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Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by Father4all: 1:54pm On Oct 25, 2021
22o62021:
We bonded so well together, she is an NYSC member. She told me that she has a boyfriend but she has called off their relationship because the guy has beaten her twice. The first time , the guy did it in front of his mother to the extent that she lost a tooth. And spent days in the hospital

The second time the guy slapped her because she told him that he comes home late.
She said the guy is a serial cheat, she has caught him on different occasions. She is a a MASOCHIST. A disease from the central nervous system

They dated for 6 years. But the guy will not accept the break up. Their families knows each other.

I have her the love she deserved, pampered her so well. I told her that I know she will go back to the guy one day, she said nooo I can’t do that.

One week after I said that to her. The guy was calling and pleading. She stopped picking my calls. I stopped calling her.

I sent her a text to know what is going on. She said it’s not what I think.

I said fine. I deleted her numbers and move on.

This is to say that most girls are confused.
I think they prefer abusive men but on the internet They rebuke them.
She is a MASOCHIST. A disease from the central nervous system
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by brownemmanuel43(m): 1:54pm On Oct 25, 2021
Iyaebe:
She has been hypnotized, that's all.
At your age, this is what u could say.
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by Nobody: 1:55pm On Oct 25, 2021
22o62021:
We bonded so well together, she is an NYSC member. She told me that she has a boyfriend but she has called off their relationship because the guy has beaten her twice. The first time , the guy did it in front of his mother to the extent that she lost a tooth. And spent days in the hospital

The second time the guy slapped her because she told him that he comes home late.
She said the guy is a serial cheat, she has caught him on different occasions.

They dated for 6 years. But the guy will not accept the break up. Their families knows each other.

I have her the love she deserved, pampered her so well. I told her that I know she will go back to the guy one day, she said nooo I can’t do that.

One week after I said that to her. The guy was calling and pleading. She stopped picking my calls. I stopped calling her.

I sent her a text to know what is going on. She said it’s not what I think.

I said fine. I deleted her numbers and move on.

This is to say that most girls are confused.
I think they prefer abusive men but on the internet They rebuke them.
Take of yourself, Oga.


No dey run around, girls...

Care for your mental health...

It's important...e no work e work no dey stress yourself.... Maybe na wetin she want...

Remember her your prayers, shaa...


☮️ Peace...
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by Web2020: 1:57pm On Oct 25, 2021
22o62021:
We bonded so well together, she is an NYSC member. She told me that she has a boyfriend but she has called off their relationship because the guy has beaten her twice. The first time , the guy did it in front of his mother to the extent that she lost a tooth. And spent days in the hospital

The second time the guy slapped her because she told him that he comes home late.
She said the guy is a serial cheat, she has caught him on different occasions.

They dated for 6 years. But the guy will not accept the break up. Their families knows each other.

I have her the love she deserved, pampered her so well. I told her that I know she will go back to the guy one day, she said nooo I can’t do that.

One week after I said that to her. The guy was calling and pleading. She stopped picking my calls. I stopped calling her.

I sent her a text to know what is going on. She said it’s not what I think.

I said fine. I deleted her numbers and move on.

This is to say that most girls are confused.
I think they prefer abusive men but on the internet They rebuke them.
Ladies by nature love rough guys. Forget about what they are saying. Many ladies dislike nice guys, especially the too nice to be true.
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by 1Sharon(f): 2:04pm On Oct 25, 2021
Stockholm syndrome.
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by Inkling(f): 2:10pm On Oct 25, 2021
6 years investment can't just go down like that. They're still emotionally attached.

I prayed the abusive guy get sense in future.
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by Halo22: 2:16pm On Oct 25, 2021
I have been in this kind of issue with a lady, but mine was that I worked away when I teased her with a question on whether she would continue with the ex-guy if he comes back or she would stick to me. Just in a joky manner, she mentioned the guy and like joke also, I ended up with her immediately. Up till now, she thinks I am still joking.

Mr Op, just go and enjoy yourself with another bae cos if u had continued with her, it would have been competition all through.
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by Guyman02: 2:18pm On Oct 25, 2021
Drella:
Many girls love being abused.It's not a case of hypnosis.

Any girl wey you dey lash and she dey tell you "choke me baby,choke me baby",na only guys wey fit beat her she go like.

Imagine a girl telling me she has rape fantasies.I just weak for Nigerian girls.
Why are you having 'f' in your moniker, are you Bob Risky brother?
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by uchdavinci: 2:31pm On Oct 25, 2021
Is that the reason you are disturbing us... it's her tooth, she will loose her eye (God help her ) then she will have sense. Mumu love.
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by poweredcom(m): 2:52pm On Oct 25, 2021
In @womenareapess voice they are all useless creatures

This is one of the reasons I never keep any serious relationship with my heart I play dese hoes and if they see no way to play me them go stop looking for me
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by VULCAN(m): 3:15pm On Oct 25, 2021
If you had watched the classic "Last American Virgin" you would not have been surprised at all.

Always ignore what women say and closely observe what they do.

Then You will be amazed to find out that their words have no correlation with their actions.

"I want a God fearing man" then watch them rush to Dubai to lick poo.

Tonto Dike is always making mouth but at the back she was begging Kpokpo like a little lovestruck teen.

If you take them at their word you will end up broken like you seem to be now.

22o62021:
We bonded so well together, she is an NYSC member. She told me that she has a boyfriend but she has called off their relationship because the guy has beaten her twice. The first time , the guy did it in front of his mother to the extent that she lost a tooth. And spent days in the hospital

The second time the guy slapped her because she told him that he comes home late.
She said the guy is a serial cheat, she has caught him on different occasions.

They dated for 6 years. But the guy will not accept the break up. Their families knows each other.

I have her the love she deserved, pampered her so well. I told her that I know she will go back to the guy one day, she said nooo I can’t do that.

One week after I said that to her. The guy was calling and pleading. She stopped picking my calls. I stopped calling her.

I sent her a text to know what is going on. She said it’s not what I think.

I said fine. I deleted her numbers and move on.

This is to say that most girls are confused.
I think they prefer abusive men but on the internet They rebuke them.
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by EmzyT: 3:24pm On Oct 25, 2021
Savedday:
9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!
Since you, Mosdii Looseguard go post your pic where you dey bush dey hunt for dead Snakes, i never see you for any thread wey concern woman again grin We don rest from; Nigerian girls are useless... All of them cheesy we know say na your second account be dis, no dey disguisecheesy
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by EndRape2(f): 3:26pm On Oct 25, 2021
She has mental problem, she needs help, please help her.



...quote author=MajesticKris post=107039759]True.. i have a friend who said she cant date a guy, who cant correct her whenever she does, something wrong with Correct Beating....

She actually loves guy's who Do that to Her...

Still in shock RN lipsrsealed[/quote]
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by Das1mama: 3:28pm On Oct 25, 2021
Lols... Though is not funny but guy what were u expecting? U've found ur missing rib? Lols.... Morals of this pathetic story is never date a lady out of pity it can never lead u anywhere. Cheers.
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by dan2976: 3:37pm On Oct 25, 2021
Guy, face your front ohhh... But her ex will still break her jaw join..... Slam your door shut and quickly move on.
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by Nobody:
It's not true that girls prefer abusive men. The thing is, once a girl falls in love with you, it's always very difficult to let go. Even if you're a monster, she'll still want to be with you.

The girl never really liked you. She only took solace in you and used you to pass time.
No matter what you did, if she didn't naturally fall for you, you'll lose her las Las.
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by folks4luv(f): 3:48pm On Oct 25, 2021
MrMacinterchi1:
Happy birthday to you someone's daughter. Have fun and best wishes.
Thanks so much, I appreciate
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by Excellent7(m): 3:49pm On Oct 25, 2021
Mccold:
There's this girl I met online, am trying to date her she always need financial help, she had told me two different sex sceneries that happened to her in two months..and we're planning to meet next month, can I date her??
Yes, you can if you are or want to become an ATM card.
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by folks4luv(f): 3:55pm On Oct 25, 2021
kkins25:
true, but the magnitude is quite different. men are generally more aggressive than women, so its safe to say on this round; women win.
Well, i don't have any data to conclude the gender with the highest number but I still believe it's a human thing. I've seen men reject women that love them with obvious compatibility. For what? A woman that treat them like there is nothing special about them.
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by Ayt27(m): 3:57pm On Oct 25, 2021
Mom007:
This, of course is a fallacy of hasty generalization. Women may be a complicated species, but we generally don't enjoy getting "roughed up"!
On the contrary, I actually disagree not necessarily being roughed up, but the feminine gender seem to like being or rather staying in an abusive relationship.

I have seen it happen again and again, although I concur that a very low % will walk away from it but on the average that it's the norm.

Heck! There's another thread on to about someone saying she can't get married to a man who she's described as not any girl's dream and yet she stayed with him till they are 3weeks from the marriage, it sorta confirms what we are talking about.

Oh! and any astute person would recognize a girl that's been in an abusive relationship, for one there's always this neediness around them, they cover it up with makeup, iPhones and expensive wigs but one would always pick it up.
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by oneTIMEman(m): 3:59pm On Oct 25, 2021
Some ladies like it hard
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by Invitationn: 4:18pm On Oct 25, 2021
Iyaebe:
She has been hypnotized, that's all.
Dickmatized is the correct word grin
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by rolams(m): 4:22pm On Oct 25, 2021
You mumu!
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by victooman: 4:23pm On Oct 25, 2021
Gadafii:
Treat a girl like an egg, she will see you like u are weak, silly and not man enough.

Rough her up, she will stick to you like fun

Women are wired in a very weird way, their cruise madddd gaan

But op, hope say u collect your three points before she went back to her nemesis grin
that is the situation l am into now, a corper l am dating, l know that when her boyfriend come back she will follow him, so when l want to knack l make sure l collect 6 points, and l dont spend kobo,, make we use each other pass time.
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by firstbornson(m): 4:32pm On Oct 25, 2021
If you are following this post, be careful.

That idea that if you beat your woman, she will remain loyal is demonic.
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by God1000(m): 5:21pm On Oct 25, 2021
ahnie:
Soonest he's gonna gift himself her limbs.
The problem of Nigerian boys are Nigerian girls.
I hope you are an upstanding woman because I still believe we still have a handful of women of good virtues and noble character out there, it's just that they are rare these days.
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by yazzman(m): 5:39pm On Oct 25, 2021
OP show us the broken teeth nah, seeing is beliveing.
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by Mac2016(m): 5:41pm On Oct 25, 2021
Iyaebe:
She has been hypnotized, that's all.
Lol grin. Good guess but I doubt if that's the case. That girl needs something that she finds in that her abuser regardless of the abuse. It might drug time, rough sex etc. There is a masochistic things that guy does to to her that the OP can't give her or hasn't find out yet.
Re: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by greypencils: 5:48pm On Oct 25, 2021
VULCAN:
If you had watched the classic "Last American Virgin" you would not have been surprised at all.

Always ignore what women say and closely observe what they do.

Then You will be amazed to find out that their words have no correlation with their actions.

"I want a God fearing man" then watch them rush to Dubai to lick poo.

Tonto Dike is always making mouth but at the back she was begging Kpokpo like a little lovestruck teen.

If you take them at their word you will end up broken like you seem to be now.
Last American Virgin, lol...You are an old gee. I remember watching the movie as a kid but I didn't know the title. You mentioning the movie made me check online and I was right.
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