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| Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by nairaman66(m): 10:24am On Oct 10, 2021 |
Not wickedness! I was once way nicer, but this won’t pay your bills, rather you will incur more! Wait till they fill their gas, attempt to use it as much as possible. In fact, use it nonstop and see her reaction. If still negative, apologize to her and refill yours. She will get the message! Nobody born Mumu.. |
| Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by Nobody: 10:24am On Oct 10, 2021 |
aytech360:You are not yet a man . You should be able be able to address issue by taking a stand. You're trying to maintain the good nature they said you are....you are not good ..you are actually fo*lish . In fact go and buy 12kg let them be using it for you . Obviously you don't have anything to do with money. You may be surprised that the woman voted for Buhari twice |
| Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by Goodman777: 10:24am On Oct 10, 2021 |
U are the pretending but wicked type U claimed that the amount u spend to refill it is not a problem yet u went as far as depriving yourself and neighbor the opportunity of having dinner! What a wicked mindset |
| Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by Goldie16(f): 10:25am On Oct 10, 2021 |
You're full of wisdom. Better than quarelling |
| Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by SenecaTheYonger: 10:25am On Oct 10, 2021 |
That's Nigeria for you. People crying for you to help but when you help they'll start choking you. And when you react, they'll call you wicked. That's how entitlement starts. Although you should have confronted them, no matter what. I mean, why would you deprive yourself from cooking because of your neighbour? They're suffocating you man. aytech360: |
| Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by mabeni(m): 10:25am On Oct 10, 2021 |
Funny enough, she might have collected money to fill their gas from her husband but decided to pocket it. |
| Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by SirLakes: 10:25am On Oct 10, 2021 |
Use this Ah ah madam, how now, this gas dey quick finish this day oo, this buhari economy dey reach everybody true true. Abeg this 2kg wey I just fill this morning I wan manage am for like 2 months, make una try fill una own ![]() You can add this too sha God no go punish you ooo madam abeg ![]() |
| Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by Nobody: 10:26am On Oct 10, 2021 |
Who is in Enugu Need to get connected to Ahia ndi Agbor Nobody should try anything silly with me |
| Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by generalwo(m): 10:26am On Oct 10, 2021 |
You're not wicked but the wise thing to do was to allow the gas finish as usual and don't fill it up..... Emptying it into the air is very dangerous... Any little spark could've ignited an explosion.... Imaging helping someone rebuild a new house because you're avoiding to buy gas of 1950......next time, do things the right way.... As for your neighbors, don't fill your own gas again.... If u notice they filled their own, go and be using their own to cook till its exhausted... Maybe if they fill it twice in a very short period, they will know what they are doing is wrong |
| Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by SocialJustice: 10:27am On Oct 10, 2021 |
aytech360:You're only finally getting sense, you shouldn't have wasted your gas but told her that gas is now expensive and you can no longer afford sharing. I wonder why people run from hard discussions. Your neighbour and the wife are stupid, selfish and getting entitled. This is the reason I don't give lift to women because they will tell you they are going to D but will try turning you into their driver on their way there and when you refuse their exploitation, they employ emotional blackmail. |
| Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by Hotzone(m): 10:27am On Oct 10, 2021 |
You are wicked but has been pretending to be a nice guy U think it’s easy to pretend? U discharged a gas which is dangerous just to deny them usage may be they borrowed money to feed!? U must be the most heartless individual I have ever met Everyone needs a shoulder to lean and u offered urs and this is the way u are withdrawing from assisting ur neighbor? Chai! What a world! Hope u are not an IPOB silent killer!? |
| Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by MeghaneMorgane(f): 10:27am On Oct 10, 2021 |
Why did you waste you money and put everyone’s live in danger by releasing the gas to the air? If there was a fire near by, it could have caused an accident. You for just manage until that gas finished and then you won’t refill again. I agree with you about not filling the gas. Let us see whether she will not eat now that there isn’t any gas. Another thing is that you can tell her you no longer want to share gas because the moment you refill, she might continue from where she stopped. |
| Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by Jonsena846: 10:27am On Oct 10, 2021 |
Good Work |
| Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by opera1(m): 10:27am On Oct 10, 2021 |
aytech360:U are not wicked But should have refill 1kg, allow them to finish it and see their reactions.... If they do nothing about it, next time always take your cylinder inside your room when you are done with cooking |
| Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by opera1(m): 10:27am On Oct 10, 2021 |
aytech360:U are not wicked But should have refill 1kg, allow them to finish it and see their reactions.... If they do nothing about it, next time always take your cylinder inside your room when you are done cooking |
| Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by Coldie: 10:28am On Oct 10, 2021 |
One day try and use their gas since yours is finished in fact do it for 1 week or 2 weeks watch her reaction if she gets angry just smile jejely go fill your gas, them never born her well to go use am |
| Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by OChimex: 10:28am On Oct 10, 2021 |
aytech360:You acted so maturely. But the part that was immature was wasting the gas you already bought. Emptying it into the air is not mature. Don't confronts her, she go insult you and call you bad person, make you no fill the gas for a long time, she go use her tongue count her teeth, then get use to refilling hers and using hers |
| Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by Burgerlomo: 10:28am On Oct 10, 2021 |
Kajaard:Which is very bad
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| Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by Nobody: 10:29am On Oct 10, 2021 |
Ogbeni, you sound too soft. You emptying the gas looks foolish. Na money you dey waste so. ![]() How can you displease yourself to please some other persons all the time. Politely tell her your mind, you can even tell her with a smile but u must sound firm about the whole shit. ![]() |
| Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by BigYash: 10:29am On Oct 10, 2021 |
aytech360:You're not. Infact you did the right thing. She got to know that you are not father Christmas. If you give some people chance,them go turn you to mumu .. If say she dey take permission, ehen ,no p. This one that she is now forming owner ontop your gas.. Let her go and fill her own.. No be you marry her |
| Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by twilliamx(m): 10:29am On Oct 10, 2021 |
aytech360:They were just taking advantage of you. You did good..shey the husband no know say dem nor get gas...abegi |
| Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by pennywys(m): 10:29am On Oct 10, 2021 |
aytech360:bro just tell her the truth I don't know why people makes life difficult for themselves these days, just tell her you are not comfortable with her using the gas again that the price of gas is very high. Cool down and explain she will understand. Then you went ahead to release the gas to the air which is very dangerous, cooking gas is highly concentrated and could explode with electro particles in air which cos u harm. Speak up |
| Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by Izucharls121: 10:30am On Oct 10, 2021 |
It was a wasted money by emptying the cylinder... Bro maybe its high time you tell her the truth rather than dying silently.. |
| Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by Holluwhakemmy(f): 10:30am On Oct 10, 2021 |
You are not wicked but should have told her you are not happy with it that you are also managing they should fill theirs too. |
| Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by StPete: 10:30am On Oct 10, 2021 |
aytech360:Of course you're a mugu because when u don't buy, she will buy in her own and use. Then when u buy again, she will keep her own and restart using your own. Get sense and carry your cylinder inside when you finish using it |
| Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by Pallaz(m): 10:30am On Oct 10, 2021 |
You even try to be filling it,,, me self I go lock it with key |
| Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by Nobody: 10:30am On Oct 10, 2021 |
aytech360:Send me your account details let me reimburse the one that vanished into the thin air. |
| Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by Nobody: 10:30am On Oct 10, 2021 |
that Nigeria for you when u show dem kindness they will think you are stupid |
| Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by Prenonjebose: 10:32am On Oct 10, 2021 |
aytech360:Hahahaha. No, you are not. She is an adult, so she sure knew what she was doing using your gas continuously, while not filling her own. As crude as your action may seem, you have passed the message across to her in a way that talking may not have been able to achieve. |
| Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by TinubuGoQuench(f): 10:32am On Oct 10, 2021 |
madridguy:SHUT UP!!! |
| Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by manee2(m): 10:32am On Oct 10, 2021 |
Longsleeve:Easy for you to say. Some find it hard to say |
| Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by joyousever(f): 10:33am On Oct 10, 2021 |
You're not wicked at all, you've been a good and tolerant neighbour, so you only reacted to their level of consistent insensitivity because you're human! To avoid any form of altercations, simply lock your kitchen or if it's a shared apartment where you share kitchen and the likes, simply keep it in your room. aytech360: |
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