Davash222:
The safest way to remain sane when dating a Nigerian girl is to assume you're her 13th boyfriend.

Welcome to the club, Comrade. E go reach everybody.

qloreal:
Hey guys, I just found out that my girlfriend of a year plus has been sleeping with her pastor for the past 10 years and counting. He was the one who dis-flowered her.

We planned on getting married next year. This is a shocker of my life.

Funny thing is this same pastor is sleeping with at least 3 other church members she is aware of. She has also abort for him twice.

The pastor has a fiancé whom he is planning to marry very soon.


I won’t lie, I am deeply hurt
This lady appears to be very decent I could have sworn for her that she ain’t seeing someone else

Truvelisback:
Bro, there are many fishes in the river. Amend ur broken heart and move on.....

Kobojunkie:
I hope you also let his congregation know him for the liar and deceiver he is in your case as well?

BlueRadish:
Hahahaha. The congregation found out, church collapse. But I didn't play a part in it though. I only walked away

qloreal:
Hey guys, I just found out that my girlfriend of a year plus has been sleeping with her pastor for the past 10 years and counting. He was the one who dis-flowered her.

We planned on getting married next year. This is a shocker of my life.

Funny thing is this same pastor is sleeping with at least 3 other church members she is aware of. She has also abort for him twice.

The pastor has a fiancé whom he is planning to marry very soon.


I won’t lie, I am deeply hurt
This lady appears to be very decent I could have sworn for her that she ain’t seeing someone else

Kobojunkie:
I won't commend you at all for walking away because the rot that is Christianity today is partly because of folks who see evil but refuse to speak up against it. Nigeria is the same.

BlueRadish:
1. Smiles. What if i told you I worked with the Nigerian Police Force, issues arose, I took it up, we entered serious war, and with the Lord leading, I played significant role in not walking away but fighting and shutting down the church.

2. I didn't want her integrity tarnished. That I walked away from, but not from his other major sins which we both entered into a war.

3. Today, he's eyes are blind.

You know how many months I spent in warfare?

4. Walking away means I acted matured on that aspect, not on other misgivings. I made sure the church permanently locked down . You want me to advice the oP here to do the same? Does everyone have the same spiritual stamina?
Don't lead people wrongly pls
5. By the way, when they sleep with the females, it's not regular sex, it's a form of occult action to make him attain more power and strip-off her glory.

Kobojunkie:
1. I don't see how this could have developed into Police matter at all so I would bite down on your claim at all. I don't see how you could get them to shut down a church simply on what constitutes mere grievances between yourself and the pastor .

2. You didn't want an image already tarnished by her own hands tarnished, but you were well OK with the pastor continuing to deceive his congregation with the lies he sold them regularly in the name of God ?

3. I don't immediately see what the man's eventual blindness has to do with you. Did you pour acid in his eye or something?

I don't understand what you mean by "warfare" since Jesus Christ decreed that we are never to pray against enemies but are instead to show them even more love than that which we show our own selves. And part of loving your neighbors, including his congregation, is to let the truth be known.

4. Like I said, I can't commend you in any way because your walking away seems to me like you chose to allow the truth remain hidden so you can do you and you alone. There is no "spiritual stamina" necessary to making a decision to reveal truth no matter what. What is needed is instead a decision to do the right thing no matter what.

5. Regardless of your personal interpretations of sex with females is, your place was to reveal truth, not cook up excuses for why that responsibility shouldn't have fallen on you to begin with.

BlueRadish:
Isn't it you KoboJunkie
Suit yourself. Mr Know It All

BlueRadish:



It's easier said than done. Abeg not this comment

He will be in a state of hurt for atleast a year, no matter what he does.

Allow him push out the negative energy biko

Truvelisback:
If he has the mindset that no woman is irreplaceable, he won't be that affected. He suffered this because he loves women with his heart instead of with his head.

qloreal:
Hey guys, I just found out that my girlfriend of a year plus has been sleeping with her pastor for the past 10 years and counting. He was the one who dis-flowered her.

We planned on getting married next year. This is a shocker of my life.

Funny thing is this same pastor is sleeping with at least 3 other church members she is aware of. She has also abort for him twice.

The pastor has a fiancé whom he is planning to marry very soon.


I won’t lie, I am deeply hurt
This lady appears to be very decent I could have sworn for her that she ain’t seeing someone else

BlueRadish:



Regardless, it will hurt. How can one truly love and not be hurt by betrayal brother ? It will hurt. It will only take time to heal

BlueRadish:



Werey

Truvelisback:
He has to train his heait not to take women too serious. I have once had an heart from a girl i loved. Ever since then, i no they carry any girl for head. And i don't love only one woman, i love women although. So immediately, a girl i have interest for, starts misbehaving or starts acting funny, i go just bone her, park her for one corner. The only girl i fit carry for head na Virgin girl.

BlueRadish:



I know all this. It's not love. You're a empty shell void of love, and your assuming you're in love whereas you aren't

By the way sheybi you be prophet. Na wetin you dey find with mutiple females

kinzation:
Two types of women difficult to advise

A lady crazily in love
A lady who listens to her pastor only

qloreal:
Hey guys, I just found out that my girlfriend of a year plus has been sleeping with her pastor for the past 10 years and counting. He was the one who dis-flowered her.

We planned on getting married next year. This is a shocker of my life.

Funny thing is this same pastor is sleeping with at least 3 other church members she is aware of. She has also abort for him twice.

The pastor has a fiancé whom he is planning to marry very soon.


I won’t lie, I am deeply hurt
This lady appears to be very decent I could have sworn for her that she ain’t seeing someone else

kinzation:
Two types of women difficult to advise

A lady crazily in love
A lady who listens to her pastor only

qloreal:
Hey guys, I just found out that my girlfriend of a year plus has been sleeping with her pastor for the past 10 years and counting. He was the one who dis-flowered her.

We planned on getting married next year. This is a shocker of my life.

Funny thing is this same pastor is sleeping with at least 3 other church members she is aware of. She has also abort for him twice.

The pastor has a fiancé whom he is planning to marry very soon.


I won’t lie, I am deeply hurt
This lady appears to be very decent I could have sworn for her that she ain’t seeing someone else

BlueRadish:




Same thing happened to me, and they always appear very decent and holy

One quick question, how did you find out ?