Icouldhave:

thanks very much for this, but don't you think it's a little bit too harsh?
we wouldn't want to treat him like a kid or make him feel like we are punishing him for his misdeeds. no matter what he's still the head of the family.

mariahAngel:


How old is your mum?

At the stage she is in her life, I don't think she should bother herself with however an 85yr old man has chosen to live the rest of his life.
So, she should simply stop stressing herself over the matter and let him do whatever and however he wants.
You and your siblings should just make sure she has all she needs.
Ya lefuru agadi nwoke anya!

mariahAngel:


It means she should simply ignore the old man(for her peace of mind).

Seriously, she shouldn't live the rest of her life stressing herself over your dad's infidelity like a young wife. She has you guys(her children)

Techguy96:

Name one problem prayer had solve in this life?

mariahAngel:


How old is your mum?

At the stage she is in her life, I don't think she should bother herself with however an 85yr old man has chosen to live the rest of his life.
So, she should simply stop stressing herself over the matter and let him do whatever and however he wants.
You and your siblings should just make sure she has all she needs.
Ya lefuru agadi nwoke anya!

1Sharon:


Nah, i'm a med student.

Icouldhave:


don't insult him please, act mature.

ednut1:
saying it as it is . Is that wrong The man at 85 should know better. The vega can kill him faster. The op came for me for saying the truth. Nothing personal

Icouldhave:
Hi all

We the children have sat my dad down and talked to him, to the extent we are tired, how can an old man at this stage in life still fornicating.

Money we sent to him for his upkeeps, he is using it to feed another man's children. several times my mom have seen vega 200 in his pockets during laundry.

The annoying thing is this woman he is frolicking with is a known area miscreant, I don't know if he's jazzed or it's something else.

A man at this age is not supposed to have sexual urge, besides while he was young he didn't do like this.

(no insults on my dad please, we respect him, he did alot for us his children both male and female)

Please how do we the children handle this issue?

ojasweb:


Ask if na prayer dem use invent this same platform they are using to advocate prayers. If they could advocate working the way they are advocating for prayers, Nigeria will be better.

Midas01:
You Nigerian men don't have sense at all. You pity her future husband because she stated the fact unlike you fools that have been supporting the man and claiming he should be allowed to do what he wants when if it was a a woman doing such you'd call her olosho and claim that all her children need DNA test.

Double standards and hypocrisy has really messed your brains.

Manmanng:
When you see a man crying and running naked in the market, know that all is not well with him. He must be helpless. I'm helpless at the moment please. I have never done this openly before and I pray for God's intervention in my life. I need any financial assistance from you to help me attend to my sick mother bedridden at the moment. Thanks as you help with any amount please.

0166_618_908, Union Bank.
Amande

batb:

You do not respect your Dad and family in the first place, How dare you asking us to respect them!
By bringing your Dad issue here, you disrespected him for life and for all eternity!
OMO ALE JATIJATI!

batb:

You do not respect your Dad and family in the first place, How dare you asking us to respect them!
By bringing your Dad issue here, you disrespected him for life and for all eternity!
OMO ALE JATIJATI!

seguno2:


Serious prayer or psychiatrist

Icouldhave:
Hi all

We the children have sat my dad down and talked to him, to the extent we are tired, how can an old man at this stage in life still fornicating.

Money we sent to him for his upkeeps, he is using it to feed another man's children. several times my mom have seen vega 200 in his pockets during laundry.

The annoying thing is this woman he is frolicking with is a known area miscreant, I don't know if he's jazzed or it's something else.

A man at this age is not supposed to have sexual urge, besides while he was young he didn't do like this.

(no insults on my dad please, we respect him, he did alot for us his children both male and female)

Please how do we the children handle this issue?

Eriokanmi:
How could you say an elderly man isn't in his senses.. are you OK? Youths of nowadays shaa. They address elderly ones without respect

mariahAngel:


What insulting words? That is just putting it as respectful as possible, which is quite hard considering the situation.
It has do because you say so? If you no get mind, no carry family matter come nairaland. Just dey pray make e no reach FP!

I wasn't referring to your mum in particular.

FEMIBRANCH:
Your papa don chop am for inside correct banga soup o
If care is not taken at him age he go die for active service

Icouldhave:
Hi all

We the children have sat my dad down and talked to him, to the extent we are tired, how can an old man at this stage in life still fornicating.

Money we sent to him for his upkeeps, he is using it to feed another man's children. several times my mom have seen vega 200 in his pockets during laundry.

The annoying thing is this woman he is frolicking with is a known area miscreant, I don't know if he's jazzed or it's something else.

A man at this age is not supposed to have sexual urge, besides while he was young he didn't do like this.

(no insults on my dad please, we respect him, he did alot for us his children both male and female)

Please how do we the children handle this issue?

EjaikreTheViper:


SHUT UP!!!

YOU SHAMELESS KID!

mariahAngel:


Seriously, if I were the mum, I'd be relieved and relish my retirement from wifely duties while living.
Women bother way too much over men matters seriously.
I simply won't be bothered.

Icouldhave:

getat, let me see better people comments.
not some kids talks.

mariahAngel:


Only a foolish woman will still be doing all that for a philandering old man.
When I said retirement from wifely duties, I meant all that, including sex.

Disrespect? Seriously, we underestimate the power of indifference.

Icouldhave:
Hi all

We the children have sat my dad down and talked to him, to the extent we are tired, how can an old man at this stage in life still fornicating.

Money we sent to him for his upkeeps, he is using it to feed another man's children. several times my mom have seen vega 200 in his pockets during laundry.

The annoying thing is this woman he is frolicking with is a known area miscreant, I don't know if he's jazzed or it's something else.

A man at this age is not supposed to have sexual urge, besides while he was young he didn't do like this.

(no insults on my dad please, we respect him, he did alot for us his children both male and female)

Please how do we the children handle this issue?

computersoft:
Note that at his age,such sex is not too good for his health. And the woman may be exploiting him energy wise.

Drella:


With your words,it shows you're not a street type.

If I were the one,I'll be dealing seriously with that woman.And I'll deny ever having a hand in it.
By the time she suffers in the hands of area boys,she will leave another person's husband alone.



I'm not saying you should do that o

Icouldhave:
Hi all

We the children have sat my dad down and talked to him, to the extent we are tired, how can an old man at this stage in life still fornicating.

Money we sent to him for his upkeeps, he is using it to feed another man's children. several times my mom have seen vega 200 in his pockets during laundry.

The annoying thing is this woman he is frolicking with is a known area miscreant, I don't know if he's jazzed or it's something else.

A man at this age is not supposed to have sexual urge, besides while he was young he didn't do like this.

(no insults on my dad please, we respect him, he did alot for us his children both male and female)

Please how do we the children handle this issue?