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sirjamesjnr:
. What cake do they eat? It is their body, respect it. That is what maturity is all about.

I pity you

Me I no too like dey shout, have plenty body count and expect me to marry you.

So far say I no use myself anyhow, you go explain yours.

TheRedpillguy:
A hoe

And you are a loser really. Many of you became red polled after they broke your fragile hearts
We can see through your insecurities baby

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sirjamesjnr:
There is no sure thing as a sexual quota. And there is no such thing as a ‘hoe’. Men that slut-shaming women are not mature to be in a grown-up relationship. No lady is not accountable to any man for her past. It's none of a man's business.

That lady A has one guy she sleep with when she was 15 till she clocks 30 and married, lady B has a body count of 100 before her 30th birthday. The truth is the two ladies have sex and they don't owe you any explanation.

If you are going to marry for 'purity" look for a virgin girl. Do not condemn a man who wants a team player, homemaker, companion, and someone who can resonate with him. A virgin girl can tick all the boxes agreed. If you found that virgin girl with these qualities good luck. There is a lady out there for every man. Time is hard, while the world is moving forward, the Average Nigerian man is talking about body count. Shouldn't you be worried about a lady who can build a great home with you so your generation won't abuse you? Whether you are wealthy or you are coming up, I will like to think you need a proper woman to build your home with you.

My time in this uncertain world, both in the corporate world and among great minds. What we care about are ladies with decent character, basic moral values, ethics, cleanliness, abilities to accept responsibility, and willingness to learn something good. Never for once within this circle of friends and learned mind do we care about what a woman does with her body. What you do when you are in a relationship with me is what matters.

To that man who is in a decent relationship:
I know how you feel. When you develop strong feelings for a girl, it’s hard to think of her being with other guys. Even though you can rationalize that her past relationships happened before you met, it doesn’t make it any easier to accept that there were others who had been intimate with her. But you can’t dwell on this. It will destroy you, and it will destroy your relationship with your girlfriend.

Unless your girlfriend is the kind of girl that is very flirtatious, and who loves all the attention that she can get from guys, you probably don’t have anything to worry about. If she were a “hoe” she wouldn't want to have a decent relationship. So how do you get over this? There are only two things that I know of that you can do:

1. Don’t torture yourself with the details. There is no reason for you to know with whom she did it, how many times they did it, what positions they did it in, how big the guys were, and if they were better in bed than you or not. As tempting as it is to ask her these things—don’t! And stop her from volunteering that kind of information. Knowing these things will not help you or your relationship with your girlfriend in any way. They will only become mental and emotional burdens to you—obstacles and barriers that you will constantly have to overcome in order to treat her the way that she deserves to be treated. You protect yourself and you protect your relationship when you avoid rubbing your nose in her past.

2. Change the way that you look at people. Start realizing that every one of us is screwed up in some way. There are no perfect people. Every single one of us does dumb things and makes mistakes in our quest to find love and belonging. Your girlfriend is no exception. Choose to see her through the eyes of love and compassion, rather than through the eyes of judgment and condemnation.

To our ladies. I have one thing to say to you. You don’t need to apologize for your past relationships, and you don't need to explain yourself to any man. Simply understand that all you need is to be loved by someone, and if it didn’t work out, move on and build your life. Hopefully, your next relationship will work out for you.

Me personally? I’ve never longed to be with a virgin except for an ex and my girl(I am not with her because of sexual purity). I prefer my sexual partners to already know their way around their own sexuality. That means they’ve gotten some practice. Now I understand that as a man you need some certain confidence that some of you may are probably still forming. But when someone says something derogatory about the woman I’ve chosen to love I don’t reconsider my love. I conclude the person saying it is an idiot and ignore them in the future. I have faith in myself which leads me to have faith in the people I choose as partners.

Ladies out there, know the class of men you allow into your life. Be responsible for your actions.

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Go and marry ashewo

sirjamesjnr:
There is no sure thing as a sexual quota. And there is no such thing as a ‘hoe’. Men that slut-shaming women are not mature to be in a grown-up relationship. No lady is not accountable to any man for her past. It's none of a man's business.

That lady A has one guy she sleep with when she was 15 till she clocks 30 and married, lady B has a body count of 100 before her 30th birthday. The truth is the two ladies have sex and they don't owe you any explanation.

If you are going to marry for 'purity" look for a virgin girl. Do not condemn a man who wants a team player, homemaker, companion, and someone who can resonate with him. A virgin girl can tick all the boxes agreed. If you found that virgin girl with these qualities good luck. There is a lady out there for every man. Time is hard, while the world is moving forward, the Average Nigerian man is talking about body count. Shouldn't you be worried about a lady who can build a great home with you so your generation won't abuse you? Whether you are wealthy or you are coming up, I will like to think you need a proper woman to build your home with you.

My time in this uncertain world, both in the corporate world and among great minds. What we care about are ladies with decent character, basic moral values, ethics, cleanliness, abilities to accept responsibility, and willingness to learn something good. Never for once within this circle of friends and learned mind do we care about what a woman does with her body. What you do when you are in a relationship with me is what matters.

To that man who is in a decent relationship:
I know how you feel. When you develop strong feelings for a girl, it’s hard to think of her being with other guys. Even though you can rationalize that her past relationships happened before you met, it doesn’t make it any easier to accept that there were others who had been intimate with her. But you can’t dwell on this. It will destroy you, and it will destroy your relationship with your girlfriend.

Unless your girlfriend is the kind of girl that is very flirtatious, and who loves all the attention that she can get from guys, you probably don’t have anything to worry about. If she were a “hoe” she wouldn't want to have a decent relationship. So how do you get over this? There are only two things that I know of that you can do:

1. Don’t torture yourself with the details. There is no reason for you to know with whom she did it, how many times they did it, what positions they did it in, how big the guys were, and if they were better in bed than you or not. As tempting as it is to ask her these things—don’t! And stop her from volunteering that kind of information. Knowing these things will not help you or your relationship with your girlfriend in any way. They will only become mental and emotional burdens to you—obstacles and barriers that you will constantly have to overcome in order to treat her the way that she deserves to be treated. You protect yourself and you protect your relationship when you avoid rubbing your nose in her past.

2. Change the way that you look at people. Start realizing that every one of us is screwed up in some way. There are no perfect people. Every single one of us does dumb things and makes mistakes in our quest to find love and belonging. Your girlfriend is no exception. Choose to see her through the eyes of love and compassion, rather than through the eyes of judgment and condemnation.

To our ladies. I have one thing to say to you. You don’t need to apologize for your past relationships, and you don't need to explain yourself to any man. Simply understand that all you need is to be loved by someone, and if it didn’t work out, move on and build your life. Hopefully, your next relationship will work out for you.

Me personally? I’ve never longed to be with a virgin except for an ex and my girl(I am not with her because of sexual purity). I prefer my sexual partners to already know their way around their own sexuality. That means they’ve gotten some practice. Now I understand that as a man you need some certain confidence that some of you may are probably still forming. But when someone says something derogatory about the woman I’ve chosen to love I don’t reconsider my love. I conclude the person saying it is an idiot and ignore them in the future. I have faith in myself which leads me to have faith in the people I choose as partners.

Ladies out there, know the class of men you allow into your life. Be responsible for your actions.

In your mind now you have made sense abi shio. Thats why the world is turning upside down on a daily basis. A hole that 1 d*ck past through can never be the same as one that 10 past through. Use your head

I THINK THE OP WROTE ALL THIS RUBBISH TO IMPRESS HIS WIFE.

I CAN ASSURE U THAT ONE LADY LIKE THAT HAS ASKED ME TO BE HER FRIEND, AS SHE TOLD ME SOME OF HER PAST LIFE OF DOING RUNS WHEN SHE WAS IN THE UNI,SHE EVEN TOLD ME TO COME TO HER CHURCH AS SHE IS NOW A BORN AGAIN.I COME ASK MY SELF HOW CAN A MAN LIKE ME FELLOW HER TO HER CHURCH because SHE HAS A BIG ASS.HOW CAN A GUYMAN LEAVE YOUNGER GIRLS AND FELLOW AN EVENING NEWSPAPER,AFTER WASTING HER YOUTH AGE DOING ASHAWO.INFACT I WAS WEAK AFTER I HEARD HER STORY.
DONT SAY IT DOESNT MATTER,UNLESS U RE ANY HOW MAN.I LATER RUN FOR MY LIFE AND MY FUTURE DAUGHTERS.

TheRedpillguy:
A hoe

Red pill Alpha male.

sirjamesjnr:
. As stated in my post, relationships are for the "men". How you weather the storm of life makes you a man. A guy that was getting to know my girl, move from being friends to asking her for a nice time, even when my girl informed him about her relationship status. When I saw the chat, I delete his number, block him then proceed to create some red lines. I simply take charge. I am not been called a man because I have a dick but I can handle situations. You should be concerned about the present not what happened in the past.

na bcus she tell u that one....i pity you gan

Pataricatering:
keep quiet there . Male hoes do not deserve anything but female hoes . You.people and your wailing will not change anything about how women fvck ..you people will marry hoes becos hoes are what you deserve- my dear .

You know that is not the case these days my dear. Your outrage cannot change society. Better take my advice and save your natural resource from high mileage. Even bad boys don’t want battered goods much less decent guys like me.

Kisses

Pussywar:
Once again, overrating your importance. Preach your rubbish to the girls in your house that prioritize men and their feelings. Nobody cares.

Men have the advantage in a relationship. Women have no single advantage, none. It hurts, but that's nature... A man with 1000 body counts can still decide to marry any girl of the type he desire.... All the girls whoring around currently usually settle for less... Real men go for good meat... no well to do guy is gonna keep you after his friend describe how your body look like to him...

alphabbey1:
Men have the advantage in a relationship. Women have no single advantage, none. It hurts, but that's nature... A man with 1000 body counts can still decide to marry any girl of the type he desire.... All the girls whoring around currently usually settle for less... Real men go for good meat... no well to do guy is gonna keep you after his friend describe how your body look like to him...

You can try to convince yourself with this faux reality all you want, but this is not my reality. I promise you, I have never had a slight attraction for anyone with a mentality like this. Your words are as empty as your brain. They mean nothing. Keep trying though. Cos wtf is this sexist bullshit?

Olosho don drop note

Ayinke93:
Say na wife you or dump you
Really you people overestimate your importance. Nobody really cares about being the wife of any of you losers. Like most of you bring absolutely nothing to the table and I blame the women that still roll with you guys .

like I said earlier, most girls whoring around will definitely settle for less .... They are just gonna manage whatever guy that comes there way... Big men will watch and select the best to marry even after they've reduced other girls body to nothing.... You never see wealthy people with rubbish wife... if you like, be pained, you are probably gonna remain single or marry a guy you'll be feeding....

MeghaneMorgane:
As a lady, a guy with too many body counts is a no no for me. I become disgusted no matter how fine you are and no matter your achievements. Any guy that sleeps with different olosho every weekend is a no no for me. Any guy that meets a girl today and wants to sleep with her next week is a no no for me. I’m actually disgusted by those kind of guys and the best relationship we can ever have is friends. Nothing more than that.

Once you have too many body count, I see you as someone who will definitely and obviously cheat on me. And me I no get energy for one man to come and cheat on me. Body counts matters for me. If I meet a virgin man, good for me. If not, make e no pass a certain number. Except if of course the guy has genuinely given his life to Christ. If not, we cannot be more than friends.

I don’t agree with what op has posted. You need the past information of your partner to know how to navigate the future. I want to know my partner’s past. If you don’t want to know yours, that’s your cup of tea

Make una come See woman.....after you, na still you joor...

Smartb0y:
you're responsible they're not.
they'll give you someone else's child to raise.
dont say you weren't warned when your eyes clear

These days, ppl don't have conscience again, ppl in relationships are better preserved than those who are not. Someone in a relationship will just be sleeping with one person (sometimes cheats) but many who are not in relationships sleep with anyone available and have more body counts when compared to those in a relationship, quite unfortunate.

kokanepyramid:
That guy is lost

No mind am! As I am talking to you right now,I am in a poolside birthday party being hosted by one chick wey I dey knack by the side. She loves "the way I rod her" whenever she comes around my place.

There was a day she came around and her so-called possessive boyfriend called her and demanded to know where she was (she was lying nude beside me after 2 vigorous rounds of pounding) and she told the guy she was busy. The guy asked her to come straight to his crib whenever she returned from where she was and she told him a blatant "NO" that she won't!

Because of that, she decided to spend the night that day in my house but I told her to kuku go home so that my fellow man no go die that night because she ignored his numerous calls afterwards.

Back to right now in her birthday party, I can see the guy here beaming with smiles and forming Don Jazzy without him realizing say I don turn him babe upandan, left and right.

Babe that wants to be faithful will be faithful and the one that wants to cheat will cheat.

All these SIMPS should rest!

alphabbey1:
like I said earlier, most girls whoring around will definitely settle for less .... They are just gonna manage whatever guy that comes there way... Big men will watch and select the best to marry even after they've reduced other girls body to nothing.... You never see wealthy people with rubbish wife... if you like, be pained, you are probably gonna remain single or marry a guy you'll be feeding....

Sadly I have a good career and I don’t need any of your specie to feed me. And I’d rather remain single than marry a loser. Those threats are for people that have nothing going on for them and I’m not one of them

Pussywar:
You can try to convince yourself with this faux reality all you want, but this is not my reality. I promise you, I have never had a slight attraction for anyone with a mentality like this. Your words are as empty as your brain. They mean nothing. Keep trying though. Cos wtf is this sexist bullshit?

how you view the matter is your problem... As am currently well to do, I will never settle for less.... You can keep on motivating your fellow hoes on social media... Real life awaits.... and don't misunderstand me, am not a pastor, neither a saint.... Sex is cheap now, thanks to poverty and equality people ....

Maobichek:
These days, ppl don't have conscience again, ppl in relationships are better preserved than those who are not. Someone in a relationship will just be sleeping with one person (sometimes cheats) but many who are not in relationships sleep with anyone available and have more body counts when compared to those in a relationship, quite unfortunate.

you've said it all.
fear single ladies.

sirjamesjnr:
There is no sure thing as a sexual quota. And there is no such thing as a ‘hoe’. Men that slut-shaming women are not mature to be in a grown-up relationship. No lady is not accountable to any man for her past. It's none of a man's business.

That lady A has one guy she sleep with when she was 15 till she clocks 30 and married, lady B has a body count of 100 before her 30th birthday. The truth is the two ladies have sex and they don't owe you any explanation.

If you are going to marry for 'purity" look for a virgin girl. Do not condemn a man who wants a team player, homemaker, companion, and someone who can resonate with him. A virgin girl can tick all the boxes agreed. If you found that virgin girl with these qualities good luck. There is a lady out there for every man. Time is hard, while the world is moving forward, the Average Nigerian man is talking about body count. Shouldn't you be worried about a lady who can build a great home with you so your generation won't abuse you? Whether you are wealthy or you are coming up, I will like to think you need a proper woman to build your home with you.

My time in this uncertain world, both in the corporate world and among great minds. What we care about are ladies with decent character, basic moral values, ethics, cleanliness, abilities to accept responsibility, and willingness to learn something good. Never for once within this circle of friends and learned mind do we care about what a woman does with her body. What you do when you are in a relationship with me is what matters.

To that man who is in a decent relationship:
I know how you feel. When you develop strong feelings for a girl, it’s hard to think of her being with other guys. Even though you can rationalize that her past relationships happened before you met, it doesn’t make it any easier to accept that there were others who had been intimate with her. But you can’t dwell on this. It will destroy you, and it will destroy your relationship with your girlfriend.

Unless your girlfriend is the kind of girl that is very flirtatious, and who loves all the attention that she can get from guys, you probably don’t have anything to worry about. If she were a “hoe” she wouldn't want to have a decent relationship. So how do you get over this? There are only two things that I know of that you can do:

1. Don’t torture yourself with the details. There is no reason for you to know with whom she did it, how many times they did it, what positions they did it in, how big the guys were, and if they were better in bed than you or not. As tempting as it is to ask her these things—don’t! And stop her from volunteering that kind of information. Knowing these things will not help you or your relationship with your girlfriend in any way. They will only become mental and emotional burdens to you—obstacles and barriers that you will constantly have to overcome in order to treat her the way that she deserves to be treated. You protect yourself and you protect your relationship when you avoid rubbing your nose in her past.

2. Change the way that you look at people. Start realizing that every one of us is screwed up in some way. There are no perfect people. Every single one of us does dumb things and makes mistakes in our quest to find love and belonging. Your girlfriend is no exception. Choose to see her through the eyes of love and compassion, rather than through the eyes of judgment and condemnation.

To our ladies. I have one thing to say to you. You don’t need to apologize for your past relationships, and you don't need to explain yourself to any man. Simply understand that all you need is to be loved by someone, and if it didn’t work out, move on and build your life. Hopefully, your next relationship will work out for you.

Me personally? I’ve never longed to be with a virgin except for an ex and my girl(I am not with her because of sexual purity). I prefer my sexual partners to already know their way around their own sexuality. That means they’ve gotten some practice. Now I understand that as a man you need some certain confidence that some of you may are probably still forming. But when someone says something derogatory about the woman I’ve chosen to love I don’t reconsider my love. I conclude the person saying it is an idiot and ignore them in the future. I have faith in myself which leads me to have faith in the people I choose as partners.

Ladies out there, know the class of men you allow into your life. Be responsible for your actions.

Sense is far from you..

sirjamesjnr:
. What cake do they eat? It is their body, respect it. That is what maturity is all about.

you be mumu ,I get one prostitute for you Sha you go like marry am or help me recommend her for one of your family member

AlphaAlex:
what has sex got to do with the love though,?.

I want to believe you quoting a song right now, sex is the next most important thing to a woman after money, give a woman money and good solid thrust and she will serve time for you.

cococandy:
Some men expect to have sex with every woman they date but also expect all women to have no body count.
If you think like this, aren’t you mind-numbingly illogical ?

Well, that is for some and not all

For me i cant lie, my gf has bodycount but its still bearable

Not all these sluts with like 24+ ponran

alphabbey1:
how you view the matter is your problem... As am currently well to do, I will never settle for less.... You can keep on motivating your fellow hoes on social media... Real life awaits.... and don't misunderstand me, am not a pastor, neither a saint.... Sex is cheap now, thanks to poverty and equality people ....

Comments of an illiterate who says “am”

English bad. Mentality worse. Good thing I never come across such men. You people only exist on social media. It’s only here you have a big mouth. Keep living in your fantasy world and convincing yourself that you’re high value.

IMASTEX:
First paragraph was enough to conclude that. In an environment of lies indeed truth is a stranger. The ops is only seeking hope for the dry bone. Anyways, to everyone his choice of partner. But I can only image a marriage party where 50% of the men have crossed madam or in a situation where almost the entire family, friends, business or neighborhood guys have bent her. Even the lady wouldn't be comfortable let alone the husband.

na only the topic I see give up.

I know it was gonna be full of shit, coming from a retired olosho, na them dey talk this kind talk.

So for her mind make we dey marry oloshos because it's their rights.

Werey Op

sirjamesjnr:
. As stated in my post, relationships are for the "men". How you weather the storm of life makes you a man. A guy that was getting to know my girl, move from being friends to asking her for a nice time, even when my girl informed him about her relationship status. When I saw the chat, I delete his number, block him then proceed to create some red lines. I simply take charge. I am not been called a man because I have a dick but I can handle situations. You should be concerned about the present not what happened in the past.

Lol. Oga love still dey 'shack' you. Don't worry, very soon your eye go clear...

Ayinke93:
Sadly I have a good career and I don’t need any of your specie to feed me. And I’d rather remain single than marry a loser. Those threats are for people that have nothing going on for them and I’m not one of them

not interested on how you live your life. Nobody cares if you chose to live a good or pathetic life. If they care, you're literally gonna tell them to mind there business..... Reality remains, men will marry a good wife they want, men will be happy.... Y'all can decide to be single, men still gonna marry.

alphabbey1:
not interested on how you live your life. Nobody cares if you chose to live a good or pathetic life. If they care, you're literally gonna tell them to mind there business..... Reality remains, men will marry a good wife they want, men will be happy.... Y'all can decide to be single, men still gonna marry.

And they should go ahead. Nobody cares
Boy bye :

sirjamesjnr:
There is no sure thing as a sexual quota. And there is no such thing as a ‘hoe’. Men that slut-shaming women are not mature to be in a grown-up relationship. No lady is not accountable to any man for her past. It's none of a man's business.

That lady A has one guy she sleep with when she was 15 till she clocks 30 and married, lady B has a body count of 100 before her 30th birthday. The truth is the two ladies have sex and they don't owe you any explanation.

If you are going to marry for 'purity" look for a virgin girl. Do not condemn a man who wants a team player, homemaker, companion, and someone who can resonate with him. A virgin girl can tick all the boxes agreed. If you found that virgin girl with these qualities good luck. There is a lady out there for every man. Time is hard, while the world is moving forward, the Average Nigerian man is talking about body count. Shouldn't you be worried about a lady who can build a great home with you so your generation won't abuse you? Whether you are wealthy or you are coming up, I will like to think you need a proper woman to build your home with you.

My time in this uncertain world, both in the corporate world and among great minds. What we care about are ladies with decent character, basic moral values, ethics, cleanliness, abilities to accept responsibility, and willingness to learn something good. Never for once within this circle of friends and learned mind do we care about what a woman does with her body. What you do when you are in a relationship with me is what matters.

To that man who is in a decent relationship:
I know how you feel. When you develop strong feelings for a girl, it’s hard to think of her being with other guys. Even though you can rationalize that her past relationships happened before you met, it doesn’t make it any easier to accept that there were others who had been intimate with her. But you can’t dwell on this. It will destroy you, and it will destroy your relationship with your girlfriend.

Unless your girlfriend is the kind of girl that is very flirtatious, and who loves all the attention that she can get from guys, you probably don’t have anything to worry about. If she were a “hoe” she wouldn't want to have a decent relationship. So how do you get over this? There are only two things that I know of that you can do:

1. Don’t torture yourself with the details. There is no reason for you to know with whom she did it, how many times they did it, what positions they did it in, how big the guys were, and if they were better in bed than you or not. As tempting as it is to ask her these things—don’t! And stop her from volunteering that kind of information. Knowing these things will not help you or your relationship with your girlfriend in any way. They will only become mental and emotional burdens to you—obstacles and barriers that you will constantly have to overcome in order to treat her the way that she deserves to be treated. You protect yourself and you protect your relationship when you avoid rubbing your nose in her past.

2. Change the way that you look at people. Start realizing that every one of us is screwed up in some way. There are no perfect people. Every single one of us does dumb things and makes mistakes in our quest to find love and belonging. Your girlfriend is no exception. Choose to see her through the eyes of love and compassion, rather than through the eyes of judgment and condemnation.

To our ladies. I have one thing to say to you. You don’t need to apologize for your past relationships, and you don't need to explain yourself to any man. Simply understand that all you need is to be loved by someone, and if it didn’t work out, move on and build your life. Hopefully, your next relationship will work out for you.

Me personally? I’ve never longed to be with a virgin except for an ex and my girl(I am not with her because of sexual purity). I prefer my sexual partners to already know their way around their own sexuality. That means they’ve gotten some practice. Now I understand that as a man you need some certain confidence that some of you may are probably still forming. But when someone says something derogatory about the woman I’ve chosen to love I don’t reconsider my love. I conclude the person saying it is an idiot and ignore them in the future. I have faith in myself which leads me to have faith in the people I choose as partners.

Ladies out there, know the class of men you allow into your life. Be responsible for your actions.

Neegga would you STFU and GTFOH

Ayinke93:
And you are a loser really. Many of you became red polled after they broke your fragile hearts
We can see through your insecurities baby

True! We once had faith in people, we thought life was like the movies and you just have to be good and sacrifice your self for the good of other people. Boy! We were wrong. Most redpillers found the truth through the hardway. Not fair saying we are losers thou. Redpill is all about self-improvement or u r jus trying to shame pillars anyways it's all good.

MummyD2020:
Ok so only women get to answer while the men listen. Weldone sir

No. I never said it's a one-way thing. The lady can also ask questions about things that matters to her.
I've met ladies who asked me questions about personal stuffs, and I never thought it to be offensive.

Weldone ma

Ayinke93:
And they should go ahead. Nobody cares
Boy bye :

Nobody cares thou but still trying to shame him by calling him a boy. Ok Woman!

It's always all the time better to be a Boy!