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I'll keep it short. It's for you men. I want to say why are you men like these?
I met this guy, and he loved me and we both took care of eachother. But lately, he's been acting like some freak.

For example, I met my long time best friend, who's a guy, we met at a restaurant where I and my boyfriend went for an outing.
My best friend hugged me and pecked me on the cheek-- I thought it was nothing wrong it was a playful thing we used to do. But the minute, this my best friend finished conversation with us. This guy stood up and told me, next time he sees me with a guy like that he'll make sure he kills me.

That's what he said. I like men who are bold, and a little bit agrressive but not ot threaten me like that, that's too much for a woman.

I'm thinking of breaking up with him soon, because I believe he wants to get married to me. But I don't want to get married, and even if I want to, it wouldn't be with that kind of man.

I'm an independent Alpha lady, but a little beta in some way, and I want to have fun, be rich and have a child with a guy but not with commitment.

If he shows temper again and wants to act and rough handle me, I'll do two things break his head, pepper spray his eyes, and file a report.

Now, my question, why do men have insecurity? It's irritating.

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OP let me be real with you;

To give you better nodding de hungry me.

You and your best friend both don't have any respect for your boyfriend. He even pecked you; it's the audacity!

If na me ehn! Na showmax that restaurant people go watch. Because the kind collect you and your socalled bestie go collect ehn, hmm!

Lol
Wetin nairalanders no go see for nairaland.
Your bestie no suppose peck u Infront of your boyfriend na. If na your boyfriend peck another girl Infront of u, u go like am??

Lol if m your bf I'll invite a babe for our next date then kiss her in your presence

To me u be
OLOSHO

HOLLY GRAM OBABY I NO GET TIME TO READ EVERYTHING BUT I GO ADVISE U, MAKE U GET UR OWN KALA. ONCE EM MISBEHAVING. BLAST EM LEFT LEG B4 PEOPLE GO BEGIN ASK WEITIN HAPPEN. WTF MAN

Point of correction your client not boyfriend..

Last knacking and sms sack letter to your phone. So u don't keep the slightest hope we are still dating. What insolence you got to disrespect him.
So if u were married that how you will be giving your cheeks to random old time friends. From there they would touch your breast and u say that's how we use to do. Ooo Norma aje

This one doesn't want to commit to one man. She wants to be a public latrine.
So, why are you giving the guy the impression that you want to be under a man?
Please let the guy understand your relationship position so he can move on with his life.

When women start making money, they feel they don't need men anymore. On the other hand, when men start making money, they feel they need more women.

Why posting a naked picture on your profile? and collecting pecks from old acquaintances? U need strong hand, marry that guy.

Your Nyash is Dirty.

Your boyfriend is Enduring things.

Chai.

ThickSharon123:
That's what he said. I like men who are bold, and a little bit agrressive but not ot threaten me like that, that's too much for a woman.

You be mumu. You get what you get. You want agressive guys and at the same time you don't want aggressive guys (confusion). It's called part and parcel of your package. Deal with it. Fvck you for generalizing.

With the comments I am seeing here, its obvious the OP is saying the truth, most of nigerian men either suffer from insecurities, liw self esteem, inability to control aggression or just immature to handle a relationship... Do your part as a man and you wouldn't have to worry about your girlfriend with other guys, it would help with give you peace of mind.

get over yourself bitch.
i don mouve

Beebah2000:
Lol
Wetin nairalanders no go see for nairaland.
Your bestie no suppose peck u Infront of your boyfriend na. If na your boyfriend peck another girl Infront of u, u go like am??

l wonder o, she's even bold enough to display such madness in her fiance presence.. madness of the highest order.
But why would yyour fiance threatened to kill you because of such,it shows that he's deeply in love with you and from your write up here it shows he's the only one dating you ..

So silly, someone threatened you because of a hug and a kiss on the cheek. It's quite normal where I grew up in. Sheesh

Vanilla4:
So silly, someone threatened you because of a hug and a kiss on the cheek. It's quite normal where I grew up in. Sheesh

My sister is disheartening. And they call us women weak, and dependent. What they call us that's what they are acting as.

This one na olosho . Next...

ThickSharon123:
I'll keep it short. It's for you men. I want to say why are you men like these?
I met this guy, and he loved me and we both took care of eachother. But lately, he's been acting like some freak.

No regard for your boyfriend. He should dump you actually. Threat very unnecessary.

[quote author=ThickSharon123 post=107499633]I'll keep it short. It's for you men. I want to say why are you men like these?
I met this guy, and he loved me and we both took care of eachother. But lately, he's been acting like some freak.

For example, I met my long time best friend, who's a guy, we met at a restaurant where I and my boyfriend went for an outing.
My best friend hugged me and pecked me on the cheek-- I thought it was nothing wrong it was a playful thing we used to do. But the minute, this my best friend finished conversation with us. This guy stood up and told me, next time he sees me with a guy like that he'll make sure he kills me.

That's what he said. I like men who are bold, and a little bit agrressive but not ot threaten me like that, that's too much for a woman.

I'm thinking of breaking up with him soon, because I believe he wants to get married.
Sharon i don't know wat to tel you.

A stranger to him kissed you, and you felt it was normal. How would you feel if you were in his shoes?

Just keep posting more drelious ass picks like Cardi B.

He could have said it due to jealousy but just to be sure arrange with your male cousin or brother and test him again by hugging that one passionately or peck again and see if he will break your head. Just make sure you have guys around to break his own leg too after breaking yours, that way you will know if he's a beast or not.

Mtcheeewww.


And it's the men that'll bash the op and still send PMs for me.

SenecaTheYonger:
You be mumu. You get what you get. You want agressive guys and at the same time you don't want aggressive guys (confusion). It's called part and parcel of your package. Deal with it. Fvck you for generalizing.

Interesting!

LEEMAOOOOOO.

Boogyman557:
HOLLY GRAM OBABY I NO GET TIME TO READ EVERYTHING BUT I GO ADVISE U, MAKE U GET UR OWN KALA. ONCE EM MISBEHAVING. BLAST EM LEFT LEG B4 PEOPLE GO BEGIN ASK WEITIN HAPPEN. WTF MAN

HOLY GRAMS O BOY. NO DEY PREACH WETIN NO DEY PRACTICABLE.

Don't joke around with people who threaten violence.

He should be old enough to know where to draw the line.

That was how one guy killed his girlfriend late 2019 from beating to discipline her.

Either male or female, do not tolerate domestic violence.

If she raises her hand against you, end the relationship. If he raises his hand against you, end the relationship.

My friends had an interesting piece of advice "Voom is better than statement".

I don't take threats of violence lightly at all because your close companion can target you at your weakest hour if the person is carrying a grudge.

Threats of beating or slaps should be a deal breaker in any relationship.

Relationships should be about affection, not wrestling.

Op eye still dey street.

With this kinda mindset I bet you already lost the guy you knew had plan to marry you. . .
Since you don't like commitment then enjoy your baby mama life.
Life is all about choices.
As for the threat. How well do you know him?

Fash20:
HOLY GRAMS O BOY. NO DEY PREACH WETIN NO DEY PRACTICABLE.

HOLLY GRAM AMABOBI 4 MY AMA HERE, ALOT OF CHIKALER DE CARRY KALA HERE OO. U NO 1 JUNZ WIT DOES CHIKALER DEM.. LAST WEEK 1 CHIKALER DE CAPRISUN US HOW SHE POINT 1 OF HER JUNZIN BF KALA 4 BLOKOS, NOW D GUY DEY BEHAVE WELL. WTF MAN

What

Op is a yahoo boy who's about to cash out

Sharon the boss lady. Ditch his ass asap, I know what you can do.