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Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by sheffyUTD(m): 1:42pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
This one will kill himself if his wife is hugged in his presence. You're still a boy and not mentally ready for marriage. Go back to secondary school. |
Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Kobojunkie: 2:27pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
torqque7:Who are you to decide whether women can live recklessly and what you call irresponsibly? Who set you up as judge over their lives and choices? |
Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Lostchild(m): 3:38pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
ambient: Chief Kaliyah 1. I laugh over your comment. 2. I will answer you, but not right now. |
Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Lostchild(m): 3:58pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
UncleKoboko: Only few wise fellow like you understand this. Many people today are suffering over the sins and past life of their fathers and many keep doing worse than that of their father. They will say, let forget the past. Later, the past will start hunting their future. 2 Likes |
Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Oluchia(f): 4:48pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Oyiboman69: In your mind now, you have given a great advise. If the tables were turned and the wife is the OP, will you give her this kind of stupid advice?? Go on a drinking spree, bang enough men, and come back so she can feel better? And then you went on to wish him a happy married life. I really don't blame people who stereotype most men as women haters. Some things I hear on Nairaland ehn. |
Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Oluchia(f): 4:59pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Lostchild: This una Wisdom=foolishness; If you cannot forgive a 'LovePeddler', THEN DIVORCE HER. Nobody forced you to marry her in the first place, and if you can't deal with her past as a matured person, then do needful and stop acting like a child and claiming 'wisdom' Nonsense! |
Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by GodisFirst: 5:38pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
I have just few questions for you; Is your wife's past affecting your marriage like making her not being able to play her role as a wife or mother to the kids if you now have Children? Were you forced or deceived into this marriage? Is she disrespecting you and your family? Is she using her family wealth to intimidate you? If the answers are NO, then you don't need to do what you are planning to do because it may come back to hunt you. she did those things when she was a student and not very much aware of the consequences of some of her actions, could be peer influence or juvenile delinquency. Those were the days of ignorance; the case is different now if any of you try it this time, it may not go down well. She was lucky to be protected by grace unlike so many other persons. If she has changed, the best for you is to give her the support she needs to remain a changed person for the sake of your marriage and the family you need to build as the head of the family. That thing you think you missed while starving or suffering are some of the things so have led many to early grave and have kept so many people in the hospital today battling for their lives. Thank God for not allowing your wife’s case to be the same. You that is free, thank God for the grace because you escaped that is not because of your power. Some people went into some dirty lifestyles due to poverty, but you did not allow poverty to ruin yours, but it led you to the virtues of modesty, fortitude, endurance, patience, and perseverance. So, don’t just throw these good qualities away carelessly due to a little moment of darkness in life. Just put them all in the hands of God. “You don’t know what you got till is gone” Good luck. |
Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Oyiboman69: 9:46pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Oluchia:i guess you didnt read where he said hes living in trouble state all this while...until someone fufills all his heart desires,he can never find comfort in life. I didnt say he wont find any distraction or even abandon the marriage if he finds comforts in his journey but you should know that his happiness which is also affecting his marriage is paramount. and for you asking i will gibe the same advice to the woman if the opposite is the case,that is what i will do and that is the only option in this case. I also believe that it is either he comes back home or leaves the marriage,no three ways about it...however,there id also some options:force him to be happy against his will,divorce the wife,or fufilling his heart desires by womanizing and partying inside his home...in your learned opinion,which ome do you propose he do? |
Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by NoToPile: 10:07pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Roseey0: What I find funny about the thread is if it was about his wife's sexual history he would have emphasized more on it. ( I trust nairaland guys for that) his major grouse is the privileged background his wife had that he didn't have. ( check out his opening statements about his wife, it was all about how her family could provide and she didn't lack and this and she enjoyed herself and that ) , maybe he would have felt better if she also hawked oranges to go to school ( not a prestigious university). I am not even a fan of boys and girls partying and clubbing in school but for me this OPs matter is very close to witchcraft, what this OP feels is pure envy and in all honesty I pity his wife he is a dangerous person to be around. And you know the very hilarious part of it, even if he goes all out partying and clubbing womanizing he still won't feel fulfilled and that anger will still be there. 3 Likes |
Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Nobody: 1:21am On Oct 29, 2021 |
Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Nobody: 1:24am On Oct 29, 2021 |
mikigen:Nobody forced them to marry, and not all men lived that unnecessarily hard life the government has caused. Rich/middle class men everywhere that enjoyed their lives growing up too. |
Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Nobody: 1:29am On Oct 29, 2021 |
BigYash:Another fish brain |
Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Nobody: 1:32am On Oct 29, 2021 |
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Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Nobody: 1:39am On Oct 29, 2021 |
UncleKoboko:What the fucc… Lol. Smh. |
Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Nobody: 1:42am On Oct 29, 2021 |
efficiencie:Lol. Because her parents gave her a better life than him? Sick people everywhere. |
Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Nobody: 1:44am On Oct 29, 2021 |
greygoblings:There are men on this thread in support of his irrational thinking. Might just be real. Very sick. |
Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Nobody: 1:54am On Oct 29, 2021 |
Lostchild:Find decent ladies, NO. It’s Stephanie or Wendy or Mirabelle with big breasts and nyash on Snapchat or Tinder. Millions of decent Nigerian ladies working, but una no go ever see them because they no wear 20inch bone straight or or them no ‘set’ make your guys shout ye she carry! Western people think you stink, you no reach them marry. Except she’s fat, old or you’re rich. Even if she marries you, her entire family hates her for marrying a black nigga all the way from Africa, no be say you even be black American into the pure white family. Your kids will be hated too, not seen as equal. Who go come marry your sisters and daughters? Because no amount of white paint you put on your skin, or white pussssy you Bleep, your daughters will always be useless Nigerian girls nobody wants to marry. Maybe you go marry them. All these are facts, if you see on insults here, I wish you a beautiful Caucasian wife with a huge extended family. |
Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Lostchild(m): 1:54am On Oct 29, 2021 |
Oluchia: SHUT UP Your useless mouth and stop quoting me with your foolishness. If you have f'vck too many men in your past, go and ask God for forgiveness and reap the consequences of your lust. |
Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Lostchild(m): 1:56am On Oct 29, 2021 |
Bobmarie: SHUT UP your shit mouth. SEE runs girls like you dey quote me. |
Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Nobody: 2:05am On Oct 29, 2021 |
Lostchild:My name is Marie and you will remember this name someday, might seem amusing but humor me. I’m sorry all your female friends perhaps family members are into prostitution. That must be the reason you most girls you see are runs girls. Change your circle. Some of us have rich parents, some of us own business. Hide your dick bro, you have no idea who I am or what I do for a living. |
Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Nobody: 2:11am On Oct 29, 2021 |
Lostchild:Just keep your useless Nigerian daughters and sisters away from the rest of our Nigerian brothers and sons. Not their fault prostitution is your family business. |
Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Lostchild(m): 2:46am On Oct 29, 2021 |
Bobmarie: SHUT UP. Since my believe is paining you. Just go and hand and die |
Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Lostchild(m): 2:46am On Oct 29, 2021 |
Bobmarie: SHUT UP your gutter mouth |
Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by BigYash: 5:56am On Oct 29, 2021 |
Bobmarie:Another mumu |
Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by mikigen(m): 8:36am On Oct 29, 2021 |
Bobmarie:yea you have a point though..btw nice pix on your dp 1 Like |
Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Oluchia(f): 9:24am On Oct 29, 2021 |
Lostchild: Everybody cannot be stupid and foolish like you. No wonder you are LOST. Idiot! |
Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by LiegeMan(m): 12:31pm On Oct 29, 2021 |
Bobmarie:check this thread out https://www.nairaland.com/6825530/body-count-almost-destroyed-me#107161445 |
Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by LiegeMan(m): 12:40pm On Oct 29, 2021 |
Bobmarie:Check this thread out https://www.nairaland.com/6825530/body-count-almost-destroyed-me#107161445 |
Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by LiegeMan(m): 12:42pm On Oct 29, 2021 |
Bobmarie:I was not angry towards my wife for enjoying in the campus while I didn't. Check out this thread https://www.nairaland.com/6825530/body-count-almost-destroyed-me#107161445 |
Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by LiegeMan(m): 12:43pm On Oct 29, 2021 |
NoToPile:Check out this thread https://www.nairaland.com/6825530/body-count-almost-destroyed-me#107161445 |
Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by LiegeMan(m): 12:44pm On Oct 29, 2021 |
GodisFirst:check out this thread https://www.nairaland.com/6825530/body-count-almost-destroyed-me#107161445 |
Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by LiegeMan(m): 12:47pm On Oct 29, 2021 |
Lostchild:thanks bro, God bless you |
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