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Cee0nne:
I read series of comments under this post already and I found most of them senseless.
Comments like, "girls below so so age aren't this, aren't that," ,"be ready for so-so" blah blah..all these are trash..
Age doesn't determine how how intelligent,decent and experienced a girl is,OP,you don't have to come here to seek advice from people with failed relationships and broken heart here,cuz most people on this forum are broken hearted already,and that has changed their mentality that all Nigerian girls are useless,not worthy or wareva..
Decide for yourself,if the girl really worth it,GO for her..
Me writing this is an 18 years old girl dating a 30 year old boy,and I never intend to break his heart or hurt him..we both love each other,I can't leave him and I trust he loves me so much also,so please keep your relationship decisions off this forum...most people on this forum are bittered

Vinnie2000:
If She is Mature in reasoning and conduct, Go Ahead!
But If She is the regular 19 year old Nigerian Girl who is obsessed with Selfies, Instagram, Tiktok, Fashion trends, Omah Lay, Fireboy,etc, You better Wise ur brain!

ersonleads:
I'm presently working with a reputable company. I met a girl I really flow with. She's matured & understanding. She's in her 400level in school & I said within myself never to let her pass me by. We've come to a compromise that she should finish before I take her to the alter. Want to do so when She's 22yrs of age. I'm 11yrs older than her.

Please I need your Advice if I'm doing the right thing?

ifinger:
After nysc she go drop ur az

slickycee:
So you guys are going to wait for 3 years !!!!!!

OP if you feel you can wait till then to marry , that's on you


But it's always better to do what needs to be done As soon as possible.

In the next 3 years you dont know how things would be

She might fall in love with someone else

You might not even have that job again (God forbid )

She may get belle for another man before then,
Like 1 million and one nonsense can happen.


See ehn all these young girls still believe in Hollywood love, and these ladies make decisions based on emotions , so you can't trust a woman's advice especially when it's tied with emotions.

OP na express you dey go o


Change is constant !!!! It's the only thing we are sure of .

I'm sure the lady hasn't tasted freedom a bit , very soon she would want to explore !!
Her hoe phase is still coming

OP think this thing well, if you want to get married asap , find a woman that's ready !!!!

You can't take a girl's word seriously !!!
They keep saying different things.


My advice, tell her you can't promise to wait till she's 22, but for now let's see how things are going

Keep your options open
That girl never see anything, once her eye tear you may not even like her person again



OP na your life o, put yourself first !!.
Lead a woman, she can't lead you o

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram better 4 u bcus I don see many guys wey de sponsor girls 4 school, thinking sey Dem go marry d girl after her studies but my broda man, d story no de end well. e get one wey sponsor girl finish reach NYSC d girl come tell am sey em no go fit marry am, sey she don see anoda guy and make d guy calculate how much wey em don spend so dat em new guy go pay.. I swear down. naso dis man travel. in d next 2week dat girl run mad. her own madness was kind of different bcus she no enter market, her brain no just correct again. and boys 4 my street come de Nack her up n down.. I was sitting down rolling my WEED wen some group of bois carried her to go and Nack her. she was just useless. WTF MAN

cooooooks:
13 years no be beans.

love don't care

Mleeperbother:
Guy, marry your mate. You dey find person to control.
11 yrs gap, WTF!
There are no qualities she possesses that cannot be found in a girl of 25+ years.

ersonleads:
I'm presently working with a reputable company. I met a girl I really flow with. She's matured & understanding. She's in her 400level in school & I said within myself never to let her pass me by. We've come to a compromise that she should finish before I take her to the alter. Want to do so when She's 22yrs of age. I'm 11yrs older than her.

Please I need your Advice if I'm doing the right thing?

Manshot1:
Ohh,How I love young pussies. Anything above 25 is old to me

Young pussies are the best mehn

Vinnie2000:
If She is Mature in reasoning and conduct, Go Ahead!
But If She is the regular 19 year old Nigerian Girl who is obsessed with Selfies, Instagram, Tiktok, Fashion trends, Omah Lay, Fireboy,etc, You better Wise ur brain!

Parizz:
i've got cocaine if you want

Favfables1:
How is it wrong??
They're both adults who have made a decision to be together, are they not??

Abudu2000:
okay o but hope she is not one of those with mickey mouse phone casing and always playing joeboy with the other one that sang love wantiti, if she also do tiktok and argues about starboy you have better run for ur life

ersonleads:
I'm presently working with a reputable company. I met a girl I really flow with. She's matured & understanding. She's in her 400level in school & I said within myself never to let her pass me by. We've come to a compromise that she should finish before I take her to the alter. Want to do so when She's 22yrs of age. I'm 11yrs older than her.

Please I need your Advice if I'm doing the right thing?

Brunicekid:
Age discriminator spotted... Age is just a number... So, over 23 will not drain your energy?

ersonleads:
I'm presently working with a reputable company. I met a girl I really flow with. She's matured & understanding. She's in her 400level in school & I said within myself never to let her pass me by. We've come to a compromise that she should finish before I take her to the alter. Want to do so when She's 22yrs of age. I'm 11yrs older than her.

Please I need your Advice if I'm doing the right thing?

Cee0nne:
I read series of comments under this post already and I found most of them senseless.
Comments like, "girls below so so age aren't this, aren't that," ,"be ready for so-so" blah blah..all these are trash..
Age doesn't determine how how intelligent,decent and experienced a girl is,OP,you don't have to come here to seek advice from people with failed relationships and broken heart here,cuz most people on this forum are broken hearted already,and that has changed their mentality that all Nigerian girls are useless,not worthy or wareva..
Decide for yourself,if the girl really worth it,GO for her..
Me writing this is an 18 years old girl dating a 30 year old boy,and I never intend to break his heart or hurt him..we both love each other,I can't leave him and I trust he loves me so much also,so please keep your relationship decisions off this forum...most people on this forum are bittered

ersonleads:
I'm presently working with a reputable company. I met a girl I really flow with. She's matured & understanding. She's in her 400level in school & I said within myself never to let her pass me by. We've come to a compromise that she should finish before I take her to the alter. Want to do so when She's 22yrs of age. I'm 11yrs older than her.

Please I need your Advice if I'm doing the right thing?

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram if u sponsor her schooling, na thunder go fire u. WTF MAN

thesicilian:
See an ophthalmologist.

Goldencheese:
One of the ways to know that she loves you, get to know her parents or siblings and feel the vibes they show towards you. If they are warm towards you, then make your intentions known to the mother first or the father whoever you think calls the shot. Some mothers call the shot in a home; so know who runs the parade. But start with the mother. Emotionalise your feelings for her daughter. Mothers feel emotions and words have power over them; This can get you a forever acceptance by her. But it could also go the wrong way if she decides to exploit it, God forbid, that is if she's materialistic. Also be close to her siblings; start with the one or ones they feel is difficult and start penetrating them little by little. It's a tough call, I know. But this is the way to show that you're responsible and are willing and ready to take their daughter to the altar. If you just know the daughter but the family doesn't know you, somebody else can show up before you and take her.

Life is a competition. I was living in a fool's paradise not recognising this. If you indeed love her, some efforts have to be exerted to win her family over to you.

All the best.

ersonleads:
I'm presently working with a reputable company. I met a girl I really flow with. She's matured & understanding. She's in her 400level in school & I said within myself never to let her pass me by. We've come to a compromise that she should finish before I take her to the alter. Want to do so when She's 22yrs of age. I'm 11yrs older than her.

Please I need your Advice if I'm doing the right thing?

ersonleads:
No ooo, she's Godly & have a post in her fellowship & also matured.

ersonleads:
I'm presently working with a reputable company. I met a girl I really flow with. She's matured & understanding. She's in her 400level in school & I said within myself never to let her pass me by. We've come to a compromise that she should finish before I take her to the alter. Want to do so when She's 22yrs of age. I'm 11yrs older than her.

Please I need your Advice if I'm doing the right thing?

APCNig:
Nonsense, this one na mumu.

Godly and has a post in her fellowship. Now I see why you are running after the underaged bitch. It will end in tears for you. The same girls doing runs now have positions in fellowship, they have known that clowns like you prefer to meet Oloshos in the Chirch.

arleck:
Dwag! You should be ashamed of you.... There are a lot ladies you could go for age range 25,24,26 & even 27 or 28..... You 30 already man..... F**k you man!!!!! You f****cking doing the wrong thing