theForth:

Perhaps in your thoughts, you're talking to a toddler.

Check your laws and stop being silly.

Oh shut up

You can tell who’s about to say some thing extremely xtupid when they start using the term “wokeness” as of it’s derogatory when their foolishness is pointed out.

seunaj:
I don't support domestic violence of any form. I don't believe neither that women should be subjugated in marriage. But you see the wokeness of all these Instagram-woke generation African girls, it has taken away their sense of homeliness. You can't imagine the mental disorderliness in the minds of these good for nothing Instagram influencees that they are calling wokeness! Negative civilization. I can't believe that the girls of this generation have stopped dating, they will just be frustrating you like Ogbanje, cheating heavily on you with fraudsters, married men and any baga that can pay. If you catch or suspect them, they will say that you are too domineering. Infact, girls now believe and engage in friends with benefits throughout their prime. When all the virtues and innocence are gone, they will now find a man to retire, with all the mental baggages, spiritual initiations and medical infections. If you are married as of 5 years ago and beyond, my brother, you don't know what God has done for you. Social media have finished these girls. Girls full street but wife scarce than gold.

What percentage of them versus the generality of Southern men? Men body shame women? If you tell the truth, you'll know that it's majorly women that body shame women! Different men like different types of female bodies but it's women that put themselves under unnecessary pressure to look more beautiful than they actually are!

Kobojunkie:
Stop lying! So all the southern men who beat their wives and body shame them are all men under 18 years of age?

Your thought is one sided...social media has caused more harms to both gender too many relationship coach with diverse assumptions about relationship has gotten many lost of Thier own self wisdom many has become enslave to the strength of another,truly the media has power and can't change alot of things morality is long go everyone now see themselves as slaves or being used...

Being kind is suppose to be a loveable and appriciable thing but in today's world being kind has become a mind game where one feel used or hypnotized

seunaj:
I don't support domestic violence of any form. I don't believe neither that women should be subjugated in marriage. But you see the wokeness of all these Instagram-woke generation African girls, it has taken away their sense of homeliness. You can't imagine the mental disorderliness in the minds of these good for nothing Instagram influencees that they are calling wokeness! Negative civilization. I can't believe that the girls of this generation have stopped dating, they will just be frustrating you like Ogbanje, cheating heavily on you with fraudsters, married men and any baga that can pay. If you catch or suspect them, they will say that you are too domineering. Infact, girls now believe and engage in friends with benefits throughout their prime. When all the virtues and innocence are gone, they will now find a man to retire, with all the mental baggages, spiritual initiations and medical infections. If you are married as of 5 years ago and beyond, my brother, you don't know what God has done for you. Social media have finished these girls. Girls full street but wife scarce than gold.

DMerciful:
What percentage of them versus the generality of Southern men? Men body shame women? If you tell the truth, you'll know that it's majorly women that body shame women! Different men like different types of female bodies but it's women that put themselves under unnecessary pressure to look more beautiful than they actually are!

I see honesty is not a trait you possess so I will let you continue on your own.

Umu mugu

Sonnobax15:

Were you
expecting any sensible talk from an aboki before?

You mean every Muslim is an aboki?

I'm not justifying his action, but nobody here gas asked what the wife did to make him slap her. Most of You criticizing him will do worst, indeed wife's of this generation can't be compared to the humility, patience love and care of our mother's.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_HY21qm5AEk

AM GLAD ITS OVER THE WOMAN JUST LIBRATED HERSELF WITH HER ACTION IF NOT NAA TO DEY CHOP CORRECTIONAL SLAP TILL DEATH DO THEM APART

seunaj:
I don't support domestic violence of any form. I don't believe neither that women should be subjugated in marriage. But you see the wokeness of all these Instagram-woke generation African girls, it has taken away their sense of homeliness. You can't imagine the mental disorderliness in the minds of these good for nothing Instagram influencees that they are calling wokeness! Negative civilization. I can't believe that the girls of this generation have stopped dating, they will just be frustrating you like Ogbanje, cheating heavily on you with fraudsters, married men and any baga that can pay. If you catch or suspect them, they will say that you are too domineering. Infact, girls now believe and engage in friends with benefits throughout their prime. When all the virtues and innocence are gone, they will now find a man to retire, with all the mental baggages, spiritual initiations and medical infections. If you are married as of 5 years ago and beyond, my brother, you don't know what God has done for you. Social media have finished these girls. Girls full street but wife scarce than gold.

You got out of the matrix.

Welcome home bro.

Some Nigerian guy's are still sleeping, they don't realise how bad it is.

Things we do for love.. check my signature for your 2d/3d animation, motion graphics

Again wives running out of their matrimonial home could be either of both party's fault. No body is perfect, majority of the differences would be seen during courtship but ignored.
Women especially ignore wanting signs hoping to change men that are already set in their ways just because they want to marry. For every action there's an equal and opposite consequence

pocohantas:


What progress have you guys made? Can’t you see how your wives are running out of their matrimonial homes while some of you go about looking for women that can ENDURE like your mothers?

Why a normal man would be looking for a woman that can endure remains a mystery. Are you guys trained to inflict pain and misery?

nodyke231:
I'm not justifying his action, but nobody here gas asked what the wife did to make him slap her. Most of You criticizing him will do worst, indeed wife's of this generation can't be compared to the humility, patience love and care of our mother's.

The fact that the man was arrested means the slap was in no way justified. So stop trying to fish for excuses.

Pk01:
civil... Respect respect me respect my wife tufiakwa... Plenty fish in the river... The books says wife summit and respect ur husbands... If una like make una no marry early, I don't care if you people call it I marry a minor or what... The most painful thing is ugly girl wea dey do shakara

the book also says you should love your wife.

Kobojunkie:
Check your laws and stop being silly.

You need to come back to reality and tell me how feasible the said law has been.

How many times has a man shared his property equally with a woman after divorce in this nigeria?
Abi no be 15k dem dey give una for upkeep again?

Lol

You know the truth!

Kobojunkie:
I see honesty is not a trait you possess so I will let you continue on your own.

Sonnobax15:

Were you expecting any sensible talk from an aboki before?

From your region, women are treated with less value. In fact, they are not valued at all. They can't get anything from their late husband's properties. They're stripped of everything. Their hair cut. Water used to wash corpse is given to them to drink. Black people and hypocrisy. As if you don't have useless men in your place who don't hit women.

Yes and d sensible thing for me to do after that is to walk out of that marriage immediately I get released

Kobojunkie:
The "family" in marriage refers to the man and woman in the marriage. In the case than an issue is beyond their handling, the sensible thing to do is call the authorities in to help resolve the situation.

theForth:
You need to come back to reality and tell me how feasible the said law has been.

How many times has a man shared his property equally with a woman after divorce in this nigeria?
Abi no be 15k dem dey give una for upkeep again?

Lol

Nigeria's Laws are as feasible as you willing to let them be for you. The same law is used UT the rich, educated and "woke" alike. So I see no reason why anyone in the country would doubt the feasibility.

https://www.mondaq.com/nigeria/divorce/1006774/brief-overview-of-alimony-under-the-nigerian-law

dollynnn:
Marry a man who respects you,love is not enough!

RESPECT IS PART OF CORRECTION DON'T BECAUSE OF SOCIETAL PRESSURE COME REASON THE SLAP, NANY WOMEN DEY SUFFER WETIN PASS SLAP FOR RELATIONSHIP DEM NO GO FIT TALK BUT NA DEM GO FIRST DEY RANT FOR RESPECT IN SITUATIONS LIKE THIS AWON ONI YEYE

DMerciful:
When two people stay in close proximity,
there's bound to be conflict from time to time whether intentional or unintentional. Even your teeth sometimes bite your tongue within the same body so it happens. There may be hard times too due to wrong investments by the man or job loss. A woman that endures will be understanding knowing these things would pass.

Nigerian women respect their mothers sometimes to a fault so it's outrageous and preposterous to say the generality of Nigerian men behave like that Aboki.

Why is it only you Nigerian men looking for women that ENDURE? You don’t see women, as troublesome as you guys claim we are, looking for husbands that can ENDURE. We all know it is not job loss you want women to ENDURE. Women are tired of enduring punches and community pricks because they have seen how empty it left the older generation. The guilty ones among you all should change.

Marriage despite its challenges should be ENJOYED. Marriage should be SWEET. I have told mine not to maltreat me, If not I will leave everything for him and RUN. Love matter dey quick frustrate me.

Kelvinhunta:
Yes and d sensible thing for me to do after that is to walk out of that marriage immediately I get released

sure.

Kobojunkie:
Because he has that hat on, you conclude he must be an aboki?

For crying out loud, what he said is no different from what many of the non-abokis here on nairaland recite each day as an anthem where women are concerned.

most men are not in support of hitting a woman (if she hits the man first, different situation). All we are saying is don't simp.

neyoohhh:


You got out of the matrix.

Welcome home bro.

Some Nigerian guy's are still sleeping, they don't realise how bad it is.

I will wos you if you do rubbish, I wouldn't condone nonsense in the name of forming rubbish, person WEY slap you no means disrespect means you need some resetting button

Babalola0920:

RESPECT IS PART OF CORRECTION DON'T BECAUSE OF SOCIETAL PRESSURE COME REASON THE SLAP, NANY WOMEN DEY SUFFER WETIN PASS SLAP FOR RELATIONSHIP DEM NO GO FIT TALK BUT NA DEM GO FIRST DEY RANT FOR RESPECT IN SITUATIONS LIKE THIS AWON ONI YEYE

Respect is part of correction, how?

UncleJudax:

most men are not in support of hitting a woman (if she hits the man first, different situation ). Just don't simp.

This does not correlate with reality in Nigeria where domestic violence and abuse are a daily occurrence.

Kobojunkie:
Because he has that hat on, you conclude he must be an aboki?

For crying out loud, what he said is no different from what many of the non-abokis here on nairaland recite each day as an anthem where women are concerned.

those idiots mostly hit women.

I was shocked that, in Umuahia, I won't allow women to seat in front of a tricycle with the lack of comfort there; I'd go to the front and ask them to go to the back, but igbo men don't care and they found me strange. They ignore the elderly too. And respect for women is what I learned from my society and religion. These cretins talking are worse off than that guy who posted that on his page. He's just ignorant to call that a "correctional slap".

Kobojunkie:
How can a man slap his own wife and still be answering her Mr.?

Wat u will do is after slapping u pack ur things out of his house and go back straight to ur parents house.tell them ur not marrying again period.

Mercychen:
Imagine. You slapped someone and expects her to be calm? What a warped mentality.

You're lucky she was civil about it. Or would you have preferred she took the laws into her hands and stabbed you with a knife?

Next time you'll think before you slap.

If you had your picture on NL would you have made this nasty comment?

Stab your husband with a knife because he slapped you...

What happened to slapping him back or file for a divorce? Or you just wan yarn dust...

When I saw aboki name, I just decided not to waste my comment.

Verysmart101:

Wat u will do is after slapping u pack ur things out of his house and go back straight to ur parents house.tell them ur not marrying again period.

Not before you file divorce papers and obtaining good settlement money too.