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| Re: Have You Ever Been Scammed By A Close Friend Or Relative? Share Your Experience by clockwisereport: 1:05am On Oct 22, 2021 |
avrilwisedata:My brain just knock. I read and read but the thing no green enter. |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Scammed By A Close Friend Or Relative? Share Your Experience by WispyEthereal: 1:42am On Oct 22, 2021 |
I have by an exes dad, and I didn't even get to do the do sef |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Scammed By A Close Friend Or Relative? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 2:00am On Oct 22, 2021 |
Nlanalyst:Unbelievable!!! Best friend of 13 years Omo! Did you see any warning signs beforehand that he wasn't loyal? Was this the first time he betrayed you? |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Scammed By A Close Friend Or Relative? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 2:03am On Oct 22, 2021 |
prinx55555:How would you define lowlife? How do you know whether a person is a lowlife? I thought that only having well established friends would prevent getting scammed but then I realized that there's no guarantee of anything. Even a person who has it all can lose it all |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Scammed By A Close Friend Or Relative? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 2:04am On Oct 22, 2021 |
Polynek:Sometimes we think that we're being understanding but what we don't realise is that we're actually enabling the bad behaviour of other people |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Scammed By A Close Friend Or Relative? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 2:06am On Oct 22, 2021 |
arthurwillia:Are you a scammer? I'm not. Not all are scammers. Don't assume that everyone is one because you are one |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Scammed By A Close Friend Or Relative? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 2:08am On Oct 22, 2021 |
alhaji04:Yes, we're not perfect but it's wrong to say that everyone is a scammer. Do you steal people's hard earned money? Does everyone steal other people's hard earned money? Of course not! |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Scammed By A Close Friend Or Relative? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 2:11am On Oct 22, 2021 |
Calitoscassius:I read the latter comment as well. Your mother is enabling his bad behaviour. If you really want to get through to him, let him deal with the consequences of his actions accordingly You should be conscious of your safety though is you should take that route. Only God knows what that man is capable of. Men like him can be very wicked |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Scammed By A Close Friend Or Relative? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 2:12am On Oct 22, 2021 |
vinexe:Unbelievable! Some people can be very heartless! |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Scammed By A Close Friend Or Relative? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 2:13am On Oct 22, 2021 |
ElGood:Golden rule. If you need to pay to get a loan, it's a scam |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Scammed By A Close Friend Or Relative? Share Your Experience by Olukunle62(m): 2:25am On Oct 22, 2021 |
Polynek:That means say the scamming stuff don dey him blood be dat if he is doing well |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Scammed By A Close Friend Or Relative? Share Your Experience by Kayw4re(m): 2:40am On Oct 22, 2021 |
Polynek:Thief no dey thief Thief na. ![]() |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Scammed By A Close Friend Or Relative? Share Your Experience by dalass(f): 2:46am On Oct 22, 2021 |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Scammed By A Close Friend Or Relative? Share Your Experience by Polynek(m): 3:11am On Oct 22, 2021 |
Kayw4re:Exactly nal ![]() |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Scammed By A Close Friend Or Relative? Share Your Experience by Polynek(m): 3:12am On Oct 22, 2021 |
bepositive11:I never encouraged Him to Sir, He is an adult He knows wat is right and wrong |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Scammed By A Close Friend Or Relative? Share Your Experience by Polynek(m): 3:13am On Oct 22, 2021 |
Waleprotocol:No need to b economical with the truth nal, ![]() |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Scammed By A Close Friend Or Relative? Share Your Experience by Polynek(m): 3:13am On Oct 22, 2021 |
bigcee: D guy don G full time now ![]() |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Scammed By A Close Friend Or Relative? Share Your Experience by Polynek(m): 3:14am On Oct 22, 2021 |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Scammed By A Close Friend Or Relative? Share Your Experience by Doyou2019: 4:26am On Oct 22, 2021 |
Uncle96:In Kanye's voice : Real Friends : How many of us ![]() |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Scammed By A Close Friend Or Relative? Share Your Experience by TheRealOwner(m): 4:28am On Oct 22, 2021 |
vinexe: |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Scammed By A Close Friend Or Relative? Share Your Experience by biafrasun: 4:30am On Oct 22, 2021 |
oluwaseyi0:don't him abi her, they're the best scamer in this nairaland. |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Scammed By A Close Friend Or Relative? Share Your Experience by NACE13: 5:23am On Oct 22, 2021 |
winterlover:Bro, with all sincerity, You fvcked up and you should just accept it because you betrayed your friend for just 4k, meaning you could do more than that, if given the chance. Don't try to use emotions to make it look like your ex-friend did a terrible thing to you by unfriending and avoiding you. There's a difference between a mistake and intention blown side ways. Yours wasn't a mistake because you deliberately did it and probably got caught. It is what it is. |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Scammed By A Close Friend Or Relative? Share Your Experience by Oyerinde16(m): 5:56am On Oct 22, 2021 |
Mine was back then in school around 2008, I was hard working, missing classes just to make ends meet, My guy Sunday tot I had so Much money and decided to run me street, he planned with another guy to tell me they both could not complete their fees, I was like but Sunday, your bro is a big boy banker, Sunday lied that his bro did not give him money, his friend who I know as a casual friend said his own mother was sick, reasons for shortage of fees, out of my hard earned saving, I borrowed each of them #20k each, what they both requested for, they promised to pay but weeks turned into months, cos I was missing lectures to work, my Cgp was dropping, Sunday was pulling away, one day I just involved school security, got the other guy arrested, since I was shy of arresting my best friend Sunday in school, people will wonder what type of friends we were I could not help, but when security interrogated Charles in my presence, he spilled the beans, telling them its Sunday that told him all what to say, he said he had paid his school fees before they came to borrow the money, he told them he warned Sunday hope it will not backfire and Sunday assured him, it won't, he said Sunday often told him to forget it that it was gone, the Hausa security guys were very happy and wanted to show the school they were working, they swiftly picked up Sunday, he tried to deny, but after realising Charles had given him away, he confessed that he saw I had too much money and just wanted to collect small. I had only #42k yet Gave them #20k each so they don't miss, I failed several courses cos I missed test, assignments and group presentations just to survive, This same Sunday I spent so Much on, helped during exams, wrote carry overs for, yet he ran me street. They paid the money in bits till I told them to stop, then I became more careful. |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Scammed By A Close Friend Or Relative? Share Your Experience by akigbemaru: 6:27am On Oct 22, 2021 |
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| Re: Have You Ever Been Scammed By A Close Friend Or Relative? Share Your Experience by vinexe: 6:46am On Oct 22, 2021 |
I can't never forget what happened to me in 2016..... in the pursue of traveling abroad.... it is a heartbreak story ….. I stumbled on this woman called joy she is a winners chapels member...… it was a friend that give me her contact then . and this lady stay in Abuja she told me that they can get a job for me in Canada cues I am in to industrial maintenance engineering... but I need to paid for the registration fees 20k . I said ok she send me her acct number I sent 20k for her...… after some weeks she called me requested for 30k that I should send it with my passport number... I send the 30k for her... this woman later called me to informed me that I need to come to Abuja for my biometric and other things and I also need to paid for my fight ticket and my bta to Canada, is my responsibility to take care of it … she told me to come to Abuja on the 16 of April 2016... but I need to send the total of 370k …. I said ok I call the person that directed me to her she said she traveled … that I should do what ever she told me to do .. she said by next month I will be traveling out of Nigeria.....I was very happy to hear this I don't know that the are working hand to hand . I began to sorts for money . then I have a Bajaj machine I bought about 120k , I started looking for a buyer at the end I managed to sold it 80k I said in my mind since I will be traveling out there is know need for me to keep the machine..so I send the 370k to her making it 420k total I have sent to her.... 3 days to 16 of April she called me asking me if I have a place to stay at Abuja I said know she said I need to paid for a hotel at least 2days she told me that were about 6 in number that is traveling to Canada that were going to meet each other in Abuja ... she said she can paid it for me cues all of us need to stay in one hotel … she said the hotel will cost about 22k by then i began to have bubbled mind make this thing no be scam ooo oh God help me... after i encouraged my self that I will be in Abuja by 3 days time to see every thing by my self... i send the 22kevery thing is now 442k... she send me address to come to Abuja gwagwrada presidential villa.... i enter bus from Lagos to Abuja . call Mrs. joy informed her that am on my way to Abuja she said ok when i get to park i should call her she will come and pick me .... i get to Abuja i called this woman number the number is switch off .. i keep on calling her but is not going through i stayed in Abuja for about 4 days calling this woman the number is not going i called the person that directed me to her the person said that she is not in the town maybe the woman have battery low.. i ask this person have battery for 3 days the next thing she cut the call and her number went off... I spend about 60k with my transportation to and FRO and hotel in Abuja. before i finally come back to Lagos.. i have lot every thing i have .. i am 28 years as of 2016 i want to killed my self i don't come outside for about 3days crying.. the next 4days i went to the bank were i usually send the money from i explained everything to the manager .. the manager ask me to give him the acct num which i did .. after every thing he told me that the person that have the acct is in delta state .... but for them to help me that i need to bring police report for them to see what they can do for me .... i went to police station after every thing i paid some money to them i was given police repot i go along with the receipt of the all transfer i made to the woman ..... so i took it to the bank so the manager told me that after they have finished what they want to do . i need to paid in 100k in to the acct so that the person will go to bank to withdraw the money and she will arrested on attempt to withdraw... i told the man that i don't have any money with me again ..... i went back to the police station and tell them what the manager said ... they told me not to send any money to the acct ... that the person will suspect that this is a planed work ….. the ask me to paid them 50k that the will do the job and i will get back my money.... i said ok let me go and look for money for them... na so i take run run run ...... and didn't return............... till today the number is not going through .. |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Scammed By A Close Friend Or Relative? Share Your Experience by vinexe: 6:58am On Oct 22, 2021 |
TheRealOwner:my man thanks for ur concern i thank almighty God .. this thing later send me parking out from Lagos i lost about 500k .. i went back to the village cues i cant cope again my house rent expired my job is not stable... i went back to the village in 2016 ending i stay at the village till 2020... before i finally come back to Lagos to start life again … |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Scammed By A Close Friend Or Relative? Share Your Experience by Nlanalyst(op): 7:06am On Oct 22, 2021 |
bepositive11:That was his first time honestly which added to why I was so surprised. He has just become an addicted gambler, I think that is what killed his conscience. |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Scammed By A Close Friend Or Relative? Share Your Experience by arthurwillia(m): 7:07am On Oct 22, 2021 |
avrilwisedata:Lol ode Holy pass holy pass Swear say your a$$ never defraud person before Ode |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Scammed By A Close Friend Or Relative? Share Your Experience by arthurwillia(m): 7:08am On Oct 22, 2021 |
Yankee101:No ode , like it or not you are a thief one way or the other |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Scammed By A Close Friend Or Relative? Share Your Experience by arthurwillia(m): 7:09am On Oct 22, 2021 |
bepositive11:Taaa comot there, swear In your life you never defrauded someone |
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Omo! Did you see any warning signs beforehand that he wasn't loyal? Was this the first time he betrayed you?