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Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Nobody: 10:54am On Nov 11, 2021 |
pocohantas: Looking back, i felt it was too early and i did not have enough time to enjoy my bachelorhood. |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by pocohantas(f): 10:57am On Nov 11, 2021 |
Skyview01: Hahahaha. I expected that. There was this Nairalander that opened thread saying he is looking for a wife. Less than a year later, he is now married. He came again to tell us he wants to divorce his newly wedded wife. If you don’t have something, you’ll think na there enjoyment dey. When you have it, you go come see say e no easy. I hope you find a way to balance it out. By the way, are you Yoruba? 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Nobody: 11:05am On Nov 11, 2021 |
pocohantas: The grass always seems greener on the other side. Nope, not Yoruba but was born, schooled and grew up in the west. |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by pocohantas(f): 11:09am On Nov 11, 2021 |
Skyview01: True story. I asked because it is their men that marry quite early in the South. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Nobody: 11:16am On Nov 11, 2021 |
pocohantas: I see. But again, when i look at my kids now, i want to thank God for marrying early. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by teeshet: 11:59am On Nov 11, 2021 |
cococandy:but you are indirectly pushing them to. You are one of the problem in the society |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by teeshet: 12:06pm On Nov 11, 2021 |
pocohantas:marriage is not on my mind 4 now. I just wanna fùck 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by teeshet: 12:08pm On Nov 11, 2021 |
Mariangeles:ned nwoko 5 Likes |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by teeshet: 12:10pm On Nov 11, 2021 |
Mercychen:when i get married, i will do all the style with my wife 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by teeshet: 12:18pm On Nov 11, 2021 |
Mariangeles:how about having babymamas while single. Me oh, I wanna fùck as many women as possible 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Nobody: 12:47pm On Nov 11, 2021 |
teeshet: Good for you. |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Nobody: 1:11pm On Nov 11, 2021 |
Skyview01:
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Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by qtguru(m): 1:43pm On Nov 11, 2021 |
i would definitely prefer Marriage than being alone, I don't think human beings were built to be alone. also Mutual Respect, Joint income resources and companionship. It's just that the cost of living that makes one fear. If we were in a comfortable environment, the ideal age to marry to me would be 25 and raise kids early and enter the grave, People in Ibadan settle down much faster and live a much more comfortable life than most in Lagos. Most men I know who married didn't have much when they got married, but they married women who were driven, that's 2 hardworking individuals in a marriage, I don't see any reason why they won't transcend their financial position. Unless we are talking about a married man with no foresight and goal and a liability. Every hardworking couple always climbs up. 2 Income Household is better than 1 my brother. LOL SO GO & MARRY 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by qtguru(m): 1:45pm On Nov 11, 2021 |
teeshet: You're creating a framework of poverty for yourself. Marriage na title, the babies are still the responsibilities 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Nobody: 6:00pm On Nov 11, 2021 |
pocohantas: Story of my life walahi |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by pocohantas(f): 6:04pm On Nov 11, 2021 |
truthsayer009: Lol. I wasn’t informed. Give me the full gist biko. |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Nobody: 6:05pm On Nov 11, 2021 |
pocohantas: Lol, I mean life and decisions generally no be woman matter oh |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by pocohantas(f): 6:07pm On Nov 11, 2021 |
truthsayer009: You are such a killjoy. In fact, you need cane. But yea, it is a general problem, not only relationship matter. |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by cayorday89(m): 6:21pm On Nov 11, 2021 |
qtguru:I don't know why people don't get it, the babies are the responsibility here, amyother person is an outsider and you just being kind if you choose to help, for the wife and husband, they are adults who should compromise to make life bearable for one another. The only plus which is not even in all cases in Babymama/Babydaddy is that you sleep in peace and wake up to the realities of your troubles if she/he is the troublesome type. Then if you both live together in marriage or otherwise, you live and wake up to your troubles. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by teeshet: 7:14pm On Nov 11, 2021 |
Klass99:i like you as a person but stop this habit of asslicking poco. She's human like you 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by teeshet: 7:17pm On Nov 11, 2021 |
pocohantas:na me go scatter una coven |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by pocohantas(f): 7:26pm On Nov 11, 2021 |
teeshet: Allow us asslick ourselves, we enjoy it. You guys do it and call it bro-code. Just say you would prefer to see us fight, so you can rush to tell us how women are their own enemies. teeshet: We would be waiting. Your first attempt has been seen and acknowledged. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Nobody: 7:34pm On Nov 11, 2021 |
Mercychen: That is his life objective. "Mate as many women as possible" What a life goal! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Nobody: 7:39pm On Nov 11, 2021 |
teeshet: She is not asslicking. What she said is on point. |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Aganju849: 8:02pm On Nov 11, 2021 |
tensazangetsu20: They are being brainwashed by the older people, their pastors and other types of mentors in their lives 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Raalsalghul: 8:11pm On Nov 11, 2021 |
teeshet: 1 Like
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Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by MrSamsung(m): 9:50am On Nov 12, 2021 |
Gerrard59: You are despicable. |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by OldBeer: 8:08am On Nov 13, 2021 |
tensazangetsu20:Your posts on nairaland explains a whole lot. I really love reading your posts when I come across them as it gives me an opportunity to see the stages of desperation in a man's life. A casual observer can see that you are gradually unraveling and crying out for help. I'm sure there are times you wake up suddenly at night, with a clenched stomach, knowing that life is passing you by. There are also times you stay up all night, thinking, browsing, researching, wishing, praying, and thinking some more. You are at the stage where you feel the need to be farther than but unfortunately, you are stuck. Worse thing, no help in sight. All those who have promised to help have disappointed you. Deep down, you wish, maybe, just maybe someone will see your numerous threads on nairaland and help you. You've camped permanently on the travel section for some years and still, nothing. You are desperate because you know time is running out. Your birthday angers you because you know what it signifies. In your current desperation, you are willing to give anything. But are you willing to do anything? That remains to be seen as every human has a price. It's really interesting to see the way Nigeria can break people down, most especially those that hate her. And you know what? It's a beautiful thing to see. Hopefully, you get your chance but I highly doubt it as any observant person can smell the desperation from a mile away. In the meantime, thank you for the schadenfreude and cheers to many more posts by you. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by tensazangetsu20(m): 8:15am On Nov 13, 2021 |
OldBeer: While I hate Nigeria withe very fibre of my being, I am not frustrated or desperate. My earnings every month puts me at the elite level if there's anything like that. I don't believe elitism exists in Nigeria so but living in Nigeria sucks but it's bearable with the kind of money I make. Besides most of my posts are in the programming section showing Nigerians the way to make more money. I can't count how many people I have mentored there who have gone to very good paying jobs. That's my own quota to reduce poverty in the zoological republic. What have you done? 8 Likes |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Magnoliaa(f): 10:56am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Your posts on nairaland explains a whole lot. While I hate Nigeria withe very fibre of my being, I am not frustrated or desperate. My earnings every month puts me at the elite level if there's anything like that. I don't believe elitism exists in Nigeria so but living in Nigeria sucks but it's bearable with the kind of money I make. Besides most of my posts are in the programming section showing Nigerians the way to make more money. I can't count how many people I have mentored there who have gone to very good paying jobs. That's my own quota to reduce poverty in the zoological republic. What have you done? I, the Daughter of Woman, cometh not to preach peace, but to be a partaker of this Violence. Interestingly lovely pieces, lmao. |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Gerrard59(m): 5:16pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Mariangeles: MrSamsung: Anyone who is hell bent on bearing a male child in the name of culture and tradition that leads to lots of children YET cannot take care of them is a stoopid person. If within an ethnic group, they like doing such, then they're stoopid people. If you don't like what I typed, hit your head against a wall! P.S. What if I tell you people that I'm Igbo? Or do you mean an Igbo person cannot criticise stoopid aspects of a culture? 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Young Men In Nigeria So Desperate About Marriage by Mariangeles(f): 5:47pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Gerrard59: Rubbish! I do not care who or what you are! You bigot! Your opinion about MY PEOPLE - IGBO WU IGBO - do not matter. 1 Like |
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