₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
Is there really a right or wrong motive/ reason as far as the union is concerned?

So long as two people agree to said contract, whose business is it what there motive as a couple is? Is no crime is committed and they don't pose a nuisance to society, which one be your concern, @OP?

franchasng:
Most Nigerian guys marry for procreation (bearing kids), having a homekeeper, some marry for relocation (visa/PR), financial support (they target mostly working class ladies, other qualities of the lady don't matter to them, just have a good job he's ready to wed u lol).



Some marry for political gains (example Indimi son that married Buhari daughter). This is more rampant among Northern guys born into rich families.


Some marry to appease their parents and to reduce family pressure.



But most broke uneducated Nigerian guys marry for sex lol

rita25:
i wish i had married for money cos i thought i was in love but na scam i have seen shege walahi

Chuky7:
My fellow what drove you to go into the union of two is one. many reasons I can guess. some pressure. most pregnancy fear of wedlock. or was it true love or love of money the need for a financial umbrella over your head.

So what was your motive or drive.

franchasng:
Are you sure you are his legal wife?


From what you first wrote, seems he doesn't have enough cash to go round.


Get belle, once you born, his monetary attitude would change cos every Nigerian man don't joke with the welfare of their children

toujurs:
You be mumu, Are you allergic to making your own money

franchasng:
Lol, why did you ask?

Iyaebe:
lol just asking,just asking sha.

Incandescent:
Bla bla bla.

You know all this and yet you are still not married

Amuluonyenaego:
She has all I wanted in a woman

rita25:
i have kids money is not the issue,its the way he was raised to see women as 2nd class citizens.for walfare of his kids omo na lie oh he cant care less.

franchasng:
Most Nigerian guys marry for procreation (bearing kids), having a homekeeper, some marry for relocation (visa/PR), financial support (they target mostly working class ladies, other qualities of the lady don't matter to them, just have a good job he's ready to wed u lol).

Some marry for political gains (example Indimi son that married Buhari daughter). This is more rampant among Northern guys born into rich families.

Some marry to appease their parents and to reduce family pressure.

But most broke uneducated Nigerian guys marry for sex lol

Roddyricch1:
Lmao
What is wrong with you people on this forum? ��

Chuky7:
My fellow what drove you to go into the union of two is one. many reasons I can guess. some pressure. most pregnancy fear of wedlock. or was it true love or love of money the need for a financial umbrella over your head.

So what was your motive or drive.

Randgist:
You are right but what if.

After getting all the wealth then marry and at some point you lose all wealth?

Iyaebe:
Even you that konji is attached to your Monika is typing shit,embrace the bitter truth and accept the fact that all men marry most because of free access to sex and kids as the case may be.

Noshitboi:
I married because i wanted to feel like what it is to be married and now I want to divorce because I want to understand what divorce is like

franchasng:
it is well.


You ought to have seen the sign during courtship

rita25:
HE IS NOT AN NFA , JUST A VERY SELFCENTERD PERSON WHO PUTS EVERYONE FIRST BEFORE ME.AND HAS REFUSED TO ACCEPT THE DIFFERENCE BTWN NUCLEAR AND EXTENDED FAMILY

Kirkman:
Ah! Na wahala you enter so madam.

BuddhaPalm:
What's her number?

Klass99:
What was the test?



Lol, sorry o!

rita25:
big time ONE CHANCE but i have learnt to live with my life choice