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Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by kuntash: 8:16pm On Oct 10, 2021

fvck:
So I met this lady and within a month I decided to tell her I'm going to see her Dad,and wants to settle with her, I said I was tired of the delays and search, she was all loving and nice, till one faithful afternoon she called to say she isn't in, cos she doesn't feel same way.

Me I jejely calm down and felt maybe she's playing a game not to look too cheap.

She even suggested we become friends...

Did I bring up the marriage matter too fast?

She is probably reading this and could infuriate her the more

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by lereinter(m): 8:17pm On Oct 10, 2021

vickydevoka:

If u get money get. U fit marry 3 days. Jus go village during festive period. Finish

Fact

And the girl would have been deceiving one Bobo too

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Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by arthurwillia(m): 8:21pm On Oct 10, 2021

fvck:
So I met this lady and within a month I decided to tell her I'm going to see her Dad,and wants to settle with her, I said I was tired of the delays and search, she was all loving and nice, till one faithful afternoon she called to say she isn't in, cos she doesn't feel same way.

Me I jejely calm down and felt maybe she's playing a game not to look too cheap.

She even suggested we become friends...

Did I bring up the marriage matter too fast?

Brother they no Dey do things like that
Even if you’ll say you wanna see her parents
Say it jokingly

Relationship where you take your time before going in is the best
Trust me and 1 month is too small for that
Except you want to knack and go but if you are looking at a future
1 month too small

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by studentofTruth: 8:25pm On Oct 10, 2021

fvck:
So I met this lady and within a month I decided to tell her I'm going to see her Dad,and wants to settle with her, I said I was tired of the delays and search, she was all loving and nice, till one faithful afternoon she called to say she isn't in, cos she doesn't feel same way.

Me I jejely calm down and felt maybe she's playing a game not to look too cheap.

She even suggested we become friends...

Did I bring up the marriage matter too fast?

Women and confusion eeh. I could remember that year during nysc it's Ozy baby begging me to come and see her dad in less than a month of meeting her. I was trying to calm her down that's it's too early for that, na serious quarrel enter oh.

It's later I realized that she's already engaged to someone whom the father liked, but according to her, she never liked the guy. Last, last, I japa; I hate civil war!

I wouldn't blame her though. She saw a good looking young doctor she felt could change her father's mind.

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Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by Biglittlelois(f): 8:30pm On Oct 10, 2021

Homeboiy:
These girls are confused

They don’t know what they want

Use your thinking faculty and know when to criticise and generalize, don't always follow bandwagon meaninglessly just to feel among, even your fellow men here see that Op is wrong, most anyway.

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Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by Biglittlelois(f): 8:32pm On Oct 10, 2021

vickydevoka:

If u get money get. U fit marry 3 days. Jus go village during festive period. Finish

There are rich guys around, have you heard of any that got married within 3 days?

The way some of you reason ehn undecided

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Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by eallstar: 8:35pm On Oct 10, 2021

DanteSilva:
You don't even know somebody well you want to marry her, 2 months after wedding you'll come to nairaland looking for advice.

Or even 2 weeks

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by seyz91(m): 8:35pm On Oct 10, 2021

IceColdVeins:
Moral Lesson: Have Money before you propose.

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by Prayfortheworld: 8:38pm On Oct 10, 2021

That girl get sense
We men our mumu no dey ever do?
Kai!!

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Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by Tos87(m): 8:39pm On Oct 10, 2021

Belafonte:
You really wanted to marry a Nigerian woman after just one month of meeting her? Amazing

You better go do Thanksgiving for the second chance you've been given to not derail your destiny. Secondly go and visit your parents with serious gifts; their prayers are truly effective in your life.

Werey see yansh he say the girl dey loving.

As in ehh...his mum must be a warrior in prayer.

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by Nobody: 8:40pm On Oct 10, 2021

op see yellow big yansh him no know when he take propose

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by fineboynl(m): 8:42pm On Oct 10, 2021

she realized you are too fast and wanted to take things slowly. She fear that so many things might be at stake.

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by DALISENT: 8:45pm On Oct 10, 2021

Omo guy, u b James bond o...

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by enemyofprogress: 8:46pm On Oct 10, 2021

It would end in premium tears like that of Olunmercy56

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by ENIGMATIC2023(m): 8:51pm On Oct 10, 2021

You are desperate for marriage. Marriage is more delicate than a PhD theses. Calm down and search well.

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by MummyD2020(f): 8:51pm On Oct 10, 2021

fvck:
So I met this lady and within a month I decided to tell her I'm going to see her Dad,and wants to settle with her, I said I was tired of the delays and search, she was all loving and nice, till one faithful afternoon she called to say she isn't in, cos she doesn't feel same way.

Me I jejely calm down and felt maybe she's playing a game not to look too cheap.

She even suggested we become friends...

Did I bring up the marriage matter too fast?

Yes 1 month may be too short to propose but remember that many people esp our parents got married based on love at first sight. So its still possible. Sometimes when i look at things like this, its so mysterious. Some people date for may years but don't succeed in marriage. While some date for shorter period of time but succeed. Life is full of events that cant be explained.

I can never forget a newspaper i read a long time ago. The couple was celebrating some years in marriage and they said they concluded to get married in less than a week. It takes courage to pull that stunt.

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Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by Mypeople2(m): 8:52pm On Oct 10, 2021

fvck:
So I met this lady and within a month I decided to tell her I'm going to see her Dad,and wants to settle with her, I said I was tired of the delays and search, she was all loving and nice, till one faithful afternoon she called to say she isn't in, cos she doesn't feel same way.

Me I jejely calm down and felt maybe she's playing a game not to look too cheap.

She even suggested we become friends...

Did I bring up the marriage matter too fast?

Where are you rushing to? Later you will come here and start complaining

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by lereinter(m): 8:52pm On Oct 10, 2021

Mvena:
Please am in dire need of 8k to complete my school fees. Please anyone should help me with anything. 0096149291 union bank.. Hindan mvena alicia. God bless

How much have you gotten

I can give you 2 sure odds wey you go use am play

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by playfrank(m): 8:55pm On Oct 10, 2021

The guy na russian grin

Patented:

Within 1 month!!.….4 week's.....30 days... over rush dey worry you

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by Mvena(f): 8:55pm On Oct 10, 2021

lereinter:

How much have you gotten

I can give you 2 sure odds wey you go use am play

Please am not in the mood for jokes right now. You can play your game, thank you.

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by descarado: 8:56pm On Oct 10, 2021

bestman09:

I don't know where this borrowed custom and tradition is taking us to. I'm married for over 20 years now with 2 of my children in the university.

I met my wife and proposed to her in less than 2 weeks in 1999 and today we are still together. Some people spent years courting and the marriage never lasted. My parents marriage was over 50 years before they went to be with the Lord and they didn't court for a week before getting married.

Courting doesn't guarantee a successful marriage.

@Op, look for a serious lady and leave kids alone

Some guys will meet a lady and go straight to proposal after observing her from afar.
So many marriages have been contracted this way

Lol at leave kids alone cheesy

You dey vex o

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Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by Thereishel: 9:00pm On Oct 10, 2021

She should be scared thinking you're a Yahoo Yahoo plus who want to use her for ritual under pretense of marriage

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by Dextre(m): 9:00pm On Oct 10, 2021

fvck:
So I met this lady and within a month I decided to tell her I'm going to see her Dad,and wants to settle with her, I said I was tired of the delays and search, she was all loving and nice, till one faithful afternoon she called to say she isn't in, cos she doesn't feel same way.

Me I jejely calm down and felt maybe she's playing a game not to look too cheap.

She even suggested we become friends...

Did I bring up the marriage matter too fast?

Nor be juju be dis, 1 month?

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by omoadeleye(m): 9:06pm On Oct 10, 2021

fvck:
So I met this lady and within a month I decided to tell her I'm going to see her Dad,and wants to settle with her, I said I was tired of the delays and search, she was all loving and nice, till one faithful afternoon she called to say she isn't in, cos she doesn't feel same way.

Me I jejely calm down and felt maybe she's playing a game not to look too cheap.

She even suggested we become friends...

Did I bring up the marriage matter too fast?

Is like you are desperate.

Is it that you know that you are about to die, that you need to make family on time so that you won't earth without having a child ba

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Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by jaxxy(m): 9:07pm On Oct 10, 2021

fvck:
So I met this lady and within a month I decided to tell her I'm going to see her Dad,and wants to settle with her, I said I was tired of the delays and search, she was all loving and nice, till one faithful afternoon she called to say she isn't in, cos she doesn't feel same way.

Me I jejely calm down and felt maybe she's playing a game not to look too cheap.

She even suggested we become friends...

Did I bring up the marriage matter too fast?

Yes she sees u as desperate. What u did only works if the person is at thesame state or mindset as u.

In this case even if it was a Davido that did same thing she will run or be scared cos it’s too fast for her.

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Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by LegendaryArnold(m): 9:07pm On Oct 10, 2021

fvck:
So I met this lady and within a month I decided to tell her I'm going to see her Dad,and wants to settle with her, I said I was tired of the delays and search, she was all loving and nice, till one faithful afternoon she called to say she isn't in, cos she doesn't feel same way.

Me I jejely calm down and felt maybe she's playing a game not to look too cheap.

She even suggested we become friends...

Did I bring up the marriage matter too fast?

share her picture make we see if she worth am

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by obowunmi(m): 9:09pm On Oct 10, 2021

fvck:
So I met this lady and within a month I decided to tell her I'm going to see her Dad,and wants to settle with her, I said I was tired of the delays and search, she was all loving and nice, till one faithful afternoon she called to say she isn't in, cos she doesn't feel same way.

Me I jejely calm down and felt maybe she's playing a game not to look too cheap.

She even suggested we become friends...

Did I bring up the marriage matter too fast?

How do you even marry someone you don’t know ?!?!

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by Nobody: 9:11pm On Oct 10, 2021

fvck:
So I met this lady and within a month I decided to tell her I'm going to see her Dad,and wants to settle with her, I said I was tired of the delays and search, she was all loving and nice, till one faithful afternoon she called to say she isn't in, cos she doesn't feel same way.

Me I jejely calm down and felt maybe she's playing a game not to look too cheap.

She even suggested we become friends...

Did I bring up the marriage matter too fast?

It's a major turn off. And by looking at your moniker,she must have figured you want to get married because you are sex starved.

I pray she breaks up with you so you can re-evaluate your priorities and find what to do with yourself. You are not ready.

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Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by vickydevoka(m): 9:11pm On Oct 10, 2021

Biglittlelois:

There are rich guys around, have you heard of any that got married within 3 days?

The way some of you reason ehn

Na Igbo people de go village Marry during festive period. Even my neighbor go carry wife come back after December. Lol

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Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by Funite(f): 9:11pm On Oct 10, 2021

Maybe she isn't sure of you
And want too know you well before going into unending married ��

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by ednut1(m): 9:14pm On Oct 10, 2021

Lol

Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by 2kurupt(m): 9:22pm On Oct 10, 2021

Maybe you no too hold bar (No offence) or she feels that way. Most ladies are open to settling down with the man who is ready financially.

Don't beat yourself up, you'll get someone even better

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