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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Notyourtype: 2:13pm On Nov 11, 2021
Ninety6:
When they say don't start wat u can't finish u no go hear, come closer lemme whisper inside ur ear oboy u see dat girl? na winch o, yes! she dey catch cruise before doing the needfull to your coconut of a head
guy take am easy na.. You wan threatening the guy?

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Nicklaus619(m): 2:36pm On Nov 11, 2021
Op u are the President of simping association of Nigeria

What's your reason promising her marriage when u know u ain't gon marry her, are you okay in the head angry

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Mrsimini(m): 2:50pm On Nov 11, 2021
Iyaebe:
She doesn't need to curse you sef before the curse reign supreme in your life,you can't marry her but she's good enough for sex.Anyways I don't blame you,I blame the girl who was doing wifely duties with you for three years without any reasonable step forward in the relationship, it serves her right and next time she will padlock her private part and only give the key to the serious and rightful person
U talk as if u no dey f*ck. But the op na wicked person sha. Me no fit do such because I get conscience

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Qatar2022: 3:07pm On Nov 11, 2021
Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.
Use withdraw tactics on her , stop picking her call , don't reply her messages . If she ask just tell her you are busy, do it up to three months she will go by herself

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Qatar2022: 3:09pm On Nov 11, 2021
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Iyaebe:
She doesn't need to curse you sef before the curse reign supreme in your life,you can't marry her but she's good enough for sex.Anyways I don't blame you,I blame the girl who was doing wifely duties with you for three years without any reasonable step forward in the relationship, it serves her right and next time she will padlock her private part and only give the key to the serious and rightful person
See them useless Nigeria girls that think every relationship ends with marriage, please grow up. No curse will work on him , it's not today we hear those word from biitch like you people

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Qatar2022: 3:12pm On Nov 11, 2021
ahnie:
Later in the future when your Peru starts para-ring now I hope you won't blame anybody.

See how you have successfully turned someones daughter to edible caterer for 3 yrs.

Must every relationship end in marriage? Jezz what is matter with you guys sense of reasoning

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Qatar2022: 3:13pm On Nov 11, 2021
Mylordmygod1:
You people should'nt blame me, its not a must that all relationship leads to marriage. All i need is how i can end the relationship before it is too late.
Don't listen to any nairaland biitch they always talk nonsense and they believed their stupid curse works

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Mvena(f): 3:23pm On Nov 11, 2021
Una don come again abi

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by TriCee: 3:24pm On Nov 11, 2021
Lol, traps kwa? Just end it if you want to. No dey stress person daughter abeg.

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Mvena(f): 3:25pm On Nov 11, 2021
TriCee:
Lol, traps kwa? Just end it if you want to. No dey stress person daughter abeg.
Leave the hunter abeg

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by merits(m): 3:25pm On Nov 11, 2021
tell her you want to use her for ritual grin,na she go run by herself.

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Mvena(f): 3:25pm On Nov 11, 2021
Qatar2022:

Use withdraw tactics on her , stop picking her call , don't reply her messages . If she ask just tell her you are busy, do it up to three months she will go by herself
Agbawo 1

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Kobicove(m): 3:26pm On Nov 11, 2021
You are actually a very wicked person for misleading her for 3 years.

You don jam block angry

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Mvena(f): 3:26pm On Nov 11, 2021
merits:
tell her you want to use her for ritual grin,na she go run by herself.
Broda man be calming down oo

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Bola146(f): 3:26pm On Nov 11, 2021
Radionigeria:
you are just looking for my trouble this afternoon.. But i won't give u the chance..

Trouble ke
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by CountVersailles(f): 3:26pm On Nov 11, 2021
Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.
grin grin grin grin

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by izzy4shizzy(m): 3:27pm On Nov 11, 2021
You never gave any reason to why you can't marry her...
Dating for three years? But don't see a wife in her?

I hope you are not the type that keep saying 'i don't love my wife' but the wife keeps getting pregnant

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by iceybux(m): 3:27pm On Nov 11, 2021
Mylordmygod1:
You people should'nt blame me, its not a must that all relationship leads to marriage. All i need is how i can end the relationship before it is too late.

Yes every relationship must not end in marriage.. that’s the major issue with naija girls.. bcus u guys had sex they feel it’s entitlement to marriage rights.. babe we bleeped each other... it works fine if it doesn’t life goes on.. gbam

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by TriCee: 3:28pm On Nov 11, 2021
Mvena:

Leave the hunter abeg
hunter? Lol grin
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by GboyegaD(m): 3:28pm On Nov 11, 2021
Please tell her and let her go. It is unfair that you wasted three years of her life when you knew from the onset you were not interested. You are wicked and I will advice you admit it so that she can feel the pain and at same time be happy she is dodging a bullet.

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by PointZerom: 3:28pm On Nov 11, 2021
Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.
First of all, what do you dislike about her?
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Komu1048(m): 3:28pm On Nov 11, 2021
Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.


Oga that kain girl dey hard to breakup with, esp when she is in her 30’s

Oga i Dey ur shoe, only that mine hav taken a further step n we will marry soon

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Darlingme(f): 3:28pm On Nov 11, 2021
@op, you're not a good person at all. How can you keep a lady you know right from the start, you can't marry for 3yrs.

You want us to teach you how to break up with her. Right?

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by powerblaze(m): 3:29pm On Nov 11, 2021
You wicked pass devil. After you don chop belleful, u dey find way to discharge the babe..

Na so boys go take use your children play gamble.
Nonsense

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by 007lss: 3:29pm On Nov 11, 2021
Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.
my question now is that are you doing to return all her time you waste and and the sex she gave you always.

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by MPESA(m): 3:29pm On Nov 11, 2021
Mylordmygod1:
You people should'nt blame me, its not a must that all relationship leads to marriage. All i need is how i can end the relationship before it is too late.

It's not a must but why decieving her in the name of marriage. You WASTED her 3 years baba anything you see you take am .

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by cooltola(m): 3:29pm On Nov 11, 2021
It is all good to be single, until you start getting old. It is all good to be single until you start hitting age 45 and you start releasing that you are not getting younger. It is all good to be single until you see your friends kids becoming teenagers and all the potential women your age are married or with kids . It is all good to be single until the women available are 15 years younger than you , and do not want to marry an old man with no money. Please marry if you can - do not wait to be very old. If you find a potential woman who is making sense , then marry her. Do not wait to be too old and realize the woman that you suppose to marry is marrying another guy. Please if you marry the right woman, then you will realize you made the right choice. Marriage is not scam if you marry right

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by realray(m): 3:29pm On Nov 11, 2021
honestly ur not a good person because u cosed it all how can you promise her that u will marry her but at the end u don't intend to marry her why not come out openly and tell her that instead of you trying to set her up which is not good even God will not be happy with you because of ur bad motive of setting her up then put the blame on her which is not good so my brother tell her openly....

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by 1Sharon(f): 3:30pm On Nov 11, 2021
Kalapizim:
Similar case with me now, I am trying to break up with this woman because I don't see us going further.

We don't share the same views or even dreams and she is not mature enough.
I have tried everything possible to avoid getting intimate with her and even broken up once but she came back stronger.

I am thinking of how to make extra money but she is there disturbing me with why didn't you eat this morning type of questions.

None of that was relevant when you slept with her, was it?

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by silvoclaira: 3:30pm On Nov 11, 2021
Kalapizim:
Similar case with me now, I am trying to break up with this woman because I don't see us going further.

We don't share the same views or even dreams and she is not mature enough.
I have tried everything possible to avoid getting intimate with her and even broken up once but she came back stronger.

I am thinking of how to make extra money but she is there disturbing me with why didn't you eat this morning type of questions.
be calm
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by BareFacedLies(m): 3:30pm On Nov 11, 2021
You Don fùck finish now you wanna run.

Who do you want to leave the left over for? angry

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