Abigailgibson:
Why destroy your marriage...
If you want to cruise, club,or do wateva
why not do it with your wife

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torqque7:


And how exactly did u findout this new revelation about ur wife now that u didn't findout when dating her?and are u saying she was fu.c.king randomly in school?is she aware u are upset about this findings?this is the reason we always tell women to be careful how they live their lives when young,brother forget all those telling u crap about its in the past and should remain there,thats the rubbish excuse they use to console themselves and do rubbish,brother I'm a man and il advise u to flex and do all u want to do,but il advice u do it codedly so it doesn't destroy ur marriage,just do all u feel u need to do so u can get it out of ur system otherwise the feeling of hate and resentments towards her will only get worse..wish u good luck sha

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Yaks02:


Which work do you do?

I'm a business man, while my wife is a banker.

junique629:
Shebi its becos you are seeing small change now, devil wan use you, that money will soon disappear, lets see what you will use to club and carry olosho, mumu man

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SirBunky85:
very stupid&senseless attention seeker.useless thread

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executive12:
Stupid man with an archaic mindset. The lady should dump you and marry a decent, enlightened man.

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charles0922:

Sorry for you, how old are you?
Don't ruin ur marriage

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I'm 38, and what about that?

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Adesanmi01:
You could have easily display your intended flimsy excuse life style before you get married man..... You weren't forced to get married earlier I think.... Perhaps she is not responsible for your failure na...you can easily change ur mind now and rebel that against ur parent... Why subjecting that poor lady to an emotional distress.

not actually what you think.

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NetValueFX:

You are a child. You never reach to marry

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MASTERMIND04:
This OP is very funny Marriage is not for small boys

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MASTERMIND04:

As in ehn... see wetin dey pain person.

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Macheteros1:

My brother, “now that the money is flowing in” why not invest it and give your children the life you didn’t have as a man? How your wife lived her life in campus nor concern you. What if the reverse was the case? So your wife go come say she wan dey flirt outside because she no do am for school? Guy reason this thing you just write here. Unless you left somethings out, my brother move ahead. What your wife did in so far as she no contract incurable disease from that time carry come give you or something worse, face your future and leave the past.

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BKsoul:
Says who she is only respecting herself and her marriage.... I wish your wife has my kind of orientation... you go catch fun you go tire.... dem no dey beg person....mscheeew.

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Kfed4ril:


The question is, does she still leave such lifestyle?
If she doesn’t, then why are you trying to destroy your marriage?

Is you want to flex now that the money is available, flex with your wife na.

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Damfostopper:
OP.....how old are you Make una take am easy with OP sha....maybe he's just a naive 25 _27 yrs old male

thanks brother man!

I'm 38 and a business man,
My wife's 31 and a banker,
My daughter's 4years and 8months, will be 5 by 5th January.

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sfx9ja:
9
To flog you dey hungry me. I was expecting to hear something like she still flirting et al. E come be say na her past dey worry your Brokos. Just use style tell us say you dey find excuse to do olingo. Werey....

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Theresamay:
how is her past your business? She was dating a big boy in town that took her to those places. She wasn't related to u in all those years. Do u understand the meaning of revenge? U need sense

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Generalj12:
Seriously are you for real ? You are not yet to be called a man. Yes u are still living in the past when others are moving forward. Anyways your life,your time and money. Don't come back here to ask for advice when u finally gotten yourself in deep shit. Nah still olosho u go carry.

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sisisioge:
Wow! This world and irrational people sha! Was your wife responsible for the poverty you started with? Wow! May God and His host of Angels get evil minded irrational people of our paths! May God help OP's wife too. Awon sadist gang!

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cococandy:
Your wife didn’t ask your parents to be poor.
Hater

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TENHEU22:
YOU ARE A MUMU MAN!!!

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donMIG:
Rubbish.... I swear... U no make single sense
Watsup na?
Na she say make u no flex that time?
C dis guy!
U r funny
Like u no even know weitin u dei do sef

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Visitobilive:
Hear yourself, your wife past not that when she got married she was living such a lifestyle.
Let me ask you, were you perfect without sin before you got married? If yes, Date as many girls you want, if No, hold your ear and say sense come back to me

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efficiencie:


True you deserve to get some justice and there should be balance...but you cannot achieve it fairly and justly. Only God can balance the scales of justice. Many of the children on nairaland don't know that the consequence of past sins are very well part of the present and can affect the future. I will advice though that you temper justice with mercy. Yes she messed up her life in school but if she is changed today, a submissive wife, a sensitive mother and a dependable guardian you should endeavor to forgive her dirty past. It is in the domain of humans to have a very horrible past but I will plead that you forgive her so that God can also forgive your sins. Don't let the enemy of your marriage use your knowledge of your wife's past to destroy your marriage.

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hoebamaa:
You're sick in head and I'm here to tell you.

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kwasoly:


Children everywhere.. mtcheew
Better grow up and take responsibility for your new home no be person say make ur pple poor.

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dadabashua1:
Op pls I want to ask you a simple question, do you know about her said past life before you married her or you just finding out now after marriage?

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foreveryoung1515:
you definitely need help. Never heard of this in my life, i pity the lady. Only God knows what pepper you would have been showing her in the house. She sef go think say she don find better husband. Baby husband. Grow up!

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greygoblings:
You just wasted my time reading your rubbish. How does the life she lived before she met you matters? I don't believe this rubbish sha.

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phenylalanine:

Let the past be in the past, what you are thinking is wrong and u might end up kicking the bucket, u might not be lucky... Pls

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seyoops4u:
I'm trying to understand what the issue is here;

Please are you just finding out about your wife's past ?

Or you have known that before now but you kept everything she told you in mind and now, you want to do the same "enjoyment"

I'm just trying to understand what and where the ANGER is coming from first.

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sheffyUTD:
This one will kill himself if his wife is hugged in his presence. You're still a boy and not mentally ready for marriage. Go back to secondary school.

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