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Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by czarr(m): 9:42pm On Oct 15, 2021
Hyerin:
They hate to be labelled feminist or associated with that term so they can appear palatable to men. The same men that are misogynists and think women are beneath them. Pickmeism is a disease.
pickmeism as you call it is the female equivalent to a simp.
Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by Smartb0y: 10:03pm On Oct 15, 2021
shaybebaby:
That means no guaranteed outcomes, always risks.
Risk can be minimised but never eliminated.
the world isn't what it used to be due to change in sexuality.
you can hardly see commitments that last forever and forever is a very longtime.
we're emotional beings that makes it quite difficult being with just one person.
if im being real with you,its actually quite boring.
what i'll give for the good old days when the world was still a lil bit sane.
Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by shaybebaby(f): 10:07pm On Oct 15, 2021
Smartb0y:
the world isn't what it used to be due to change in sexuality.
you can hardly see commitments that last forever and forever is a very longtime.
we're emotional beings that makes it quite difficult being with just one person.
if im being real with you,its actually quite boring.
what i'll give for the good old days when the world was still a lil bit sane.
Adapt or go extinct.
Maybe forever isn't for you and that is okay. We are all different so no need to feel pressure to comform.

As long as you aren't depriving others or infringing on their rights, do you bro. We only get one shot on this planet.
Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by Smartb0y: 10:16pm On Oct 15, 2021
shaybebaby:
Adapt or go extinct.
Maybe forever isn't for you and that is okay. We are all different so no need to feel pressure to comform.

As long as you aren't depriving others or infringing on their rights, do you bro. We only get one shot on this planet.
oh i'd say i fit in quite alright.
i take what i want and leave the rest lol,im not greedy.
Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by GetMeRight: 10:19pm On Oct 15, 2021
Nemesis0147:
The other guy that use to shout Nigeria girls are useless up and down...I came across one of his thread where he killed a snake.
D guy still dy village dy hunt for snakes and he is here shouting up and down.
Time wey dy suppose use work on their self...they will be bashing women,,forming hard guy and na their mumsy still they feed them!
Why u com carry dis matter for head like this?
Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by Nobody: 10:22pm On Oct 15, 2021
shaybebaby:
It beats me why they act clueless honestly. Every worthwhile endeavour requires time, effort and emotional investment.

Side note, love, love, love your posts
Thank you very much. It's such a breath of fresh air to come across reasonable posts. NL is so ghetto.
Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by Nobody: 10:25pm On Oct 15, 2021
czarr:
pickmeism as you call it is the female equivalent to a simp.
Well then, color me shocked! *Sarcasm*
Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by Perfectskills01(m):
Creativeace:
First of all i aint no simp and never will be, i have always been a person that respects myself a lot before men and women, but everything escalated when i encountered the redpill.

I was 19 when i was exposed to TRP, out of academic and hustling stress i started reading threads on nairaland and i no time as a lover of knowledge became hooked on ubunja's miseducations and after practising TRP for two years going now, i cant really say it has won me favour in the eyes of people, especially women.

I broke up with the first and only girlfriend ive had, because i changed drastically over night because i was high on the pill, my circle of guys started leaving me out cos i suddenly became the odd one out.

Girls started giving me attitude, cos i reduced the attention i gave out, so i decided to take it to the extreme and went all out ignoring all of them.

Lets cut the story short, am toxic, alone, with no female attention to validate my ego, so i decided to fuel my ego some other way, by making money... typing
You are a red piller indeed . It's just that you don't know where you belong in the red pill .
Understand this ..... Red pill comprises mgtow , PUA , misogynist , father's right group etc .

Mgtow red pill teaches you to go your own way

PUA red pill teaches you to get women

Misogyny red pill teaches you to hate women

Father's right red pill teaches about paternity fraud and parental alienation

Etc

The red pill is amoral . What you do with it is up to you .

The mistake many red pillers like you do make is that , they don't take time to understand the red pill they claim to belong .

Reading some red pill contents doesn't certify you as a red piller if you lack the proper application of it.

However, since you are interested to become a red piller , you should also understand what the red pill is all about and know where you belong . You are either a MGTOW , PUA etc .

From what you wrote above , you are probably a MGTOW red piller ( men going their own way ) . So if you are a MGTOW , you don't bother about women . We have mgtow and mgtow monk . Some red piller are mgtow monk by choice , these category of red pillers don't bother about women , they have learnt to go their own way . And if you are just an MGTOW it simply means you can do stuffs with women but you can't live with them in the same room . These are the baby daddy's type.

Understand where you belong in the red pill . Are you mgtow red piller or PUA re piller .

Op . The thread you created shows you are a MGTOW and misogynist red piller. However , you may be ignorant of it . So don't complain that the red pill has made you to become toxic and doesn't favour you in getting women . And if you are interested in getting women check out for PUA contents and not mgtow and misogyny contents you overdosed yourself on .

Understand what mgtow entails

A man is red pill mgtow if he follows the following principles:

- No marriage. 

- No long or shortterm relationship with women. In fact, there shall be no commitment.

- No voluntary cohabitation with a woman. 

Being MGTOW doesn't mean you can't have sex, apply game or have children through surrogacy. The set of mgtow men who take it a step further and choose not to have sex are  called mgtow monks.

All monks are mgtow men, but not all mgtow men are monks.

MGTOW philosophy originated and developed in developed western societies as the natural response of redpill men who reside in a brutal gynocentric society. As men in these societies began to understand women and the gynocentric laws of the land, they decided it was safe, rational and best to go their own way.Those who couldn't afford risking a false rape allegation and decided to spend every ounce of their time on improving themselves became monks. The rest decided to pump and dump and kept a rotation of sex buddies, in safe conditions. 

In countries like Nigeria, there are lot of good reasons why people choose mgtow (not necessarily going monk).

Marital laws in these societies give women all the leverage and power in marriage. Divorce and child support are not funny experiences for men over there. That's why men over there not only go mgtow, they also refuse having children - Martinez

So, if you don't like mgtow red pill , you better switch to PUA red pill and learn proper ways to get women and avoid misogynism .

PUA (pick up artistes) red pill is the branch of red pill that teaches men games to get women. They live with women and children . Some called them players , but they are not , just that they know how to beat women in their games and have their ways with them .

The red pill community ( manosphere ) contents all branches of red pill . If you are not aware you overdose yourself on the mixture of mgtow , PUA , misogyny , father's right and then finally lost your bearing in the red pill .


If you are interested in becoming PUA red piller , read PUA contents like THE BOOK OF POOK , the game penetration etc, follow harddon , king zaddy threads and the likes of PUA thread to develop yourself on PUA so to learn games to get women and not to go your own way like the mgtow and become toxic like misogynist because you are more a mixture of misogyny and mgtow put together out of your ignorance .

The idea that red pill has misled you is ludicrous and uninformed because you don't know what the red pill is all about in the first place .
Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by Cowbell521: 10:30pm On Oct 15, 2021
Creativeace:
My whole point is that no matter how much achievements i pursue, am not feeling whole, you cant even begin to imagine the simple things i have deprived myself of, for example, i haven't hugged any woman in 8 months, trust me, which all part of my scheme to morph into an alpha with zero emotions and vulnerabilities towards women, but i seem to have noticed that to really enjoy people, you have to drop your guard a bit...still typing
Na Konji dey worry u
Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by Cowbell521: 10:32pm On Oct 15, 2021
Creativeace:
First of all i aint no simp and never will be, i have always been a person that respects myself a lot before men and women, but everything escalated when i encountered the redpill.

I was 19 when i was exposed to TRP, out of academic and hustling stress i started reading threads on nairaland and i no time as a lover of knowledge became hooked on ubunja's miseducations and after practising TRP for two years going now, i cant really say it has won me favour in the eyes of people, especially women.

I broke up with the first and only girlfriend ive had, because i changed drastically over night because i was high on the pill, my circle of guys started leaving me out cos i suddenly became the odd one out.

Girls started giving me attitude, cos i reduced the attention i gave out, so i decided to take it to the extreme and went all out ignoring all of them.

Lets cut the story short, am toxic, alone, with no female attention to validate my ego, so i decided to fuel my ego some other way, by making money... typing
U be mumu... Red pill make u smash for free without buying this and that... Better deal with your social disorder. U funny Oooh
Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by Holger: 10:45pm On Oct 15, 2021
Bro you make your money abeg,but then balance is key
Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by Irennediva(f): 11:16pm On Oct 15, 2021
shocked shocked shocked
Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by SOZINN: 11:45pm On Oct 15, 2021
YelloweWest:
Your mom will leave u.
Your nieces and nephews will find a life of their own.
You be left alone.
And his wife will not leave him Abi
Do you know the current divorce rate.
There's is a high chance that his wife will leave before all these people you mentioned.
Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by torqque7(m): 1:00am On Oct 16, 2021
Dude u are one of many who confuse what the redpoll all about,it opens ur eyes to games women play and shows u how to counter those games and be uncharged,NOT asking or teaching u to be gay and avoid contact with women,like wtf?whats up with not hugging a female for 8months?some of u guys are just very confused..this can be likened to the beliefs of an average terrorist or boko haram peeps who have taken Islam to another level and misinterpreting what it is.u need help bruh
Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by Yktv: 1:33am On Oct 16, 2021
Op this is all you need. The red pill is decent to an extent but it's gone extreme, take what's important from it and go back to socializing with humans normally, always know your worth and be a man of character. You'll be fine

sundaygray:
You're a smart guy for recognizing this....Everything is good when practiced to an extent... the red pill teaches important lessons but no carry am for head finish...
It teaches you to pursue your goals in life
Excercise more
Make sure you are not used by women.
To be wiser as a man...but today red pill has become the male version of an extreme feminist.

....Treat people how you want to be treated, I practiced red pill to an extent and then as a smart guy that I am, I recognized myself being toxic then I remove body. Granted, I had a lot of girls but guy relationships no dey last because I dey form macho man.
Know where to draw the line as a man, don't hate women, just be smarter and know how they behave.
Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by Yktv: 1:37am On Oct 16, 2021
This is why the whole red pill movement is turning toxic, why are you being so rude, harsh and uncouth? Because he has another perspective? Why not educate him in a diplomatic way? A movement that should be men standing for men has been turned to wild hateful name calling, it's getting disturbing bro.


AbujaCitiBlog:
Your problem is that you are still a simp! Your thought process exposed you. You still need a woman to feed your ego before you feel like a man.

Don't worry yourself! Everybody must not be great. You can't live without women. Go back to your life(women)
Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by Yktv: 1:42am On Oct 16, 2021
As it should be.

4ckz:
You don't understand trp, you don't even have a reason for practicing it.

Talking about ego boost, when red pill teaches having your life in order.

I have practiced it for a year now, I am very happy with my live progress, the girls I cut were worthless to me and I don't regret it, pussy isn't the essence of life and if that's the validation you want, go carry olosho.

The girls in my life contribute positively to me, not problems in the name of love language.

OP, know what you want and if it doesn't align with trp, then don't practice trp.
Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by Fiscus105(m):
ubunja:
Lmfao after all our successes on NL, the only red pill thread that reaches front page is a disgruntled user's thread. Lol. It is well
Ur posts are not worthy for public consumptions, cos they meant for mad and highly frustrated Individual who are just consoling and galvanizing around ego and self deceit.

The one that came on front page, I think it's deliberate, for members of the sect who are yet fully indoctrinated to retrace their steps before they completely damaged beyond repair.
Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by Creativeace(op): 3:13am On Oct 16, 2021
[quote author=Perfectskills01 post=106772384]You are a red piller indeed . It's just that you don't know where you belong in the red pill .
Understand this ..... Red pill comprises mgtow , PUA , misogynist , father's right group etc .

Mgtow red pill teaches you to go your own way

PUA red pill teaches you to get women

Misogyny red pill teaches you to hate women

Father's right red pill teaches about paternity fraud and parental alienation

Etc

The red pill is amoral . What you do with it is up to you .

The mistake many red pillers like you do make is that , they don't take time to understand the red pill they claim to belong .

Reading some red pill contents doesn't certify you as a red piller if you lack the proper application of it.

However, since you are interested to become a red piller , you should also understand what the red pill is all about and know where you belong . You are either a MGTOW , PUA etc .

I appreciate this
Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by ubunja(m): 4:06am On Oct 16, 2021
Fiscus105:
Ur posts are not worthy for public consumptions, cos they meant for mad and highly frustrated Individual who are just consoling and galvanizing around ego and self deceit.

The one that came on front page, I think it's deliberately , for members of the sect who are yet fully indoctrinated to retrace their steps before they completely damaged beyond repair.
you're the same one who wrote this lmfao

Fiscus105:
The same way almost all naija women want to eat guy money, even when they know they are not ready to give him love.

A month ago a lady who claimed to be Sunday school mistress was advising a lady to ask a guy that wooed her to take all of them out to chicken republic, even when the lady in question is not ready to date the guy. (All the ladies there were making jest of the guy that toasted one of them, yet all except one lady still advising and wanted to follow her to eat that guy money)
Atleast you know how women also play the game. Now shut up.
Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by jrobbins: 5:31am On Oct 16, 2021
SenecaTheYonger:
Don’t worry, you’re still in the beginning stage.
You will soon understand why God created Eve in no time.
Lol, obviously to eat the apple
Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by Nobody: 5:33am On Oct 16, 2021
Hmmm
Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by SenecaTheYonger: 5:59am On Oct 16, 2021
jrobbins:
Lol, obviously to eat the apple
I’m sure your atheist friends chuckle when you tell that joke cheesy
Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by Fiscus105(m):
ubunja:
you're the same one who wrote this lmfao



Atleast you know how women also play the game. Now shut up.
Thank God you went to archive and dug my comments, in my comments it showed clearly I'm not bias towards any gender, unlike you that don't have anything to do than to pull down women and destroy institution of marriages just cos you couldn't succeed in having good & decent relationships with ladies, turning yourself to satanic agent.

Since you were not accepted by ladies, owing to your awful character, you also thought every other guys shouldn't. Anyway, It's ur sheep I pity most o. Thanks God you are seeing the results of your indoctrinations on urchins that you gathered together as sect.
Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by Youngzedd(m): 7:16am On Oct 16, 2021
Fiscus105:
If u re successfully man, ur redpill amount to nothing as well, what you think the indoctrination will bring, success will bring it automatically.
Is Elon Musk, Donald Trump, Aliku Dangote and host of others failures?


Successful people need the red pill more than any other because the success status attracts so much manipulations from both men and women.


The Red Pill help men to navigate through life to be the best version of themselves.

Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by Fiscus105(m): 7:29am On Oct 16, 2021
Youngzedd:
Is Elon Musk, Donald Trump, Aliku Dangote and host of others failures?


Successful people need the red pill more than any other because the success status attracts so much manipulations from both men and women.


The Red Pill help men to navigate through life to be the best version of themselves.
Maritally? Yes

Financial ? No


What about Goodluck Jonathan, L Messi, G W Bush, M Zuckerberg and rest that not only succeeded financial but also in marriage.

Is it an abomination if you toe such lane?

Hope you are reading MKO children stuff?
Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by Zagee: 7:49am On Oct 16, 2021
Creativeace:
with no female attention to validate my ego, so i decided to fuel my ego some other way, by making money... typing
It is obscene undecided
Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by brownemmanuel43(m): 8:28am On Oct 16, 2021
Nemesis0147:
The other guy that use to shout Nigeria girls are useless up and down...I came across one of his thread where he killed a snake.
D guy still dy village dy hunt for snakes and he is here shouting up and down.
Time wey dy suppose use work on their self...they will be bashing women,,forming hard guy and na their mumsy still they feed them!
Being in the village does not mean that he is suffering, he could be a big time farmer na
Also for an adult to start shouting girls are useless means he has seen a lot in the hands of girls.
Then as for op, ubunja never told anybody not to have female friends, what Ubunja was saying was how to mental and emotionally strong towards women
Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by SilasIBB: 8:36am On Oct 16, 2021
This is the Time you need the Holy Spirit
Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by VERDA: 8:42am On Oct 16, 2021
Nonexisting1:
Shut up simp. Did you not read the part where he said he was focused on making money. What value does vaginarians' validation add to a man? As long as enough dough comes in regularly, he can fucck any biitch he wants including girlfriends of simps. Some of us that don't keep girlfriends, who we dey fucck if not other people's girlfriends.
But wait o Bro...I felt the idea of this whole stuff was for men to stop being doormats, be confident, strong, take responsibility for their lives which I believe most women would want?...

Or is it about being a terrible person who hates women? I don't even understand anymore cos some of the things I see you guys type seems to me borderline evil and twisted.
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