Spending123:


Nah them, ndi religion of piss.

bigot sighted NDI ipob

Kelvinhunta:
Exactly my point! What happened to having a heart to heart discussions with d husband at mid night and tell him ur grievances then watch him apologize trulyfrom his heart and take corrections? or reporting him to elders in d family?all these feminists have destroyed wife values in women and changed them to knives.Exactly y Adams ist wife left and she was replaced with eve

So, she was slapped and so she also had to be the one to try to reason with her attacker?

She was attacked and instead of attacking, she chose to call the cops in to resolve the problem, yet you see that as wrong because her attacker is right no matter what.

Remain chaste and save HIM the PAIN
... Christian don't pay evil with evil!

dollynnn:
Marry a man who respects you,love is not enough!

What exactly are you saying? Gibberish

madness

Angelfrost:
I don't quite get what your issue is here...
If marriage is not sacred, what then is it?!!

Sacred implies it is holy or for a select.... marriage is none of those. It is open and available to any and everyone who chooses it.

all the guys here now will b acting innocent, ahhh heyyy why u slap ur wife.


because he just woke up after three yrs n decided to slap her n she even dey house dey wait for am. lol

Check his name. E get why

Mercychen:
Imagine. You slap someone and expects her to be calm? What a warped mentality.

You're lucky she was civil about it. Or would you have preferred she took the laws into her hands and stabbed you with a knife?

Next time you'll think before you slap.

men fear this one oooooooooooo

Empiree:
do you think the guy has sense?. Many Nigerians, especially nonmuslims are becoming more and more intolerant+ignorance+bigot.

Becoming? Since when? Nigerian have almost always regarded women are second-class citizens, next to property. What you see is not a "becoming".

Prof0fficial:
Remain chaste and save HIM the PAIN
... Christian don't pay evil with evil!

Calling the cops is evil? Are you sure you know God at all?

priscaoge:
She no slap you back? You deserve more than the arrest.

keyboard warrior

house10s:
all the guys here now will b acting innocent, ahhh heyyy why u slap ur wife.

No mind them!

Is that the reason he married her? To slap her. Tomorrow it will turn into beating. He deserves what he got

seunaj:
I don't support domestic violence of any form. I don't believe neither that women should be subjugated in marriage. But you see the wokeness of all these Instagram-woke generation African girls, it has taken away their sense of homeliness. You can't imagine the mental disorderliness in the minds of these good for nothing Instagram influencees that they are calling wokeness! Negative civilization. I can't believe that the girls of this generation have stopped dating, they will just be frustrating you and cheating heavily on you like ogbanje with fraudsters for money. If you catch or suspect them, they will say that you are too domineering. Infact, girls now believe and engage in friends with benefits throughout their prime. When all the virtues and innocence are gone, they will now find a man to retire, with all the mental baggages, spiritual initiations and medical infections. If you are married as of 5 years ago and beyond, my brother, you don't know what God has done for you. Social media have finished the girls. Girls full street but wife scarce than gold.

everything before the but was horseshit. The words after the but is your true message

sammirano3:
A woman without the right approach to such slap is not fit to be married. You dont cross some lines.

I don't understand what you mean by the right approach to such slap.

What line was crossed?

It seems you have feminism or worst misandrist tendencies!

Kobojunkie:
Because he has that hat on, you conclude he must be an aboki?

For crying out loud, what he said is no different from what many of the non-abokis here on nairaland recite each day as an anthem where women are concerned.

Correctional slap?
That's very bad of him. To raise your hand to slap your wife is insane .
However, the woman's option to arrest him is not a good idea for a good woman.

dollynnn:
Marry a man who respects you,love is not enough!

Slapping your wife out of anger is not disrespect

Am not surprise, He is from the Cow side... There brain function like cow brain

Kelvinhunta:
Naija made simp spotted

if not being violent makes me a simp,then I'm a happy simp


If you were actually well parented and didn't come from a dysfunctional family of violence,you will know that violence is not a reasonable way to settle conflicts

All those dirty cultists that have been engaging in violence against each other to prove a lousy point,them don get money pass Dangote?

verybadmouth:
I totally agree with the aboki. Wife material no dey again jooor. Women dey do anyhow now. No more respect for their partners. I definitely will never slap my partner for her wrongs but I wouldn't hesitate to walk away from the marriage when her wahala gets out of hand.
Women, Una own sef don dey too much. Make Una go train Una selves. Abeg

And what makes you think the man slapping his wife is a husband material? Do you reason at all?

Qatar2022:

Slapping your wife out of anger is not disrespect

then what is it?

DMerciful:
It seems you have feminism or worst misandrist tendencies!

Misandrist tendencies?

dollynnn:
Marry a man who respects you,love is not enough!

lolz, it's still part of love, when there is no love, there won't be respect.

Na so e dey startooo...,from 1slap to killing by mistake. Endurance kill you there.

ogbiwa:
I really hide my face in shame for the mere fact that I'm sharing the same air with this person.

Face. Palm.

Yusuf Tarfa @YTaf iya_Jnr:

"I slapped my wife and she had the guts to arrest me with police, because of one correctional slap? I was so surprised when the police stormed my office to arrest me, We have lost wife materials, it's funny how this Woke generation can't endure like our mother's."

"She had me arrested and had the nerves to remain in my house, it's the audacity for me? My father slapped my mom and she never had him arrested, instead she apologize like the good wife she is, then cooked and to wash his clothes. But now it's pathetic that we can't correct them."

"... and I have been happily married for 3years, she had me arrested for slapping her, Lol. I'm done with this shitty marriage."

My father never laid his hands on me,even wen I said the worse, he never stopped pampering me and I'll always be the one to apologize even when I thought he was going to flog me. Any man who lays his hands on me, I'll get him arrested. It's as simple as that. No human deserves to be maltreated

Qatar2022:

Slapping your wife out of anger is not disrespect

What are we saying and what are you saying?

Slapping her is totally wrong but arresting your husband come make am worse... Some women have terrible attitude... If i share my experience all of una go tire.

Testimony1988:
lolz, it's still part of love, when there is no love, there won't be respect.

I do not agree with you

DMerciful:
It seems you have feminism or worst misandrist tendencies!

I wonder why you guys scream feminism and misandry when called out on your bullshit, but refuse to notice the norm on Nairaland.

Did she lie that many NL males have same mentality with that guy? Don’t we see such comments here everyday?

So what exactly is the misandry in bringing it to your notice? Please deal with it or take a second to quote your younger brothers who reinforce such opinions.

Debra911:
My father never laid his hands on me,even wen I said the worse, he never stopped pampering me and I'll always be the one to apologize even when I thought he was going to flog me. Any man who lays his hands on me, I'll get him arrested. It's as simple as that. No human deserves to be maltreated

Then you leave my house for me... Shikena!