Farfalla:


No vibes? You think it's because you had 'no vibes'? She may have had other reasons for breaking up with you though.
Lol...We introverts like to overthink and over-analyze things but I get you.

I asked her to tell me why before I deleted her pics and contact and block her on WhatsApp.. she got pissed and said goodbye she actually wanted is to be friends after we broke up ..

I just wanted to know why ..

Bolarineliza202:
Between an introverted person or an extroverted person,who will you go for.
What's your reason.

For me I will go for an extrovert,I'm more or less an introvert myself.

Introvert

Extroverts drain my energy

pansophist:
A mixture of both, because I'm a mixture of both. And if you think introverts are introverted, then you actually don't know anything about introverts. Introverts usually are well extroverted to folks they are comfortable with, I mean you'll think they are parrots.

I'm like that. I have really small true friends, not up to five, but if I'm with them, you'll think I'm an extrovert. But if you don't know me, or I do not feel comfortable with you, you'll think I'm even deaf and dumb. I'll be looking like a zombie, but of course, calculating what you're up to.

You just defined me.


To the very few who know him, he's incredibly smart. To many others, he's a quiet zombie.

biddostandard:
should we chat off here

Here isn't bad is it

Vanilla4:
Here isn't bad is it

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geechy:


Pointedly squaredly nailed....
Introvert be like the proverbial sheep that is dragged to the stream but cant be forced to drink. Them go dey follow you and you dey misbehave wen them go strike e go shock u..

I swear down. You know how it goes down. Just 2 weeks ago, one chick thought she's found a maga. I ended it before it could even start, and she couldn't believe it. She couldn't see the red card coming that fast from her newly found gentle friend.

pretydiva:
Being an introvert is not easy

you got it. you hit the hammer on the nail.
most people see it as pride or forming...

Seankhalifa:
ashawovert

Guy u dey craze o. Which one be ashawovert again

Minemrys:

It's obvious you aren't. If she reads people she would see straight into you.

Really? What makes u so sure? Behind a keyboard I could be very loud but not so loud in real life.

studentofTruth:


I swear down. You know how it goes down. Just 2 weeks ago, one chick thought she's found a maga. I ended it before it could even start, and she couldn't believe it. She couldn't see the red card coming that fast from her newly found gentle friend.

This will be like electric shock to her..

Brov, you is a baadd sheep... You even analysed things ahead of her but played her for her good. I'm watching you

CivilzedTyger:
Really? What makes u so sure? Behind a keyboard I could be very loud but not so loud in real life.

Dude, if there's something am good at, it's human psychology. Of course an introvert can be loud on internet but they still do it hiding in their shells. They have a pattern of communication that mirrors their personality no matter how subtle on the internet. So no, you aren't an introvert.

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E get wetin easy for this country. If you are introverted, bus conductor go carry your change go, if you are extroverted, SARs go arrest you.


I swear e no easy oo..E get one day wen I dey come back from work.I dey inside commercial bus,and d driver no get conductor.so everybody go dey gather money give d driver.And na for back seat I sit down.

Naso I pass my money give one woman wey dey my front to give d driver.The driver talk say he Neva get change.Later,d woman dat sat beside me was asking me maybe av collected my change??..I said no coz I no wan dey shout call d driver so dat everybody no go hear me coz I hate attention.
So wen we got to d last bus stop, everybody don come down,naso I go ask d driver my change oo,next tin d driver talk say e don give everybody change say e no dey owe anyone oo.I tell am say e Neva gimme 300 naira change..Naso d driver deny oo..Omo I weak,I no knw wetin I go do.i just waka go.

Since dat time,if driver dey owe me change,I go dey remind him "my change oo".

Minemrys:

Dude, if there's something am good at, it's human psychology. Of course an introvert can be loud on internet but they still do it hiding in their shells. They have a pattern of communication that mirrors their personality no matter how subtle on the internet. So no, you aren't an introvert.

Okay ma. I'm an extrovert. Happy now?

redstaarx:


I asked her to tell me why before I deleted her pics and contact and block her on WhatsApp.. she got pissed and said goodbye she actually wanted us to be friends after we broke up ..

I just wanted to know why ..

You'll never get closure from a coward. Her reasons for breaking up with you could be anything but refrain from even trying to speculate why.

You're a young man I can tell. You'll learn.

Farfalla:

You'll never get closure from a coward. Her reasons for breaking up with you could be anything but refrain from even trying to speculate why.

You're a young man I can tell. You'll learn.

Yeah I'm young and this Is my first experience harsh but I'm up to the task .. thank you

Bolarineliza202:
Between an introverted person or an extroverted person,who will you go for.
What's your reason.

For me I will go for an extrovert,I'm more or less an introvert myself.

Ambivert. ... but like 65% introvert than extrovert

Farfalla:


Introverts have friends. We only have deep and meaningful friendships though, most of which last for a lifetime. Some of our friends are extroverts, some introverted like ourselves.

You have to be worth it though. We sense negative energy very quickly and we'll avoid it by all means necessary. We tend to avoid toxic people (who we can easily detect) and that can be construed to mean we're antisocial and unfriendly.

We can make friends easily but only with people who respect boundaries. Introverts thrive well within their own boundaries. You cross it, you're a goner.

You are one of the very few on this Thread who truly understand what an Introvert is. We are the deep Thinkers, the no-nonsense Type, the Ones that can smell danger from even 10 miles away, and can also put together a 5-year plan within 5 minutes.

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Farfalla:

Chai! See this one making my head swell.

I can't see brain and pass like that na. My conscience will judge me.

Sebastine1994:
I will never date a man that has no friends. He is a dangerous man,

I used to be an introvert until I had a business idea and would need to execute it. Some business ideas need teamwork not Solo, and you would need to convince people. How can I pull this off when I have no friends. I don't socialize, I don't even go to church.

My advice to all introvert is this: Make friends before you need them.

What is the need of having good ideas stored in your head with no way to execute it.

This same shit tore me into pieces during the last quarter of my nysc year.



Had so many ideas which surprisingly got approval from so many people i was open to and opportuned to talk to at the time. But all i got was words of encouragement.

Still hurts sha.

My last relationship was with an extrovert. When we broke up, I made up my mind that I would never date or marry an extrovert again.

It has become a prayer point for me now sef. I would date and marry my fellow introvert. We will understand ourselves

Ruby458:
My last relationship was with an extrovert. When we broke up, I made up my mind that I would never date or marry an extrovert again.

It has become a prayer point for me now sef. I would date and marry my fellow introvert. We will understand ourselves

I think so too. I no longer believe that intro/extro can work, especially if both are strong-willed.

studentofTruth:


I think so too. I no longer believe that intro/extro can work, especially if both are strong-willed.

My dear ehnn, that saying that 'opposites attract' is not for everyone at all. For me, 'like minds attract' biko.

Introvert so we can fucvvk all day when I am home

For me I like introverts because of their reserved nature,they are deep thinkers .

my ex-wife is an extrovert she love attentions a lot always telling me they are just friends till she got married to one of her just friends .

sisisioge:


Oga smartie....the test is on the internet for anyone interested to take. It's not enough that your mind is limited, you mouth had to be nasty? May God help you.

pls can you share the link for the test...will be really grateful, thanks

Bolarineliza202:
Between an introverted person or an extroverted person,who will you go for.
What's your reason.

For me I will go for an extrovert,I'm more or less an introvert myself.

Introvert...they are very sensitive... I'm one so I want one.

sisisioge:
An Ambivert biko....the introverts are quite the hardest to deal with while the extroverts are too much trouble to handle. That balance of the two just makes a lot of sense....they are both crazy and cool....they are just the perfect synergy.

I'm Ambivert by the way....51% introverted and 49% extroverted . The 50-50 will be bliss!

On what scale did you use to measure these things and arrive at that number? I'll really love to know

An ambivert like myself.

I fear introverts, you can't predict them or know their inner thoughts. An extrovert comes with too much wahala, they're all over the place.

So an ambivert it is.

WELLINGTON01:



pls can you share the link for the test...will be really grateful, thanks

Cant remember which particular site I used....just type "personality tests " on google search to make your choice. Good luck.

Omoo.. this introverted matter don affect me so much,, no be small thing sometimes I wished am not one but I like it anyway.

am here to learn