Solofresh2:
Lol
Have you seen a fan love or support a football club?
Either win,lose or draw a dedicated fan will always support and find it hard to stop supporting that club even if the club keeps losing
That's a similar way the love of a mother is to her kids

Kobojunkie:
Terrible choice of word. . no they can't.

bepositive11:
Just because you haven't met a woman who loves unconditionally doesn't mean that there aren't any.

You yourself, can you love a woman unconditionally? If you can't, don't bother expecting it

Truvelisback:
There are people who prefer their father to their mother. However, it depends on the relationship the father or mother has towards the children.

Kobojunkie:
I have met very many who I initially thought loved unconditionally, this until upon closer examination, I stumbled on the condition.

You could benefit from exploring this here article

[url=https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/stronger-the-broken-places/202101/the-myth-unconditional-love%3famp] The Myth of Unconditional Love...[/url]

Mercychen:
They are little children. So it's natural for her to care for them more than an adult whos already old enough to take care of himself. So it's not a matter of preference.

Shifting attention to the kids most time is not always a deliberate act by the woman because if you view this from a neutral angle, you'll agree with me that, a child can not be crying either because it's feeling irritated or hungry, while the mother is there caressing the fathers head just to show she cares about him .that would be unreasonable of her. In fact, it's you the husband that will shout at her to go and tend to the baby.

The only thing I think the mothers can do to strike a balance, is by making it up to daddy (at night) when everyone has gone to bed as that is when they can have time alone together. And daddy too should learn to exercise patience till that time.

bepositive11:
Again, if you can't give unconditional love, don't expect it

mission08:


Prefer is not the right word I think. It's just that mothers dote on their kids. It's just natural and it is necessary for their survival especially at infant stage. And again, children in their innocence love unconditionally and merely seeing them can be a solace.

Raising kids can be demanding and most husbands that complain that their wives devout too much time to the kids and none to him is obviously not involved in parenting. It can be very draining dealing with husbands that compete or want to be treated as babies.

ahnie:

I dunno.
In my own case the bond I share with my kids is far more solid and stronger in quantum than the one I share with my husband.

Sometimes sef,I dey even forget say I get husband.

Pls nobody should quote me oh,I have gone to buy paracetamol.

Kobojunkie:
Here's a link you might greatly benefit from exploring [url=https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/stronger-the-broken-places/202101/the-myth-unconditional-love%3famp] The Myth of Unconditional love..... [/url]

librangyps:
I trust the love my children have for me.

kowalsky:

Talmbout equal parenting. After bros goes out to hustle as breadwinner for 'our' money. You'll stay at home with big nyansh on top sofa then wait for him to come and parent equally. No dey disguise aunty

ahnie:

I dunno.
In my own case the bond I share with my kids is far more solid and stronger in quantum than the one I share with my husband.

Sometimes sef,I dey even forget say I get husband.

Pls nobody should quote me oh,I have gone to buy paracetamol.

bepositive11:


True, it depends. The reason I said most people love their mothers more is because men tend to spend less time with their children which means less bonding time

Munzy14:

I swear...

My boss during NYSC made me realised couples have themselves first before their children..

He doesnt eat any food except that of his wife or his mother...His wife doesn't cook for any one else except him...

Their kids are handled by the house-helps till they grow to do their home chores.

But get the necessary love and care from him as a Dad and wife as their mom.

Having sit to gist with him several times then, opened eyes and came in agreement to the love my parents share at home.

My partner first, kids second...Otherwise we do the polygamy thing...It started from bible after all..

Truvelisback:
Aside that,some women are very good at turning the heart of their children against their Fathers.

bepositive11:


If you ask a lot of people, they would tell you that they love their mother more than their father. Maybe you don't feel that way, but a lot of people do.

vickydevoka:

Very true. I think u are talking about my family. I think we respect n love my dad more. Omo him pay school fees home n abroad plus plenty spending. Mama de call everyday to get more attention n love. Lol

Stargurl20:
My children will always come first. Men love these days are so fake, but when my children love me, I'm sure it will be true and unconditional just as I love my mum.

Mofun:


So, how about the bond between husband and wife? What's it classified as?

Mercychen:
They are little children. So it's natural for her to care for them more than an adult whos already old enough to take care of himself. So it's not a matter of preference.

Shifting attention to the kids most time is not always a deliberate act by the woman because if you view this from a neutral angle, you'll agree with me that, a child can not be crying either because it's feeling irritated or hungry, while the mother is there caressing the fathers head just to show she cares about him .that would be unreasonable of her. In fact, it's you the husband that will shout at her to go and tend to the baby.

The only thing I think the mothers can do to strike a balance, is by making it up to daddy (at night) when everyone has gone to bed as that is when they can have time alone together. And daddy too should learn to exercise patience till that time.

Mercychen:


You nkor?

Mofun:
Hello fellow-Nairalanders!
Please is it correct to conclude that most women tend to value their children more than their own husbands (I don't mean 'baby daddies')?
If it's correct then what could be responsible?

Kobojunkie:
It is all psychological in nature and these problems will always be here to stay until people start to openly and more honestly broach them. It is unhealthy for a woman's identity to be wrapped around her being a mother... it is not good for the children, and definitely not the marriage either.