A few years back,a man met me.We actually met in his office,while I was job hunting in one of the major Oil Companies.

This man is European,tall,young and handsome, somewhat around 25 years old then.I was 23.
He was a well to do,brilliant,young engineer,graduated first class chemical engineering and top of his class.

From the moment he saw me,he tried approaching me several times,but I didnt pay him attention.I liked him also from the first day we met.

Although,I never give him the green light because I was going through tough battles that almost took my life and felt that I needed to fix my life so any man who comes in won't face problems,suffering and attacks.

I didn't want to bring the poor guy into my life,he was so young and gentle.
It wouldnt be fair on him.

I said to myself "just be patient,let me solve my challenges so when a man comes in he wont have to carry any crushing heavy burden" .So I pushed him away.

Sometime later we ran into each other again in traffic.I was in the vehicle and happened to look to my left and there beside me in very heavy traffic,there he was.He looked to make sure it was really me,and tried to talk to me again,but I just "face front" till I passed.On the inside,my heart was breaking.

Fast forward,early next year in his office,we met again,he tried so hard to give me his card but I looked away and didn't take it.That was the third time and the last time I saw him.

Suddenly,he was posted outside to a new country,South Africa.I never saw him again.I was so sad and heartbroken that we were separated so suddenly.

One day he met a gold digger.They started dating.This lady was so fetish,diabolic and evil. She saw he had so much money,he was young,rich and handsome.

She quickly charmed him with love potion (korobela), decimal 10.10.She laced it in his food and in her pussy.
Im suspecting she might even have washed her pussy water into the meal she cooked him.

From that day,he became her zombie.
He,thinking he was in love,married her.And she figured she had to play along so as to keep on collecting more money at the end of each month.

The "Do as I say" charm was really working on him.She sucked him,used him,drained him all the money in his account,all his life savings plus the one he worked for each month.She bought houses,cars,expensive jewelries and shared some of the money with her side boyfriend!

One fateful day,the charm cleared from his eyes.He said "who are you"?They had a really serious fight. He quickly divorced her.

This guy is truly gentle,introverted shy type.He found out all she did to him,how she ruined him of all he had worked for,for so many years.He didnt even have a house anymore cos the golddigger sold even the house they were both living in.

He sank into depression and became an alcoholic,a chain smoker, stinking,dirty,unkempt.He crashed from being an intelligent and handsome clean guy to a dejected repulsive alcoholic.

He was so full of regrets and cursed the day he met her and why he got married her.

Now,on my own end,It was time to settle down and was making efforts as most of my cousins, relations and friends were settling down.I had several marriage proposals but I never felt inner peace.

Unexpectedly,this man came back again,out of the blue.He was a shell of his former self.So shriveled and smelly that I couldn't recognize him anymore.I fell on the floor and burst into tears,sobbing my heart out when he told me who he was.

Right now,he is an alcoholic.All the beauty in him is gone.I felt so bad for him.

He said he had been trying so hard to reach me.He had been desperately searching so hard for me everywhere all this while.He asked me take him back, and said he never stopped loving me from the first day and because he felt I didn't want him,he left and married that woman.He asked me to marry him.

But Im worried.Now there is another diabolic,evil woman in the picture.I don't want baggage or another battle again.I have fought enough.She will forever be a chapter in our lives.

So Nairalanders I need your sincerest opinion.What would you do if you were in my shoes? Should I marry him or pick someone else who doesn't have all this baggage? How do I handle his fetish,evil ex-wife who is still furious the juju cleared from his eyes?.

What do you think should be done to the gold digging wife? What should be her punishment for ruining him?.

I didn't make up this story.Im not chasing clout.Its a true life experience. I just really need mature insight from you,my online family.Thank you.

You friend will learn on his own. You can cannot force anyone to do something they don't wanna do.

You didn't take him when he had money so why do you want to take him back now?

siofra:
You didn't take him when he had money so why do you want to take him back now?

Greenerie:
A few years back,a man met me.We actually met in his office,while I was job hunting in one of the major Oil Companies.

This man is European,tall,young and handsome, somewhat around 25 years old then.I was 23.
He was a well to do,brilliant,young engineer,graduated first class chemical engineering and top of his class.

From the moment he saw me,he tried approaching me several times,but I didnt pay him attention.I liked him also from the first day we met.

Although,I never give him the green light because I was going through tough battles that almost took my life and felt that I needed to fix my life so any man who comes in won't face problems,suffering and attacks.

I didn't want to bring the poor guy into my life,he was so young and gentle.
It wouldnt be fair on him.

I said to myself "just be patient,let me solve my challenges so when a man comes in he wont have to carry any crushing heavy burden" .So I pushed him away.

Sometime later we ran into each other again in traffic.I was in the vehicle and happened to look to my left and there beside me in very heavy traffic,there he was.He looked to make sure it was really me,and tried to talk to me again,but I just "face front" till I passed.On the inside,my heart was breaking.

Fast forward,early next year in his office,we met again,he tried so hard to give me his card but I looked away and didn't take it.That was the third time and the last time I saw him.

Suddenly,he was posted outside to a new country,South Africa.I never saw him again.I was so sad and heartbroken that we were separated so suddenly.

One day he met a gold digger.They started dating.This lady was so fetish,diabolic and evil. She saw he had so much money,he was young,rich and handsome.

She quickly charmed him with love potion (korobela), decimal 10.10.She laced it in his food and in her pussy.
Im suspecting she might even have washed her pussy water into the meal she cooked him.

From that day,he became her zombie.
He,thinking he was in love,married her.And she figured she had to play along so as to keep on collecting more money at the end of each month.

The "Do as I say" charm was really working on him.She sucked him,used him,drained him all the money in his account,all his life savings plus the one he worked for each month.She bought houses,cars,expensive jewelries and shared some of the money with her side boyfriend!

One fateful day,the charm cleared from his eyes.He said "who are you"?They had a really serious fight. He quickly divorced her.

This guy is truly gentle,introverted shy type.He found out all she did to him,how she ruined him of all he had worked for,for so many years.He didnt even have a house anymore cos the golddigger sold even the house they were both living in.

He sank into depression and became an alcoholic,a chain smoker, stinking,dirty,unkempt.He crashed from being an intelligent and handsome clean guy to a dejected repulsive alcoholic.

He was so full of regrets and cursed the day he met her and why he got married her.

Now,on my own end,It was time to settle down and was making efforts as most of my cousins, relations and friends were settling down.I had several marriage proposals but I never felt inner peace.

Unexpectedly,this man came back again,out of the blue.He was a shell of his former self.So shriveled and smelly that I couldn't recognize him anymore.I fell on the floor and burst into tears,sobbing my heart out when he told me who he was.

Right now,he is an alcoholic.All the beauty in him is gone.I felt so bad for him.

He said he had been trying so hard to reach me.He had been desperately searching so hard for me everywhere all this while.He asked me take him back, and said he never stopped loving me from the first day and because he felt I didn't want him,he left and married that woman.He asked me to marry him.

But Im worried.Now there is another diabolic,evil woman in the picture.I don't want baggage or another battle again.I have fought enough.She will forever be a chapter in our lives.

So Nairalanders I need your sincerest opinion.What would you do if you were in my shoes? Should I marry him or pick someone else who doesn't have all this baggage? How do I handle his fetish,evil ex-wife who is still furious the juju cleared from his eyes?.

What do you think should be done to the gold digging wife? What should be her punishment for ruining him?.

I didn't make up this story.Im not chasing clout.Its a true life experience. I just really need mature insight from you,my online family.Thank you.

after watching movie u start imagining stuff

Hmm no be nollywood be this

This whole write-up is weird.

Greenerie:
A few years back,a man met me.We actually met in his office,while I was job hunting in one of the major Oil Companies.

This man is European,tall,young and handsome, somewhat around 25 years old then.I was 23.
He was a well to do,brilliant,young engineer,graduated first class chemical engineering and top of his class.

From the moment he saw me,he tried approaching me several times,but I didnt pay him attention.I liked him also from the first day we met.

Although,I never give him the green light because I was going through tough battles that almost took my life and felt that I needed to fix my life so any man who comes in won't face problems,suffering and attacks.

I didn't want to bring the poor guy into my life,he was so young and gentle.
It wouldnt be fair on him.

I said to myself "just be patient,let me solve my challenges so when a man comes in he wont have to carry any crushing heavy burden" .So I pushed him away.

Sometime later we ran into each other again in traffic.I was in the vehicle and happened to look to my left and there beside me in very heavy traffic,there he was.He looked to make sure it was really me,and tried to talk to me again,but I just "face front" till I passed.On the inside,my heart was breaking.

Fast forward,early next year in his office,we met again,he tried so hard to give me his card but I looked away and didn't take it.That was the third time and the last time I saw him.

Suddenly,he was posted outside to a new country,South Africa.I never saw him again.I was so sad and heartbroken that we were separated so suddenly.

One day he met a gold digger.They started dating.This lady was so fetish,diabolic and evil. She saw he had so much money,he was young,rich and handsome.

She quickly charmed him with love potion (korobela), decimal 10.10.She laced it in his food and in her pussy.
Im suspecting she might even have washed her pussy water into the meal she cooked him.

From that day,he became her zombie.
He,thinking he was in love,married her.And she figured she had to play along so as to keep on collecting more money at the end of each month.

The "Do as I say" charm was really working on him.She sucked him,used him,drained him all the money in his account,all his life savings plus the one he worked for each month.She bought houses,cars,expensive jewelries and shared some of the money with her side boyfriend!

One fateful day,the charm cleared from his eyes.He said "who are you"?They had a really serious fight. He quickly divorced her.

This guy is truly gentle,introverted shy type.He found out all she did to him,how she ruined him of all he had worked for,for so many years.He didnt even have a house anymore cos the golddigger sold even the house they were both living in.

He sank into depression and became an alcoholic,a chain smoker, stinking,dirty,unkempt.He crashed from being an intelligent and handsome clean guy to a dejected repulsive alcoholic.

He was so full of regrets and cursed the day he met her and why he got married her.

Now,on my own end,It was time to settle down and was making efforts as most of my cousins, relations and friends were settling down.I had several marriage proposals but I never felt inner peace.

Unexpectedly,this man came back again,out of the blue.He was a shell of his former self.So shriveled and smelly that I couldn't recognize him anymore.I fell on the floor and burst into tears,sobbing my heart out when he told me who he was.

Right now,he is an alcoholic.All the beauty in him is gone.I felt so bad for him.

He said he had been trying so hard to reach me.He had been desperately searching so hard for me everywhere all this while.He asked me take him back, and said he never stopped loving me from the first day and because he felt I didn't want him,he left and married that woman.He asked me to marry him.

But Im worried.Now there is another diabolic,evil woman in the picture.I don't want baggage or another battle again.I have fought enough.She will forever be a chapter in our lives.

So Nairalanders I need your sincerest opinion.What would you do if you were in my shoes? Should I marry him or pick someone else who doesn't have all this baggage? How do I handle his fetish,evil ex-wife who is still furious the juju cleared from his eyes?.

What do you think should be done to the gold digging wife? What should be her punishment for ruining him?.

I didn't make up this story.Im not chasing clout.Its a true life experience. I just really need mature insight from you,my online family.Thank you.

This your super story anybody that read all you said must my very jobless.. Ahn! Ahn!..

Greenerie:
1. A Right now,he is an alcoholic.All the beauty in him is gone.I felt so bad for him.

He said he had been trying so hard to reach me.He had been desperately searching so hard for me everywhere all this while.He asked me take him back, and said he never stopped loving me from the first day and because he felt I didn't want him,he left and married that woman.2. He asked me to marry him.

3. But Im worried.Now there is another diabolic,evil woman in the picture.I don't want baggage or another battle again.I have fought enough.She will forever be a chapter in our lives.

So Nairalanders I need your sincerest opinion.What would you do if you were in my shoes? Should I marry him or pick someone else who doesn't have all this baggage? How do I handle his fetish,evil ex-wife who is still furious the juju cleared from his eyes?.

4.What do you think should be done to the gold digging wife? What should be her punishment for ruining him?.

I didn't make up this story.Im not chasing clout.Its a true life experience. I just really need mature insight from you,my online family.Thank you.

1. You say he is an alcoholic, is he already in treatment or is he still reeling in depression over his failures? He should seek treatment and begin working on "coming back" from the ordeal..

2. You can always to marriage provided he makes significant process on 1 above.

3. The woman dey work for Europe too? I taught he left her over in South Africa or did I miss something?

4. As for the ex, there is a reason why she is an ex and you both should endeavor to keep her exed out of your lives and personals.

[thanks for ur input.he is a European working in Nigeria before he was transferred to South Africa...he is under going counseling but still drinks

quote author=Kobojunkie post=107205182]1. You say he is an alcoholic, is he already in treatment or is he still reeling in depression over his failures? He should seek treatment and begin working on "coming back" from the ordeal..

2. You can always to marriage provided he makes significant process on 1 above.

3. The woman dey work for Europe too? I taught he left her over in South Africa or did I miss something?

4. As for the ex, there is a reason why she is an ex and you both should endeavor to keep her exed out of your lives and personals. [/quote]

Greenerie:
[thanks for ur input.he is a European working in Nigeria before he was transferred to South Africa...he is under going counseling but still drinks

Still drinks or still struggles with alcoholism?

Is the ex in Nigeria or how is she still in the picture apart from being an ex?

siofra:
You didn't take him when he had money so why do you want to take him back now?

You are really dumb oh. Chai it's a pity, How can you think like this as a man. Haba

It all depend on your strength, he truly needs a strong woman to help him out of his situation, can you be that woman for him?do you have such strength (physical and spiritual)? Maybe you should help him quit the alcoholic addiction and depression for now then you let things flow naturally

Greenerie:
A few years back,a man met me.We actually met in his office,while I was job hunting in one of the major Oil Companies.

This man is European,tall,young and handsome, somewhat around 25 years old then.I was 23.
He was a well to do,brilliant,young engineer,graduated first class chemical engineering and top of his class.

From the moment he saw me,he tried approaching me several times,but I didnt pay him attention.I liked him also from the first day we met.

Although,I never give him the green light because I was going through tough battles that almost took my life and felt that I needed to fix my life so any man who comes in won't face problems,suffering and attacks.

I didn't want to bring the poor guy into my life,he was so young and gentle.
It wouldnt be fair on him.

I said to myself "just be patient,let me solve my challenges so when a man comes in he wont have to carry any crushing heavy burden" .So I pushed him away.

Sometime later we ran into each other again in traffic.I was in the vehicle and happened to look to my left and there beside me in very heavy traffic,there he was.He looked to make sure it was really me,and tried to talk to me again,but I just "face front" till I passed.On the inside,my heart was breaking.

Fast forward,early next year in his office,we met again,he tried so hard to give me his card but I looked away and didn't take it.That was the third time and the last time I saw him.

Suddenly,he was posted outside to a new country,South Africa.I never saw him again.I was so sad and heartbroken that we were separated so suddenly.

One day he met a gold digger.They started dating.This lady was so fetish,diabolic and evil. She saw he had so much money,he was young,rich and handsome.

She quickly charmed him with love potion (korobela), decimal 10.10.She laced it in his food and in her pussy.
Im suspecting she might even have washed her pussy water into the meal she cooked him.

From that day,he became her zombie.
He,thinking he was in love,married her.And she figured she had to play along so as to keep on collecting more money at the end of each month.

The "Do as I say" charm was really working on him.She sucked him,used him,drained him all the money in his account,all his life savings plus the one he worked for each month.She bought houses,cars,expensive jewelries and shared some of the money with her side boyfriend!

One fateful day,the charm cleared from his eyes.He said "who are you"?They had a really serious fight. He quickly divorced her.

This guy is truly gentle,introverted shy type.He found out all she did to him,how she ruined him of all he had worked for,for so many years.He didnt even have a house anymore cos the golddigger sold even the house they were both living in.

He sank into depression and became an alcoholic,a chain smoker, stinking,dirty,unkempt.He crashed from being an intelligent and handsome clean guy to a dejected repulsive alcoholic.

He was so full of regrets and cursed the day he met her and why he got married her.

Now,on my own end,It was time to settle down and was making efforts as most of my cousins, relations and friends were settling down.I had several marriage proposals but I never felt inner peace.

Unexpectedly,this man came back again,out of the blue.He was a shell of his former self.So shriveled and smelly that I couldn't recognize him anymore.I fell on the floor and burst into tears,sobbing my heart out when he told me who he was.

Right now,he is an alcoholic.All the beauty in him is gone.I felt so bad for him.

He said he had been trying so hard to reach me.He had been desperately searching so hard for me everywhere all this while.He asked me take him back, and said he never stopped loving me from the first day and because he felt I didn't want him,he left and married that woman.He asked me to marry him.

But Im worried.Now there is another diabolic,evil woman in the picture.I don't want baggage or another battle again.I have fought enough.She will forever be a chapter in our lives.

So Nairalanders I need your sincerest opinion.What would you do if you were in my shoes? Should I marry him or pick someone else who doesn't have all this baggage? How do I handle his fetish,evil ex-wife who is still furious the juju cleared from his eyes?.

What do you think should be done to the gold digging wife? What should be her punishment for ruining him?.

I didn't make up this story.Im not chasing clout.Its a true life experience. I just really need mature insight from you,my online family.Thank you.

Third and last time you saw him indeed.

Fast forward he was asking you to take him back (as if he cheated on you, when you never dated).

How come you know so much about the exact charms he used like you were right there all along.

Your story is watery but ride on. YOLO, live life and stop being skeptical

Yes. This time you be the golddigger

Kobojunkie:
1. You say he is an alcoholic, is he already in treatment or is he still reeling in depression over his failures? He should seek treatment and begin working on "coming back" from the ordeal..

2. You can always to marriage provided he makes significant process on 1 above.

3. The woman dey work for Europe too? I taught he left her over in South Africa or did I miss something?

4. As for the ex, there is a reason why she is an ex and you both should endeavor to keep her exed out of your lives and personals.

Ex that she never dated o, where is the ‘Ex’ coming from?

siofra:
You didn't take him when he had money so why do you want to take him back now?

How do you ‘take back’ someone you never had. OP should better come and clarify these things.

You have just destroyed a simps by with your Shakara. Leave that simp alone or better still get him some psychological help if you can afford him. It's crazy that you still love him now when he is broke and crazy, women are strange. Hope you are not considering him now because there are no options left? Because that's a poor decision.

Very nonsense story
Fake

Iyaebe:
It all depend on your strength, he truly needs a strong woman to help him out of his situation, can you be that woman for him?do you have such strength (physical and spiritual)? Maybe you should help him quit the alcoholic addiction and depression for now then you let things flow naturally

OP you can't save an addict o

Don't try it, before you get yourself into co addiction .

Let him get professional help !!!

Don't ever participate in his addiction cycle.

But you see yourself,
The decision you took how many years ago , look at where it has landed you.

It's not your fault , he went with the gold digger, but you know that if you had been in this man life things wouldn't have been bad.

You were bust fighting personal battles, when this man was ready for you.

Now you're ready and he is fighting is battles.


This life we all need each other, abandoning people or letting them go because of our personal problems is a foolish thing to do, because God brings people for reasons , and we should always allow the will of God to prevail over our personal will.

OP it's not your fault what happened to him, but this life we can't really cheat fate

If you guys were meant to be together, then so be it


My advice is , let him get professional help

The way you prayed yourself out of your personal problems that year, also start praying for him like that..

He may just be your twin flame who would always be brought back to you.

We always choose our life partners, the one we would marry, but our soulmates and those we share deep bonds with

It's God that chooses that one.


You can also reject him a second time and perhaps he would now commit suicide

About the Ex.

Don't worry about her.
The man has come back to his senses

And if you guys are truly soul mates, then there's no relationship or connection that you would ever share with anyone would be as deep as the one you'll share with him
If you guys are meant to be, OP forget no body can come in between you guys
Unless someone walks away.
Fear not


Help him and give him time.

But please let's all learn our lessons.


The ball is in your court.
You're expected to help him tho.

All the best

Hintona:
This whole write-up is weird.

Lol..... I thought I was the only one that noticed that. May be others are weirdos by not pointing it out.

There is always a battle

The op is a schizo

iLoveYouToo:



Ex that she never dated o, where is the ‘Ex’ coming from?

Don't dare suggest we find x cos I don't know where to look for it

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Don't dare suggest we find x cos I don't know where to look for it

Lol

Hahaha, I know people like u will say it's all lies.im just trying to be light hearted about all this ur comments.it was hard for me to bring up my private life here,but many people come in here to talk about wats bothering them and get solution.its why I came here.i don't have strength to make up any fake long story. I couldn't sleep at night,it bothered me...it's why I came here.

Take him back meant after 6 years apart in this context.
I'm tired of replying those saying it's fake story. I simply need mature responses.thats all.

iLoveYouToo:


Third and last time you saw him indeed.

Fast forward he was asking you to take him back (as if he cheated on you, when you never dated).

How come you know so much about the exact charms he used like you were right there all along.

Your story is watery but ride on. YOLO, live life and stop being skeptical

[It was during prayers based on revelation.I took him to Mountain of fire.when he told me wat happened,he said something left him and he was shocked when he saw the woman,she was a total stranger to him. My instinct told me,it wasn't ordinary.I felt so sorry for him and wanted to help.

quote author=iLoveYouToo post=107207589]

Third and last time you saw him indeed.

Fast forward he was asking you to take him back (as if he cheated on you, when you never dated).

How come you know so much about the exact charms he used like you were right there all along.

Your story is watery but ride on. YOLO, live life and stop being skeptical [/quote]

[No ,I'm not a gold digger..quote author=Pennywise post=107207601]Yes. This time you be the golddigger[/quote]

[Take back in this context meant after 6 years apart.after all this years.Is wat he meant. Ah,im tired of all this queries .its advice i need abeg...quote author=iLoveYouToo post=107207645]

How do you ‘take back’ someone you never had. OP should better come and clarify these things.[/quote]

Greenerie:
Hahaha, I know people like u will say it's all lies.im just trying to be light hearted about all this ur comments.it was hard for me to bring up my private life here,but many people come in here to talk about wats bothering them and get solution.its why I came here.i don't have strength to make up any fake long story. I couldn't sleep at night,it bothered me...it's why I came here.

Take him back meant after 6 years apart in this context.
I'm tired of replying those saying it's fake story. I simply need mature responses.thats all.

It’s normal rational instinct for me to rest the veracity of your story, too many fictional maestros are on Nairaland. It appears you really like the guy, why not give the relationship a try (that’s if you’re single o). There’s some level of risk in everything we do so it’s up to you to decide considering his baggage. Who knows you just might be the therapy he needs to bounce off his ugly ordeal.

There’s a stereotype that those guys tend to be randy, better test yourselves for all forms of STDs before you diving into bed

[I never said he was an Ex. Read it again.quote author=iLoveYouToo post=107207603]


Ex that she never dated o, where is the ‘Ex’ coming from?[/quote]

Greenerie:
[I never said he was an Ex. Read it again.quote author=iLoveYouToo post=107207603]


Ex that she never dated o, where is the ‘Ex’ coming from?

I get you. Read my penultimate comment

toujurs:
You are really dumb oh. Chai it's a pity, How can you think like this as a man. Haba

Am I a man

Are you so dumb you can't tell man from a woman?

[I have options,I'm in my late twenties..other men are still coming but deep inside I had no peace about them. I wasn't making shakara.i had personal battles.I have always liked him.him being broke and crazy never changed my emotions.

quote author=africandictator post=107207740]You have just destroyed a simps by with your Shakara. Leave that simp alone or better still get him some psychological help if you can afford him. It's crazy that you still love him now when he is broke and crazy, women are strange. Hope you are not considering him now because there are no options left? Because that's a poor decision. [/quote]