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The truth is, our emotional responsiveness reduces with each passing partner we have sex with...this more so in women...hence inability to keep a relationship on the long run.

It's the same way an adhesive tape loses its adhesive after using it over & over.

Men have sex mostly without feelings (runs girls too)...That's why a man can keep a girl/wife & still have sex with others (not glorifying this attribute though)...hence there's no basis for comparison between both genders sexual acts.

Moreover, the females control the sexual market place.

The implication of body count in both genders
include #STIs: women are way more likely to contact an STI than men considering the female Instruments is a receptacle... #Subfertility (more in females as a result of the complication of STIs & unsafe pregnancy terminations by the unlicensed)... #Pregnancy-induced hypertension also known as hypertension of a new consort...(this in females) #Inability to form lasting emotional attachments in females to name a few.

That said, free will is allowed in non-Islamic countries including Nigeria so for those that want to indulge...Enjoy! but one should be aware of the risks.

Truth they say is bitter.

kokanepyramid:
The guy is dating one nairaland feminist in the name drfunmisticglow formerly funmisticqueen. I'm not surprised he's just regurgitating all what that one told him.

She is the husband in the relationship. You wonder the kind of daughters this one will raise.

Smiles!

neyoohhh:
I know yeah, it hurts.
I have no beef with you but your stupid principles which has lead so many youths astray.

You people have negatively impacted on the youths enough with all the useless woke doctrines you spread and I'm not having it.

This is not a dick measuring contest and I have absolutely feck all to prove. it's simply a battle to push back against the false narratives you insecure failure's pander about.

I know you don't have that level of insight anyway to understand.

Anyways, you ain't off my hook yet.

Mene Mene Tekel Upharsin.

sirjamesjnr:
. Her actions, her choice respect it.

Mumu Spotted

texasux:
This is the problem with simps, manginas and white knights. They infantilise women as a group incapable of agency and self-directed action, hence the need for them to always be there to protect women from vicissitudes and curve balls that life throws at us all.

Imagine he's acting as the blocker-of men coming for his girlfriend. I guess he'll be tagging along with her everywhere she goes so as to ensure no guy ever approaches her.

u dey mind the idiot.

This one no concern me, my latest fantasy now na to Bleep an albino

Romanoff:
Body count means everything for both genders.

Not everyone wants a public toilet that everyone has used.

Imagine one guy told me he slept with more than 100 women n he his looking for some one with less body count to marry
In my mind I was like did I tell you I was looking for ur type after sleeping around with so many girls.

Tashacobbs:
Imagine one guy told me he slept with more than 100 women n he his looking for some one with less body count to marry
In my mind I was like did I tell you I was looking for ur type after sleeping around with so many girls.

Imagine demons wey that kind person go dey carry.

Romanoff:
Imagine demons wey that kind person go dey carry.

Hahahaha I no fit

sirjamesjnr:
There is no sure thing as a sexual quota. And there is no such thing as a ‘hoe’. Men that slut-shaming women are not mature to be in a grown-up relationship. No lady is not accountable to any man for her past. It's none of a man's business.

That lady A has one guy she sleep with when she was 15 till she clocks 30 and married, lady B has a body count of 100 before her 30th birthday. The truth is the two ladies have sex and they don't owe you any explanation.

If you are going to marry for 'purity" look for a virgin girl. Do not condemn a man who wants a team player, homemaker, companion, and someone who can resonate with him. A virgin girl can tick all the boxes agreed. If you found that virgin girl with these qualities good luck. There is a lady out there for every man. Time is hard, while the world is moving forward, the Average Nigerian man is talking about body count. Shouldn't you be worried about a lady who can build a great home with you so your generation won't abuse you? Whether you are wealthy or you are coming up, I will like to think you need a proper woman to build your home with you.

My time in this uncertain world, both in the corporate world and among great minds. What we care about are ladies with decent character, basic moral values, ethics, cleanliness, abilities to accept responsibility, and willingness to learn something good. Never for once within this circle of friends and learned mind do we care about what a woman does with her body. What you do when you are in a relationship with me is what matters.

To that man who is in a decent relationship:
I know how you feel. When you develop strong feelings for a girl, it’s hard to think of her being with other guys. Even though you can rationalize that her past relationships happened before you met, it doesn’t make it any easier to accept that there were others who had been intimate with her. But you can’t dwell on this. It will destroy you, and it will destroy your relationship with your girlfriend.

Unless your girlfriend is the kind of girl that is very flirtatious, and who loves all the attention that she can get from guys, you probably don’t have anything to worry about. If she were a “hoe” she wouldn't want to have a decent relationship. So how do you get over this? There are only two things that I know of that you can do:

1. Don’t torture yourself with the details. There is no reason for you to know with whom she did it, how many times they did it, what positions they did it in, how big the guys were, and if they were better in bed than you or not. As tempting as it is to ask her these things—don’t! And stop her from volunteering that kind of information. Knowing these things will not help you or your relationship with your girlfriend in any way. They will only become mental and emotional burdens to you—obstacles and barriers that you will constantly have to overcome in order to treat her the way that she deserves to be treated. You protect yourself and you protect your relationship when you avoid rubbing your nose in her past.

2. Change the way that you look at people. Start realizing that every one of us is screwed up in some way. There are no perfect people. Every single one of us does dumb things and makes mistakes in our quest to find love and belonging. Your girlfriend is no exception. Choose to see her through the eyes of love and compassion, rather than through the eyes of judgment and condemnation.

To our ladies. I have one thing to say to you. You don’t need to apologize for your past relationships, and you don't need to explain yourself to any man. Simply understand that all you need is to be loved by someone, and if it didn’t work out, move on and build your life. Hopefully, your next relationship will work out for you.

Me personally? I’ve never longed to be with a virgin except for an ex and my girl(I am not with her because of sexual purity). I prefer my sexual partners to already know their way around their own sexuality. That means they’ve gotten some practice. Now I understand that as a man you need some certain confidence that some of you may are probably still forming. But when someone says something derogatory about the woman I’ve chosen to love I don’t reconsider my love. I conclude the person saying it is an idiot and ignore them in the future. I have faith in myself which leads me to have faith in the people I choose as partners.

Ladies out there, know the class of men you allow into your life. Be responsible for your actions.

Bro, I 100% percent subscribe to your line of thought but the people on this forum (Majority of whom are below the age of 30) will call for your head because they don't have enough life's experience to decipher your write up. If care is not taken, they will change you and convert you to their own way of thinking.

Tashacobbs:
Hahahaha I no fit

Of course, Tashacobbs would have done same if she had the opportunity

sharone21:
From all I read, black men still have a LONG wat to go...

It's amazing that few men like the Op exist on this forum... Ladies may not want to comment on threads like this, but trust me, they are on the side of very mature men like the Op...

So, men too don't have body counts? While we know many are sex addicts sleeping with different ladies each week... So, men do not have problems of erectile dysfunction( and all that comes with it), STIs/venereal diseases/ HIV?...Na dem spread am more pass.

Men pretending to be holier than women... If woman preach morality to me and Bible, I will believe her more than men who can sleep with fellow men, chicken, goats etc if women no dey...Men should be very GRATEFUL to God for creating women: I'm talking to those boys who say women are never good( including their mums& sisters).

Both men and women should be responsible for their bodies though.... Women at times sleep with men thinking by doing that he will marry them...apart from those who need money...unlike men who sleep around because they are addicts...

If na fellow woman dey slut shame another woman though it is bad but at least still understandable NOT public toilet which most men are and trying to slut shame a woman.... As far as I'm concerned, NO MAN can dare that as I no get their time.

Women, stay strong... Better men dey that will value u, no too put mind on Naija men sharing same mindsets as the ones in Nairaland....Men plenty, just believe in yourselves( no matter your age) and learn to explore outside Africa...At least to help your future generation- if nothing u gain in this, u will gain another citizenship and very intelligent children who think maturely and out of the box.

*I'm TOTALLY disappointed with men in this forum, I hope majority of Naija men don't think like this though...Anyway, I may not know because I will NOT give them that privilege ( lol)....

who cares? shove your opinion deep down your wide asshole.

sharone21:
That is y I believe that since' what goes around comes around'... Most of una hypocrite men shouting body counts up & down will ultimately end up with the deadliest of sluts u think u are avoiding, they will just be pretentious...

Okay, who una wan leave the girls u disvirgined or slept many times with( lol)... Accept it as nature's way to pay back...A girl may have dodged being raped from birth, but fit no fit dodge deceptive tongues of men so u are think dem no go still marry? Na lie, women go marry wella, and the funniest part is that they get the best men while the broke boys on Nairaland keep on lamenting...Some go come stupidly say they want foreigner wives( lol) after some of them have read your very traditional mindsets online.

Men were even the first to practice homosexuality in the Bible when they tried to sleep with angels that visited Lot's family and they are here still having the guts to condemn women? ( Lol)

I repeat, no man has ANY RIGHT to condemn ANY woman because they are GUILTY as charged( lol).

*FYI: I do NOT subscribe to NONSENSE redpilling and feminism....u will only succeed in missing your RIB.

* What stupidly makes some men think that ladies who condemn their childish talk of body counts are sleeping around? Anyway, the same shallow reasoning that makes them talk of body counts as the only criteria that defines a good wife is what is making them talk nonsense.

* I now see y black men are in the lower cadre of those who reason properly, all because they have misplaced priority... I hope the curse on black men in the Bible is not playing out already... The black men I respect( including my dad) are those who are polished and exposed.

* If na beta( better) man go take care of me WELL, why should I be bothered?...It actually takes 2 FOOLS to marry: this I learnt from my parents.

yen yen yen... aunty wey mumu I've slept with over 500 girls in this life and still counting, I've disvirgined 5,the recent one just last week... but I will never marry a girl who is not a virgin, and before you think with your asshole, not all of us craves marriage, infact I'm against the idea of marriage but for my mama sake I fit marry virgin... if I no see virgin I go for babymama, you can argue with your keyboard.

Theoutsider:
A woman has unlimited access to sex.
Men have to become the top 10-25% of society to get access to GOOD quality beautiful women

The fact you think you are some how special that you can get access to multiple men is laughable.

If you are giving you sex to multiple men. It means you don't value your pussy. Because DICK is not valuable (not in the eyes of women)

this is how slow a lot of you are

- PUSSY IS valuable and if your are giving away a Ferrari for free something is wrong with it. because NO ONE GIVES AWAY A FERRARI

What is valuable in the eyes of men (IS HIS ABILITY TO PRODUCE) and if your pussy can not keep a man that has the ability to produce is very possible you gave up the PUSSY to TOOOOO many men or its over valued. If this man how has worked so hard finds out you are the village door knob. YOU THINK HE WILL TAKE YOU? LOL

That is what the Beta men are here for.. to take care of the left overs.

Lets just face it you WANT TO BE A MAN and have no deserve to be a woman and this is why you bitch and moan. Suck it up sister.

arguing with cococandy is like arguing with buhari or , na shït full their brain what do you expect.

Theoutsider:
slut-shame huh?

So you condone women being sluts?

Because that is what slut-shame implies - it means you are pro-slut or maybe... just be you are repeating $hit you heard your feminist friend echo in your ear.

Listen kid.. Mark my words. You relationship is going to fail. Keep up with that BETA crap!

YES you are correct the bothers and fathers are protecting their daughters and sisters from becoming SLUTS You have a problem with that?

what do you expect from the useless simp when he is being fed by one of the useless feminist on nairaland by name drfunministicglow, she obviously read all he typed to him. like how our secondary school teachers dictate notes to us back then, naso they dey do inside their house... awon werey social media woke

UncleJudax:
Never? who the fück are you to tell anyone what or how to say anything?

The nerve!

are you minding the idiot, he thinks he's special because he's dating one idiot nairaland feminist,asslicking her on every thread. he doesn't know he is as inconsequential as the p in psychology

johnkey:
arguing with cococandy is like arguing with , na shït full their brain what do you expect.

gentlestdude:
you deserve all the insults in the world and more

Really, on this forum?
You think you can just insult and abuse members as you like?
No, there are rules here.

Seun Mynd44 Justwise Dominique.
Rule 2

johnkey:
are you minding the idiot, he thinks he's special because he's dating one idiot nairaland feminist,asslicking her on every thread. he doesn't know he is as inconsequential as the p in psychology

Seun Mynd44 Justwise Dominique.
Rule 8.
Rule 2.

NLPoliceWoman:
Really, on this forum?
You think you can just insult and abuse members as you like?
No, there are rules here.

Seun Mynd44 Justwise Dominique.
Rule 2

you bi oponu lol. na that frustration go kill you. as long as they see my insult I don't care what happens next. go and grill your dead meat olofo

johnkey:
you bi oponu lol. na that frustration go kill you. as long as they see my insult I don't care what happens next. olofo

Again,
Seun Mynd44 Justwise Dominique.
Rule 2

saasala:
Bro, I 100% per cent subscribe to your line of thought but the people on this forum (The majority of whom are below the age of 30) will call for your head because they don't have enough life's experience to decipher your write up. If care is not taken, they will change you and convert you to their way of thinking.

. I was raised properly. So I can handle their toxic and foolish comments. The thread is above their average IQ, if they can come to terms with it then I can't help them either.

TemmyT002:
He is probably trying to impress a girl on Nairaland. He think say he dey wise.

he is being fed by a feminist here drfunministicglow so what do you expect

johnkey:
yen yen yen... aunty wey mumu I've slept with over 500 girls in this life and still counting,

Seun Mynd44 Justwise Dominique.
Rule 2

NLPoliceWoman:
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Seun Mynd44 Justwise Dominique.
Rule 2

this one wan kill himself, we all know that you are the mod so stop shouting those innocent mods names here, login with your mod account and delete all the comments and fück off my mentions, I hate you with all the hate in the world. if I'm going to take a life in this world it should be you

mrnatty:
Baba its obvious you nor get sense and am sure ur sisters they do kookup with ur permission sake of say body count doesn't matter.

How would you deliberately choose to surfer for another man's sin.
When she was squatting in monky style and spreading her legs for different size D**k and shouting hard, chop me, finish me, distory it, damage my p**sy for me, i dey there...eh . When them give her belle and the guys refused to accept for the sake say nor be only him they nack the girl and the babe go do abortions them tell me. Why should i inherite an over used and expired obo carnal fir sake say i be man abd xa6n weather the storm... continue oga astronaut.

Cause say i wan make them call me man then i will open my clear eyes go inherite problem wey nor concern me so that i can weather the storm like a real man.
Who i wan impress, abi bomb dey that ur daff head ni.

You self nor go let any of ur relative marry babe wey you and ur friends don take do pass round several occasions.
You go recommend that kind girl for person wey you love.
You self go gree accept babe wey don sex from her future sexing?

You don hear when this yahoo boys they gist about waiting them they use this easy virtue ladies do sake 5if say them go give them small mony they can hustle themselves legitimately.

Oga abeg shot up if u nor get any sense inside that ur coconut head.

Come I will give you my grand ma for free, just weather the storm like a real man...oga weather

lmao funniest comment on this mumu thread ,,, ndi astronaut lol

johnkey:
oponu Mirada.. the only deluded person on this thread is you and your boyfriend drfunministicglow abi what's the bitch username sef. I hear say na she marry you put for house lol... useless simp, at least be useful for yourself if you want to be useless to the society.

. A child from a dysfunctional home wouldn't hide in public. I am not the cause of frustration and if you can cope with life, please use 100 naira sniper and do the needful. We already have so many idiots around. Calling my girl bitch when she does nothing to you got a part of me. The world won't come down to your level. My thread is not for misfits like you. You sleep with 500 girls maybe in your miserable dream life. We know your type.

sirjamesjnr:
. A child from a dysfunctional home wouldn't hide in public. I am not the cause of frustration and if you can cope with life, please use 100 naira sniper and do the needful. We already have so many idiots around. Calling my girl bitch when she does nothing to you got a part of me. The world won't come down to your level. My thread is not for misfits like you. You sleep with 500 girls maybe in your miserable dream life. We know your type.

fool I come from one of the happiest home so keep dreaming. I've banged over 200 unilag girls, over 300 in ospoly, countless from the streets,malls, clubs... I'm a rich Yahoo boy with a classy ride what do you expect? you can go and hug transformer if it pains you, the idiot had to write such stupid long epistle just to get sex from that idiot that you call queen... on your wedding day there will be a special canopy for her exes that has used her like sanitary pad, since body count don't matter to you ode.... you are the most stupid person on nairaland

Estellie:
And in all these, the body count of men doesn’t matter?

Y’all act like women have been fuvking trees and aliens.

it's a man's world you can keep living in Dreamland , who pays the piper dictates the tune .. if it pains you go and hug transformer

johnkey:
fool I come from one of the happiest homes so keep dreaming. I've banged over 200 unilag girls, over 300 in poly, you can go and hug transformer if it pains you, you had to write such stupid long epistle just to get sex from that idiot that you call queen... on your wedding day there will be a special canopy for her exes that has used her like sanitary pad since body count doesn't matter to you ode.... you are the most stupid person on nairaland

. My mum used to say a mad person see everyone around him as mad. That time you use in dreaming of banging 500 girls use it and eliminate yourself because you are not supposed to be where sane humans are. You are full of hate because you are frustrated but we are not your problem. Your deadbeat father is. He shouldn't have gotten drunk and had a one night stand with that poor woman. I won't suffer from their mistake. So go meet them.

johnkey:
it's a man's world you can keep living in Dreamland , who pays the piper dictates the tune .. if it pains you go and hug transformer

. I don't care if you are a toddler. If you are tired of your miserable life, go work it out with your deadbeat parents.