jericco1:
A stranger to him kissed you and felt it was normal. How would you feel if you were in his shoes?

Ritzybeauty:
[s]With the comments I am seeing here, its obvious the OP is saying the truth, most of nigerian men either suffer from insecurities, liw self esteem, inability to control aggression or just immature to handle a relationship... Do your part as a man and you wouldn't have to worry about your girlfriend with other guys, it would help with give you peace of mind.[/s]

MajesticKris:
Point of correction; Madam there's Nothing like an Alpha lady or Woman..

See you now thinking of Breaking up, All of a sudden cus you just met your Best friend..

Well I'm a Guy.. i F*ck all my Female Besties... cus thats all you guy's have to offer..

You have no single Respect, for your Boyfriend.. if you give am Handshake u go Die?

You even alow am peck u;

How Disgusting!!!


Up Coming Olosho!!!!

flokii:


Good question.. I'm sure she would have fought the guy too for allowing a strange lady hug and even peck him.

ThickSharon123:


My sister is disheartening. And they call us women weak, and dependent. What they call us that's what they are acting as.

Hayee:
there is something like alpha lady my ex boss is one
Just say you haven't met one yet

ThickSharon123:
I'll keep it short. It's for you men. I want to say why are you men like these?
I met this guy, and he loved me and we both took care of eachother. But lately, he's been acting like some freak.

For example, I met my long time best friend, who's a guy, we met at a restaurant where I and my boyfriend went for an outing.
My best friend hugged me and pecked me on the cheek-- I thought it was nothing wrong it was a playful thing we used to do. But the minute, this my best friend finished conversation with us. This guy stood up and told me, next time he sees me with a guy like that he'll make sure he kills me.

That's what he said. I like men who are bold, and a little bit agrressive but not ot threaten me like that, that's too much for a woman.

I'm thinking of breaking up with him soon, because I believe he wants to get married to me. But I don't want to get married, and even if I want to, it wouldn't be with that kind of man.

I'm an independent Alpha lady, but a little beta in some way, and I want to have fun, be rich and have a child with a guy but not with commitment.

If he shows temper again and wants to act and rough handle me, I'll do two things break his head, pepper spray his eyes, and file a report.

Now, my question, why do men have insecurity? It's irritating.

Boogyman557:
HOLLY GRAM AMABOBI 4 MY AMA HERE, ALOT OF CHIKALER DE CARRY KALA HERE OO. U NO 1 JUNZ WIT DOES CHIKALER DEM.. LAST WEEK 1 CHIKALER DE CAPRISUN US HOW SHE POINT 1 OF HER JUNZIN BF KALA 4 BLOKOS, NOW D GUY DEY BEHAVE WELL. WTF MAN

Boogyman557:
HOLLY GRAM AMABOBI 4 MY AMA HERE, ALOT OF CHIKALER DE CARRY KALA HERE OO. U NO 1 JUNZ WIT DOES CHIKALER DEM.. LAST WEEK 1 CHIKALER DE CAPRISUN US HOW SHE POINT 1 OF HER JUNZIN BF KALA 4 BLOKOS, NOW D GUY DEY BEHAVE WELL. WTF MAN

Danielkelly:
there is nothing like alfa lady stop arguing blindly.

Ocholu:
OP let me be real with you;

To give you better nodding de hungry me.

You and your best friend both don't have any respect for your boyfriend. He even pecked you; it's the audacity!

If na me ehn! Na showmax that restaurant people go watch. Because the kind collect you and your socalled boyfriend go collect ehn, hmm!

ThickSharon123:
I'll keep it short. It's for you men. I want to say why are you men like these?
I met this guy, and he loved me and we both took care of eachother. But lately, he's been acting like some freak.

For example, I met my long time best friend, who's a guy, we met at a restaurant where I and my boyfriend went for an outing.
My best friend hugged me and pecked me on the cheek-- I thought it was nothing wrong it was a playful thing we used to do. But the minute, this my best friend finished conversation with us. This guy stood up and told me, next time he sees me with a guy like that he'll make sure he kills me.

That's what he said. I like men who are bold, and a little bit agrressive but not ot threaten me like that, that's too much for a woman.

I'm thinking of breaking up with him soon, because I believe he wants to get married to me. But I don't want to get married, and even if I want to, it wouldn't be with that kind of man.

I'm an independent Alpha lady, but a little beta in some way, and I want to have fun, be rich and have a child with a guy but not with commitment.

If he shows temper again and wants to act and rough handle me, I'll do two things break his head, pepper spray his eyes, and file a report.

Now, my question, why do men have insecurity? It's irritating.

Hayee:
there is something like alpha lady my ex boss is one
Just say you haven't met one yet

Ritzybeauty:
With the comments I am seeing here, its obvious the OP is saying the truth, most of nigerian men either suffer from insecurities, liw self esteem, inability to control aggression or just immature to handle a relationship... Do your part as a man and you wouldn't have to worry about your girlfriend with other guys, it would help with give you peace of mind.

zeuss:


You are just a wimp......Alpha means both physical and emotional strength beyond your group......an alpha male will physically beat you into shape if need be....A woman can only pretend to be alpha then it is upto you to play along for your wages sake.

ThickSharon123:
I'll keep it short. It's for you men. I want to say why are you men like these?
I met this guy, and he loved me and we both took care of eachother. But lately, he's been acting like some freak.

For example, I met my long time best friend, who's a guy, we met at a restaurant where I and my boyfriend went for an outing.
My best friend hugged me and pecked me on the cheek-- I thought it was nothing wrong it was a playful thing we used to do. But the minute, this my best friend finished conversation with us. This guy stood up and told me, next time he sees me with a guy like that he'll make sure he kills me.

That's what he said. I like men who are bold, and a little bit agrressive but not ot threaten me like that, that's too much for a woman.

I'm thinking of breaking up with him soon, because I believe he wants to get married to me. But I don't want to get married, and even if I want to, it wouldn't be with that kind of man.

I'm an independent Alpha lady, but a little beta in some way, and I want to have fun, be rich and have a child with a guy but not with commitment.

If he shows temper again and wants to act and rough handle me, I'll do two things break his head, pepper spray his eyes, and file a report.

Now, my question, why do men have insecurity? It's irritating.

Ritzybeauty:
With the comments I am seeing here, its obvious the OP is saying the truth, most of nigerian men either suffer from insecurities, liw self esteem, inability to control aggression or just immature to handle a relationship... Do your part as a man and you wouldn't have to worry about your girlfriend with other guys, it would help with give you peace of mind.

Herbephe1:


l wonder o, she's even bold enough to display such madness in her fiance presence.. madness of the highest order.
But why would yyour fiance threatened to kill you because of such,it shows that he's deeply in love with you and from your write up here it shows he's the only one dating you ..

Ritzybeauty:
With the comments I am seeing here, its obvious the OP is saying the truth, most of nigerian men either suffer from insecurities, liw self esteem, inability to control aggression or just immature to handle a relationship... Do your part as a man and you wouldn't have to worry about your girlfriend with other guys, it would help with give you peace of mind.

Hayee:
you have not met one dear Just dat your ego can never accept it