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Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Disturbs Me For Money For The Upkeep Of Her Newborn by King44(m): 7:52am On Oct 16, 2021

handsomeyitayo:
Good day nairaland,

I have this my ex girlfriend that just gave birth and she do call me at times to send her money, .. and come to think of it ,she has fought me before and also insult hell out of me that time I am still searching for job, telling me I don't have money to care for her..she left me though she had a baby girl for me of which I do send money for her feeding and school fees...but she will call me that she needed some money that I should send for her...to eat is difficult, she is doing creche job that they pay her token even where she stays with her husband is her husband friends house and that one had drove them away one night ..I have to send money to her to lodge in an hotel due to pregnancy ...the same husband did not show care at all dump her aside..I ask her about the whereabout of her husband she will say I should forget him, ....I told her can't she go to her husband family house ..she said no...

Even the naming ceremony self dey did...only the husband came..and it was this my baby mama father that just organise menu for the naming ceremony...

But I do send some money to for the sake of my daughter...

I do remember those days we were together ,she will be insulting me , talking to me mannerless ...

We fought then because she dates guys arround then until I broke up with her...

Now she do call for me to send money to her ...but I don't know what to do, I don't like insulting or shouting on someone because she needs help....but I only do for the sake of my daughter...but should I stop.the husband is not serious about her ....

And this my baby mama is stubborn.. hypertensive lady ..

But if I remember those days, is as if I should remind her... and I will stop sending her money.but as a Christian I just use church mind...

If she ask me for money, I do feel pity...

Should I stop or continue assisting her...

You better start making plans to get your daughter from her before she ends up being brought up the way you would not like, don't let her experience things you would hate to hear. It's better you hand her over to your mom and send your mom that money instead. Let your ex sort herself.out.

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Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Disturbs Me For Money For The Upkeep Of Her Newborn by eguarojeona: 7:52am On Oct 16, 2021

Lol,she sees you as a mumu. She doesn't rate you.Ladies want to misbehave in peace without any checks from guys.The real dictators.

Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Disturbs Me For Money For The Upkeep Of Her Newborn by Jaqenhghar: 7:54am On Oct 16, 2021

handsomeyitayo:
Good day nairaland,

I have this my ex girlfriend that just gave birth and she do call me at times to send her money, .. and come to think of it ,she has fought me before and also insult hell out of me that time I am still searching for job, telling me I don't have money to care for her..she left me though she had a baby girl for me of which I do send money for her feeding and school fees...but she will call me that she needed some money that I should send for her...to eat is difficult, she is doing creche job that they pay her token even where she stays with her husband is her husband friends house and that one had drove them away one night ..I have to send money to her to lodge in an hotel due to pregnancy ...the same husband did not show care at all dump her aside..I ask her about the whereabout of her husband she will say I should forget him, ....I told her can't she go to her husband family house ..she said no...

Even the naming ceremony self dey did...only the husband came..and it was this my baby mama father that just organise menu for the naming ceremony...

But I do send some money to for the sake of my daughter...

I do remember those days we were together ,she will be insulting me , talking to me mannerless ...

We fought then because she dates guys arround then until I broke up with her...

Now she do call for me to send money to her ...but I don't know what to do, I don't like insulting or shouting on someone because she needs help....but I only do for the sake of my daughter...but should I stop.the husband is not serious about her ....

And this my baby mama is stubborn.. hypertensive lady ..

But if I remember those days, is as if I should remind her... and I will stop sending her money.but as a Christian I just use church mind...

If she ask me for money, I do feel pity...

Should I stop or continue assisting her...

Report to her husband. I mean it. Her husband maybbe giving ger money and she is being greedy

Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Disturbs Me For Money For The Upkeep Of Her Newborn by BluntTheApostle(m): 7:54am On Oct 16, 2021

handsomeyitayo:
Good day nairaland,

I have this my ex girlfriend that just gave birth and she do call me at times to send her money, .. and come to think of it ,she has fought me before and also insult hell out of me that time I am still searching for job, telling me I don't have money to care for her..she left me though she had a baby girl for me of which I do send money for her feeding and school fees...but she will call me that she needed some money that I should send for her...to eat is difficult, she is doing creche job that they pay her token even where she stays with her husband is her husband friends house and that one had drove them away one night ..I have to send money to her to lodge in an hotel due to pregnancy ...the same husband did not show care at all dump her aside..I ask her about the whereabout of her husband she will say I should forget him, ....I told her can't she go to her husband family house ..she said no...

Even the naming ceremony self dey did...only the husband came..and it was this my baby mama father that just organise menu for the naming ceremony...

But I do send some money to for the sake of my daughter...

I do remember those days we were together ,she will be insulting me , talking to me mannerless ...

We fought then because she dates guys arround then until I broke up with her...

Now she do call for me to send money to her ...but I don't know what to do, I don't like insulting or shouting on someone because she needs help....but I only do for the sake of my daughter...but should I stop.the husband is not serious about her ....

And this my baby mama is stubborn.. hypertensive lady ..

But if I remember those days, is as if I should remind her... and I will stop sending her money.but as a Christian I just use church mind...

If she ask me for money, I do feel pity...

Should I stop or continue assisting her...

Forgive, and assist if you can.

We should help one another if we have the means.

Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Disturbs Me For Money For The Upkeep Of Her Newborn by 2real52: 7:54am On Oct 16, 2021

Bro, there is every indication that you are the father of the baby..

Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Disturbs Me For Money For The Upkeep Of Her Newborn by ofemigeorge(m): 7:54am On Oct 16, 2021

handsomeyitayo:
my own daughter is with my baby mamas father's house...not with her..I do send money to my daughter through her Dad...but she will call me that I only remember my daugyy that what of her ..

Are you legally married to her, if yes, then you are responsible for her upkeep. But if not , na father Christmas you dey do. Another is to find her a better paying job.

Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Disturbs Me For Money For The Upkeep Of Her Newborn by Elock1: 7:55am On Oct 16, 2021

Sonnobax15:

Mennnnnnnn,carry your pikin from her make the matter rest . The fact that she insulted you when you were a nobody should always serve as a quick reminder to you whenever she calls to beg you for money....

You see this life en,na so this kind stories take dey end...... Especially when woman discard and loosegaurd her man during him hard times,na then God take dey vex dey tear shirt just to open door of blessings for the man..

But wetin go cor vex God na be say when the guyman cor later forgive her.......No matter what,an ex should always be in the ex zone.

I don talk my own finish

and you really finished the talk... If he wise he go hear word

Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Disturbs Me For Money For The Upkeep Of Her Newborn by Sheriman(m): 7:56am On Oct 16, 2021

This guy should better be paying his ex girlfriend 100K a month for her keep up as he enjoying financing another man's property. The solution to this problem is glaring but our philanthropist didn't see it. Although, you can keep doing the Lord work because the Lord is your strength. But don't come here by 2023 I open a thread to say " Help my ex girlfriend has been ruining my life through my daughter" some Nairalanders have tell you what to do to stop this nonsense right away. I hope you listen and heed to the advice.

Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Disturbs Me For Money For The Upkeep Of Her Newborn by Ogundex(m): 7:56am On Oct 16, 2021

Tickles001:
You are not doing God's work. Don't bring him into your drama.
Why not take your daughter and raise her yourself. How can you entrust someone like that to raise your child, or you want your daughter to become like her?

All I can tell you is that you're not too far from express

My thoughts exactly. Op should collect his daughter from her ASAP least she grow up to become like her mother. He can train her by himself or better still look for a responsible relations who can. I fear for the daughter's future

Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Disturbs Me For Money For The Upkeep Of Her Newborn by bestpunterever: 7:56am On Oct 16, 2021

handsomeyitayo:
Good day nairaland,

I have this my ex girlfriend that just gave birth and she do call me at times to send her money, .. and come to think of it ,she has fought me before and also insult hell out of me that time I am still searching for job, telling me I don't have money to care for her..she left me though she had a baby girl for me of which I do send money for her feeding and school fees...but she will call me that she needed some money that I should send for her...to eat is difficult, she is doing creche job that they pay her token even where she stays with her husband is her husband friends house and that one had drove them away one night ..I have to send money to her to lodge in an hotel due to pregnancy ...the same husband did not show care at all dump her aside..I ask her about the whereabout of her husband she will say I should forget him, ....I told her can't she go to her husband family house ..she said no...

Even the naming ceremony self dey did...only the husband came..and it was this my baby mama father that just organise menu for the naming ceremony...

But I do send some money to for the sake of my daughter...

I do remember those days we were together ,she will be insulting me , talking to me mannerless ...

We fought then because she dates guys arround then until I broke up with her...

Now she do call for me to send money to her ...but I don't know what to do, I don't like insulting or shouting on someone because she needs help....but I only do for the sake of my daughter...but should I stop.the husband is not serious about her ....

And this my baby mama is stubborn.. hypertensive lady ..

But if I remember those days, is as if I should remind her... and I will stop sending her money.but as a Christian I just use church mind...

If she ask me for money, I do feel pity...

Should I stop or continue assisting her...

stop dick riding, stop simping around, you still love your ex...
better don't fvck her.

Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Disturbs Me For Money For The Upkeep Of Her Newborn by Tapout(m): 7:58am On Oct 16, 2021

handsomeyitayo:
.

Did you break up with her for dating other guys before or after she had your daughter?

Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Disturbs Me For Money For The Upkeep Of Her Newborn by Ultimas: 7:59am On Oct 16, 2021

She should be a bygone. Let bygone be bygone.

Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Disturbs Me For Money For The Upkeep Of Her Newborn by NoFucksToGive: 8:00am On Oct 16, 2021

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handsomeyitayo:
really... Even I still have some of them my ex girlfriends asking me for money...I wonder why their boyfriend don't give them

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Look at this attention seeking nonsense

Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Disturbs Me For Money For The Upkeep Of Her Newborn by Victorclean1: 8:01am On Oct 16, 2021

She must be an Afunja. Their male were mostly useless. Hardly takes care of their wives. Go to their villages and see

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Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Disturbs Me For Money For The Upkeep Of Her Newborn by GNBohr: 8:02am On Oct 16, 2021

handsomeyitayo:
my own daughter is with my baby mamas father's house...not with her..I do send money to my daughter through her Dad...but she will call me that I only remember my daugyy that what of her ..

Continue sending money for the upkeep of your daughter until she's of age to come live with you if you or she chooses to. You are likely going on in a new relationship and ladies don't like taking care of another's children and might cause conflict with her if you take your child to leave with you. There are a lot of processes involved in getting the custody because the family will not give up the custody just like that. For the ex, it's in the nature of women to ask, more so when you once loved each other and have a child together. Please don't do what will inconvenience you. If you have to give, give her and if you don't tell her. You can always refuse. She's not your responsibility but you can help her. The past is gone and you have been blessed. Don't get stucked in the past by using what she did to you against her. Majority of women will insult men who is broke. That's women for you. Are you sure the one you are going out with now will not insult you if she were to meet you in your former financial situation? God continue to bless you

Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Disturbs Me For Money For The Upkeep Of Her Newborn by jimtemi1: 8:02am On Oct 16, 2021

OnlineArchitect:
Well like someone already advised take your baby from her and rest. But if you're financially capable there's no harm in setting her up in any little way possible so as to cater for her needs and that of your child without her bothering you every now and then. You really don't need to bring the past into the future as i always encourage forgiveness that's if it's from a repentant heart and you'll see God's continued blessings

there is sence in what you have said, but settling her up.. Haba when she jilted the guy if the guy commit sucide nko... Abeg carry ur girl away from her and let her rest in her poverty,forgiveness is good for those who can do it...

Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Disturbs Me For Money For The Upkeep Of Her Newborn by Thavirus: 8:04am On Oct 16, 2021

Yo!! Take your child from her and move the bleep on!! She's no longer your priority for crying out loud... don't be a simp... she's using you!!!!!!!!!

Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Disturbs Me For Money For The Upkeep Of Her Newborn by emerged01(m): 8:06am On Oct 16, 2021

Iyaebe:
Be a cheerful giver,God will reward you for every penny you give out.Givers shall never lack,remember this and do more,God bless you.

Who are you to bless someone God is punishing?

Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Disturbs Me For Money For The Upkeep Of Her Newborn by Nobody: 8:09am On Oct 16, 2021

handsomeyitayo:
Good day nairaland,

I have this my ex girlfriend that just gave birth and she do call me at times to send her money, .. and come to think of it ,she has fought me before and also insult hell out of me that time I am still searching for job, telling me I don't have money to care for her..she left me though she had a baby girl for me of which I do send money for her feeding and school fees...but she will call me that she needed some money that I should send for her...to eat is difficult, she is doing creche job that they pay her token even where she stays with her husband is her husband friends house and that one had drove them away one night ..I have to send money to her to lodge in an hotel due to pregnancy ...the same husband did not show care at all dump her aside..I ask her about the whereabout of her husband she will say I should forget him, ....I told her can't she go to her husband family house ..she said no...

Even the naming ceremony self dey did...only the husband came..and it was this my baby mama father that just organise menu for the naming ceremony...

But I do send some money to for the sake of my daughter...

I do remember those days we were together ,she will be insulting me , talking to me mannerless ...

We fought then because she dates guys arround then until I broke up with her...

Now she do call for me to send money to her ...but I don't know what to do, I don't like insulting or shouting on someone because she needs help....but I only do for the sake of my daughter...but should I stop.the husband is not serious about her ....

And this my baby mama is stubborn.. hypertensive lady ..

But if I remember those days, is as if I should remind her... and I will stop sending her money.but as a Christian I just use church mind...

If she ask me for money, I do feel pity...

Should I stop or continue assisting her...

You are mad. I repeat... U are mad! Rubbish! How will women have respect for men when weak spineless imbec.iles like you allow yourself to be treated this way? And you don't even have sense, you're foolish enough to come here to ask if you should continue being a weak, controlled imbec.ile.

Disgrace!!

Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Disturbs Me For Money For The Upkeep Of Her Newborn by sgtponzihater1(m): 8:10am On Oct 16, 2021

Having a child with her have committed you already. Take care of your child, and help the lady if you can. If not, your child is your priority

Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Disturbs Me For Money For The Upkeep Of Her Newborn by JeffreyJunior: 8:11am On Oct 16, 2021

Biko, help her but be careful to end it at that.

Try to help her only once but tangibly. That way, she won't have to come back.

Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Disturbs Me For Money For The Upkeep Of Her Newborn by loswhite(m): 8:15am On Oct 16, 2021

handsomeyitayo:
Good day nairaland,

I have this my ex girlfriend that just gave birth and she do call me at times to send her money, .. and come to think of it ,she has fought me before and also insult hell out of me that time I am still searching for job, telling me I don't have money to care for her..she left me though she had a baby girl for me of which I do send money for her feeding and school fees...but she will call me that she needed some money that I should send for her...to eat is difficult, she is doing creche job that they pay her token even where she stays with her husband is her husband friends house and that one had drove them away one night ..I have to send money to her to lodge in an hotel due to pregnancy ...the same husband did not show care at all dump her aside..I ask her about the whereabout of her husband she will say I should forget him, ....I told her can't she go to her husband family house ..she said no...

Even the naming ceremony self dey did...only the husband came..and it was this my baby mama father that just organise menu for the naming ceremony...

But I do send some money to for the sake of my daughter...

I do remember those days we were together ,she will be insulting me , talking to me mannerless ...

We fought then because she dates guys arround then until I broke up with her...

Now she do call for me to send money to her ...but I don't know what to do, I don't like insulting or shouting on someone because she needs help....but I only do for the sake of my daughter...but should I stop.the husband is not serious about her ....

And this my baby mama is stubborn.. hypertensive lady ..

But if I remember those days, is as if I should remind her... and I will stop sending her money.but as a Christian I just use church mind...

If she ask me for money, I do feel pity...

Should I stop or continue assisting her...

Nonsense

Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Disturbs Me For Money For The Upkeep Of Her Newborn by Nobody: 8:21am On Oct 16, 2021

I'm just here to read the comments & the comments inside the comments comments

Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Disturbs Me For Money For The Upkeep Of Her Newborn by Tickles001(m): 8:24am On Oct 16, 2021

Ogundex:
My thoughts exactly. Op should collect his daughter from her ASAP least she grow up to become like her mother. He can train her by himself or better still look for a responsible relations who can. I fear for the daughter's future

Yeah just that the woman is likely to mount resistance. She would see it like he wants to disarm her.

Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Disturbs Me For Money For The Upkeep Of Her Newborn by karimusaa: 8:25am On Oct 16, 2021

YOU ARE A KIND PERSON JUST CONTINUE ANY ASSISTANCE WITHIN YOUR POWER. GOD WILL SEE YOU THROUGH. ��

handsomeyitayo:
Good day nairaland,

I have this my ex girlfriend that just gave birth and she do call me at times to send her money, .. and come to think of it ,she has fought me before and also insult hell out of me that time I am still searching for job, telling me I don't have money to care for her..she left me though she had a baby girl for me of which I do send money for her feeding and school fees...but she will call me that she needed some money that I should send for her...to eat is difficult, she is doing creche job that they pay her token even where she stays with her husband is her husband friends house and that one had drove them away one night ..I have to send money to her to lodge in an hotel due to pregnancy ...the same husband did not show care at all dump her aside..I ask her about the whereabout of her husband she will say I should forget him, ....I told her can't she go to her husband family house ..she said no...

Even the naming ceremony self dey did...only the husband came..and it was this my baby mama father that just organise menu for the naming ceremony...

But I do send some money to for the sake of my daughter...

I do remember those days we were together ,she will be insulting me , talking to me mannerless ...

We fought then because she dates guys arround then until I broke up with her...

Now she do call for me to send money to her ...but I don't know what to do, I don't like insulting or shouting on someone because she needs help....but I only do for the sake of my daughter...but should I stop.the husband is not serious about her ....

And this my baby mama is stubborn.. hypertensive lady ..

But if I remember those days, is as if I should remind her... and I will stop sending her money.but as a Christian I just use church mind...

If she ask me for money, I do feel pity...

Should I stop or continue assisting her...

Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Disturbs Me For Money For The Upkeep Of Her Newborn by IMAliyu(m): 8:26am On Oct 16, 2021

kkins25:
I read some psychology book some time ago about Abuse. it was mostly on sexual abuse but there are some elements that could be found in toxic relationships such as yours.

Now, you mentioned that you suffered from consistent verbal assault from your Ex, from what i read, there exist some kind of relationship that usually develops between the abuser and the victim. Its almost similar to Stockholm syndrome, the two of you would find it difficult to exist separately, so much so that You-the victim, would find excuses to go back into your abusers care. common excuses include:
1) children
2) finances
3) blind belief that the abusive partner would change
4) fear of leaving "comfort zone".
unfortunately, i cannot remember the name of the condition but what you have developed may probably be some sort of search for blinded dependency on your abuser. Don't let those thoughts win.

Its not your sympathy talking sir, its actually your abused psyche trying to go back to its source. like an abused wife,like that of folykaze who continuously searches for means to grovel at the feet of her beloved abuser.

Is it codependency?

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Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Disturbs Me For Money For The Upkeep Of Her Newborn by Valuc: 8:26am On Oct 16, 2021

Guy help if u can help.. leave story for another day

Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Disturbs Me For Money For The Upkeep Of Her Newborn by Cubeman: 8:28am On Oct 16, 2021

My story is not similar but related. I pursued this girl for years but she turned me down. One day she told me she just wasn't attracted to me,so that's why she wouldn't be my girl. That day,I knew I had to let her go. I'm married with two kids and she's married with two kids also. But she calls me for assistance. I have been doing it but one day I put a stop to it. Your baby mama brought hardship on herself. Take your kid and let her go

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Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Disturbs Me For Money For The Upkeep Of Her Newborn by Jorge91: 8:28am On Oct 16, 2021

handsomeyitayo:
Good day nairaland,

I have this my ex girlfriend that just gave birth and she do call me at times to send her money, .. and come to think of it ,she has fought me before and also insult hell out of me that time I am still searching for job, telling me I don't have money to care for her..she left me though she had a baby girl for me of which I do send money for her feeding and school fees...but she will call me that she needed some money that I should send for her...to eat is difficult, she is doing creche job that they pay her token even where she stays with her husband is her husband friends house and that one had drove them away one night ..I have to send money to her to lodge in an hotel due to pregnancy ...the same husband did not show care at all dump her aside..I ask her about the whereabout of her husband she will say I should forget him, ....I told her can't she go to her husband family house ..she said no...

Even the naming ceremony self dey did...only the husband came..and it was this my baby mama father that just organise menu for the naming ceremony...

But I do send some money to for the sake of my daughter...

I do remember those days we were together ,she will be insulting me , talking to me mannerless ...

We fought then because she dates guys arround then until I broke up with her...

Now she do call for me to send money to her ...but I don't know what to do, I don't like insulting or shouting on someone because she needs help....but I only do for the sake of my daughter...but should I stop.the husband is not serious about her ....

And this my baby mama is stubborn.. hypertensive lady ..

But if I remember those days, is as if I should remind her... and I will stop sending her money.but as a Christian I just use church mind...

If she ask me for money, I do feel pity...

Should I stop or continue assisting her...

she is using that child to get to you, find out more about her husband, stop believing every words that comes out of her mouth, seems you are a very soft person.

Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Disturbs Me For Money For The Upkeep Of Her Newborn by Cubeman: 8:29am On Oct 16, 2021

My story is not similar but related. I pursued this girl for years but she turned me down. One day she told me she just wasn't attracted to me,so that's why she wouldn't be my girl. That day,I knew I had to let her go. Now I'm married with two kids and she's married with two kids also. But she calls me for assistance. I have been doing it but one day I put a stop to it. Your baby mama brought hardship on herself. Take your kid and let her go

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Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Disturbs Me For Money For The Upkeep Of Her Newborn by don4real18(m): 8:29am On Oct 16, 2021

Your focus should be on raising a daughter that doesn't walk the path of her mother. It is time for you to be a father and take her from your ex-girlfriend.

Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Disturbs Me For Money For The Upkeep Of Her Newborn by cayorday89(m): 8:31am On Oct 16, 2021

handsomeyitayo:
Good day nairaland,

I have this my ex girlfriend that just gave birth and she do call me at times to send her money, .. and come to think of it ,she has fought me before and also insult hell out of me that time I am still searching for job, telling me I don't have money to care for her..she left me though she had a baby girl for me of which I do send money for her feeding and school fees...but she will call me that she needed some money that I should send for her...to eat is difficult, she is doing creche job that they pay her token even where she stays with her husband is her husband friends house and that one had drove them away one night ..I have to send money to her to lodge in an hotel due to pregnancy ...the same husband did not show care at all dump her aside..I ask her about the whereabout of her husband she will say I should forget him, ....I told her can't she go to her husband family house ..she said no...

Even the naming ceremony self dey did...only the husband came..and it was this my baby mama father that just organise menu for the naming ceremony...

But I do send some money to for the sake of my daughter...

I do remember those days we were together ,she will be insulting me , talking to me mannerless ...

We fought then because she dates guys arround then until I broke up with her...

Now she do call for me to send money to her ...but I don't know what to do, I don't like insulting or shouting on someone because she needs help....but I only do for the sake of my daughter...but should I stop.the husband is not serious about her ....

And this my baby mama is stubborn.. hypertensive lady ..

But if I remember those days, is as if I should remind her... and I will stop sending her money.but as a Christian I just use church mind...

If she ask me for money, I do feel pity...

Should I stop or continue assisting her...

Even if she is very okay with her husband, as long as your child still stays with her, you are obligated to send her money not for her personal use but for the sake of your child... Now that she is having financial issues, you don't even need to think of her past because according to you she is already reaping the consequences of her past actions but you still have to send her money for the sake of your child or you take your child away from her and cut ties with her...
And if she is blocking you from getting your daughter, it's best you send at your own will and not at her every call...

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