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Girls Dey madd
I had one gf that left her bf because he wasn’t expressive enough in his emotions
Came to meet me cause I Dey express wella
Left me for reason wey I no even know
Them mad gan

She loves him

I made a mistake showing up during a photograph session on an ex's wedding day. I showed up with a friend she is quite fond of. She screamed on the protocols to take me out or else she leaves. The hubby couldn't tame her and got so embarrassed. I had to take a walk.
Women seem to get stupid when they get attached to something about a guy. The guy may be a cheat, cheapskate, lowlifer...
That's why it's ideal to date a girl who is clearly not in pains from a previous relationship. If you love her, give her time to recover and try to reconnect her with her ex. Don't give her the impression you want anything serious. Introduce her to a female friend who's very close. Surprise her with an outing, with her ex present and see her reactions.
I enjoy playing mind games though, but settling for a girl who is still bitter about her ex? No way!

Guyman02:
Why are you having 'f' in your moniker, are you Bob Risky brother?

No we are not..we are non binary.

Karnice600:
I made a mistake showing up during a photograph session on an ex's wedding day. I showed up with a friend she is quite fond of. She screamed on the protocols to take me out or else she leaves. The hubby couldn't tame her and got so embarrassed. I had to take a walk.
Women seem to get stupid when they get attached to something about a guy. The guy may be a cheat, cheapskate, lowlifer...
That's why it's ideal to date a girl who is clearly not in pains from a previous relationship. If you love her, give her time to recover and try to reconnect her with her ex. Don't give her the impression you want anything serious. Introduce her to a female friend who's very close. Surprise her with an outing, with her ex present and see her reactions.
I enjoy playing mind games though, but settling for a girl who is still bitter about her ex? No way!

You definitely went to the wedding uninvited.

KingDash:
chief I no understand your gender, you be man or woman or manwo?

We be non binary.

akosy:
She wan go comot another teeth as you no sabi comot teeth...

Thanks for cracking me up man. I had a crazy day today, reading this was a relief.

Drella:
You definitely went to the wedding uninvited.

Sure, I did.
But I felt just a snub by her would've been enough , having regard for the order of the day.

Karnice600:
Sure, I did.
But I felt just a snub by her would've been enough , having regard for the order of the day.

If you weren't on good terms before,you should have avoided going there.
I guess you really offended her to have acted that way.

When we say women get goldfish brain una go dey argue.i have witness the scene countless times, you will see a drop dead gorgeous babe begging one ugly looking, woman beater.no be say the monkey get money or Sabi fvck sef, be like say the angel when create women dem no pay am complete.

"This is to say that most girls are confused.
I think they prefer abusive men but on the internet They rebuke them". Women are internet warriors, you don't know that? They can only stand up to simps.

Women are complicated

Savedday:
9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!

Why is it that anytime I see this Nigeria girls are useless,I go just dey smile nonsense smile

22o62021:
We bonded so well together, she is an NYSC member. She told me that she has a boyfriend but she has called off their relationship because the guy has beaten her twice. The first time , the guy did it in front of his mother to the extent that she lost a tooth. And spent days in the hospital

The second time the guy slapped her because she told him that he comes home late.
She said the guy is a serial cheat, she has caught him on different occasions.

They dated for 6 years. But the guy will not accept the break up. Their families knows each other.

I have her the love she deserved, pampered her so well. I told her that I know she will go back to the guy one day, she said nooo I can’t do that.

One week after I said that to her. The guy was calling and pleading. She stopped picking my calls. I stopped calling her.

I sent her a text to know what is going on. She said it’s not what I think.

I said fine. I deleted her numbers and move on.

This is to say that most girls are confused.
I think they prefer abusive men but on the internet They rebuke them.

If you have moved on you no suppose they tell us for her or Abi the matter still.they pain you

Drella:
We be non binary.

so.. you be wetin exactly?

Women are a confused muddled up specie. The worst are those with multiple or serial relationships. Their sickness no get doctor, no get medicine, no get cure. The details of their first mother's discussions with the serpent in the garden of God remains a closely guarded secret till date!

22o62021:
We bonded so well together, she is an NYSC member. She told me that she has a boyfriend but she has called off their relationship because the guy has beaten her twice. The first time , the guy did it in front of his mother to the extent that she lost a tooth. And spent days in the hospital

The second time the guy slapped her because she told him that he comes home late.
She said the guy is a serial cheat, she has caught him on different occasions.

They dated for 6 years. But the guy will not accept the break up. Their families knows each other.

I have her the love she deserved, pampered her so well. I told her that I know she will go back to the guy one day, she said nooo I can’t do that.

One week after I said that to her. The guy was calling and pleading. She stopped picking my calls. I stopped calling her.

I sent her a text to know what is going on. She said it’s not what I think.

I said fine. I deleted her numbers and move on.

This is to say that most girls are confused.
I think they prefer abusive men but on the internet They rebuke them.

bros as long as say you don fuckkk her just move on... that's why I like myself I can't cry over any bitch, as long as say I don fuckkk ya then you shiii to me.

KingDash:
so.. you be wetin exactly?

Non binary.
We are non binary.

Drella:
Non binary. We are non binary.

na wa oh..

maybe the boy has hidden beauty

It doesn't really matters, even if at this time is to send her to her early grave for fetish purpose by her ex.

22o62021:
We bonded so well together, she is an NYSC member. She told me that she has a boyfriend but she has called off their relationship because the guy has beaten her twice. The first time , the guy did it in front of his mother to the extent that she lost a tooth. And spent days in the hospital

The second time the guy slapped her because she told him that he comes home late.
She said the guy is a serial cheat, she has caught him on different occasions.

They dated for 6 years. But the guy will not accept the break up. Their families knows each other.

I have her the love she deserved, pampered her so well. I told her that I know she will go back to the guy one day, she said nooo I can’t do that.

One week after I said that to her. The guy was calling and pleading. She stopped picking my calls. I stopped calling her.

I sent her a text to know what is going on. She said it’s not what I think.

I said fine. I deleted her numbers and move on.

This is to say that most girls are confused.
I think they prefer abusive men but on the internet They rebuke them.

Curvinus:
Op, I get that you are trying to cope with the loss of a loved one, but to say women do not know what they wan,t based on this incident alone, is quite overreaching and sounds like sour grapes to me.

I believe women know what they want and in the case of your ex, she has gone back to who she really wants more than she could possibly want you.

It is possible that the guy also tickles her fancy and gives her extreme pleasure in ways that you never inpire. The guy may also have better financial prospects than you at the moment.

I'm just saying that so many factors beyond your control may have played a role in this.

However, if it becomes clear to her that she could never attain her desire of locking down her abusive mate, I expect her to come calling on her second best.

.

On nairaland, only few reason out of box, most especially guys, maybe age factor or because nairaland is a faceless forum, but I think you re one of "extreme few individual among males here that speaks the way it's.

None of guys has endeavored to ask, how the girl behave that warranted abuses?

What are the other good thing the guy is good at that endeared him to her?

Even the poster. Who knows, if he can't stand on his feet as a capable guy? Perhaps, that was why he resorted to pampering. Meanwhile, he might be doing that cos it was only where he could convince the girl, since the so called abused guy is superior to him in all fronts.

The last time I checked, pampering alone would not buy Pampers and pay bills

HeOrShe:
I have learnt to stay away from ladies that are having relationship issues because they will only use u to hold body till they reconcile.

A girl that have been beating by a guy twice enjoys the beating, if not, the first time is enough to quit and move on.

When you date such girls, u will be killing urself trying to let her see the true side of love not knowing she enjoys being abused. And after a while they will go back to their abuse for reasons best known to them.

See ehh.. Women are complex and no man can understand them.

women are not complex, they are led by their emotions, they are only loyal to their emotions & how they feel, that's why they leave the man that has done a lot for them when a better man surfaces,women are incapable of loyalty, what you did for them is null once they don't feel that certain way for you any more ..the babe in question understands that the guy beating her ain't good for, but she sticks around cus of the way he makes her feel, later she'll still come back for the man that treated her right .

If you love her, beat her too, beg her,
beat her again, beg her again.
Thats the type of person she is.
She likes it hard and rough.
You too beat her, panel beat her, remove two tooth,
then call all your friends with you to help you come and beg.
Bet me, she will leave that guy and come to you, because you are a better panel beater.
Thats her nature, goat!
So if you love her, go buy your own koboko too
A word is enough for the wise

It will end in tears for her.

Fiscus105:
On nairaland, only few reason out of box, most especially guys, maybe age factor or because nairaland is a faceless forum, but I think you re one of "extreme few individual among males here that speaks the way it's.

None of guys has endeavored to ask, how the girl behave that warranted abuses?

What are the other good thing the guy is good at that endeared him to her?

Even the poster. Who knows, if he can't stand on his feet as a capable guy? Perhaps, that was why he resorted to pampering. Meanwhile, he might be doing that cos it was only where he could convince the girl, since the so called abused guy is superior to him in all fronts.

The last time I checked, pampering alone would not by Pampers and pay bills

Of course your observation is very apt. Why would anyone choose to be nice when they can get away with being mean?

Sysdatek:
Women don't know what they want

Confused lot

Treat them like angels and worship them
They will call u simp
And shlt on you

Lol that gender

Gadafii:
Treat a girl like an egg, she will see you like u are weak, silly and not man enough.

Rough her up, she will stick to you like fun

Women are wired in a very weird way, their cruise madddd gaan

But op, hope say u collect your three points before she went back to her nemesis

Rimsd:
Ladies are really funny and confuse creature, I have one like that now, the guy in question is ready to marry her but her reason is that she can't marry him because the guy is too quite or calm for her...

Hahahhahahaha

Odidigboigbo:
It's not all about pampering a lady nor hypnotizing. There is something the guy is doing, this other is not doing. Maybe the guy can knack very well while my guy can't. There are a lot things that can keep women. I have once met a lady that her boyfriend has turn to a pouching bag I advised her to leave the relationship, she told me that she have tried leaving several times but she was unable to meet a guy that could do the most important thing that makes her happy in a relationship, which the guy is perfectly doing without a fault.

Na Mr D haha

Peace91:
That's how she will get killed by the guy someday. Its just a matter of time .

Haha