Evolutionlove:


All these things you are complaining about are very Vital to the Nations Growth & Development, You won't Just understand. It took me long years before I eventually understood how and what this nation was designed for. All those "Agberos, Street Urchins, Destitutes Just to mention a few are part of God's blessings to "TYPICAL NIGERIANS" I've met with prominent and bigmoney peeps. If you realize the way they reason and their point of viewing everything In this nation. You will be marveled......

Gerrard59:


That's a reason to get married?

tensazangetsu20:


Men I am just working on leaving this shithole. I will see all this nonsense from outside. The reasoning in this country is sick even from so called literates. Imagine someone saying it's better to be married at poor at 38 than to be single and poor at 99. Do these guys know what poverty entails. I have seen poverty and believe you me it's better to face that shit alone than as a family man. People will chop your daughter's with a loaf of bread and indomie. Your son's will become cultists and degenerates while you slug it out with your landlord in a face me I face you ghetto. Terrible

Klass99:


Help me understand this, by explaining it better.
How are ageberos and all, part of God's blessings to typical Nigerians?
How do these big money peeps reason and view the nation, abeg?

Karleb:
Two broke people can get married, not my business but they should have a vasectomy or hysterectomy until they are financially capable.

Are we Joking here or what? Do we look like Joke to you? Well I'm sure you are not directing this your opinion to Nigerians. Most supposed educated rich people don't even know what Vasectomy Is talkless of the Poor people. You must be really Joking......

tensazangetsu20:


Men I am just working on leaving this shithole. I will see all this nonsense from outside. The reasoning in this country is sick even from so called literates. Imagine someone saying it's better to be married at poor at 38 than to be single and poor at 99. Do these guys know what poverty entails. I have seen poverty and believe you me it's better to face that shit alone than as a family man. People will chop your daughter's with a loaf of bread and indomie. Your son's will become cultists and degenerates while you slug it out with your landlord in a face me I face you ghetto. Terrible

pocohantas:


The topic is not who is MOST DESPERATE.

The topic is men are also “DESPERATE” for marriage.

Can you in your divine wisdom comment on the TOPIC this time before you are at the risk of death?

Thank you.

Klass99:


Excuse you!!!

I hope it is not Poco you are dissing with that derogatory phrase "evening newspaper" or another female for that matter, I find that very distasteful. Love her or hate her, she is a remarkable lady and her haters have got nothing on her.

I engaged with a sincere desire to understand the comment you made, I wasn't looking for mud slinging shots at others, so forget I asked.

It is EOD for me.

pocohantas:


Seventy hearty cheers.

Klass99 called you a remarkable lady?

And you even acknowledged it?

Mtcheeeew

genaro2000:

Chai I saw this live, while growing up,Ifeoma and Amina. Boys and grownup men were passing them about. And these girls were underaged at that time. In fact one of gave birth twice to children for two different men before she turned 18.

izzou:


Klass99 called you a remarkable lady?
And you even acknowledged it?
Mtcheeeew

Magnoliaa:
Thread never see frontpage, e don reach five pages. Omo.

pocohantas:
The first set of redpillers came, saw and agreed. They were smart enough to blame society and lack of exposure.

The second set came and started mental gymnastics and ad hominem.

May God divide the houses of our enemies.

MistaMann:
I am not against marriage or whatever age you decide to marry. But having children without a reasonable source of income that would give them a decent life is wickedness and inhuman.

They are complaining yet adding children. Some with only 2 kids and can't even pay rent or school fees in time oo but still adding another kid.

You hear their reasons like,
✓my mates friends are all married
✓ I am getting old
✓ My parents are pressuring me etc

You hear people giving reasons for having children like:

✓Who would take care of you when old
✓Who would preserve my name
✓My mother said she wants grandchildren.
✓Who would be the heir to my possession.

MistaMann:


It is better to be 99 years poor and single than be 38 years with 1 child and poor.

Klass99:
Izzou, your yeye dey boom sha!

Watch as more haters come out in full force because of my comment.

They don't like it either when they see all the people they hate, like you, Poco, I and others get along just fine on the forum.

Have you noticed?

Of course

I really don't know why though. The moment you don't agree with them, it becomes a problem.

It can be amusing sha

tensazangetsu20:


Well in Nigeria it should be a concern to everyone when poor people get married. When they breed they end up giving birth to future bandits, terrorists, yahoo boys and criminals. As of 2008, you could drive from Lagos to Maiduguri. Today you can't. In the future, you won't be able to move easily from Ikeja to iyana ipaja as Nigeria is going to be worst off tomorrow than today.

Poor people marrying and having battalion kids should be everyones problem. You can't just let them be cause their decisions will affect you that refused to have any kids.

tensazangetsu20:

It's normal where I stay in Lagos. Young girls of 10, 12, 8 already sleeping around for food. This is due to poverty. It's so heartbreaking when I see this daily

Gerrard59:

Hopefully, future children birthed in such environments kill their parents.

Tobichuks08:





Push?
Come on every adults knows what they want bro, every adult does.
Some marry early and end up in riches, some marry late and still end up being poor, why are you making it a case?

You shouldn't blame those who are struggling and are married you should blame the lack of proper planning..

This is never any ones dream or prayer and eventually even in reality 40 to 60% of families in Nigeria re struggling financially..
It is only in Nigeria that we become hypocrite.
Most of you guys here came from a struggling background, if your parents had this notion will you guys be here playing judge on others choices?

Kobojunkie:
ROFLMAO


You think that will resolve the cycle?

Gerrard59:
Maybe for the generation afterwards. Currently, young Nigerians watch their mates via social media in other parts of the world enjoy the benefits of strong passports, employment opportunities, availability of good public schools with no strikes, ease of payments as freelancers, secured environments and most importantly constant electricity. Future generations in Nigeria will not experience those goodies because of the worsening stats Nigeria will generate. The Gen Z as they call them and those after will not fear God like my generation does and adhere to whatever cultural norms that make no sense to them. They would be so "disrespectful and disobedient". Thus, they will take drastic actions as they deem fit. They will question their parents for not providing the environment their contemporaries in other places are enjoying. So whatever battalion breeding parents in Nigeria see by then, they should take it like that.

Magnoliaa:


Really? I never knew about the last part. Thank you for mentioning it and for asking that question, especially!

Na only women dey get biological clock oh. Nahhhh. Ya ignorant, dear. Men don't hit a wall, they don't expire and they don't have 'prime years.' They can even continue firing at age 160. Kikikikiki.

tensazangetsu20:


True but generational poverty is worst than down syndrome. One of Femi otedola's kids has down syndrome and he has a much a brighter future than 95 percent of Nigerians.

cococandy:
so they should marry after their prime? Does that make sense to you?

Do you know the risk for Down syndrome in babies increases with the father’s age?

pocohantas:


Yes. Some of my male friends said they always planned getting married in their late 20s to early 30s, but it didn’t quite work out. I have a colleague that is 27 and he is already talking marriage. I look at him like, “you be pikin na”. He gets offended. That do I mean he is not old enough to put woman for house.

Abeg, let’s leave social media. A good and supportive spouse is gold.

Skyview01:


I married at 27. If i would do it all over again, i would prefer to marry in my late 30ies or early 40ies.