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Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by iamtardey: 6:47pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
why the fvk? ![]() |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by Pimine: 6:48pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Aswearugaaad White wedding na oyibo man traditional wedding. Make Africans try dey get sense abeg. Trad na the main marriage gan gan. Anything else na extracurricular activity. 5 Likes |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by kalemy(m): 6:48pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Why do people like wasting money unnecessarily? You have done traditional wedding and you still want to do church wedding.. Na wa o! 4 Likes |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by Nobody: 6:48pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Depend on the lady, but maybe she should understand or maybe you and her can contribute and do a little blessed wedding in church 1 Like |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by mercy87(f): 6:48pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
yuping: God bless you. Religion no go kee Africa. 5 Likes |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by Tallesty1(m): 6:48pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Iyaebe:White wedding is a white man's traditional marriage. 5 Likes |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by socialmediaman: 6:48pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by Didi0808(m): 6:50pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Iyaebe: This mentality is very low. The only recognized wedding even in the Bible is traditional wedding and maybe court wedding because humans have evolved. Church wedding is the white man’s traditional wedding but Africans out of ignorance embraced it over time it became a Norm. Go and study your Bible you will know better 8 Likes |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by Pimine: 6:51pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Iyaebe:Aswearugaaad Na only church God dey? Your Bible nor tell you say God na Omnipresent àbí? He's everywhere and your parents are his representatives that day to give you his blessings. That prayer wey your papa and mama give you that day na him God answer. 7 Likes |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by deewhydoski(m): 6:51pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Bola146:My sister na u dey talk sense jare. That thing wey iyaebe dey talk no follow |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by Mayour11(m): 6:52pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Ok |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by femi4: 6:52pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
BabaIbo:It's not biblical, the scripture only recognize traditional wedding. Church wedding is oyibo's idea. Jesus turned water to wine at a traditional wedding 3 Likes |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by Hungerbadoo: 6:53pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Intending brides will you stay with your parents after traditional marriage without church wedding? |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by Ebelelivinston: 6:53pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
In this present Nigeria situation and I manage to pay for ur traditional marriage and u still wants to stay at home, singleness never tire u |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by Guyman02: 6:54pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
All that Catholic church require for wedding is 2 witnesses called "sponsors" and the marriage is done and you go home with your wife, but people want to host big party which the church have no hand in it 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by Didi0808(m): 6:54pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
White wedding is the white man’s traditional wedding. Africans just want to copy thing the white man does without having any knowledge of what it means. Traditional wedding is the only recognized wedding even in the Bible.... Spending all that money the name of church wedding is mental slavery 3 Likes |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by mirrakk(m): 6:54pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Iyaebe: And the vow and prayer during the TRAD is useless abi. My wedding is next week and am going for jst the TRAD and REGISTRY, after which we do the normal reception. 3 Likes |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by somehow: 6:55pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Iyaebe: You mean before your pastor? 2 Likes |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by adonis89(m): 6:56pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
What sort of no sense talk is this |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by annyz: 6:56pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Bola146: Which court wedding ![]() |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by pickatyoubackup: 6:57pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Traditional marriage is the main thing now. Church wedding na white man trad. 2 Likes |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by frankflix: 6:57pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Once you pay the Bride price and have her parents Blessings she is Your lawful Wife. Church wedding is a borrow Culture. I don't know why Africans are so Naive Iyaebe: 1 Like |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by Sotland: 6:57pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Is this biblical? Give me a quote in the scripture where it was said that you must do church wedding. Tell me where God or any prophet of the old kicked against it.. Does it means God did not acknowledge the traditional marriage and hence it is not blessed? Upon Whose name do they call or pray unto during traditional marriage? If you choose not to do the white wedding and start making babies, does it mean the couples are into the art of fornication? Enlighten me please. Righteousness2: 3 Likes |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by Hungerbadoo: 6:59pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Iyaebe:Are you married, were you married traditionally and wedded in church? As if na only men the find ticket to free sex. Legend has it that majority of women are also looking for ticket to big gbola. 1 Like |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by xynerise: 6:59pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Righteousness2: So traditional wedding is of the devil? Oga you are ignorant in this one. Jesus attended a traditional wedding at Cana. Stop copying white man traditional wedding 5 Likes |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by pickatyoubackup: 6:59pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Iyaebe: Says ur pastor. Becos church wedding no dey biblical. God honours any marriage union that both parents have blessed. Church wedding na white man trad. 2 Likes |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by gabicon: 6:59pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
BabaIbo: The main marriage is when both families agree to unite by joining their children which is the traditional wedding. The white wedding is a western tradition that we adopted. Traditions can be very potent when we make them the core of any concept. The potency of a tradition is what strengthens ones resolve to prioritize a particular kind of wedding. The church claim that marriage instituted in it shows some form of partnership with God in the marriage, but in biblical days no marriage was instituted in the temple, they were more of a family affair. Everyone is free to practice their paradigm, no need to invalidate someone else conscience because of superior knowledge. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by demolagilbert: 6:59pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Righteousness2:false! A good number of our parents did only trad. To say their marriages aren't complete is utterly illogical. Kindly point out where in the bible where it is stated that a couple must be wedded in the presence of the 'body of Christ'. Cos the bible I read, parents choices of spouse, and where parent's didn't make a choice, parent blessing and go-ahead were well documented as paramount. I can back up my points with the same bible, can you? |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by ogascomax: 7:00pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
As a Christian after your traditional marriage it is important that you do the church aspect of it. Since you are a Christian it is important that the church blessing rest upon your marriage. Note before; I am not concerned about those ceremony that involve spending. Do your traditional marriage, take your ring to your church, let the pastor or Rev bless both of you and go home. No be by force to pay for hall and cook food. That is where people are getting Church marriage wrong. They only equate Church marriage to spending by doing all those things. If you have money for gown, wear your gone and the main his suit then go and bless your union and it ends there. 2 Likes |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by Mko123(m): 7:01pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
[s] Righteousness2:[/s] Guy, why this? I've respected you enough on this forum but this your write up get as e be. Which one is complete marriage? Does it have biblical backup? I'm ready to answer any questions from you if you are in for it, remember that you're not the only bible scholar on this forum 1 Like |
Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by demolagilbert: 7:02pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
I did all three, but make no mistake, once you have done trad, the woman becomes your wife through and through, as backed by the bible. Dunno about what the Koran says 1 Like |
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