!

He only wants to apologise after coming back from the "tabernacle". why can't he apologise when he sees or notices the attitude from his wife?

Most time I envy those northern men with many wives,hardly will you see their wives misbehaving,...

Too much of freedom we give to Southern women are the cause of all of these...

Oga, since you claim the woman was offended by the man, the man ought to apologize 1st before attempting to claim his right to the woman’s body.
If after you apologize for your admitted wrongdoing & you let her know the consequences of denying you the privileges, but she still denies you your rights, please go & get a side chic.
Our forefathers cured the madness of their wives by marrying a junior wife. Sadly we think the monogamy western life forced on us is good, while men suffer in silence. Monogamy has never made men happier, it only made women more secure & entitled.

Paulajeigbe:
I know this may rock the table at various point with various reasons. Yet, I want to ask the women and the wife's, who may be in this at this time or who have done this before as a get back response to pepper their man just for offending them. Did this solve the matter? And then I am asking, please what lesson or point do you want your man to get or gain, when he offends you and he is asking to be intimate with you and you are carrying the gateway to his kingdom away?

Has this pepper him approach solved any thing? I don't think so.

I wish we know that sex in marriage is a powerful tool. And so to use it againt your husband is like using a weapon against yourself. It does not end well. It will affect your whole family. Because once your man is no longer focused at work,all he now sees are ladies in the mini's and the bikini's and the spaghettis and noodles, things he has been seeing but because he has a woman who is giving it to him well and with joy, na wahala dey knock o.

So what should you do woman?
Your bobo offended you, and one way or the other he hasn't apologize yet. He is forming and shurning and not even paying attention to you. So it looks as if the both of you are doing Tom and Jerry in your home.

Then 10pm he is coming close to you bringing his key. He want to enter Into the tabernacle and just be lost there. Abeg wife, woman, this is not the time to turn , then you look at him , and then you now hissed and cover yourself with the duvet. Noooo!!!
He has only come to resolve matters. Lol! Welcome him, calm him down and then take him to paradise gradually and steadily. Don't raise the matter of what he has done yet. While he is still worshipping and doing all of the different worship styles let him. When you have taken him there and then back, this is the time to open up your heart. Tell him his offense and how hurt you have been. Pour out everything.

I know some men are insensitive. Immediately they have stood up from the place of worship, and then dash out leaving the woman just their. Yet, for a majority this is the time they just want to listen and truly listen. When a man truly know what it means for him to have been taken to the tabernacle of worship and back by his wife whom he has offended, he will apologize. For someone like me, I won't only apologize alone, I ma take her shopping, I will make feel like the woman she is. I will kindly that light again. Sabi it was the tabernacle you she took you to, Kai !!! Wait until she takes you to paradise all because you triggered the girls and the beautiful woman in her.

We men have lost our wives because we weren't sensitive. And by the time we are realizing the damage has gone too deep and things done spoil far.

So in summary, and in conclusion, denying your husband sex because of offense isn't the way. There are better ways and approaches that brings the result you desire.

Kindly leave you comments I would be reading and replying. Peace.

Paulajeigbe:
I know this may rock the table at various point with various reasons. Yet, I want to ask the women and the wife's, who may be in this at this time or who have done this before as a get back response to pepper their man just for offending them. Did this solve the matter? And then I am asking, please what lesson or point do you want your man to get or gain, when he offends you and he is asking to be intimate with you and you are carrying the gateway to his kingdom away?

Has this pepper him approach solved any thing? I don't think so.

I wish we know that sex in marriage is a powerful tool. And so to use it againt your husband is like using a weapon against yourself. It does not end well. It will affect your whole family. Because once your man is no longer focused at work,all he now sees are ladies in the mini's and the bikini's and the spaghettis and noodles, things he has been seeing but because he has a woman who is giving it to him well and with joy, na wahala dey knock o.

So what should you do woman?
Your bobo offended you, and one way or the other he hasn't apologize yet. He is forming and shurning and not even paying attention to you. So it looks as if the both of you are doing Tom and Jerry in your home.

Then 10pm he is coming close to you bringing his key. He want to enter Into the tabernacle and just be lost there. Abeg wife, woman, this is not the time to turn , then you look at him , and then you now hissed and cover yourself with the duvet. Noooo!!!
He has only come to resolve matters. Lol! Welcome him, calm him down and then take him to paradise gradually and steadily. Don't raise the matter of what he has done yet. While he is still worshipping and doing all of the different worship styles let him. When you have taken him there and then back, this is the time to open up your heart. Tell him his offense and how hurt you have been. Pour out everything.

I know some men are insensitive. Immediately they have stood up from the place of worship, and then dash out leaving the woman just their. Yet, for a majority this is the time they just want to listen and truly listen. When a man truly know what it means for him to have been taken to the tabernacle of worship and back by his wife whom he has offended, he will apologize. For someone like me, I won't only apologize alone, I ma take her shopping, I will make feel like the woman she is. I will kindly that light again. Sabi it was the tabernacle you she took you to, Kai !!! Wait until she takes you to paradise all because you triggered the girls and the beautiful woman in her.

We men have lost our wives because we weren't sensitive. And by the time we are realizing the damage has gone too deep and things done spoil far.

So in summary, and in conclusion, denying your husband sex because of offense isn't the way. There are better ways and approaches that brings the result you desire.

Kindly leave you comments I would be reading and replying. Peace.

From your write up,
You only want to apologise after coming back from the "tabernacle".
why can't you apologise when you see or notice the attitude from your wife?

cliqtips:
He only wants to apologise after coming back from the "tabernacle". why can't he apologise when he sees or notices the attitude from his wife?

Gbamsolutely.

Paulajeigbe:
I know this may rock the table at various point with various reasons. Yet, I want to ask the women and the wife's, who may be in this at this time or who have done this before as a get back response to pepper their man just for offending them. Did this solve the matter? And then I am asking, please what lesson or point do you want your man to get or gain, when he offends you and he is asking to be intimate with you and you are carrying the gateway to his kingdom away?

Has this pepper him approach solved any thing? I don't think so.

I wish we know that sex in marriage is a powerful tool. And so to use it againt your husband is like using a weapon against yourself. It does not end well. It will affect your whole family. Because once your man is no longer focused at work,all he now sees are ladies in the mini's and the bikini's and the spaghettis and noodles, things he has been seeing but because he has a woman who is giving it to him well and with joy, na wahala dey knock o.

So what should you do woman?
Your bobo offended you, and one way or the other he hasn't apologize yet. He is forming and shurning and not even paying attention to you. So it looks as if the both of you are doing Tom and Jerry in your home.

Then 10pm he is coming close to you bringing his key. He want to enter Into the tabernacle and just be lost there. Abeg wife, woman, this is not the time to turn , then you look at him , and then you now hissed and cover yourself with the duvet. Noooo!!!
He has only come to resolve matters. Lol! Welcome him, calm him down and then take him to paradise gradually and steadily. Don't raise the matter of what he has done yet. While he is still worshipping and doing all of the different worship styles let him. When you have taken him there and then back, this is the time to open up your heart. Tell him his offense and how hurt you have been. Pour out everything.

I know some men are insensitive. Immediately they have stood up from the place of worship, and then dash out leaving the woman just their. Yet, for a majority this is the time they just want to listen and truly listen. When a man truly know what it means for him to have been taken to the tabernacle of worship and back by his wife whom he has offended, he will apologize. For someone like me, I won't only apologize alone, I ma take her shopping, I will make feel like the woman she is. I will kindly that light again. Sabi it was the tabernacle you she took you to, Kai !!! Wait until she takes you to paradise all because you triggered the girls and the beautiful woman in her.

We men have lost our wives because we weren't sensitive. And by the time we are realizing the damage has gone too deep and things done spoil far.

So in summary, and in conclusion, denying your husband sex because of offense isn't the way. There are better ways and approaches that brings the result you desire.

Kindly leave you comments I would be reading and replying. Peace.

From your write up,
You only want to apologise after coming back from the "tabernacle".
why can't you apologise when you see or notice the attitude from your wife?

darlenese:
You must be doing her a favour by marrying her �
She must be a woman you picked from gutter and gave a new life hence you are sounding like that @ her box bla bla bla

Small children putting their lolipop licking mouth inside marriage issue .shior

I can see you use sex as a bargaining tool. You think you do him a favour by allowing him to do?

It is simps you can get who are easily manipulated. Try nonsense with people like me and you go back to your mother to pick up your sense.

chatinent:
What if I am a consultant? Lol. What if I am married? Lol

I think you once mentioned in one of your posts that you ain't married yet...


See ..
I am very good with words too..
But there are some ladies, no matter how good you are with words..if you like sweet talk them from now till tomorrow...once you offend them, you are in trouble!...
Guy Dem dey...

:Dchatinent

What if I am a consultant? Lol. What if I am married wahla for who no get money ;Dchatinent

What if I am a consultant? Lol. What if I am married wahla for who no get money

Tzar:
Oga, since you claim the woman was offended by the man, the man ought to apologize 1st before attempting to claim his right to the woman’s body.
If after you apologize for your admitted wrongdoing & you let her know the consequences of denying you the privileges, but she still denies you your rights, please go & get a side chic.
Our forefathers cured the madness of their wives by marrying a junior wife. Sadly we think the monogamy western life forced on us is good, while men suffer in silence. Monogamy has never made men happier, it only made women more secure & entitled.

You have to be rich to consider polygamy besides I don't think rich men get that lousy attitude from their wives as that's the only thing or close to it she can offer so she serves it well.

Omo! One day. Na so i quarrel with my wife, she com bring dinner for me, nice oha soup and akpu, na so i rejected the food like the chairman.
I was so proud, hungry, and could not sleep in the night. I was hungry and proud. Midnight, i tried to tippy-toe to the kitchen and chop, clean mouth. pride no gree.
Since that time, i don learn. Anytime I quarrel with my wife, I go frown face chop all the food.

Iyaebe:
When and if I get married and my husband hurts me,I will deny him sex till he finds a way to make me happy again. Why should any reasonable man get erection when his wife is hurt?So don't go close to your wife for sex if she's hurt,solve the problems first before coming for 360degrees and snake in the monkey shadow styles lol

That's why some men opt for polygamy, at least none of his wives will weaponize sex cos they know he has other legit options without looking outside the house to satisfy himself

Think of it like this.

You offended her and she hasn’t forgiven you cos the offence has lingering effects/consequences that she is going through AND you have not yet apologised. Why would she want to have sex with you? Makes no sense.

If you offend your spouse, you should apologise so you can have peace.

Now, if you have apologised sincerely and she still keeps acting like this days after, then you have a big problem at home. You are not safe. It shows she has a problem with forgiveness.

If she weaponises sex until you buy her something or dash her money then you are not different from a single man in a transactional relationship with a single woman.