UndauntedYOCA:
Shakira and Gerard Piqué have been married for about 10 years now, Shakira is Older than Piqué and there's been no bad news about them(none that I know of).
Macron is way younger than his wife and younger than her children.
I think what you should be more concerned about is respect, do you both respect eachother regardless of the age difference? Even if you're older and neither of you respects the other, it might not work unless you both enjoy violence.
Personally, respect and other stuff are what I consider and not the age (especially if the age gap isn't much).
Anyway, no be Piqué, Macron and other people go decide for you.
What do you both want? How do you treat eachother?

not in the Nigerian context.
Those people you just mentioned are they Africans?

darkstar6971:
Hello fellow Nairalanders pls I'm here for a suggestion and let it be positive pls ain't need no insult...
I'm having a girlfriend which is 29yrs and I'm just 23 years, We both love each other to the extent that we don't even knew the time we start the relationship... pls I need your suggestions here...

Please moderators help me to move this thread to front page so as to get more positive suggestions.

So when both you get old like this, your wife age will be used to judge your age.

If she loaded you know cash wise
Don't hesitate anymore if otherwise then OYO is ur case

Kobojunkie:
Love no be for mouth. If you truly love this your galfriend, why do you need the input of others in this or any case?

Are you here looking for suggestions on how to make the age gap between you two go 'poof!'?

Or are you here seeking a reason for to end the relationship because of the age gap which seems to be an issue for you?

Love is not enough in marriage.

Yahoo boy find your mate you won Bleep big toto abi

darkstar6971:
Hello fellow Nairalanders pls I'm here for a suggestion and let it be positive pls ain't need no insult...
I'm having a girlfriend which is 29yrs and I'm just 23 years, We both love each other to the extent that we don't even knew the time we start the relationship... pls I need your suggestions here...

Please moderators help me to move this thread to front page so as to get more positive suggestions.

I pity you Bro

Hope you are highly matured

JAMB question..

hmmm..... Are you sure you can cope on the long run??
know that
1. A woman's body ages fast than a man... so she'll look more older than you in few years time. Will you still be faithful and be happy and proud having her as your wife??

2. Will you also be able to absorb all her mouth and don't think she's talking because she's older than you?

Think again my guy!!!

darkstar6971:
Hello fellow Nairalanders pls I'm here for a suggestion and let it be positive pls ain't need no insult...
I'm having a girlfriend which is 29yrs and I'm just 23 years, We both love each other to the extent that we don't even knew the time we start the relationship... pls I need your suggestions here...

Please moderators help me to move this thread to front page so as to get more positive suggestions.

Ehat business has a 23yr old MALE got to do with marriage? Male for that matter

darkstar6971:
Hello fellow Nairalanders pls I'm here for a suggestion and let it be positive pls ain't need no insult...
I'm having a girlfriend which is 29yrs and I'm just 23 years, We both love each other to the extent that we don't even knew the time we start the relationship... pls I need your suggestions here...

Please moderators help me to move this thread to front page so as to get more positive suggestions.

A Young Simp blinded by decayed love seeking advice.......
It will definitely end in bitter tears..............

Can you provide for yourself financially ( accommodation, food, clothing, car ) just basic needs?

Are you ready to provide for her?
Are you psychologically, emotionally, financially ready?

UndauntedYOCA:
Shakira and Gerard Piqué have been married for about 10 years now, Shakira is Older than Piqué and there's been no bad news about them(none that I know of).
Macron is way younger than his wife and younger than her children.
I think what you should be more concerned about is respect, do you both respect eachother regardless of the age difference? Even if you're older and neither of you respects the other, it might not work unless you both enjoy violence.
Personally, respect and other stuff are what I consider and not the age (especially if the age gap isn't much).
Anyway, no be Piqué, Macron and other people go decide for you.
What do you both want? How do you treat eachother?

Were you the officiating minister at Shakira and Gerard’s wedding? They have never been officially married and are referred to as partners. Both are cool with that.

Macron is a Gerontophile and shouldn’t be used as a yardstick for a conventional relationship.

SportsHD:
Been there, done that. Older women are, gandemmit , too loving.

They are too loving cos there's no hope.. op ll be wallowing in pains when the wife becomes grandma while he's still young and fit

UndauntedYOCA:
Shakira and Gerard Piqué have been married for about 10 years now, Shakira is Older than Piqué and there's been no bad news about them(none that I know of).
Macron is way younger than his wife and younger than her children.
I think what you should be more concerned about is respect, do you both respect eachother regardless of the age difference? Even if you're older and neither of you respects the other, it might not work unless you both enjoy violence.
Personally, respect and other stuff are what I consider and not the age (especially if the age gap isn't much).
Anyway, no be Piqué, Macron and other people go decide for you.
What do you both want? How do you treat eachother?

They're not married and I find it funny that you focus on marriages in the West, while totally forgetting this is NAIJA

Na small pikin dey do this OP

Nobody could be hundred per cent sure of whatever advice, he is giving. I will however advise, that if she is submissive and dire in love, the risk is lesser. Ab initio, going into any marriage, at all, is taking risk.

no because one day she might get angry and beat you,like a kid,she will also be smarter than you in many areas of life.

oldienavie:

In all these examples there is not 1 single African there talkless of Nigerian.
Even abroad, younger men marrying older women is the exception not the norm.


@oP na small child still dey do you... when you grow up small your eye will open.
Age is not just a number, especially if you are an African. Oyinbo people have already normalised homosexuality while it carries 14 year jail term in Nigeria.
The summary of my talk is that we are Africans/Nigerians and as such reason like one.

You're wise. Let these ones continue deceiving themselves

darkstar6971:
Hello fellow Nairalanders pls I'm here for a suggestion and let it be positive pls ain't need no insult...
I'm having a girlfriend which is 29yrs and I'm just 23 years, We both love each other to the extent that we don't even knew the time we start the relationship... pls I need your suggestions here...

Please moderators help me to move this thread to front page so as to get more positive suggestions.

I suppose you may be well to do otherwise a 29years old lady can't be going out with a guy of 23years ebano.

As for marriage you can't get married age aren't just numbers she is emotionally older than you,when she start her drama you can't handle her also when she start giving birth she will even be 15years older than you in looks

You will not fancy her after some years again when you see younger ladies of your age mate or round your age bracket.
You will be cheating on her if you are not strong will or Strong religious person.
My advice don't marry her.
You guys can just be lovers

emmy4uNME:
hmmm..... Are you sure you can cope on the long run??
know that
1. A woman's body ages fast than a man... so she'll look more older than you in few years time. Will you still be faithful and be happy and proud having her as your wife??

2. Will you also be able to absorb all her mouth and don't think she's talking because she's older than you?

Think again my guy!!!

Point 1 above, very very correct.

I hope the op realizes women age faster than men?

Those telling you age is just a number, they won't do such o. Young man run.. Did you hear what I said? Run as fast your legs can carry you. When you're 35 ,she will be looking advanced already. Except you go marry young girl later ,make you dey carry fall out occasions

SportsHD:
Been there, done that. Older women are, gandemmit , too loving.

still there and doing that? If you are no longer with her you shouldn't cheer the guy on.

These is nothing bad in that. But, make sure she's not someone that will later disrespect you after the marriage because of your age differences. She'll be like, afterall, I'm not your mate

Na my ex fit mumu like this, bcus most of her folks are like that. What's her name?

UndauntedYOCA:
Shakira and Gerard Piqué have been married for about 10 years now, Shakira is Older than Piqué and there's been no bad news about them(none that I know of).

WRONG!!! Pique and Shakira have NEVER been married

Though age is just a number , but YOU will later leave her when your eye don clear.

Mark my WORD!

UndauntedYOCA:

I do not know of relatable popular Nigerians that I could have used. If I did, I'd surely have used them but I'm sure there are people who are younger than their wives and are living happily.
Don't mislead the OP into thinking it's just marriages where the husband is the older ones that work.

tunde and wummi obe

BigYash:
Those telling you age is just a number, they won't do such o. Young man run.. Did you hear what I said? Run as fast your legs can carry you. When you're 35 ,she will be looking advanced already. Except you go marry young girl later ,make you dey carry fall out occasions

Good talk bro, I don tell am already say he will later leave her when his eyes don clear

Bitter truth.

So people are still getting married with all this things I'm hearing about marriage?

For u bringing dis here means u cnt make certain decisions yourself,so therefore u nt ripe 4marriage yet..take more time 2work on yourself..by the way are u financially stable,do u ve a good paying job or business 2sustain your marriage?if yes! Den just give yourself time.if no!channel your energy there 4now.

UndauntedYOCA:

Really? I never knew. Well, I know some people like that but I just had to use prominent people as examples.
I actually think age doesn't really matter sha, people are free to marry people who make them happy.

You don't think in this kind of matter because women age faster than men. He may grow up and lose interest in her later.

Is your mum aware