SmileDance:
Because husband is not a blood relative
Because children won't divorce them




Nobody should quote me o I have not eaten

Munzy14:

Yes...I smiled at his submission.

Nwunye ya mere understand the assignment of being a wife first, and a mother..

Agwa nwaanyi kpasoro di ya, ga eme nwoke noro na oru, ya na eche mgbe 4pm kuru, ka ya gbara lawa n'ulo ga noro with family..Nwaanyi wuru oku in excess, nwoke gbasa oru by 4pm, ya lota by 7pm.. .

Women should know they were created specially as a natural binder for the home..It is not easy, but worth it with dedication to it.

Men will always be boys ones in a while...But at very little age, a woman is already acting like a mother as they are naturally care givers.

A woman must strike a balance for a time with hubby and kids as well..

Men should also involve in parenting as well to reduce burden and make it easier...For enough time....My Dad participated fully when we weree growing up..Will I even forget he was our first teacher for ABCD, 123, words identification and alot...

My mom, was buying us those short novels to keep us busy during long vacation..

Oooh those days were fun...Talk about when it is time for flogging, okwa mpa m buru utali, mma m e buru ke ya...Onye pia, onye a pia..You won't even know where to run to when husband and wife team up dey discipline us..


Children learn fast at that tender age...They girls will learn how their mom treat their Dad, the sons learn how their Dad treats his wife....It is as simple as that.

Sometimes, when i see or read domestic violence, it is so alien to me...Because I never witnessed such growing up...I find it awkward to believe a man will be beating his wife...smh..

Couples must put themselves first...The statement someone made, she doesn't know if she has a husband is strange..

Na dem go make extremely entitled MIL...

To them, hubby is like one chair in the house..Who is a husband only when it comes to financial expenses or copulation just for child bearing....

FreelanceRebel:


The bond is Just like the NYSC certificate, you know how tough, rough and hard the struggle was to get it.

bepositive11:


True, it depends. The reason I said most people love their mothers more is because men tend to spend less time with their children which means less bonding time

Munzy14:

Man wasn't created to be alone..That companion stuff, nature must fill the vacuum..

If he can't get from his wife, someone else will and is very ready to explore with him..


And ones he is getting a maximum, he doesn't care about the one who relegated him....This things work naturally....and very common with the most calm and extra loving husbands.

Harrynight:



This hardly happens, but women prefering their children to their husbands is very common

Mariangeles:


Munzy14, I guru edemede a?
A case study of ihe anyi n'ekwu okwu ya.

Kobojunkie:
It's not natural even though many like to pretend it is so they can continue to live in denial. It is a psychological problem and a sign of fracture in the marriage relationship.

femi4:
covalent bond

TheMostComplex1:


Good husband please continue to assist your family. At old age your children will also be close to you

ISelectMySins:
You're misunderstanding what I mean by a woman's biological role. By biological roles, I mean her ability to get pregnant and bear children. She really doesn't have to do anything to achieve that. However, I would admit that just because she is able to carry out the roles of conception doesn't mean she wants to do the extras or even love the baby she bears. They are two different things.

mashad:
Am sure you cannot confidently say that except here on nairaland. Maybe I need to tell you that there is no complete marriage anywhere. A fracture or loose end always exist somewhere.

Simran94:

Good question, now just watch out for her answer

Funflipper:
I am totally honest about this. I love my kids more than my wife and it is an open secret.

Munzy14:

Yes...I smiled at his submission.

Nwunye ya mere understand the assignment of being a wife first, and a mother..

Agwa nwaanyi kpasoro di ya, ga eme nwoke noro na oru, ya na eche mgbe 4pm kuru, ka ya gbara lawa n'ulo ga noro with family..Nwaanyi wuru oku in excess, nwoke gbasa oru by 4pm, ya lota by 7pm.. .

Women should know they were created specially as a natural binder for the home..It is not easy, but worth it with dedication to it.

Men will always be boys ones in a while...But at very little age, a woman is already acting like a mother as they are naturally care givers.

A woman must strike a balance for a time with hubby and kids as well..

Men should also involve in parenting as well to reduce burden and make it easier...For enough time....My Dad participated fully when we weree growing up..Will I even forget he was our first teacher for ABCD, 123, words identification and alot...

My mom, was buying us those short novels to keep us busy during long vacation..

Oooh those days were fun...Talk about when it is time for flogging, okwa mpa m buru utali, mma m e buru ke ya...Onye pia, onye a pia..You won't even know where to run to when husband and wife team up dey discipline us..


Children learn fast at that tender age...They girls will learn how their mom treat their Dad, the sons learn how their Dad treats his wife....It is as simple as that.

Sometimes, when i see or read domestic violence, it is so alien to me...Because I never witnessed such growing up...I find it awkward to believe a man will be beating his wife...smh..

Couples must put themselves first...The statement someone made, she doesn't know if she has a husband is strange..

Na dem go make extremely entitled MIL...

To them, hubby is like one chair in the house..Who is a husband only when it comes to financial expenses or copulation just for child bearing....

Origin:
Because husbands have fallen short of the glory of God.

ahnie:
It's Annie 5 faces

Kobojunkie:
But it is not a healthy marriage that you have there and I bet your wife is not happy that you prefer the kids over her in her own marriage.

vickydevoka:

oga men do dis days o. my neighbor told his wife that ,he is no hustling for u o, that he is hustling for his kids . they reason y he is still in de marriage is bcus of the kids. the lady got angry n started fighting him always. that is how we got to know about it when we came for separation . marriage no be anybody mate. both parties can love their kids more.

Mofun:
This thread has turned out to be a highly educative one, with many facts unveiled and different schools of thought articulated. It's so interesting! Kindly take a moment to check out this thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/6679289/more-theilda-concepts

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Kobojunkie:
Here's a link you might greatly benefit from exploring [url=https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/stronger-the-broken-places/202101/the-myth-unconditional-love%3famp] The Myth of Unconditional love..... [/url]

Obarofrederick:
You seemed versed in Spirituality and Philosophy KoboJunkie... Have you been reading books?

Kobojunkie:
And I am saying it is not possible for humans to unconditionally love another human.

bepositive11:
Love is unconditional. It's making a commitment that is conditional

If your love has conditions, it's not love at all

Kobojunkie:
Again, there is no such thing as unconditional love.

vickydevoka:

lies. most people don't have father.

Truvelisback:
Aside that,some women are very good at turning the heart of their children against their Fathers.