Kobojunkie:
Submission according to whose definition?

firstly, its a mans world, if you are a Christain, submission was discussed exhaustively in the Great book. Utimately, a woman is designed not to compete with aman.

Larrykaysail:
na ur type they kill man , why don't u snap him back ?

I don't know why a lot of you misunderstood my comment.

By my comment, I'm simply referring to past stories I've read where some women stab or pour hot water on their men when they are having an altercation.

I'm not in support of domestic violence thats why Im commending her for handling the matter the way she did instead of retarliating.

You people should free me. Abeg!

sammirano3:

firstly, its a mans world, if you are a Christain, submission was discussed exhaustively in the Great book. Utimately, a woman is designed not to compete with aman.

There is nothing "Christian" about submission in marriage since what you call submission is instead a product of a curse which God placed on Marriage beginning with Adam and Eve, as Judgement for their sins - Genesis 3 vs 16. Please understand that before this curse Adam and Eve were equal partners in their marriage.

Jesus Christ came to redeem/Save man(and woman) from that curse - Genesis 3 vs 16 - 22 - and so any "Christian" still living according to that curse rejects Jesus Christ and the redemption He offers.

Kobojunkie:
Because he has that hat on, you conclude he must be an aboki?

For crying out loud, what he said is no different from what many of the non-abokis here on nairaland recite each day as an anthem where women are concerned.

No tribalism intended. But he's an Aboki cos of his name (Yusuf)

joshuaidibia:
No tribalism intended. But he's an Aboki cos of his name (Yusuf)

You are kidding right? So all the Yusufs in the south west are also abokis?

Kobojunkie:
You are kidding right? So all the Yusufs in the south west are also abokis?

Goodnight man.

verybadmouth:
I totally agree with the aboki. Wife material no dey again jooor. Women dey do anyhow now. No more respect for their partners. I definitely will never slap my partner for her wrongs but I wouldn't hesitate to walk away from the marriage when her wahala gets out of hand.
Women, Una own sef don dey too much. Make Una go train Una selves. Abeg

Make sure you keep walking and never look back o because marriage must be perfect

Correction slap is not violence

elonmuskbaby:
you no wise.so endurance includes violence.alogoh

Wo Mr man shift,I no dey follow abok1 talk

Kobojunkie:
Again, So, you will allow your younger sister to get slapped around by her husband instead? Why?

What's this one saying?

My younger sisters have good home training. They haven't had any arrogant attitude to warrant slap.

Secondly, I can't imagine my sister becoming rude to her husband to warrant attack.

Again, be reminded that we have good home training. We don't fight in our family.

Cops is not family. She could have reported to family members, dad, mom etc but not police. Going to police makes it look as u want a supremacy battle in d family which is not good.

Kobojunkie:
You are not making much sense at all.

No one is telling women to fight back. Calling the cops is to help defend the woman from an attacker who already attacked her. There is absolutely nothing wrong with calling th cops when your life is threatened.

Two wrongs don't make a right neither does one wrong. So I am not sure why you keep stretching this as if what you keep repeating makes sense of some kind.

At this point all I can tell u is that am not d one that coined that say that 2 wrongs don't make a right, I rest my case

Kobojunkie:
This does not compute at all. The man slapped the woman so the women shouldn't defend herself or call the cops to her aid? She should instead do nothing so the Marriage can continue?

Let's turn around for a second... if the woman had slapped the man first, would you also suggest the man do nothing - no wrong- so the marriage can continue?

DMerciful:
Do you know the age range of those guys that mostly bash women? They might be 18 or less so using a faceless forum to judge the behavior of Nigerian men is ludicrous! No Southern matured man will make such comment, we respect women and mostly we respect our mum. Aboki made that comment so let it remain with Aboki.

Like I said I'm beginning to notice her meaning this is not the first!

We’re talking about men, not boys. Kids are irrelevant as far as this conversation goes so I don’t know why you made a point about 16-to-18-year-old baby boys being more likely to hit their little girlfriends. This is a husband-and-wife situation, not a boyfriend-and-girlfriend one.

Misogyny is rampant across southern Nigeria as well (a known fact) so what are you even talking about?

NairaMaster1:

What's this one saying?
My younger sisters have good home training. They haven't had any arrogant attitude to warrant slap.
Secondly, I can't imagine my sister becoming rude to her husband to warrant attack.
Again, be reminded that we have good home training. We don't fight in our family.

I didn't ask you of your home training. Note the question I keep asking .
So, you will allow your younger sister to get slapped around by her husband instead? Why?

sammirano3:


firstly, its a mans world, if you are a Christain, submission was discussed exhaustively in the Great book. Utimately, a woman is designed not to compete with aman.

Nah. If you subscribe to that mentality you’d have to say it’s a white man’s world but that’s not true either. These are all post-colonial lies from the pit of helll.

Kelvinhunta:
Cops is not family. She could have reported to family members, dad, mom etc but not police. Going to police makes it look as u want a supremacy battle in d family which is not good.

So, rather than calling on "emergency" help to rescue her, a wife should call her dad or her mum who maybe thousands of miles away at that time instead?

Kelvinhunta:
At this point all I can tell u is that am not d one that coined that say that 2 wrongs don't make a right, I rest my case

You didn't coin it for sure but your application of it here is what is questioned. You conveniently it deemed it wrong to call on emergency services in the case of an emergency so you continue to push blame on the woman as well for calling out for help.

Kelvinhunta:
Correction slap is not violence

like I said I no dey follow Islamic abok1 talk

I know you are eagerly dreaming for Lagos to be like your "gandolla states" with hisbah, pedophilia,reign of banditry and kidnapping/forcing women to marry perverted men.sorry it can never happen.if it didn't happen in other South West States,it cannot happen in lagos.lagos is too cosmopolitan and Normal for people like you

elonmuskbaby:
like I said I no dey follow Islamic abok1 talk

I know you are eagerly dreaming for Lagos to be like your "gandolla states" with hisbah, pedophilia,reign of banditry and kidnapping/forcing women to marry perverted men.sorry it can never happen.if it didn't happen in other South West States,it cannot happen in lagos.lagos is too cosmopolitan and Normal for people like you

ROFLMAO

This guy will not kill me fa....he was surprised when police arrested him for assault like he didnt know it's a crime in a civilised world! The guy will not kill me .


Well,from the way he kept referring to the wife like a dog, I can imagine his shock. Even animals sef now have rights fa broda husband

Zegemi:
What exactly were you expecting from "Yusuf Tarfa"?

For goodness sake, before you place a huge expectation from someone's brain, please consider the name.

Says the yam legged girl whose boyfriend has been slapping like falling tittis

Zegemi:
What exactly were you expecting from "Yusuf Tarfa"?

For goodness sake, before you place a huge expectation from someone's brain, please consider the name.

Says the yam legged girl whose boyfriend has been slapping like falling titties

Kobojunkie:
So you can slap your wife and still expect her to love you again?

That's y I said instead of calling d police,just divorce in peace.dont u understand my write up?

Kobojunkie:
Huh?

A marriage is a business contract with both recognized as investors in it. So, indeed when it ends, the property accrued during the time of the period of the marriage need be shared between the parties involved.

U know absolutely nothing at all.If u didn't play a business role in aquisition of those properties,sorry u can't lay claims to it.Ur just a bitter soul honestly.Ur mindset towards marriage is so terrible.i pity d man that will wife u.

Verysmart101:

That's y I said instead of calling d police,just divorce in peace.dont u understand my write up?

So, a divorce will happen anyways?

You just don't want her calling the cops to come defend her from the brute who already landed her a slap is all, and could potentially land her some more before the divorce goes through?

Verysmart101:

U know absolutely nothing at all. If u didn't play a business role in aquisition of those properties,sorry u can't lay claims to it. Ur just a bitter soul honestly.Ur mindset towards marriage is so terrible.i pity d man that will wife u.

Marriage is itself a business. The acquisition of the property for that marriage is part of marriage business activities. So when the marriage is over, the property needs to be divided amongst the marriage investors, in this case, the man and woman.

My mindset is not the problem. Instead you refuse to see marriage for it also represents is what.

Domestic violence can happen to anyone of us,it depends on how we handle the matter . the man is right because akiti Ile ejo de ka sore.d wife should have find another way to punish him.

Now I know u have been quoting the wrong person since. I no be aboki, I have nothing against Lagos, Lagos is good but it's too stressful for people like me thanks

elonmuskbaby:
like I said I no dey follow Islamic abok1 talk

I know you are eagerly dreaming for Lagos to be like your "gandolla states" with hisbah, pedophilia,reign of banditry and kidnapping/forcing women to marry perverted men.sorry it can never happen.if it didn't happen in other South West States,it cannot happen in lagos.lagos is too cosmopolitan and Normal for people like you

Oga police has nothing to do with marital affairs except if ones life is threatened which in this case its not. Y would a slap threaten someones life? I guess u would have reacted differently if a guy calls police that his wife slapped him

Kobojunkie:
You didn't coin it for sure but your application of it here is what is questioned. You conveniently it deemed it wrong to call on emergency services in the case of an emergency so you continue to push blame on the woman as well for calling out for help.

Mafoooo:
Domestic violence can happen to anyone of us,it depends on how we handle the matter . the man is right because akiti Ile ejo de ka sore.d wife should have find another way to punish him.

Why is her calling on the cops to be regarded as punishment?

Police to rescue her from slap? Nawa for una feminists

Kobojunkie:
So, rather than calling on "emergency" help to rescue her, a wife should call her dad or her mum who maybe thousands of miles away at that time instead?

Kelvinhunta:
Oga police has nothing to do with marital affairs except if ones life is threatened which in this case its not. Y would a slap threaten someones life? I guess u would have reacted differently if a guy calls police that his wife slapped him

Marriage is contract officiated by the law, is it not? So any criminal offense carried out within a marriage is within the jurisdiction of the law.

Kelvinhunta:
Police to rescue her from slap? Nawa for una feminists

Who else do you call to rescue you from an assailant? Superman?