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try and go for check with her, she may be suffering from Vagisnismus....though a gyne knows what to do cussion the effect, how u need to recomend some fruits for her to be eatin and some probiotics, fruits such as water melon, vitamins such as vegetables is also essential for her to be eating, make sure she eats alot of vegetables, for probiotics, lets her get and start drinking unsweetened yogurts and cheese, all these are essential to trigger and make the microbiome of the vagina to become active and help the skene gland to produce more slippery liquids needeed for lubrication during sex.

ANyway, you can visit my health website @https:www.clinicgists.com.ng and go to MENU, women section, u will some some articles that wil guide your woman during ur sexual journey.

Hope av tried to answer your question.

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Omniman:
First of all congratulations on your 3weeks marriage with your tear rubber wife

Secondly, disvirgining is lot of work. It's like trying to drill a stone wall with your peepee. Most time you sweat so much and sometimes you just want to try another time.

Thirdly, I will tell you. It's natural to experience pain. Overtime the pain reduces. It might take months.
I am suspecting she isn't juicy enough before u start penetration.

What you can do to ease the pain. Give your wife a good oral before introducing your lil self

Eat her like a psychotic rat on steroids..

When she is juicy enough. You can slide in and out with lil friction

Nagode

See as you spoil

Mercychen:
Try enough pre-intimacy to get her wet before penetrating her or get some lubricant before you destroy that place. Ky gelly. Works.

Another thing is, it could be she's not
in the mood those times she feels pains and you have to stop halfway. Yes. When a woman is not in the mood, she can never get wet and ready to receive you. So it will be pain all through for her.

I don't usually do this for free but let me just give you this remedy as a gift for keeping yourselves till marriage. It's a remedy that will make her always ready, hor.ny and wet for you.
She'll be the one pulling you in by herself.

Tiger nut drink.

Blend the following together and let her drink.

Dates
Coconut
Tiger nut
Soak the date and tiger nuts over night.

Cut the coconuts into pieces and combine all together in a blender with water and blend until very smooth.

Get a cheese cloth and sieve it until chaff stop bringing out milk.

Chill it in the fridge for some mins and give her to drink.

Please the drink is not meant to be stored for more than 24hrs. It goes bad easily. So make the quantity you can finish within 24hrs.

It will solve the problem.

Also use lubricant so you don't forcefully slack the place.

Ejima is on the way.

Rugged people everywhere

Me23:
Hello my Nairalanders,

I will go straight to the point and won't waste your time. I just recently got married let say 3weeks now, my wife was a virgin when I met her and we didn't have sex not until our wedding night. On the wedding night, I couldn't penetrate in as it was difficult for both of us because she always feels serious pain anytime I tried to enter. Finally I was able to enter on the third day, even at that it was just the small part of penise that was able to enter but mehn she scream so loud but sha I could confirm the blood.

After that we've had series of love making and I always go slow as I know that's her first time, but anytime am about to go in, she always feel pain both during and after sex. Sometimes the pain will reduce and while atimes the pain will be so much that I will have to stop the love making as I couldn't take it while seeing her in pain, she would want me to continue because she wants to satisfy me and because I could wait all this while without having sex.

Before our wedding, we decided to do some check up for any kind of infection so as not to take any chances for anything that would ruin our sexual life, and we were treated accordingly. After this experience of pain, we had to surf the net to know what could cause the pain, and some of the results and things that could lead to can be pain during sex are: genitals wart, lesion, blisters around the genitals, scratching and having burning sensation around the genitals etc I checked her vagina to see if there's such I didn't find any and she also claims she doesn't scratch or experience any burning sensation.

Pls to all the doctors in the house and to those that have had such experience pls help this guy and his wife. I was on celibacy for two years o and now that I'm ready to enjoy sex now this one come dey show up.

Maybe your Gboola is too big for that innocent tiny small hairy cold pussy

Omniman:
Yeah, As slippery as Okra, usually transparent, like egg.

lol. Prof thks

Iniobong44:
Honestly, I don't understand why people feel comfortable spreading their very private matters online these days...
Go to a doctor or speak to your mother or elderly person or aren't there hospitals around you?
Now people who ordinarily should have nothing to say about your private matters will spew trash on you and your wife angry
This is very disgusting. You for kukuma snap the to.,to show us angry angry

For those quoting me, I have no response for you..

It is because this is a faceless forum. We don't know each other or either seen each other before and many will not see each other till they die.

Omniman:
First of all congratulations on your 3weeks marriage with your tear rubber wife

Secondly, disvirgining is lot of work. It's like trying to drill a stone wall with your peepee. Most time you sweat so much and sometimes you just want to try another time.

Thirdly, I will tell you. It's natural to experience pain. Overtime the pain reduces. It might take months.
I am suspecting she isn't juicy enough before u start penetration.

What you can do to ease the pain. Give your wife a good oral before introducing your lil self

Eat her like a psychotic rat on steroids..

When she is juicy enough. You can slide in and out with lil friction

Nagode

Professor of Sex has spoken

Mood11:
Honestly, I don't understand why people feel comfortable spreading their very private matters online these days...
Go to a doctor or speak to your mother or elderly person or aren't there hospitals around you?
Now people who ordinarily should have nothing to say about your private matters will spew trash on you and your wife
This is very disgusting. You for kukuma snap the to.,to show Nairalanders

For those quoting me, I have no response for you..

Do you know much for a doctor session?
Besides this is a faceless platform, it's easier to express yourself without any shame.

Omniman:
First of all congratulations on your 3weeks marriage with your tear rubber wife

Secondly, disvirgining is lot of work. It's like trying to drill a stone wall with your peepee. Most time you sweat so much and sometimes you just want to try another time.

Thirdly, I will tell you. It's natural to experience pain. Overtime the pain reduces. It might take months.
I am suspecting she isn't juicy enough before u start penetration.

What you can do to ease the pain. Give your wife a good oral before introducing your lil self

Eat her like a psychotic rat on steroids..

When she is juicy enough. You can slide in and out with lil friction

Nagode

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For those complaining.. that one is bringing private to public. .... *speaking out* i dont see anything wrong to ask for help even if its online... after all its a faceless forum

Those that say go and meet father mother etc..

Do they know it all... .


With all that they know... have people not ended their marriages or marriages going sexless......!!....

There is nothing wrong to ask for solutions.... Closed mouth is a Close destiny....So Talk!!

Mercychen:
Try enough pre-intimacy to get her wet before penetrating her or get some lubricant before you destroy that place. Ky gelly. Works.

Another thing is, it could be she's not
in the mood those times she feels pains and you have to stop halfway. Yes. When a woman is not in the mood, she can never get wet and ready to receive you. So it will be pain all through for her.

I don't usually do this for free but let me just give you this remedy as a gift for keeping yourselves till marriage. It's a remedy that will make her always ready, hor.ny and wet for you.
She'll be the one pulling you in by herself.

Tiger nut drink.

Blend the following together and let her drink.

Dates
Coconut
Tiger nut
Soak the date and tiger nuts over night.

Cut the coconuts into pieces and combine all together in a blender with water and blend until very smooth.

Get a cheese cloth and sieve it until chaff stop bringing out milk.

Chill it in the fridge for some mins and give her to drink.

Please the drink is not meant to be stored for more than 24hrs. It goes bad easily. So make the quantity you can finish within 24hrs.

It will solve the problem.

Also use lubricant so you don't forcefully slack the place.

Ejima is on the way.

Thryphosa:
It is normal with virgins bro, with time the pain will reduce and she will enjoy sex, you can make use of lubricant to ease penetration. Congratulations and twins after 9 months. Enjoy your marriage.

The only matured mind I see in here

Emekaanozie:
You can't just penetrate your wife when her vagina is dry..Make her wet first before penetration with your d**k..handle her breast, kiss her till some pussy juice goshes out from her vagina..penetrate and she won't feel pain or if you can't do that then use lubrication or pussy sweetener

You sounded very experienced.. How do you even know some juices gosh out of the Vijay when in the mood?

Me23:
Hello

Op, I think what you just described is Vaginismus. Why not read more about it and try some of the solutions that have proven to work for it. All the best

ovanda:
Why don't you shut your mouth if you have nothing reasonable to contribute. He has a problem, and he's seeking to find a solution to his problem from "adults" not you.

Thank you

Me23:
Hello my Nairalanders,

I will go straight to the point and won't waste your time. I just recently got married let say 3weeks now, my wife was a virgin when I met her and we didn't have sex not until our wedding night. On the wedding night, I couldn't penetrate in as it was difficult for both of us because she always feels serious pain anytime I tried to enter. Finally I was able to enter on the third day, even at that it was just the small part of penise that was able to enter but mehn she scream so loud but sha I could confirm the blood.

After that we've had series of love making and I always go slow as I know that's her first time, but anytime am about to go in, she always feel pain both during and after sex. Sometimes the pain will reduce and while atimes the pain will be so much that I will have to stop the love making as I couldn't take it while seeing her in pain, she would want me to continue because she wants to satisfy me and because I could wait all this while without having sex.

Before our wedding, we decided to do some check up for any kind of infection so as not to take any chances for anything that would ruin our sexual life, and we were treated accordingly. After this experience of pain, we had to surf the net to know what could cause the pain, and some of the results and things that could lead to can be pain during sex are: genitals wart, lesion, blisters around the genitals, scratching and having burning sensation around the genitals etc I checked her vagina to see if there's such I didn't find any and she also claims she doesn't scratch or experience any burning sensation.

Pls to all the doctors in the house and to those that have had such experience pls help this guy and his wife. I was on celibacy for two years o and now that I'm ready to enjoy sex now this one come dey show up.

Make her wet before you enter

She could have sustained some inner injury the first 5 attempt;


Leave her for like a week to heal up, then we next you wanna penetrate, ensure she is wet enough .

Read more about Vaginismus. I think that’s her problem. Since you’re married, there’s nothing to be shy of. Perform graded dilatation, in other words, get intimacy gadgets of different sizes from the smallest. Also get a lubricant. Start with the smallest Love Machine, use for a few weeks at her convenience and then move to the next . Hope this helps!

Mamijoh:
You sounded very experienced.. How do you even know some juices gosh out of the Vijay when in the mood?

When the intense is so high to the female party, the only thing her body can do is to release some pussy juice which makes it easy for the man to penetrate and she would never feel any pain again..what makes her feel pain is that the man rushes and insert his d**k without playing with her sensations

Try Silky Kola. I heard it moistens the vagina.

Me23:
Hello my Nairalanders,

I will go straight to the point and won't waste your time. I just recently got married let say 3weeks now, my wife was a virgin when I met her and we didn't have sex not until our wedding night. On the wedding night, I couldn't penetrate in as it was difficult for both of us because she always feels serious pain anytime I tried to enter. Finally I was able to enter on the third day, even at that it was just the small part of penise that was able to enter but mehn she scream so loud but sha I could confirm the blood.

After that we've had series of love making and I always go slow as I know that's her first time, but anytime am about to go in, she always feel pain both during and after sex. Sometimes the pain will reduce and while atimes the pain will be so much that I will have to stop the love making as I couldn't take it while seeing her in pain, she would want me to continue because she wants to satisfy me and because I could wait all this while without having sex.

Before our wedding, we decided to do some check up for any kind of infection so as not to take any chances for anything that would ruin our sexual life, and we were treated accordingly. After this experience of pain, we had to surf the net to know what could cause the pain, and some of the results and things that could lead to can be pain during sex are: genitals wart, lesion, blisters around the genitals, scratching and having burning sensation around the genitals etc I checked her vagina to see if there's such I didn't find any and she also claims she doesn't scratch or experience any burning sensation.

Pls to all the doctors in the house and to those that have had such experience pls help this guy and his wife. I was on celibacy for two years o and now that I'm ready to enjoy sex now this one come dey show up.

tho I'm not a doctor but tell your wife to stop washing her vj with soap or anything, just water. Don't forget to thank me later.

Mood11:
Honestly, I don't understand why people feel comfortable spreading their very private matters online these days...
Go to a doctor or speak to your mother or elderly person or aren't there hospitals around you?
Now people who ordinarily should have nothing to say about your private matters will spew trash on you and your wife
This is very disgusting. You for kukuma snap the to.,to show Nairalanders

For those quoting me, I have no response for you..

God bless you fr this......I really don't understand the social media craze

Mood11:
Honestly, I don't understand why people feel comfortable spreading their very private matters online these days...
Go to a doctor or speak to your mother or elderly person or aren't there hospitals around you?
Now people who ordinarily should have nothing to say about your private matters will spew trash on you and your wife
This is very disgusting. You for kukuma snap the to.,to show Nairalanders

For those quoting me, I have no response for you..

You dey jealous am? Go nack your head at aso rock

Mood11:
Honestly, I don't understand why people feel comfortable spreading their very private matters online these days...
Go to a doctor or speak to your mother or elderly person or aren't there hospitals around you?
Now people who ordinarily should have nothing to say about your private matters will spew trash on you and your wife
This is very disgusting. You for kukuma snap the to.,to show Nairalanders

For those quoting me, I have no response for you..

Not just you...it baffles me.

It is quite regrettable.

How we wan take solve this 'pain during sex' issue now? Lol.

If we leave our own issues to solve their own, who go solve our own?

If you get sense u supposed notice say ur wife no get clitoris because some ancient fools circumcise her

CoolAmbience:
Not just you...it baffles me.

It is quite regrettable.

How we wan take solve this 'pain during sex' issue now? Lol.

If we leave our own issues to solve their own, who go solve our own?

I wonder

Pray.

Mood11:
Honestly, I don't understand why people feel comfortable spreading their very private matters online these days...
Go to a doctor or speak to your mother or elderly person or aren't there hospitals around you?
Now people who ordinarily should have nothing to say about your private matters will spew trash on you and your wife
This is very disgusting. You for kukuma snap the to.,to show Nairalanders

For those quoting me, I have no response for you..

para mode...

1.Learn the act of fore play ie kama-sultra it will help alot
2 learn to lubricate and communicate alot while having sex
3 watch educative adult films to help her with phobia
4 try different sex positions and stlyes to kno which she prefers
5 lastly be gently when starting then increase the temp

Congratulations to both you. Your wife and your wife are another good example that not all guys/gals are having s3x before marriage. You are a role model.

Make sure she is well lubricated before you penetrate her. There are creams to help out, if natural lube is scanty. See a pharmacist or a doctor.

Finally, she should try to relax. Now that she is married, she has got the license to enjoy the cookie without fear or shame.

And to you, please remain loving and respectful to her. God bless you both.

The one got me

Me23:
I checked her vagina to see if there's such I didn't find any .