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Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by petra1(op): 8:46am On Oct 08, 2021
Maestro21:
They will always study themselves into confusion as the exhibit you are replying has shown.
Study to show thyself approved
vs
Study to show thyself confused

grin grin grin
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by Maestro21: 3:02pm On Oct 10, 2021
achorladey:
That one that will tell you using one side his mouth that the name Christian is bastardized and cursed by Jehovah the reason Jehovah changed and gave him and the organization he belongs another name aka Jehovah’s witnesses in 1931

Then using the other side of his mouth, he will still be calling himself and the organization he belongs as the only true Christians grin grin

That backward and forward thinking at the same time.
You have the best answers for them. They always seem to dread replying you. lol
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by Maestro21: 3:04pm On Oct 10, 2021
KNOWMORE56:
A

Petra1 you've made me to begin to like this man's sermons...

A lot of things are said against him, but many of his sermons are not bad...

except for few which I'm not comfortable with, e.g masturbation, spirit husband/wife,...

Well, may God help him to fulfill his area of calling.... and help me run my race to the end, in Jesus name, amen!
Always make sure you listened to a full audio or video on anything they claim he said. Make sure to listen very well or else they will mislead you. There are a lot of things he has been accused of saying that he did not say.
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by MaxInDHouse(m): 5:25pm On Oct 10, 2021
Maestro21:
You have the best answers for them. They always seem to dread replying you. lol
He is the one who is crying up and down seeking a reply from us but the spirit has told us not to reply his type! Luke 16:24-26; Romans 16:17; 2John 1:10-11

That's why we avoid him like a plague! smiley
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by KNOWMORE56: 5:31pm On Oct 10, 2021
Maestro21:
Always make sure you listened to a full audio or video on anything they claim he said. Make sure to listen very well or else they will mislead you. There are a lot of things he has been accused of saying that he did not say.
It's ok. I will do as you've said.

By the way, what is he saying about his marriage. Does he intend to remarry or not.

I've been trying to understand how he copes with his sex life since the devoice...
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by petra1(op): 8:29pm On Oct 10, 2021
KNOWMORE56:
It's ok. I will do as you've said.

By the way, what is he saying about his marriage. Does he intend to remarry or not.
It depends on Gods plan . but for now He still wears his ring

I've been trying to understand how he copes with his sex life since the devoice...
Sex aint everything. He copes with it thw way Jesus and Paul cope with theirs
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by MaxInDHouse(m): 8:37pm On Oct 10, 2021
petra1:
It depends on Gods plan . but for now He still wears his ring
Sex aint everything. He copes with it thw way Jesus and Paul cope with theirs
Chris is a masturbator which is the reason why the woman feels cheated, so he's not coping rather he's committing homosexual acts! undecided
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by Maestro21: 2:19am On Oct 11, 2021
KNOWMORE56:
It's ok. I will do as you've said.
For e.g here is what he said about mast.ur.bation

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JF_f4eTWxLg&list=LL&index=125

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Mc8LLDKK4o&list=LL&index=114
If you compare it to what they claim he said you will see the staggering differences. Besides, if you hear any part of it that needs explaining, I am sure petra1 or myself etc. will be able to answer the questions with more bible verses. These 2 videos were done in 2011 or earlier (so that people will not claim he tried to "correct" himself later). He has been consistent and fearless in his teachings from the bible.
By the way, what is he saying about his marriage. Does he intend to remarry or not.
He does not talk about his marriage but the only time I heard him say something about this, he said it during the "heat" of the crisis. He said he had been praying to God and God kept telling him "time and patience" and he knew that whenever God says so, it means it will take time and he will need to be patient but that it will still be resolved. I believe that since faith is the way human spirits respond to God's word, he is responding the same way by wearing his ring as a sign that nothing has changed and that God will restore his marriage like he had said he will. Till then, he is 1000% focused on his ministry and nothing else. Marriage can be a distraction for some people.
I've been trying to understand how he copes with his sex life since the divorce
Paul said some people are born eunuchs while others where made so. The point is, some people have that special grace.
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by petra1(op): 5:13am On Oct 11, 2021
MaxInDHouse:
Chris is a masturbator which is the reason why the woman feels cheated, so he's not coping rather he's committing homosexual acts! undecided
You were there and you saw him do these things he preached against?

Pro 14:5 — Pro 14:6
5 A faithful witness will not lie:
but a false witness will utter lies.
6 A scorner seeketh wisdom, and findeth it not:
but knowledge is easy unto him that understandeth.
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by MaxInDHouse(m): 7:41am On Oct 11, 2021
petra1:
You were there and you saw him do these things he preached against?
Pro 14:5 — Pro 14:6
5 A faithful witness will not lie:
but a false witness will utter lies.
6 A scorner seeketh wisdom, and findeth it not:
but knowledge is easy unto him that understandeth.
Guy, when people say what is in their hearts and you an admirer try to polish and refine it the result will speak louder than words.
If Chris truly is not a masturbator nothing can separate a handsome, eloquent, rich, well behaved, celebrity from any woman.
Stop deceiving yourselves Chris has gotten all what every woman out there wants and to crown it all himself and the wife had children meaning they are productive so the only thing that could cause a breakup is infidelity and since Chris is not the complainant here but the woman that will make all right thinking persons revisit the man's comment on MASTURBATION. So you can continue to rephrase his comments the result has cleared it up! undecided
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by petra1(op): 9:21am On Oct 11, 2021
MaxInDHouse:
If Chris truly is not a masturbator nothing can separate a handsome, eloquent, rich, well behaved, celebrity from any woman.
Envy dey smell.

Titus 1:15
15 Unto the pure all things are pure: but unto them that are defiled and unbelieving is nothing pure; but even their mind and conscience is defiled.
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by MaxInDHouse(m): 11:18am On Oct 11, 2021
petra1:
Envy dey smell.

Titus 1:15
15 Unto the pure all things are pure: but unto them that are defiled and unbelieving is nothing pure; but even their mind and conscience is defiled.
Keep deceiving yourself, i'm not doubting his ability to teach other aspects but as for marriage Chris is a complete failure! smiley
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by petra1(op): 11:46am On Oct 11, 2021
MaxInDHouse:
Keep deceiving yourself, i'm not doubting his ability to teach other aspects but as for marriage Chris is a complete failure! smiley
its your JW Doctrine that has failed bible test. a Divorced person sometimes has better advice for upcoming couple. Thats in the natural. but Spiritually a pastor teach the word by the spirit. regardless of statis . Single , Married or divorced. Your marriage and love affair is your cup of coffee
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by MaxInDHouse(m): 11:52am On Oct 11, 2021
petra1:
its your JW Doctrine that has failed bible test. a Divorced person sometimes has better advice for upcoming couple. Thats in the natural. but Spiritually a pastor teach the word by the spirit. regardless of statis . Single , Married or divorced. Your marriage and love affair is your cup of coffee
Nobody will employ a driver that just had an accident, Chris is NOT QUALIFIED to teach on marital issues because he failed in his own marriage! smiley
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by petra1(op): 3:20pm On Oct 11, 2021
MaxInDHouse:
Nobody will employ a driver that just had an accident, Chris is NOT QUALIFIED to teach on marital issues because he failed in his own marriage! smiley
according to you Jesus is neither qualified to teach on Marriage. He doesn't even have drivers licence . as Pastor Chris did . neither was Paul qualified to have a license .
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by MaxInDHouse(m): 3:48pm On Oct 11, 2021
petra1:
according to you Jesus is neither qualified to teach on Marriage. He doesn't even have drivers licence . as Pastor Chris did . neither was Paul qualified to have a license .
My friend i'm not disputing that you've chosen Chris to be your spiritual father, that's your own cup of coffee! 2Timothy 4:3-4
But know today that Jesus and Paul chose to be eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven {Matthew 19:12} so they are both qualified to teach on marriage {Matthew 19:3-11 compare to {1Corinthians 7:1-7} but Chris got married and failed woefully to keep his marital vows, so he is not qualified to teach about marriage! undecided
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by petra1(op): 6:15pm On Oct 11, 2021
MaxInDHouse:
My friend i'm not disputing that you've chosen Chris to be your spiritual father, that's your own cup of coffee! 2Timothy 4:3-4
But know today that Jesus and Paul chose to be eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven {Matthew 19:12} so they are both qualified to teach on marriage {Matthew 19:3-11 compare to {1Corinthians 7:1-7} but Chris got married and failed woefully to keep his marital vows, so he is not qualified to teach about marriage! undecided
Jesus didnt have drivers lincence. Do you employ a driver without license?
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by achorladey: 8:12pm On Oct 11, 2021
Maestro21:
You have the best answers for them. They always seem to dread replying you. lol
MaxInDHouse purposely place embargo on himself not to respond to me. He knows the consequences of replying my post had resulted in him going as far as denying his DARLING JEHOVAH grin
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by achorladey: 8:20pm On Oct 11, 2021
MaxInDHouse:
He is the one who is crying up and down seeking a reply from us but the spirit has told us not to reply his type! Luke 16:24-26; Romans 16:17; 2John 1:10-11

That's why we avoid him like a plague! smiley
What are you doing now? grin

Crying or smiling up and down grin

Awon apostate alerter grin

Why don't you use the apostate alert here? Oh the people here are not apostates or they dance to the beat of your teachings

Scriptures wey you no fit explain na him you go dey cite. Jesus too dey cause DIVISIONS, is he an APOSTATE? grin grin
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by achorladey: 8:27pm On Oct 11, 2021
MaxInDHouse:
Nobody will employ a driver that just had an accident, Chris is NOT QUALIFIED to teach on marital issues because he failed in his own marriage! smiley
But people like you will employ a driver Z that just made another driver Y commit accident since driver Z did not have accident grin
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by achorladey:
petra1:
You were there and you saw him do these things he preached against?

Pro 14:5 — Pro 14:6
5 A faithful witness will not lie:
but a false witness will utter lies.
6 A scorner seeketh wisdom, and findeth it not:
but knowledge is easy unto him that understandeth.
What do you expect from an individual that says fellow members even in the congregation he attends are HYPOCRITES and goes to their meetings looking at members with a SUSPICIOUS mind grin grin grin

You bet he must have looked upon many as CHRONIC masturbators and classed them as HYPOCRITES for nothing coming forward to tell he and his fellow colleagues involved in the business of judging fellow members.
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by MaxInDHouse(m): 9:02pm On Oct 11, 2021
petra1:
Jesus didnt have drivers lincence. Do you employ a driver without license?
There was no automobile in Jesus' day rather the means of transportation back then was animals like horses and donkeys. For Jesus to have ride a donkey shows he must be able to drive if he lives in our day, but he never seek a job so he doesn't need to be employed by anyone! smiley
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by petra1(op): 4:30am On Oct 12, 2021
MaxInDHouse:
There was no automobile in Jesus'
No nah we are towing your line together.

You said a man whose wife divorced him can not teach the word of God on marriage. Its like employing a driver who had had accident .

I said jesus never married means jesus never had driving license. Then jesus shouldn't teach on marriage neither Paul according to your illustration
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by MaxInDHouse(m): 5:55am On Oct 12, 2021
petra1:
No nah we are towing your line together.

You said a man whose wife divorced him can not teach the word of God on marriage. Its like employing a driver who had had accident .

I said jesus never married means jesus never had driving license. Then jesus shouldn't teach on marriage neither Paul according to your illustration
I'm not responding to your friend because he's an Apostate, based on the information we get such persons are mentally unbalanced and i've confirmed that in his comments.
So Jesus and Paul never got married because they don't want anything of this world to cause a distraction for them. Chris got married maybe due to his love for things of the world but he couldn't strike a balance so his marriage collapsed therefore he is NOT QUALIFIED TO COUNSEL others about marriage life!
If you ask me a million times i will continue to tell you what God's word says, Solomon is the one and only Bible writer FULLY QUALIFIED TO TEACH about the vanity of worldly riches {Ecclesiastes 5:10} do you know why our God arranged it that way?
Well it's because Solomon is the wealthiest servant of Jehovah who ever lived on this planet, even Jesus confirmed that! Matthew 6:29
So Solomon had all that money can buy yet he said "all is vanity" {Ecclesiastes 1:2} because he was rich. In the same manner if Chris wants to counsel others about marriage he should have been successful in his own, charity they say begins at home! smiley
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by petra1(op):
MaxInDHouse:
he is NOT QUALIFIED TO COUNSEL others about marriage life!
If you ask me a million times i will continue to tell you what God's word says
The word of God didn't say such.
You dont have to be a world champion to train others to be world champions. Human sense dont make bible sense

Solomon is the one and only Bible writer FULLY QUALIFIED TO TEACH about the vanity of worldly riches {Ecclesiastes 5:10} do you know why our God arranged it that way?
Well it's because Solomon is the wealthiest servant of Jehovah who ever lived on this planet, even Jesus confirmed that! Matthew 6:29
So Solomon had all that money can buy yet he said "all is vanity" {Ecclesiastes 1:2} because he was rich.
All your illustrations are erroneous. Solomon your teacher ended up as apostate.

1 Kings 11:4
4 For it came to pass, when Solomon was old, that his wives turned away his heart after other gods: and his heart was not perfect with the LORD his God, as was the heart of David his father
.

In the same manner if Chris wants to counsel others about marriage he should have been successful in his own, charity they say begins at home! smiley
You you don't have to be a world boxing champion to raise boxing champion. coaches teach principles. Pastors teaches principles .
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by MaxInDHouse(m): 8:46am On Oct 12, 2021
petra1:
The word of God didn't say such.
You dont have to be a world champion to train others to be world champions. Human sense dont make bible sense
No sane human will employ a looser to train his child how to win! wink

All your illustrations are erroneous. Solomon your teacher ended up as apotate.
Solomon is not a teacher on faithfulness to God Sir! cheesy

You you don't have to be a world boxing champion to raise boxing champion. coaches teach principles. Pastors teaches principles .
Chris can't teach the principles regarding marriage Sir because in that field he himself failed woefully! grin
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by KNOWMORE56: 8:50am On Oct 12, 2021
Maestro21:
For e.g here is what he said about mast.ur.bation

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JF_f4eTWxLg&list=LL&index=125

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Mc8LLDKK4o&list=LL&index=114
If you compare it to what they claim he said you will see the staggering differences. Besides, if you hear any part of it that needs explaining, I am sure petra1 or myself etc. will be able to answer the questions with more bible verses. These 2 videos were done in 2011 or earlier (so that people will not claim he tried to "correct" himself later). He has been consistent and fearless in his teachings from the bible.

He does not talk about his marriage but the only time I heard him say something about this, he said it during the "heat" of the crisis. He said he had been praying to God and God kept telling him "time and patience" and he knew that whenever God says so, it means it will take time and he will need to be patient but that it will still be resolved. I believe that since faith is the way human spirits respond to God's word, he is responding the same way by wearing his ring as a sign that nothing has changed and that God will restore his marriage like he had said he will. Till then, he is 1000% focused on his ministry and nothing else. Marriage can be a distraction for some people.

Paul said some people are born eunuchs while others where made so. The point is, some people have that special grace.
It's ok, I grateful for your replies
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by petra1(op): 8:51am On Oct 12, 2021
achorladey:
What do you expect from an individual that says fellow members even in the congregation he attends are HYPOCRITES and goes to their meetings looking at members with a SUSPICIOUS mind grin grin grin
That means its a personality issue. A critical mindset
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by MaxInDHouse(m): 9:29am On Oct 12, 2021
petra1:
That means its a personality issue. A critical mindset
Your friend is an Apostate who often rephrase people's comments just to slander them.
This is the comment he Interpreted erroneously:

"The one and only group practicing what Jesus taught is JEHOVAH'S WITNESSES Organization, so nobody outside that group can be saved when our own Jesus returns. But there are many who fellowship with us yet not ready to fully practice what we were taught, such ones will definitely not enter into the Kingdom of our God" ~ Maximus

"Exert yourselves vigorously to get in through the narrow door, because many, I tell you, will seek to get in but will not be able" Luke 13:24

The illustration shows that those Jesus is referring to here were at the door (in the right place) they knew that this door is the only way to salvation, that's why they're standing at the door. But they failed to enter because they're not ready to exert themselves just as Jesus said! smiley
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by achorladey:
MaxInDHouse:
Your friend is an Apostate who often rephrase people's comments just to slander them.
This is the comment he Interpreted erroneously:

"The one and only group practicing what Jesus taught is JEHOVAH'S WITNESSES Organization, so nobody outside that group can be saved when our own Jesus returns. But there are many who fellowship with us yet not ready to fully practice what we were taught, such ones will definitely not enter into the Kingdom of our God" ~ Maximus

"Exert yourselves vigorously to get in through the narrow door, because many, I tell you, will seek to get in but will not be able" Luke 13:24

The illustration shows that those Jesus is referring to here were at the door (in the right place) they knew that this door is the only way to salvation, that's why they're standing at the door. But they failed to enter because they're not ready to exert themselves just as Jesus said! smiley
Your friend is an Apostate who often rephrase people's comments just to slander them.... MaxInDHouse

Define Apostasy from any of your publications and I will show you what apostasy really means. Like someone told you previously on this platform, when you see APOSTASY you don't really know what it is grin grin. What you know is to ATTACH, tag APOSTATE and APOSTATE ALERT to people that don't dance to the tune of your religious leaders who are the Guardians Of your Doctrines = GOD.

This is the comment he Interpreted erroneously...... MaxInDHouse

This comment you posted is on this thread abi? Don't worry I will interprete this one too below to see how you will keep denying your own words typed and posted boldly here paapaa grin grin

Those you call HYPOCRITES and look with suspicion do they include leading members within your midst? grin grin

The one and only group practicing what Jesus taught is JEHOVAH'S WITNESSES Organization, so nobody outside that group can be saved when our own Jesus returns.... MaxInDHouse

This will include members and I repeat baptized members who you look with suspicious eyes and call HYPOCRITES grin grin


But there are many who fellowship with us yet not ready to fully practice what we were taught, such ones will definitely not enter into the Kingdom of our God" ~ Maximus

Do you look these ones with suspicious eyes and call them HYPOCRITES? On what basis will you need to see them as HYPOCRITES since they are at not even a bonafide member of the group to be at the door in the first place? grin grin

Respond let me see the meaning of slander grin grin If you understand the length and breadth of the word slander you won't be saying I slander you because I caught you clean clear saying and discussing this with your fellow brother here that your fellow members in your midst are HYPOCRITES and you look them with suspicion eyes even at your meetings. That is what you cannot deny. grin grin

Bring out my post where I slander people by rephrasing their posts grin

So Jesus said again: “Most truly I say to you, I am the door for the sheep.+

I am the door; whoever enters through me will be saved, and that one will go in and out and find pasturage.


The illustration shows that those Jesus is referring to here were at the door (in the right place) they knew that this door is the only way to salvation, that's why they're standing at the door. But they failed to enter because they're not ready to exert themselves just as Jesus said.... MaxInDHouse

Compare the scripture above to the what you typed up there. Your organisation is the right place which is the door grin grin but Jesus himself is the door not an organization set up by men in the late 1800 grin grin Do I need to tell you that and is that a slander to you and the organization you belong?

Or is saying the organization you belong were set up by men also slandering
? grin grin
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by achorladey: 7:11pm On Oct 12, 2021
petra1:
That means its a personality issue. A critical mindset
Abi, they love criticising others and when others do so by scrutinizing their beliefs and teachings they start calling such ones DEMONS, DEVIL enemy of the goodnews of Christ, mad, insane, asiere e.t.c and you see them saying they are being slandered.

This same MaxInDHouse will go as far as calling someone one mad with no remorse, but when others call him mad, the next scripture you see him jump to is where they call JESUS mad so that he can equate himself as Jesus true disciple.

Na personality palaver grin grin
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by achorladey: 8:09pm On Oct 12, 2021
MaxInDHouse:
No sane human will employ a looser to train his child how to win! wink


Solomon is not a teacher on faithfulness to God Sir! cheesy


Chris can't teach the principles regarding marriage Sir because in that field he himself failed woefully! grin
No sane human will employ a looser to train his child how to win........ MaxInDHouse.

Since Bible example don tire you and you can't counter them, let us give other areas of life grin grin

1. This one no even sabi play football grin

Before he was known as “The Special One,” Jose Mourinho was a struggling footballer trying to follow in his father's footsteps. After playing several seasons under his father with stops at Rio Ave and Belenenses, Mourinho understood he was lacking the skill and pace to become an elite footballer and dedicated himself to management. After studying sports science at the Technical University of Lisbon, he became the manager of Benfica. From there, he became a household name. After winning the Champions League with Porto and then moving to Chelsea, he helped build the club into European giants. From 2003 to 2012, Mourinho managed to win a trophy in every season, including eight domestic titles and another Champions League crown. While he may have struggled at times in his second stint with Chelsea, his status as one of the world's best managers has never been in doubt.


This one even sabi play but na terrible coach grin grin

2. DIEGO MARADONA

Diego Maradona is arguably the best player to ever grace a football field following a glittering career for both club and country.

The controversial attacker led Napoli to two Scudetti and a Uefa Cup during his time in Italy and is still considered a hero by the Partenopei faithful. He is equally adored in Argentina after leading the Albiceleste to World Cup glory in 1986.

However, the diminutive dynamo has not been able to celebrate any kind of success as a manager after his amateur tactics were exposed in the 4-0 drubbing at the hands of Germany when he was in charge of Argentina in the 2010 World Cup.

After his departure from the national team, Maradona tried his luck in the United Arab Emirates with Al Wasl but once again the 51-year-old was unable to produce enough satisfying results and was sacked earlier this week.

Solomon is not a teacher on faithfulness to God Sir..... MaxInDHouse

No wonder you love reading Proverbs 4:18 grin grin grin

But the path of the righteous is like the bright morning light. That grows brighter and brighter until full daylight

Chris can't teach the principles regarding marriage Sir because in that field he himself failed woefully

Who will you choose as your coach

JOSE MOURINHO or MARADONA grin grin
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