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Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by MistaMann: 3:43pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Tobichuks08: You'll brag with it in heaven, hell, Valhalla or the underworld? That you have a son who stood by your grave during your burial? What value does it add to the deceased against someone without a heir to stand by his/her grave? 5 Likes |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Mariangeles(f): 3:46pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
tensazangetsu20: It depends on what bright future means to you. |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by crackhaus: 3:50pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
So many falsities and falsehoods being thrown around on the thread as fact... Makes it seem like I walked into a poultry farm. A lot of confirmation biases on display too... 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Mariangeles(f): 3:50pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
AdeOri99: You will give several fvcks when the time comes. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Nobody: 3:52pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
tensazangetsu20: MrColdSweat will be happy and proud of you wherever he Is now. Men generally loves "SUFFERING" 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Mariangeles(f): 3:53pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Gerrard59: Is that not reason enough? I guess when we’re on nairaland, we all must put on our shades of delusion. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Karleb(m): 3:55pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Two broke people can get married, not my business but they should have a vasectomy or hysterectomy until they are financially capable. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Nobody: 3:57pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Kobojunkiee: Kobo na true you talk oooo. You can take "A TYPICAL NIGERIAN" to overseas but you can't take Nigeria In him/her away. I believe It's a Skin Problem generally. The funny thing Is some of us have this Skin but we are very fortunate not to reason like the majority. I feel very proud of my "MENTALITY" everyday..... 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Mariangeles(f): 3:59pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Gerrard59: If you think Igbo people are stoopid people, then you’re even more stooooooooooooooooopid! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by MistaMann: 4:01pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
AdeOri99: They see marriage and having kids as way of life. It is easier to face life when alone than when married especially with kids. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Nobody: 4:07pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Kobojunkiee: Too much sense Just for only you Kobo, Abeg share some with me..... 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Tobichuks08: 4:08pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
MistaMann:Since having an offspring is of no value to you maybe not in death but eventually says alot about your reasoning and assimilation. It's well with you bro 6 Likes |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by MistaMann: 4:12pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Oyiboman69: It is better to be 99 years poor and single than be 38 years with 1 child and poor. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by crackhaus: 4:13pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
tensazangetsu20:It is your circle. The fact that some females here agree with you is not enough of a confirmation either. From the perspective of women, they obviously meet guys who want to appear serious by using the line "I want to marry you" on them, so of course they also would assume that most men are desperate for marriage given those experiences — it's simply a confirmation bias. Subjective experiences like the above as well as yours (your circle), do not account for the mentality of the general male population when it comes to marriage. Even females themselves know it deep down in their hearts that they're the ones who are most desperate for marriage, and this includes every single one of them on this thread... BUT of course, don't expect any to admit it even at the risk of death. 11 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Nobody: 4:13pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
cococandy: I'm sorry I had to do that Coco. I know of a Man who had two more kids with his second wife when he was 49years and he Is 70+ now, Today, Those kids are healthy and stronger than Anthony Joshua..... 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Klass99(f): 4:22pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
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Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by pocohantas(f): 4:23pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Gerrard59: Lmao. Did this really happen? The HEIR is quite typical though. I can imagine him saying it. HEIR kor, descendant ni. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by pocohantas(f): 4:25pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
crackhaus: The topic is not who is MOST DESPERATE. The topic is men are also “DESPERATE” for marriage. Can you in your divine wisdom comment on the TOPIC this time before you are at the risk of death? Thank you. 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Tobichuks08: 4:29pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
MistaMann: Nice we are in agreement Agreed but at the same thing since your needs may not align with mine, or what you consider basic may differ from mine why generalize? Lol, a poor guy is not someone who can't sustain his source of livelihood but lacking sufficient amount to live at a certain standard which also differs, so yes some poor people live happily.. Lol, those are your personal expectations or reasoning to poor, not mine.. A poor man can have his children go to school, feed 3 times a day, and sort his rent that dosent make him rich, because he is living according to his means for survival. Push? Come on every adults knows what they want bro, every adult does. Some marry early and end up in riches, some marry late and still end up being poor, why are you making it a case? You shouldn't blame those who are struggling and are married you should blame the lack of proper planning.. This is never any ones dream or prayer and eventually even in reality 40 to 60% of families in Nigeria re struggling financially.. It is only in Nigeria that we become hypocrite. Most of you guys here came from a struggling background, if your parents had this notion will you guys be here playing judge on others choices? 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Nobody: 4:31pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Tobichuks08: Dark reasoning as usual...... |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Nobody: 4:36pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Klass99: I tell you, No be small thing. I no know who CURSE those people. I saw the other one shouting baba 70 here and there. You can't Just have enough of them..... 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Chevrolet076(m): 4:37pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
tensazangetsu20: Your premise is false..... Or you're probably basing your conclusion on your area. Many young men I've seen and read on nairaland do not want to get married 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Tobichuks08: 4:37pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Evolutionlove:White reasoning as usual.. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Nobody: 4:43pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
MistaMann: Most Nigerians who are neck deep In POVERTY won't understand or subscribe to this gospel. Blacks Nigerian problem Is deeper and deep rooted than you think..... 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Klass99(f): 4:43pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
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Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Nobody: 4:50pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
MistaMann: What I've come to realize Is, The best thing Is to leave these people to their fate and mentality and migrate to society where they share mutual reasoning with you. Anything apart from this, You'll Just keep flogging a dead horse and keep going round In circles. Nothing will ever Change..... 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Gerrard59(m): 4:53pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
pocohantas: https://punchng.com/country-is-hard-we-need-help-to-raise-our-newborn-quadruplets-enugu-based-couple/?utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Facebook#Echobox=1635063057 |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by crackhaus: 4:58pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Mindlog:Na so. I can't believe anyone actually bought this... You want to come here and start rewriting biology just to sustain your biases eh. What does old sperm even mean exactly? This one off me... LOL – A healthy man will continue producing new sperm until the day he dies, it's a process called spermatogenesis... but I figure you already knew this, no? – A healthy woman does not produce new eggs because y'all are born with all the eggs you'll ever need, and in fact by the time women are at puberty, only about 25% of those eggs are left... From this point onwards, the quality will continue to decline. You can take this fight to the creator sha... na him do am like that, NOT men. When you take cognizance of the above facts and keep all things equal while contrasting a healthy man and a healthy woman (both in their 50s/60s), who then do you expect would be more at risk of having a child with a disorder? I'm not trying to make a case for which gender needs to marry early, I've never cared about that... But make una nor come dey pretend say everyone here reading is a dummy. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by pocohantas(f): 4:59pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Gerrard59: She is so young and beautiful. That is a lot of kids in this present generation. Money aside, kids require a lot of time and energy. I get that Nigerians just go with the flow, have kids and begin to discipline them. But parenting should be more conscious and long term. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Nobody: 5:04pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
tensazangetsu20: All these things you are complaining about are very Vital to the Nations Growth & Development, You won't Just understand. It took me long years before I eventually understood how and what this nation was designed for. All those "Agberos, Street Urchins, Destitutes Just to mention a few are part of God's blessings to "TYPICAL NIGERIANS" I've met with prominent and bigmoney peeps. If you realize the way they reason and their point of viewing everything In this nation. You will be marveled...... 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Nobody: 5:10pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Klass99: Lol I'm from Mars.... |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Nobody: 5:16pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
AdeOri99: Generally, Black people are still far away from True Civilization & Mental Emancipation..... |
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