| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by ajiffat237(m): 2:43pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Why troubling a whole community about iniquities and flimsy excuses, the decisions is yours to decide, btw remember this your action is solely your, it is your decision you can as well mark your own script for a better result |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by chikason22(m): 2:43pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
CandyOps:
Hmmm.. there's something you're not telling us, bro.
Why are you sad she had fun while in school and you didn't? You said something about anger & vengeance? Where is this anger coming from?
Now, when you answer this question about why you're mad she had it easy in school also question why you feel the way you feel about the answer.
The aim is to ask & reveal to yourself the source or root of this anger you feel. And to do that you have to ask yourself a 3-level deep question starting from "why do I feel this way?"
Then ask yourself, "why do I feel this way about your 'answer'?"
Then go a 3rd level deep. Also question why you fe about the 2nd answer. And there you'll find the root of this anger.
Funny thing is when you master this simple yet effective skill of self-awareness you will be in complete control of your emotions and actions.
The wife nee former flirt was sleeping around with different guys. That's what he's not telling us and that's what you want to hear 2 Likes |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by MikkySexy23(m): 2:44pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Raalsalghul:
Op, the mistake you made was getting married in your peak.
You should have taken like five years break once you became successful to navigate and understand the world of women: explore, travel and enjoy the good things that life has to offer.
Your wife used her peak to live the life of the party: socializing, having fun at parties and careless sex (who knows), going on dates .
In your case, you spent the majority of your youth toiling to develop yourself due to your humble background, you've attained relative success (your own peak); it only makes sense you have your own fun too instead you're now weighed down by marriage responsibilities and feeling cheated.
You should have thought about this before saying your wedding vows.
One more thing, if your wife is the supportive type given her family background, then drop this anger and see how you can make it work. You're in, you're in.
You gave the best answer. For most males that struggled through life, DO NOT MARRY EARLY!!! NEVER! You will definitely feel cheated on by life. And life is not fair. 1 Like |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Kobojunkie: 2:44pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
LiegeMan:
thanks for the advice,
But Dad joined his ancestors when I was still in elementary school owing to diabetes, Mom single handedly trained me and my siblings through out elementary, and secondary school till the burden became much on her to carry alone, it wasn't their fault in any way.
I've not done any of what I stated. That does not in any way remove the blame from them. They chose to have you and so were responsible for your education. Your parents are the ones who failed you here.  So if you must punish anyone, you focus on them - your mother - and not your wife who had nothing to do with your past and your parent in this. |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by CuteEmma(f): 2:44pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
OloshoMan:
WTF is your problem, man.
She did all these white in school and you want to do it, now you're married. Your anger isn't channeled in the right place tbh... you May end up destroying the marriage in the process. Get a grip, man. Not her fault. I tire for Op o. He should wait till his kids grow old enough to do his burial. Maybe this is what his dad did, now he wants to jeopardize their future and make them hawk wares like he did; and also club when they also get married, so their own kids will do the same  |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by elmagnifico411(m): 2:44pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Oga Ade, you're sounding like u guys hd a thing while she was in school and u were in yours. It's not her fault life dealth harshly with u. It's not her fault u couldn't party, chop chics, or have fun. Infact, I count u lucky for having her as your wife sef, where she take Jam u wey get low self esteem? What's pst stays in the past. If she's being a good wife and you want to now embrace waywardness, she's not to be blamed. I'd her loved if she can divorce u sef for writing rubbish here.. you dey look for reason to cheat. Very lame LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me
hello nairalanders,
Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.
Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.
Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.
Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.
this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.
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| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Adamsyozil23: 2:44pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
The past is in d past,dat is y is it is called the past, nobody is a saint but we are better Dan each other, |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Mendy101: 2:45pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
OP you are sick that’s all I have to say, you have an evil spirit in you, go ahead, go on be vengeful for nonsense, I pray your wife dumps you sef so you can come back here to weep, na person no tell you to enjoy yourself for school, na wa o, |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Nobody: 2:45pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
She had nothing to do with what instigated your condition back then. She just lived the life of the average undergraduate (yes, even broke undergraduates party and have fun at their own level), so why does she have to pay for something she isn't guilty of?
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| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Mom007(f): 2:45pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Mr man, what you are describing is inferiority complex and not vengeance. Vengeance for what? Did she offend you? You are in fact a very bitter and frustrated person. So you would have been happy if she was hawking groundnuts and pawpaw under the hot son and getting molested by men while at it in order to train herself through school Abi? Where do ladies find people like you to marry sef? You are not angry at your parents for having more children than they can comfortably cater to, nor are you mad at our rotten country which makes it hard for everyone especially the youth who refuse to engage in crime to survive but you are instead, angry at someone's daughter for having a well rounded higher education experience and vowing vengeance... Someone you probably begged and promised heaven and earth before she agreed to marry you... Alakoba ni e bobo yi! Eyan radarada! Pstcheew! Go and cheat now, na wetin dey your eye to do. By the time you start treating infections back to back, you will sit your sorry behind at home. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Btruth: 2:46pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
You've already made up your mind there's no point for my advice. But remember, all she did was in the past before she meet you. |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by swissobed: 2:46pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Summary of your write you need a psychological help 1 Like |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by achillesfoot(m): 2:46pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
There's a reason why Alcohol was invented.. Take a shot of brandy and breathe. Let go, case closed... What kind of vengeance are you talking about? Are you a kid?? |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by lomprico(m): 2:46pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me
hello nairalanders,
Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.
Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.
Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.
Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.
this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.
you have a very low self esteem! were the one that sponsored her when she was in school? were u dating her when she was in school? so u want to cheat because u heard how she lived back in school? I see that u are only trying to justify cheating on your wife. Na u sabi. |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Anwons(m): 2:47pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Why did this trash make front page? Have some of nairaland moderators taken into bribe or what? |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by jeff1607(m): 2:47pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Mid life crisis
If her past isn’t in any way affecting the present why should you act the way you are now? Unless there’s something you aren’t saying |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by udomas(m): 2:47pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me
hello nairalanders,
Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.
Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.
Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.
Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.
this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.
Truly marriage they say is not about my mates are all married; I have things going on well with me in terms of career and finance; but all about maturity. Imagine what's coming from a grown married man... Mate you've got to stop disgracing the sanity of the institution called" marriage" please! No we should support you with your childish move right? You were unlucky to have come from a comfortable background and how's she to be blamed  |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by dazzlingd(m): 2:47pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Chop life u no go hear word...now see ur life  1 Like |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Mom007(f): 2:47pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
swissobed:
Summary of your write you need a psychological help I'm telling you. |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Spain007(m): 2:48pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me
hello nairalanders,
Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.
Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.
Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.
Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.
this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.
Incomplete story or maybe I shld say you're chasing shadows... |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by chikason22(m): 2:50pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
IbrahimSkiba:
[s] What is this rubbish that I just read?!
What is now your anger? That you were raised in poverty and your wife wasn't raised the same way that you were raised? As in I'm not getting the whole point here... I no just understand the trash wey you just typed.. you want vengeance on your wife, as in mumu, I am really not understanding you.. you dey find excuse to cheat and fvck another pussy, how that one come take concern the way of life your wife lived while she was in school? Who's this concentrated illiterate sef this early morning... OP abeg go and sleep... You really don't have any reasonable thing to say, we have more pressing issues in Nigeria than to be bothered about how you and your wife lived your lives while you were schooling [/s] |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by tenpipsperday: 2:50pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me
hello nairalanders,
Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.
Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.
Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.
Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.
this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.
Op from your account you lived an angel life devoid of anything bad. And you want a revenge right? Just run unto a fast moving trailer head-on and make her a widow. She's very wicked. How could she be that heartless. Bye |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by suffering: 2:50pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
1. Fake story.
2. There was a time between school and marriage you were meant to do all that. It was called bachelorhood.
3. Why not compare your life to Bill Gates and Dangote then strive to reach their level of success plus wealth?
4. Oh, you want to compete with a woman? Do my third recommendation against Oprah Winfrey.
5. Your wife had a completely different upbringing from yours. If you wanted someone with the same ideal as yours pick one of your biological sisters as a mate. |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by BigBashiru: 2:50pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
OloshoMan:
WTF is your problem, man.
She did all these white in school and you want to do it, now you're married. Your anger isn't channeled in the right place tbh... you May end up destroying the marriage in the process. Get a grip, man. Not her fault. my guy didn't have his fun.... he was prolly restricted. guy should go and hv his fun biko but sin though e.g. sleeping with married women... |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by nini007(m): 2:50pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me
hello nairalanders,
Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.
Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.
Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.
Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.
this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.
You're MAD |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by OvertheTop(m): 2:50pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Jman06:
My brother let me advise you like someone who has experienced the so called "fun" in partying and clubbing lifestyles.
There's no fun in such places you are looking at. You'll only end up complicating your life and putting yourself into financial, health and security risks. Don't start a bad life you were not cut out for ab initio! It ends in regrets!! I don't know how else to stress this so you can understand.
Meanwhile, since you were not even like in a relationship with your wife at the time she was living such lifestyle, why are you angry about it now? Not like she was cheating on you or something. He Feels Life has passed him by.... buts its not his wife's Fault....He Should have Taken time out to Flex before settling.... He don enter this One....there is nothin he can do...especially if the Wife is well-behaved. on a lighter note: You have Lost your Bachelors Degree.....and Your Wife has gotten her Masters Degree over u..... 1 Like |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Nobody: 2:51pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
BigYash:
Una just dey open mouth talk. The wife that lived those kind of hook up lifestyle,might still even be cheating .. Women no dey ever talk secret out.. Na men like op dey Bleep up shall. Too much talk. Do wetin dey ur mind and leave talk. Present and formal hoes deserve no respect. My opinion This is the only sensible comment on this thread. You know, it is disheartening that 90% of Nairalanders follow the herd mentality. Open any thread on Nairaland, especially those on the front page. You would notice that the first person’s comment is ALWAYS echoed by the other comments that follow that comment. If the first comment on any thread abuses the subject or OP of that thread, the rest of the assholes too would follow suit. If the first comment on any thread praises the subject or the OP, the rest of the Dundees too will follow suit. You know why? Secondary School Children & brain-dead nonentities have hijacked Nairaland. This is the reason I have drastically reduced my engagements on Nairaland, because I can’t be wasting my time & energy arguing with nonentities that are not even up to 23years of age. Now, back to the topic. Several assholes said via “re-echoing” (because one asshole already mentioned it) that there’s nothing to gain in what the OP wants to do. If there’s nothing to gain in it, why then are the vast majority of Nigerians indulging in it? Or isn’t our society no longer a reflection of we the people? I am angry because 99% of these bastards telling the OP otherwise are doing way worse behind closed doors. I am not blaming the OP’s wife for her wayward lifestyle in school but the OP too deserves some fun. In fact, he should explore. Using God to cage or scare anybody doesn’t work anymore in this useless Country. After all, we all agree that “Life No Balance” I hate cheating in my life. And if you must scold me or accuse me of anything in my life, then just make sure your own yansh too no get shit. I will not judge you and I will never scold you but make sure you come with your clean yansh - if you must do it to me. I am more pained because I know that the OP’s wife can never EVER change. Once an Olosho, always an Olosho - especially all these useless Nigeria Oloshos. If you have fvcked any one of them before, you would know how damaged and irredeemable these greedy & covetous ladies are. One was telling me the other day, that the last guy who fvcked her based on hook up smoked SK or Colorado (I can’t remember) and the guy fvcked her “roughly” for over an hour without ejaculating . She said she was crying & begging the guy that she was tired and could no longer take it. The guy did not listen, and was just pounding away until he ejaculated. She said when she was going home in the morning after collecting her 10k for the hookup, she started crying. And this girl does hookup like 4 times a week. She equally told me that one day, she got a hookup on another day and after they already agreed on price, when she got to the guy’s house (a one-room apartment with rug smelling & oozing due to water that poured on the rug). The guy has tattoos all over his body and lives with his friend and then told her both of them would fvck her for 5k. She got up angrily and left and it was already late around 11pm in Ijebu-ode. The Vigilantes were already out and parading for security. They held her and wanted to rape her. One of the security guards from a nearby house came to her rescue and lied to the Vigilantes that he was her boyfriend and that she came looking for him. That was how that girl followed the security guard into his shed and the guy slept with her all through and never paid her a kobo. She said she had to allow the guy to sleep with her because it was better than being raped by over 15 Vigilante men. This is just two out of about 5 events she told me. If not that I was high on alcohol that night, I nearly wept for her - seriously. Please, just imagine how all these useless & uncultured Yahoo Boys must have damaged her. I really felt for her. Now, I want you to imagine the unfortunate guy that will now settle down & marry this kinda Olosho. Please tell me, why won’t the OP feel cheated? Omo, if I no see the woman I am craving for to marry, I swear, I go just dey born throway dey go - because for Naija now, 96% of all the women na Olosho dem be (including the married ones). You can take my word to the bank. 9 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by OnMyBiz: 2:51pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Another stupid post by a maniac. Nonsense |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by comtem2011: 2:52pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Vengeance ? You're only hurting yourself. Did she offend u? No. |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Goodzinny: 2:52pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
The question is, did she live the life after you married her? please let the sleeping dog to lie. you also had a past life. |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Watinhapen(m): 2:52pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Bro, nobody may understand you but I totally understand where you’re coming from. You’re angry because you kept yourself while your wife was busy having sex with different guys and enjoying herself. You feel cheated by your wife. This is why before marriage, you need to look into the past life of the woman you want to marry to know if you can deal with it. If you had married a virgin you won’t be feeling this way.
Now, there’s nothing you can do about this. You’re already married to your wife and I guess she’s a good woman to you. Try as much as possible to forget all those sexual escapades that your wife has had in the past and focus on now. Focus on the woman she is now and not what she was in the past. Remain a good husband to her. Enjoy your sexual life with her and see her as a woman worthy of you. Remove negative thoughts from your mind and just focus on your family. Peace. 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Herculex03(m): 2:52pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Raalsalghul:
Op, the mistake you made was getting married in your peak.
You should have taken like five years break once you became successful to navigate and understand the world of women: explore, travel and enjoy the good things that life has to offer.
Your wife used her peak to live the life of the party: socializing, having fun at parties and careless sex (who knows), going on dates .
In your case, you spent the majority of your youth toiling to develop yourself due to your humble background, you've attained relative success (your own peak); it only makes sense you have your own fun too instead you're now weighed down by marriage responsibilities and feeling cheated.
You should have thought about this before saying your wedding vows.
One more thing, if your wife is the supportive type given her family background, then drop this anger and see how you can make it work. You're in, you're in.
Op follow this advice you're in it already if she is submissive and supportive just lock up |
