Is there a rule that says you can't marry your sister's fiance junior sister ?
bro if truly u love her and she loves u ............bobo go for it
Besides na your sister dy marry her brother which hasn't made u guys family tbh

heendrix:
I and her have always been this close buddy since my first day in secondary school and along the line, one thing led to another that she had to leave the school cuz the family relocated to another state. this broke me and I felt sad cuz she was this good gentle girl that always care so much bout me.

After some years, we reconnected on FB and just like a dream how we felt for each other never change. she wasn't forming, we still chat till late night. we later loosed contact and some way life still connected us after a while and we just couldn't hide our feelings for each other that we opened up on how we've always felt Since those JSS 1 days so we got dating and tbh she's just that damsel. never giving trouble, understanding and still her gentle self and now my sis is bout ruining it for us both as her elder brother is actually my sister's fiancee who are expecting to get married next year.

tbh folks I can't cut short this relationship cuz of this. what will happen if two siblings marry from same families?? is it really a taboo?? aswear it's just doing me like a movie anytime I get to think of it. I'm just kinda sad atm what do i do??

PS; We're both final year students of a 5years course in two different uni

Tales by the moonlight.

You and your sister no see any other family in this whole world to fall in love with except hers?

Nonsense.

virginprincess:
Dude you better live that girl alone and face your studies, and allow your sister get married to her brother, it not right for two siblings to marry from the same family.

What's wrong about it?

eddyroyal:

Your sister is selfish.
Since she's of the opinion that two siblings can't marry from the same family, let her let go of the girl's brother so you can marry the girl.

Somebody finally hits it.
What makes your sister think it's traditionally wrong for both of you to marry from the same family
Get that notion out of her head. That's your first herculean task
Shalom!

@heendrix: Guy, I feel your pain. But shyt happens. If you can't be with her, trust me when I say there are many fishes in the ocean. Don't sweat it bro, in case things don't work out between you and her.

heendrix:
I and her have always been this close buddy since my first day in secondary school and along the line, one thing led to another that she had to leave the school cuz the family relocated to another state. this broke me and I felt sad cuz she was this good gentle girl that always care so much bout me.

After some years, we reconnected on FB and just like a dream how we felt for each other never change. she wasn't forming, we still chat till late night. we later loosed contact and some way life still connected us after a while and we just couldn't hide our feelings for each other that we opened up on how we've always felt Since those JSS 1 days so we got dating and tbh she's just that damsel. never giving trouble, understanding and still her gentle self and now my sis is bout ruining it for us both as her elder brother is actually my sister's fiancee who are expecting to get married next year.

tbh folks I can't cut short this relationship cuz of this. what will happen if two siblings marry from same families?? is it really a taboo?? aswear it's just doing me like a movie anytime I get to think of it. I'm just kinda sad atm what do i do??

PS; We're both final year students of a 5years course in two different uni

If identical twins can go ahead to marry another identical twins, then it shouldn’t be a taboo for brothers to marry two sisters in another family.

Guy there is nothing wrong in getting married to here.

Sonnobax15:
. Op, you're even wicked to even think and had the courage to tell her to look for another guy . For this life wey both husband and wife Material don dey hard to find . Why you wicked?

Make Them do swap na

Leviticus 18 vs 6 to 30

if u see any there don't marry her again but if you don't see marry her and FCK her jealously...

heendrix:
I and her...

I don't understand why you're freaking out. There's no problem with siblings marrying from the same family. So why are you making a big deal out of this?

Abeg where did this idea that it's a taboo for siblings from one family to marry siblings from another family come from?

As long as it's not the same bloodline there's nothing wrong with it.

My dad and his younger brother (same father & mother), married my mom and her half sister (same father, different mother's) respectively.

And they were all from the same village, but different kindreds and families.

pek:
What's wrong about it?

in majority of igboland they don't allow that, once you're related to someone through marriage you become one family

Till date am still searching everywr and anywr to see where it was written that two siblings cannot marry from same family? African and shallow mentality reason we're so backward in almost everything. Guy if you like the girl mke Una dey your sist can go and marry wen u don ready you too can marry her

heendrix:
I and her have always been this close buddy since my first day in secondary school and along the line, one thing led to another that she had to leave the school cuz the family relocated to another state. this broke me and I felt sad cuz she was this good gentle girl that always care so much bout me.

After some years, we reconnected on FB and just like a dream how we felt for each other never change. she wasn't forming, we still chat till late night. we later loosed contact and some way life still connected us after a while and we just couldn't hide our feelings for each other that we opened up on how we've always felt Since those JSS 1 days so we got dating and tbh she's just that damsel. never giving trouble, understanding and still her gentle self and now my sis is bout ruining it for us both as her elder brother is actually my sister's fiancee who are expecting to get married next year.

tbh folks I can't cut short this relationship cuz of this. what will happen if two siblings marry from same families?? is it really a taboo?? aswear it's just doing me like a movie anytime I get to think of it. I'm just kinda sad atm what do i do??

PS; We're both final year students of a 5years course in two different uni

Nothing is wrong with it, you can still marry her if you love her enough to do so, after all twins men still marry twins women, so why not. Don't let anyone spoil your happiness.




I will also add, when you eventually marry her, try your best to stay away from your sister, and she too her brother, stay in different locations, just to avoid siblings rivary and problems that they may want to create, so that respect will be there for you and her from them.

Op you be baba NLA awon werey, make your sister that's set for marriage leave her fiance for you that's still studying?


so all the fúck the guy have fúcked her, who will returned it back? make another man take the leftover pussy? werey boy

How is marrying from the same family a crime? Lol op you need to see the british monarchy.

heendrix:


Told my sis bout us and she's like how would it feel marrying from same families, even begged her to look for another guy but she's not listening to me

If you are really serious with this then you are not supposed to receive serious replies,
For the records, there is absolutely nothing wrong if your sis marry her brother and you marry her, if anything, it brings the two families even closer. So what's the ish here?

heendrix:


Told my sis bout us and she's like how would it feel marrying from same families, even begged her to look for another guy but she's not listening to me

Bro it's not a taboo.. you're not related by blood continue your relationship don't mind her..

Get her pregnant

Heh, at first I thought you were going to say that you found out she is your elder brother's fiancee or something

Normal things now, just keep dating... will you be the first man to chop your sister-in-law?
At least in this case you were dating before she became in-laws

virginprincess:
Dude you better live that girl alone and face your studies, and allow your sister get married to her brother, it not right for two siblings to marry from the same family.

What is wrong with two siblings marrying into the same family? They will be related by law and not by blood since they are not genetically linked

I don confirm am with this thread. My suspicion has been confirmed. Na small inexperienced children naim dey comment for nairaland pass.
This is not even a topic worth commenting on sef, because nothing dey to talk about.
Its like coming online to ask if eating with spoons is bad or if breathing is bad or if drinking water kills.

Please o, which culture abhors the marriage of in-laws. Please educate me.

And for the OP, dont you have elders around you, uncles, relatives, neighbours, friends that share same tribe/culture with you ??

Some problems even get worse when you bring them online, because alot of people just comment because they were opportune, not because they have any meaningful thing to say.

And lastly, this story might just be clout chasing

heendrix:


Told my sis bout us and she's like how would it feel marrying from same families, even begged her to look for another guy but she's not listening to me

Wehrey nii e.

You want your sis to look for another guy but you can’t look for another lady. You want your sis to leave a relationship leading to the altar next year, so that two university love birds can continue dating.

Back to the topic

There is nothing wrong with siblings marrying from same family. So far they arent blood related.

heendrix:


Told my sis bout us and she's like how would it feel marrying from same families, even begged her to look for another guy but she's not listening to me

You can’t ask her to find someone else. Same way she can’t ask you not to marry this girl.

I think it’s great! It will mean very united family sef and it happens very well.

heendrix:


Told my sis bout us and she's like how would it feel marrying from same families, even begged her to look for another guy but she's not listening to me

What's the problem...

Don't u see twin brothers marrying twim sisters??

Abeg marry your girl...it's not an abomination....

heendrix:


Told my sis bout us and she's like how would it feel marrying from same families, even begged her to look for another guy but she's not listening to me

are you that selfish?

heendrix:
tbh folks I can't cut short this relationship cuz of this. what will happen if two siblings marry from same families?? is it really a taboo?? aswear it's just doing me like a movie anytime I get to think of it. I'm just kinda sad atm what do i do??

PS; We're both final year students of a 5years course in two different uni

Wait, what exactly is wrong with two siblings marrying other siblings? I don't understand what the panic is about?

Where is this taboo defined? In your mind or where?

Damn
Nothing wrong with that