APCNig:
Bola and Jashub, come here and kneel down for carrying another person matter for your head like Gala and LA Casera in Lagos holdup

I need to teach the kid a lesson not to type rubbish when he knows nothing about

Kobojunkie:
What organization is this and what is the contact information to this organization?

Ministry of Women Affairs and Social Development or Social Inclusion of any state. I work in one of Southwest states

mariahAngel:


Make me!

Weak!

Foodqueen:
Suffer go loooonnnng for u.

U go call, u go tire.

U go beg for attention, u go tire.

U go fight yourself, thinking u are fighting him or his choosen wife, u go tire.

U go wish am badluck, u go tire.

It doesn't get easier.

Why not encourage this lady? She can't abort them, I pray she find helpers to help her or adopt her

Mercychen:
You guys should stop opening legs up and down anyhow na? Chai!

Ok. Now the man has rejected the pregnancy, you're going to bring those innocent souls into the world to suffer...

What will it take this generation to abstain till marriage because apart from the spiritual implications, the physical implications are even more devastating and most times irreparable.
Simple chastity has become a herculean task for this generation.

Just go get a job and start saving ahead for when you'll deliver because times are hard and you can't afford to be a burden to anyone. Even the one responsible has dodged you because he knows what it entails.

Go get a job!

And who says the one you even got married to and opened legs for cannot deny paternity? Don't wish this for any one.

It is not about opening legs in this generation ma'am. It's all about societal changes we are witnessing in this generation. Some ladies want kids,but no husband (Baby mamas has you call them). It's vice versa

meetme01:
Ministry of Women Affairs and Social Development or Social Inclusion of any state. I work in one of Southwest states

Can you please explain why the process of adoptions take so long in Nigeria, even at the local level?

Also is there a comprehensive list of orphanages currently operating in Nigeria today?

Now I see, we need alot of orientation and reorientation in this country about social problems. We are our own problems and if we don't take caution, the rate or suicide will increase.

The lady is just like another woman who can face this problem. No one is a Saint. Even most of you mocking her have gone for abortion, and because it didn't go wrong, you instantly become a virginity.

97% of you have had unprotected sex. You didn't not get pregnant was not because you were too smart but luck or not on ovulation secured you. Beat you chest if you have not.

The lady in question brought her problem and in all hurry, you become judgemental because she got pregnant out of wedlock. Is that a sin?

In cases like this, either real or fake, you show empathy. She has made a mistake. Correct her maturely. Provide workable solutions. I wish I can invite all those mocking her to marital dispute sessions to understand what am saying.

Haab

meetme01:


And who says the one you even got married to and opened legs for cannot deny paternity? Don't wish this for any one.

It is not about opening legs in this generation ma'am. It's all about societal changes we are witnessing in this generation. Some ladies want kids,but no husband (Baby mamas has you call them). It's vice versa

What's your point? Sorry but I don't get your drift.

How did I wish anyone anything here? Was I the one who wished her denial of her pregnancy? or .... Did I wish anyone here that their pregnancy will be denied? . I don't understand you o.

Don't say what I didn't imply in my comment. Biko.

Peace.

Kobojunkie:
Can you please explain why the process of adoptions take so long in Nigeria, even at the local level?

Also is there a comprehensive list of orphanages currently operating in Nigeria today?

I would not be able to provide the comprehensive list of orphanages in the country. I can only provide this information in my domain upon request in writing to the Ministry.

The process of adoption linger because number of applications increases everyday. People are just adapting to this form of having kids. We can only give what we have, a large number want new 0-6months and few want 2-6yrs.

The former comes from abandoned babies which is 1 in 3months. (Averagely) and you have to treat applications one first come basis.

meetme01:
I would not be able to provide the comprehensive list of orphanages in the country. I can only provide this information in my domain upon request in writing to the Ministry.

The process of adoption linger because number of applications increases everyday. People are just adapting to this form of having kids. We can only give what we have, a large number want new 0-6months and few want 2-6yrs.

The former comes from abandoned babies which is 1 in 3months. (Averagely) and you have to treat applications one first come basis.

It's 2021, why do I need to put my request in writing abeg? I was hoping I could fill the form online and maybe get it before the end of this next week.

Interesting information you provide there on the delay in adoptions. I hope I can forward any other questions I may have in regards to this subject to you , in the near future.

Kobojunkie:
It's 2021, why do I need to put my request in writing abeg? I was hoping I could fill the form online and maybe get it before the end of this next week.

Interesting information you provide there on the delay in adoptions. I hope I can forward any other questions I may have in regards to this subject to you , in the near future.

Well, that's a good idea. Hopefully, in the future, this would be in place.

No problem. I'd gladly and willingly answer your questions.

Homellyy:
I’m a single lady and I just found out that I’m pregnant with twins but the father doesn’t want them. I don’t know what to do.

Bring them to me, I want them since the father doesn’t recognize God’s blessings.

Bola146:


Mumu and bandit

You're probably just another piece of online shit.

Bola146:


I need to teach the kid a lesson not to type rubbish when he knows nothing about

Na your papa and mama you go teach lesson . Especially with this your semi-illiterate writeup

Homellyy:
I’m a single lady and I just found out that I’m pregnant with twins but the father doesn’t want them. I don’t know what to do.

And how u take know say early pregnancy na twins

APCNig:


Let her abort and delete herself nah. Nigeria's population is too high.

What if she give up the ghost? It's wrong! It's a matter of time. She should go to ministry of women affairs in her state.

Homellyy:
I’m a single lady and I just found out that I’m pregnant with twins but the father doesn’t want them. I don’t know what to do.

They’re your problem.

Mercychen:
You guys should stop opening legs up and down anyhow na? Chai!

Ok. Now the man has rejected the pregnancy, you're going to bring those innocent souls into the world to suffer...

What will it take this generation to abstain till marriage because apart from the spiritual implications, the physical implications are even more devastating and most times irreparable.
Simple chastity has become a herculean task for this generation.

Just go get a job and start saving ahead for when you'll deliver because times are hard and you can't afford to be a burden to anyone. Even the one responsible has dodged you because he knows what it entails.

Go get a job!

Its obvious you've not a mother to ask a first time preggy lady with 2 fetus to go get a job. You simply lack empathy

Bola146:


Why not encourage this lady? She can't abort them, I pray she find helpers to help her or adopt her

She can if she ain't equipped . Abortion is simply d easiest and cowardly way out but she'll probably regret someday

AutoChick4U:
Its obvious you've not a mother to ask a first time preggy lady with 2 fetus to go get a job. You simply lack empathy

The last time I checked, pregnant women work. So your argument is baseless. Besides she doesn't have to start working immediately until her first trimester is over.

If you don't want her to work, then what should she do?
Will you take her in? Madam empathy.

No matter how bad you and your likes try to make my comment sound, it is still the best there is for now as none of you has come up with a practical solution or asked her to come live with you to cater for her. Or doesn't she need to be catered for?

You all will only end up rambling and then move on to the next topic. Leaving her more confused without any solution. Now, I have given her one that she can at least be productive with, you're all coming to attack and counter it.

Please if you have nothing for the op, just face front.

I don't know why single women have not yet realised that it is not in their personal interests to have unprotected sex.

I don't know why they can't get this into their thick skulls.

If the Man no wan use rubber, he should walk away.

Instead what is prevalent now is that when the man bring condom to use, it is the woman that will even use her hand to fling it away.

Mercychen:


The last time I checked, pregnant women work. So your argument is baseless. Besides she doesn't have to start working immediately until her first trimester is over.

If you don't want her to work, then what should she do?
Will you take her in? Madam empathy.

No matter how bad you and your likes try to make my comment sound, it is still the best there is for now as none of you has come up with a practical solution or asked her to come live with you to cater for her. Or doesn't she need to be catered for?

You all will only end up rambling and then move on to the next topic. Leaving her more confused without any solution. Now, I have given her one that she can at least be productive with, you're all coming to attack and counter it.

Please if you have nothing for the op, just face front.

Madam,,, go and seat your ass down.... leave all these miss goody eye service you are doing up and down, man no dey nairaland, reserve it for the offline world..... strong woman, strong woman, but your younger sister is using you to turn yam porridge, you no fit do anything,, always coming here to cry like a diminutive gnome but you sabi give tough advice wey you no fit use.... yen yen yen.

BKsoul:
Madam,,, go and seat your ass down.... leave all these miss goody eye service you are doing up and down, man no dey nairaland, reserve it for the offline world..... strong woman, strong woman, but your younger sister is using you to turn yam porridge, you no fit do anything,, always coming here to cry like a diminutive gnome but you sabi give tough advice wey you no fit use.... yen yen yen.

Why are most ladies here always attacking me each time I kick against fornication or sexual immorality? It goes to show that is what you all do and I know, that is why I keep speaking against it any opportunity I get.
You, I'm sure are the mother of such Immoral behavior and practices. So it doesn't bother you that the younger ones are doing it because it has become a norm in your life.

Looking for a husband?? Hahahahaaaa... what has my comment got to do with looking for a hubby on here? Oh .. is that why YOU are here?
Is that why YOU make the comments you make? To attract a husband? Pathetic and very shallow of you! Ta!

Look, Ive been a preacher and teacher of good moral conducts before joining nairaland and I will always be.

I've held key postions in various youth groups, where I address and admonish them. So it's not far fetched why I'm this way with most of my comments..it's in me and evident anywhere I go or find myself. So swallow that trash about flaunting myself before the male folks on here. That's the last thing on my mind when I comment.

If I want a man here, it's just a matter of replying one of the thousand DMs poping into my mailbox every second but that is not my mission on here. So stop eating yourself up if you fear that I'll take them away from you. Not interested.

What a narrow minded fellow you are. Na wa o!
Abeg, drop the hate and envy. It will only do you more harm than good.

Receive sense.

Mercychen:


Why are most ladies here always attacking me each time I kick against fornication or sexual immorality? It goes to show that is what you all do and I Know that is why I keep speaking against it any opportunity I get to do so.
You, I'm sure are the mother of such things. So it doesn't bother you that the younger ones are doing it because it has become a normal in your life.

Husband?? Hahahahaaaa... whst has my comment got to do with looking for a hubby on here? Oh .. is that why YOU are here?
Is that why YOU make the comments you make? To attract a husband? Pathetic and very shallow of you! Ta!

Look, Ive been a preacher and teacher of good moral conducts before joining nairaland and I will always be.

I've held key postions in various youth groups, where I address and admonish them. So it's not far fetched why I'm this way with most of my comments..it's in me and evident anywhere I go or find myself. So swallow that trash about flaunting myself before the male folks. That's the last thing on my mind when I comment.

If I want a man here, it's just a matter of replying one of the thousands Dm poping into my mailbox every second but that is not my mission on here. So stop eating yourself up if you fear that I'll take them away from you.

What a narrow minded fellow you are. Na wa o!
Abeg, drop the hate and envy. It will only do you more harm than good.


Receive sense.

See the way you are burning yourself just because you want to reply everybody, yen yen yen, i rather be a known slut, than be a 'madam key position holder in every youth program' that the whole youth leader and choir master and male ushers has used to play football ball amongst them... madam pretender, who is against your immoral preaching? kip it up, but stop being cruel because you think your secrets aren't out yet, the same dick the pregnant lady you are criticizing bleeped is the same dick bleeping you,,, so why are you deceiving yourself? virgin lady with a slacked asshole.... miss two left goody legs... geddifok joor.

BKsoul:
See the way you are burning yourself just because you want to reply everybody, yen yen yen, i rather be a known slut, than be a 'madam key position holder in every youth program' that the whole youth leader and choir master and male ushers has used to play football ball amongst them... madam pretender, who is against your immoral preaching? kip it up, but stop being cruel because you think your secrets aren't out yet, the same dick the pregnant lady you are criticizing bleeped is the same dick bleeping you,,, so why are you deceiving yourself? virgin lady with a slacked asshole.... miss two left goody legs... geddifok joor.

Lol.. your utterances say a lot about you.

If you wanna keep being a slut, you're higly welcome. Your life. Your sluttiness, your loss .

See what a lady is spilling out. SMH.
I regret wasting my time on a local champ like you.

Cia o!

Bola146:


Why not encourage this lady? She can't abort them, I pray she find helpers to help her or adopt her

Why can't she abort it will you assist her in taking care of them?

Homellyy:
I’m a single lady and I just found out that I’m pregnant with twins but the father doesn’t want them. I don’t know what to do.

If you are not in anyway capable of taking care of the twins or you don't have any support from anybody to undergo this life changing journey you can have an abortion.


Don't let anyone deceive you if you are not prepared you cannot force the father to take responsibility especially in this lawless country and he isn't even married to you.

Mercychen:


Lol.. your utterances say a lot about you.

If you wanna keep being a slut, you're higly welcome. Your life. Your sluttiness, your loss .

See what a lady is spilling out. SMH.
I regret wasting my time on a local champ like you.

Cia o!

olodo..... atleast i ain't masking it in, atleast i am not a pretender, you are here forming strong woman, no simple empathy for a lady like you who is down, but you dare not even talk back at your own biological younger sister, yaw..... says a lot about your pretending ass.... we know your type.... my pastors says no sex before marriage, whereby you are anally warming the same pastors bed... getout my mentions.... silly thing....

Bola146:


What if she give up the ghost? It's wrong! It's a matter of time. She should go to ministry of women affairs in her state.

what will the ministry of women affairs do?

This is why abortion needs to legalised in Nigeria for women to have access to safe abortions and not meet quacks that can kill them.

mariahAngel:
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All abortionists and abortion apologists are devil's advocates! *Spits!

How does seeing abortion as a right and health care as practiced in developed countries make one a devils advocate because you feel everyone should reason like you and follow your religious inclinations on abortion.


I am pro-choice and I am not a devil's advocate the issue of abortion isn't a religious one but a social and economic one.
You are not more intelligent than those people who choose to support and advocate for abortions if the woman decides to have one it is between a woman and her doctor not you Mariahangel especially when you will not in anyway feed the child or advocate for easier access to birth control methods.

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Evangelynn:


If you are not in anyway capable of taking care of the twins or you don't have any support from anybody to undergo this life changing journey you can have an abortion.


Don't let anyone deceive you if you are not prepared you cannot force the father to take responsibility especially in this lawless country and he isn't even married to you.

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Homellyy, do not pay any attention to this!
Apart from the fact that abortion is illegal, therefore a crime in Nigeria, you might lose your life in the process, or the ability to carry another pregnancy!
Only quacks perform abortion in Nigeria!

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Evangelynn:

How does seeing abortion as a right and health care as practiced in developed countries make one a devils advocate because you feel everyone should reason like you and follow your religious inclinations on abortion.


I am pro-choice and I am not a devil's advocate the issue of abortion isn't a religious one but a social and economic one.
You are not more intelligent than those people who choose to support and advocate for abortions if the woman decides to have one it is between a woman and her doctor not you Mariahangel especially when you will not in anyway feed the child or advocate for easier access to birth control methods.

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Don’t play the religious card with me!
“Developed countries” my foot! The same “developed countries” that condemns the spanking of a child, but approves taking the life of a child? Bunch of confused lots if you ask me.
If they want to approve evil, they give it a fancy name- “pro-choice”. Please! Anti-life you mean?

Abortion is anti-human!
Abortion is anti-life!
It is wickedness against humanity!
Abortionists are worse than rapists! Far far worse!