AlphaAlex:
it’s insecurity, some are heartbroken and still bitter , some don’t really know women and don’t want to know the truth about women, If you Know the truth about women you won’t have problems dealing with them in anyway.

Bro, there's no such thing as being insecure/broke.. Some of us who follow the redpill have far too many women on our parole including some of your popular female celebrities, believe it or not .
The point is, we see what's going on with the women and I can guarantee you, only a fool will wife these hoes.

There's a difference between women who have had intimacy based relationship's which didn't work out and what we're seeing these Nigerian girl's doing today... Obviously not all.

It's so bad out there that an average looker who is relatively decent can be likened to a Virgin, and a better fit when compared to what's available in today's sexual market.

You're literally encouraging promiscuity and trying to encourage men to accept those women as they're.

If they failed to be disciplined with their sexual activity, the likelihood of failing elsewhere becomes increasingly plausible.

Damaged women = endangered men.

neyoohhh:


Bro, there's no such thing as being insecure/broke.. Some of us who follow the redpill have far too many women on our parole including some of your popular female celebrities, believe it or not .
The point is, we see what's going on with the women and I can guarantee you, only a fool will wife these hoes.

There's a difference between women who have had intimacy based relationship's which didn't work out and what we're seeing these Nigerian girl's doing today... Obviously not all.

It's so bad out there that an average looker who is relatively decent can be likened to a Virgin, and a better fit when compared to what's available in today's sexual market.

You're literally encouraging promiscuity and trying to encourage men to accept those women as they're.

If they failed to be discussed with their sexual activity, the likelihood of failing elsewhere becomes increasingly possible.

Damaged women = endangered men.

okay then don’t wife them someone will eventually, people have wifed hoes and are enjoying their marriages Lots of people, if you are looking to social media for relevance then you have failed already. People are enjoying their lives with the supposed hoes you are shaming some have found true happiness stop looking at the situations through the lenses of bitterness and shame bro that’s all I’m saying .

AlphaAlex:
okay then don’t wife hem someone will eventually, people have wifed hoes and are enjoying their marriages Lots of people, if you are looking to social media for relevance then you have failed already. People are enjoying their lives with the supposed hoes you are shaming some have found true happiness stop looking at the situations through the lenses of bitterness and shame bro that’s all I’m saying .

Statistically you're incorrect.

I get it though, a low self esteem man will accept whatever, since majority of women aim for only the top tier men especially with marriage. The average Joe has to settle for less eg whor.e.

A who.re an her kids will never inherit my labour.

Stop enforcing your view's on whom men should select though. The law of demand and supply should sort this out.

BigBashiru:


there are "used up old hags" and "noble older women who did not sleep around" (5 or less is okay by me - temptations do happen etc) - these are two different sets of women. For a used up old hag who has slept with so many guys in the peak of her youth to now want to scam one holy deeper life brother who is a virgin or nearly one is a scam. this is a fact.

if a used up old hag is presenting herself to a used up old man-whorrre (aka male ashewo) for marriage - then i guess its a match

I only have issues where a used up old hag is trying to scam a deeper life virgin or near virrgin brother who has kept himself into marriage. In fact God Himself no go gree... He would shatter the marriage and demand the girl to go and marry her male match.

Not reading all that. You’re an unrepentant idiot. A used up rag too.

neyoohhh:


This stupid who.re. Is still here venting like an animal.

Bratislav.a , go fck your d.ildo, you're gone die lonely.

Incel projecting. “You’re going to die lonely”.

Small dick energy.

Not as stupid as your dada who doesn’t know when to use a condom though.

Firefox01:
You will know your entire writeup is trash when even ladies are avoiding the thread and the few that commented are not even agreeing with you. Sir, your foolishness is stunning and it's on your head they'll break the coconut of bringing home bastards las las.

Ladies only avoid threads on Nairaland out of shame or when they silently agree. If they didn’t agree they will be all over here airing their opinion.

Rest, simp

kazyhm:


Very funny and deceptive article and you added fire to further deceive the female gender.........it ticked the female ideology about life in general anyway and I think this is because female never really fully grasp the concept of commitment from men point of reasoning because they are at the receiving end of the material and emotional gains in a committed relationships....


The idea of men being insecure to justify promiscuity is funny and illogical.


I heard a case where a man caught his wife cheating on him, and the wife said it because the husband's insecurity is responsible for the man finding out................

And I dont know what to make of the woman statement but to further get everybody confused and angry.

The OP wrote this article to virtue signal his new Nairaland feminist girlfriend. Trying to score social points with her. You can always tell a guy that has been pussy-whipped

AlphaAlex:
How do you know that ? Are you the woman ?

It’s called pair-bonding. They loose their ability to bond with a man.

cococandy:


You’re the typical dumbass who will believe any misguided and non founded social talking point as long as it strokes your ego or what you want to believe.
Let’s assume your BS is true.
Not all men are having sex? Okay?
Top 25% of men are having as much sex as they want to, That means the more sex they have with different women, the more women are having sex no? So more women are having sex than men then since only 25% of men have access to unlimited sex?
Ode

Everything I said can be backed up with data.

Can you backup your emotions with any data or evidence?

Like I said. You fail at math, your emotional, and hate men.. because you are not a man. Its called penis envy. Get a life

SenecaTheYonger:



The OP wrote this article to virtue signal his new Nairaland feminist girlfriend. Trying to score social points with her. You can always tell a guy that has been pussy-whipped

bingo

SenecaTheYonger:


It’s called pair-bonding. They loose their ability to bond with a man.

Funny this guy calls hims self AlphaALEX but a blue pilled cuck

AlphaAlex:
Bro I’m not joking Women are human beings and they are the sex designed for Sex. They get offers every day omo if the body count is your problem which woman doesn’t have a high body count? Ask yourself this in your quiet time can you determine how many people she has slept with since she was 18? Do you think her behavior will give it away? Do you understand that women act according to the situation? So many men want women who are good in bed where will she learn it from ? From God ? Why do men think we have the monopoly on sex? Women are busy laughing at how men act insecurely about sex making it a big deal y’all should wake up practice safe sex and live your life stop worrying about what she’s doing with her body. You probably won’t ever find out how experienced she is.

Yeah, until you are married, have kids and find out they are not yours. Na mindset like this dey cause am...

Pussywar:

Incel projecting. “You’re going to die lonely”.

Small dick energy.

Not as stupid as your dada who doesn’t know when to use a condom though.

I know, it cuts deep when I reveal your insecurities.

Everyone is a superstar online, I bet you see yourself as a ten . Another miserable ghetto hood rat forming woke online.


You have no fuckin idea.

sirjamesjnr:
. As stated in my post, relationships are for the "men". How you weather the storm of life makes you a man. A guy that was getting to know my girl, move from being friends to asking her for a nice time, even when my girl informed him about her relationship status. When I saw the chat, I delete his number, block him then proceed to create some red lines. I simply take charge. I am not been called a man because I have a dick but I can handle situations. You should be concerned about the present not what happened in the past.

You think this is called handling situations? You’re just scared. If you had balls like a man you would have tested your gfs loyalty there by observing how the message will go.

She’s the one who supposed to block him not you. She is the one who is supposed to make that conscious decision to block him, women are not stupid, you know? One of the reasons you blocked him is because sub-consciously, you know there's a possibility, (however slim it is), that she could give into temptation. Because this won’t be the only one to want more than her attention, there will be more. Are you going to become the blocker of men? She should have the foresight to do that. Perhaps she’s keeping a plan B aside, or perhaps she only shows you what she wants you to see.

Anyways, women are not naive, they're not stupid, and they're not innocent.

Theoutsider:


Everything I said can be backed up with data.

Can you backup your emotions with any data or evidence?

Like I said. You fail at math, your emotional, and hate men.. because you are not a man. Its called penis envy. Get a life

You can only back it up with rants from Kevin Samuels. You can’t keep contradicting yourself and say you can back it up. Which part can you back up? The part where women have more access to sex than men? Or the part where only 25% of men are having sex thereby implying that more women are have sex than men? Or the part where women are delusional to think they can have access to multiple men? Even your confusion is confused.

Penis envy. As in I want to live a life where my genitaliaa controls my common sense Like you? Really? Wow you’re dense if you think I’d want to be held hostage by sex and vagina like the lot of you are. Vagina obsessed. If anything I pity you.

Usually when you illogical guys are called out on your xtupid posts that defy common sense, you resort to calling the person emotional because they are a woman.

alphabbey1:
Chill, at the present stage of social life, men are not bothered with body count again. As far as the place is tight, your body is clean, and you can reproduce. Fail one of those 3 and you are bound to be single... No man is interested in any words you say concerning people you've slept with. They will get their verdict after first sex... That's why you never see anything like sex after marriage nowadays... real men will patiently wait to see your Naked body before deciding whether to wife or dump you.

You are arguing with someone still in her early twenties, save this space and check back in ten years bro.

cococandy:


You can only back it up with rants from Kevin Samuels. You can’t keep contradicting yourself and say you can back it up. Which part can you back up? The part where women have more access to sex than men? Or the part where only 25% of men are having sex thereby implying that more women are have sex than men? Or the part where women are delusional to think they can have access to multiple men? Even your confusion is confused.

Penis envy. As in I want to live a life where my genitaliaa controls my common sense Like you? Really? Wow you’re dense if you think I’d want to be held hostage by sex and vagina like the lot of you are. Vagina obsessed. If anything I pity you.

Usually when you illogical guys are called out on your xtupid posts that defy common sense, you resort to calling the person emotional because they are a woman.

who the hell is Kevin Samuels? Like I said, good luck feminist. you can do WHAT EVER you like.

You are really F-ucking dumb are you. did you fail math? do you not understand the 25% thing or are you really this d-umb

cococandy:


You can only back it up with rants from Kevin Samuels. You can’t keep contradicting yourself and say you can back it up. Which part can you back up? The part where women have more access to sex than men? Or the part where only 25% of men are having sex thereby implying that more women are have sex than men? Or the part where women are delusional to think they can have access to multiple men? Even your confusion is confused.

Penis envy. As in I want to live a life where my genitaliaa controls my common sense Like you? Really? Wow you’re dense if you think I’d want to be held hostage by sex and vagina like the lot of you are. Vagina obsessed. If anything I pity you.

Usually when you illogical guys are called out on your xtupid posts that defy common sense, you resort to calling the person emotional because they are a woman.

16 million people today are direct descendants of Genghis Khan today. Which means 1 man had sex with 1000s of women you f00L. Women were having sex WITH THE SAME MAN.. that is how more women can have sex than men.. get the equality BS out of your veins so you can damn learn. this is how D U M B you have become.

Like how women are having sex with the SAME YAHOOS!

Maybe you should stop pushing your feminist propaganda and learn math and science clown.

In the past most men were killed and the women and children were kept.

sirjamesjnr:
. You can as well forget to date them if you are not comfortable with their past life but never slut-shame them.

I don’t get your point, what are you about?

stanliwise:

I don’t get your point, what are you about?

He wants women to be sluts and proud

He didn't learn that word here.. he learn it in the states

Theoutsider:


He wants women to be sluts and proud

He is just trying to be naïve. Point blank.
Trying to enter into a space which has been long defied of logic and common sense.

The war on gender is way bigger that just name calling, Infact it is a culture.
You hear same slut he is fighting for calling themselves same names during fight and banter. And even they don’t subscribe to be called anything else
They even call themselves hoes and outrightly don’t subscribe to be called what they are not.

Aside lady who went into prostitution due to human trafficking and child trafficking , all other hoes and bitches point blank. And no one is apologetic about it
What I don’t support is when people call every women hoes which certainly ain’t true but for the one who use sex for survival, they have no other name
He is just being a naive brat and a stupid dullard of guy

greypencils:
Yeah, until you are married, have kids and find out they are not yours. Na mindset like this dey cause am...

look at you why not do a DNA test immediately she gives birth ? I’m assuming you won’t get married then ? Have you not heard of women that brought illegitimate children into the homes of their husbands who married them as virgins ? Oya na

Theoutsider:


16 million people today are direct descendants of Genghis Khan today. Which means 1 man had sex with 1000s of women you f00L. Women were having sex WITH THE SAME MAN.. that is how more women can have sex than men.. get the equality BS out of your veins so you can damn learn. this is how D U M B you have become.

Like how women are having sex with the SAME YAHOOS!

Maybe you should stop pushing your feminist propaganda and learn math and science clown.

In the past most men were killed and the women and children were kept.

You’re really bitter about this
So the same man had sex with multiple women.
That means All those women DID indeed HAVE sex.

If more and more men like you keep having sex and believing you’re entitled to more than one woman, imagine how many women would be sexed up? 50 men with 3 women each equal to 150 women with access to sex versus only 50 men having sex.

You’re telling yourself only 25% of men have sex as if that means less women would in fact be having sex. First of all that’s not true and even if it were, it’s irrelevant. The amount of times men have sex is directly proportional to the number of times women do have sex unless you’re sleeping with yourselves.
So even if only half the population of men were having sex, the more you do it, the more women are doing it. Especially since you believe you can have more than one. You’re the xtupid one here blinded by phallus logic.

Now add the beautiful fact that women are not restricting themselves to one partner, it invariably means that not only are y’all directly contributing to the body count you hate so much, you’re sharing and swapping women between yourselves.
Imagine 20 million young men in Nigeria for example who each believe they are entitled to multiple women each. Do you know how many millions of women that would actually involve? And all the sharing that will inevitably be done?

You can Die mad or zip up
prevent yourself from contributing to that cesspool

Who read am

Theoutsider:


who the hell is Kevin Samuels? Like I said, good luck feminist. you can do WHAT EVER you like.

You are really F-ucking dumb are you. did you fail math? do you not understand the 25% thing or are you really this d-umb

Not only can I do whatever I like, a lot of women can do whatever they like.
Stay pressed

Theoutsider:


Funny this guy calls hims self AlphaALEX but a blue pilled cuck

lol okay o but at least I’ve come to terms with insecurities and I know the realities of life as they are , I have no problems with women on any angle whether it’s sex or companionship, I don’t care if my girlfriend is sleeping with the street she’s not my property, when she comes to my house she does whatever I ask of her and she doesn’t complain, I have a few other girls I sleep with Dom time to time my girlfriend knows I do this she’s a doctor I’m a doctor we test regularly, so Where is the Beta in my life ? You think if my girlfriend leaves me today I would give two shits? I’m telling you One simple truth and that is Women will Do whatever They Choose to do and that who they are they are Human being capable of thinking and doing as they please And there is Nothing you can do about it

Why are you so bothered about what they do with their Own Bodies?

AlphaAlex:
look at you why not do a DNA test immediately she gives birth ? I’m assuming you won’t get married then ? Have you not heard of women that brought illegitimate children into the homes of their husbands who married them as virgins ? Oya na

And who told you I won't? Laaro Kutu Kutu Monday, I can't start dragging issues with you like Tiger generator. Go to the nearest brothel and marry one of 'em prostitutes, those ones wey done old for the business, wey done bleach well well, since body count doesn't matter. Good luck!

SenecaTheYonger:


It’s called pair-bonding. They loose their ability to bond with a man.

Lol how do you know they lose this Ability though? How? What about prostitutes who have become happily Married and even died Happily married? Are there No such cases? Do you know how many men married hoes and are living peacefully and they don’t even know about their wives Hoe past ? last last una go marry you people are just wishing and Hoping Bad befalls the Ladies because they are getting more sex than y’all

greypencils:
And who told you I won't? Laaro Kutu Kutu Monday, I can't start dragging issues with you like Tiger generator. Go to the nearest brothel and marry one of 'em prostitutes, those ones wey done old for the business, wey done bleach well well, since body count doesn't matter. Good luck!

what about the prostitutes that are not in the brothel and not taking money for sex ? Shey you want a girl that will give you sex and not ask you for money don’t lie o . Shey you want to have sex with a sexually experienced lady at one point or the other ? Shey you will find one lady attractive enough and cooperative enough to date ? Now the question is How will you tell she’s not a prostitute from the Brothel?

sirjamesjnr:


I refuse to be deluded as the vast majority of men are. I grow up in a church environment. I know what many of us did with different women at that time. In the university, I know what my eyes have seen. How we all camp girls in our hostel and lodges, how boys and girls exchange themselves with restless abandon. 4 in every human in the university has done some sexual exploits. For men, it becomes a bragging right while women do this to mitigate their needs.

Is it a workplace where we make some kind of sexual arrangement in form of parties and functions? In a country like ours where 3 in 5 persons live below the dollar rate, the vast majority of women do a lot of things to put food on their table that including having sex with different men. I am old enough to apply logic rather than emotions. I am exposed to know that 4 in 5 girls out there have a very ugly past.

We live in an environment where survival is forged by doing unprintable things which include having sex to "meet up". I'm not surprised by most comments on this thread. Do the maths, 3 in one Nigerian is a stark illiterate who are brainwashed by religious views.70% of those who claim to acquire education are educated fools who refuse to explore and adapt to modern realities. It takes a woman to have sex because there was a man who has sex with her. It is foolishness to slut-shame a lady when both of you engage in the act. I will always blame the religious leaders and our parents for this height of hypocrisy. I refuse to live in that kind of arrangement. My post doesn't support 'irresponsibility' neither did it support exchanging the female body with material things, a woman is an adult. Let her make choices as she seems fit, if you are not comfortable with it then find your square roots. Sexual exploits are less of my concern and for some persons, I know. I will like to think that for an ideal home and family, a lady who know the basics of making a decent family, a kind of person that can contribute ideas that can make life journey easy, who work smart and is supportive is what every man should go for irrespective of her sexual past. Either you adapt to modern realities or you conform to your cave mentalities. The world doesn't revolve around your ignorance.

Keep promoting sexual Immorality.

If ladies are ready to own their hoeness, then let them...afterall, men world over have owned up to our promiscuity.

A man can hoe around and get away with it...no emotional damage, no health damage, except he is careless.

We do not measure a woman by her body count. However, we'd like to get married to one who has not been mentally and emotionally and physically damaged by her past.

sirjamesjnr:
There is no sure thing as a sexual quota. And there is no such thing as a ‘hoe’. Men that slut-shaming women are not mature to be in a grown-up relationship. No lady is not accountable to any man for her past. It's none of a man's business.

That lady A has one guy she sleep with when she was 15 till she clocks 30 and married, lady B has a body count of 100 before her 30th birthday. The truth is the two ladies have sex and they don't owe you any explanation.

If you are going to marry for 'purity" look for a virgin girl. Do not condemn a man who wants a team player, homemaker, companion, and someone who can resonate with him. A virgin girl can tick all the boxes agreed. If you found that virgin girl with these qualities good luck. There is a lady out there for every man. Time is hard, while the world is moving forward, the Average Nigerian man is talking about body count. Shouldn't you be worried about a lady who can build a great home with you so your generation won't abuse you? Whether you are wealthy or you are coming up, I will like to think you need a proper woman to build your home with you.

My time in this uncertain world, both in the corporate world and among great minds. What we care about are ladies with decent character, basic moral values, ethics, cleanliness, abilities to accept responsibility, and willingness to learn something good. Never for once within this circle of friends and learned mind do we care about what a woman does with her body. What you do when you are in a relationship with me is what matters.

To that man who is in a decent relationship:
I know how you feel. When you develop strong feelings for a girl, it’s hard to think of her being with other guys. Even though you can rationalize that her past relationships happened before you met, it doesn’t make it any easier to accept that there were others who had been intimate with her. But you can’t dwell on this. It will destroy you, and it will destroy your relationship with your girlfriend.

Unless your girlfriend is the kind of girl that is very flirtatious, and who loves all the attention that she can get from guys, you probably don’t have anything to worry about. If she were a “hoe” she wouldn't want to have a decent relationship. So how do you get over this? There are only two things that I know of that you can do:

1. Don’t torture yourself with the details. There is no reason for you to know with whom she did it, how many times they did it, what positions they did it in, how big the guys were, and if they were better in bed than you or not. As tempting as it is to ask her these things—don’t! And stop her from volunteering that kind of information. Knowing these things will not help you or your relationship with your girlfriend in any way. They will only become mental and emotional burdens to you—obstacles and barriers that you will constantly have to overcome in order to treat her the way that she deserves to be treated. You protect yourself and you protect your relationship when you avoid rubbing your nose in her past.

2. Change the way that you look at people. Start realizing that every one of us is screwed up in some way. There are no perfect people. Every single one of us does dumb things and makes mistakes in our quest to find love and belonging. Your girlfriend is no exception. Choose to see her through the eyes of love and compassion, rather than through the eyes of judgment and condemnation.

To our ladies. I have one thing to say to you. You don’t need to apologize for your past relationships, and you don't need to explain yourself to any man. Simply understand that all you need is to be loved by someone, and if it didn’t work out, move on and build your life. Hopefully, your next relationship will work out for you.

Me personally? I’ve never longed to be with a virgin except for an ex and my girl(I am not with her because of sexual purity). I prefer my sexual partners to already know their way around their own sexuality. That means they’ve gotten some practice. Now I understand that as a man you need some certain confidence that some of you may are probably still forming. But when someone says something derogatory about the woman I’ve chosen to love I don’t reconsider my love. I conclude the person saying it is an idiot and ignore them in the future. I have faith in myself which leads me to have faith in the people I choose as partners.

Ladies out there, know the class of men you allow into your life. Be responsible for your actions.

All these write-up is for what exactly??

The ladies with numerous body counts, are they complaining that their body count is preventing them from marrying??
What actually prevents them from marrying is this attitude of always trying so hard at any slight opportunity to count the present man as not being any different from all the other “men”.

Meanwhile, It's also a thing of choice for someone to decide whether to settle with a partner who had few body counts or not.

sirjamesjnr:
Who gives you the right over a female body and her life? If you can't be with her, other men are out there that will love her and treat her right.

lol dear!! I saw what you did there