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Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Johel(m): 5:40am On Nov 11, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Men are not exempted...some men marry to escape loneliness,some marry because of kids too whatsoever but the rate is less compared to women....65% men marry because of love....The women have more to gain from men that's why it's the women that's more despirate about marriages and more excited about relationships. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by BluntCrazeMan: 5:50am On Nov 11, 2021 |
Mercychen:(@Bolded) Most times, when the kids sleep, the wife sleeps off immediately too. Leaving the man thinking and standing. .. Only for the wife to wake up at the dead of the night to be sneaking through his phone. If she had the time to wake up and search through his phone, why not use that time to pacify his running blood? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by BluntCrazeMan: 5:56am On Nov 11, 2021 |
Klass99:What was the video all about? |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by addictiv(m): 5:57am On Nov 11, 2021 |
well if you feel your wife has relegated you to the background and gives the kids more attention, it's only natural for her to do so because that's how women are wired, some women are able to create a balance but not all are able to so successfully. If you want to tip the odds in your favour, focus all your love and attention on the kids and spend most of your time with them. Help with homework, bathing and dressing them up for school, taking them to games, getting them gifts etc. Reduce the attention on your wife and focus on the kids. You will discover she will begin to draw closer to you but will find it difficult to complain about your little attention for her, because she sees you are giving everything to the kids. When she begins to get very vocal about it, that's when you can decide to negotiate your attention requirements. |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Nobody: 5:59am On Nov 11, 2021 |
BluntCrazeMan: Lol... That's on another level. Maybe daddy has been doing somethings that makes her suspicious of him. So, she sees it as the right time to do her findings without obstructions. On the normal, if she falls asleep prolly cos she's tired from the days activities. Please let her be. Body no be fire wood o. |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by BluntCrazeMan: 6:00am On Nov 11, 2021 |
ahnie:Your kids are still small. Wait till they grow a little older. .. Your husband will totally forget about you. The love he has for the kids will take over. .. By then, you might have forgotten you made this comment here sef. |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Elidrisy20: 6:05am On Nov 11, 2021 |
Men are not certain,they can easily betrayed them, back stabbers , but their children will never betray them |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by BluntCrazeMan: 6:07am On Nov 11, 2021 |
Mercychen:No.. A phone-checker is always a phone-checker. She had been like that since the days of dating. Never stopped checking the phone. .. If she sleeps and wakes in the morning, no wahalla. .. But waking every night to check phone, yet not thinking about the husband is bad. .. She loves her husband's phone more than him? .. If she sees what she was looking for, then the husband would leave her or she leaves the husband. And I know that's not what she wants of the marriage. So, why worrying her life over phone, rather than keeping her husband's emotions and hormones together? |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Munzy14(m): 6:10am On Nov 11, 2021 |
JONNYSPUTE: If you observe me here, I don't talk to Impress any one... I hit the nail on it's head, according to experience and a lot more. If my wife do the normal, of which I know she won't... I know myself and know the type of women I date....In case it turns out to be the normal, I will have that conversation with her... |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Kobojunkie: 6:15am On Nov 11, 2021 |
addictiv:That there is far from the reality of things! In doing that the man only creates stress for the children by causing them to have to walk on eggshells in order not to offend either parent. If a man finds his wife putting the kids before him, best solution is not seek marriage counseling. Don't put the kids in the awkward situation of having to chosen between the love of their mom or dad abeg. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Nobody: 6:23am On Nov 11, 2021 |
BluntCrazeMan: Then maybe you should stop giving her cause to check your phone . When I was still in the world, I remember doing that to a man I was dating then. The painful part was, this was a widower with 5 children o. But he was still very young and handsome. You know all these guys that get married early and the wife was just giving birth almost every year. It was even through child birth she died. She was looking for a male child. So we met and decided to work something out. So I do go there and spend a day or two just to bond with the kids. One night, I just checked his phone, lo and behold, I saw a text and that was what changed my mind towards the relationship till I left him. He begged and begged. He used his children to beg. No way! I don't know why some men are so ungrateful. A young girl like me in her early 20s trying to be with you inspite of your status and you had the guts to be sending "my love" text to another woman. The painful part was, he was even lying the sister used his phone to text someone. I dumped him without looking back. He begged taya, him mouth long. For where? Abeg let us check. E get why . |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by goodnewscliff(m): 6:29am On Nov 11, 2021 |
Pregift:Yeah.... Ur husband definitely loves those kids more than he loves u... I believe u know this too |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Klass99(f): 6:52am On Nov 11, 2021 |
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Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Affaberry: 7:04am On Nov 11, 2021 |
Mofun:I want you to know that in your house the only person you don't share blood with is your wife. And the only person that don't share blood with you is your wife. So do not expect her to love you more than her own children whom you're not part of them. She can only remembering you for putting her through the pain of having her own children that's all. |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Saintmary(f): 7:05am On Nov 11, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: I remember you! You're that moniker that always argue for arguments sake. Noted. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Saintmary(f): 7:08am On Nov 11, 2021 |
Affaberry: Is it that bad Ahn ahn Once she's well cared for she'll have no problem loving her boo. Her boo o, not a brawny fighter or an unrepentant cheat and the likes. I hope you understand. |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Blackdisciple(m): 7:12am On Nov 11, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Sure, almost 90% of women does that sir |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by BluntCrazeMan: 7:13am On Nov 11, 2021 |
Mercychen:Well.. You got what you went looking for. 12years long.. And phone checker never got tired. She never found anything, because there was even nothing to hide. Yet she never taaya. |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Kobojunkie: 7:14am On Nov 11, 2021 |
Blackdisciple:If 90% of women in marriages do it then what means is 90% of marriages exist in an unhealthy state |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by authority2006(m): 7:17am On Nov 11, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: And the marriage would just become empty like that? Nahhhhh! |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Kobojunkie: 7:23am On Nov 11, 2021 |
authority2006:ROFLMAO What you need at that point is professional marriage counseling. |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Limassol(m): 7:33am On Nov 11, 2021 |
wordapostle: This... Normally, humans tend to be more compassionate and empathic to their younger ones. I think this could be the reason. |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Hathor5(f): 7:43am On Nov 11, 2021 |
Acidosis: It's not true. My grandmother has only sons. They are the ones taking care of her in old age even though they are married. Grandpa is dead. And one could equally argue that a husband is less reliable because men like to call women evening newspapers and exchange their wives for younger blood. They can take on second wives, run off or divorce regardless of how devoted a wife is. And they die earlier too leaving women alone in old age. But it shouldn't be a competition in the first place. How can the love we feel for our children be compared to the love we have for our spouse? Or measured? Do you love your wife more than your kids? Do you love your wife more than your mother? Or just in different ways? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by ahnie: 7:43am On Nov 11, 2021 |
Oga please Rest BluntCrazeMan:. |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Hathor5(f): 7:48am On Nov 11, 2021 |
cococandy: 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Pregift(f): 7:57am On Nov 11, 2021 |
goodnewscliff:. Yes I Know. It's vice versa. It's nature. They say blood is thicker than water. |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Acidosis(m): 8:01am On Nov 11, 2021 |
Hathor5: My line of argument is that smart children can see beyond parental manipulations. Your grandmother obviously treated her husband (Grandpa) respectfully and gave her all the attention he deserved. Some wives want to be rude to their husband and manipulatively earn their children's love and respect.
This is the idea behind my response to that lady. She was simply making up stuff without evidence. There's no evidence anywhere that her man has maltreated her yet she wants to pay him less attention/love because of what other men do. Absolutely
I love them in different ways but when it comes to family order, my wife comes first. As for my mom, her husband comes first before anyone so it's simply madness to put her or her marriage ahead of mine. She's enjoyed and still enjoying her life with her man. Na my time to shine. |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Heavance(m): 8:02am On Nov 11, 2021 |
wordapostle:Wow, you really nailed it. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Hathor5(f): 8:03am On Nov 11, 2021 |
Acidosis: In my own family I never felt like anyone comes first or second. I just knew that we have different roles to play. I also knew that our parents would do anything for us, even die for us .... and for each other. |
Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by HEAVEN4444: 8:04am On Nov 11, 2021 |
all these simps. its a good thing that she is devoted to her childern and ignore you. a real man loves that. now you can explore your own mind and do your own things without disturbance. i mean unless your woman has exceptional conversation skills and exceptional personality you are better off if she is spending time with the sheedren. who wants to hear about makeup or bone dry wig or fashion 24 7 ? please dont quote me I am at the buka eating breakfast 5 Likes
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Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Mom007(f): 8:05am On Nov 11, 2021 |
wordapostle:Man, thou art a wise man. 1 Like |
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