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Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by testimony1089(m): 9:25am On Nov 15, 2021 |
Pls be very careful with this kind of love, I was in this kinda of mess and got out not long ago. I was advised against it but believed in the love we shared and what I thought she was. But believe me everything I was advised against came to past. Bro never have anything serious with a girl still in school and age below 23 when u are thinking of settling down. To be on safer side, find someone ripe enough as ur contingency plan but don't leave her... 7 Likes |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by ogwuche4u(m): 9:25am On Nov 15, 2021 |
ersonleads: Ogbeni is not by that o. Pastor daughter dey carry belle too. Don't let that cloud your judgement. Do your due diligence. The age margin is too wide. Becareful. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by tixo: 9:25am On Nov 15, 2021 |
Vinnie2000: Wow, You nailed it tight! � 1 Like |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by Jeon(f): 9:25am On Nov 15, 2021 |
ersonleads: Until you crush the pussy, then you will dump her after the favor is no more. 1 Like
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Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by Goldencheese(m): 9:26am On Nov 15, 2021 |
alimaxion: You're welcome. |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by blackboy(m): 9:27am On Nov 15, 2021 |
Guy, fear women and also fear men. She can change her mind and so could you. I know someone in a similar situation like you many years. She went to serve and was the one after service who told the guy lets get married. The guy worked on himself all through the relationship and so did the girl. Do your part . If you cannot marry her or trust her then who you go come trust or marry. To marry or find wife no easy even to marry or find good husband no easy. This na another job even after marriage work has increased and raise the bar. All the best. |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by Emeskhalifa(m): 9:28am On Nov 15, 2021 |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by womenareapess: 9:30am On Nov 15, 2021 |
Goldencheese:life is a competition for sure but as a man you should never be in a competitions to acquire those apes rather let those apes do the competition to get you! not you on the other hand Leave competition for simp As a man you are 10times more valuable than a woman, so why race to get a liability? Any man who is in competition to get those baboons is less than a man 4 Likes |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by shantti(m): 9:31am On Nov 15, 2021 |
Vinnie2000: you forgot to add kenyamatta 1 Like |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by muheeb01(m): 9:32am On Nov 15, 2021 |
There's no big deal,age doesn't determine maturity,wisdom and understanding most times,If she's absolutely loyal wife her,age is just a number oo 1 Like |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by joyandfaith: 9:32am On Nov 15, 2021 |
ersonleads: Have you met her people? If they welcome you, you can marry her as undergraduate. I am 5 years older than my wife but i wish I am 10 years older. If i have to do it again, i would go for a woman 10 years younger. Women respect their fathers than their elder brothers. Connect the dot. 7 Likes |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by isax(m): 9:33am On Nov 15, 2021 |
bros calm down nor go oooo.... she might sound matured from conversation about things, but marriage life is totally different from singles life. Now y'all might be seeing once in a while or talking once in a while, but soon e go tire one person, she's in a different generation from you, so her thought pattern would be. Very rare breeds would stand out when it comes to the understanding these I've mentioned. But if e dey your mind and its your top priority carry go... Las las na you go live with her . Meanwhile, live your life to the fullest not trying to please man. 4 Likes |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by revived: 9:33am On Nov 15, 2021 |
ersonleads: Alaye shut up and listen If the baby girl disappoint you now nah here you go rush come 1 Like |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by Jeon(f): 9:34am On Nov 15, 2021 |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by meobizy(f): 9:37am On Nov 15, 2021 |
What is the problem here? She’s an adult and you are an adult. Carry on. If the relationship fails then so be it. Nothing is a full guarantee in life. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by Nobody: 9:38am On Nov 15, 2021 |
ersonleads:my boyfriend then was 13 years older and thought I was too young for him. Years later, he's still looking for someone like me. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by Goldencheese(m): 9:39am On Nov 15, 2021 |
womenareapess: The real niggas; the real alphas don't always shout it like you guys do here. There's nothing wrong going for and fighting for the woman you love. It is not the same as being a simp like Will Smith. I kinda like the rhythm: simp and Smith. True alphas don't beat or fight women; they beat men to death. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by Jeon(f): 9:39am On Nov 15, 2021 |
Lollittaa: Hi |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by DeMekus: 9:40am On Nov 15, 2021 |
To save yourself a heartache just avoid anything under 23. They're liabilities. 4 Likes |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by Angrymode: 9:42am On Nov 15, 2021 |
My advice for you is to really get acquainted with the lifestyle and likes of her generation and patiently introduce her to the lifestyle and likes of your generation so that both of you can compromise with knowledge in order to flow well with each other. Bridge the decade gap and you guys are good to go. Goodluck! 4 Likes |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by nick50(m): 9:42am On Nov 15, 2021 |
Hope u are not her poverty alleviation programme manager cos I wouldn't want to see u post about how she dumped ur ass on this honourable forum 5 Likes |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by DissTroy(m): 9:43am On Nov 15, 2021 |
ersonleads: She's a church girl? This is where you got it wrong. Overly churchy girls are some of the most hypocritical females on earth. She'd get banged all day and go for choir practice with no remorse. She'd post bible portions all day on Facebook and Twitter while she's multiple dating in her inbox. Here's how you begin to know who you are with: Do you have access to each other's phones' passwords? Can she comfortably leave her phone unlocked with you for hours unsupervised? Does she pick all her incoming calls when she's with you and speaks freely If you can't confidently reply "yes" to all of these questions, then, dude, you are fooling yourself and being played. Can you take her WhatsApp to search these keywords: "dîck", " penîs", "pûssy", " vágina", "honey", " period ", " test", "visit" and such words? Do so. What if she's archiving her messages? You need to reengineer your mind to think like a woman to get the kind of tricks they'd be up to. Is she jittery when you are with her phone? Read her body language. That a cheating or flirting woman would stop when she's married is the greatest lie ever. A wedding is just a public celebration of the emotional contract between both of you which was signed when you agreed to date exclusively. If she's sleeping around or flirting, she's broken that contract and the wedding is just you celebrating a lie. Sanctimony is a weapon many females use. They realize perception is stronger than reality. If she can successfully encourage the perception that she's a good church girl, the reality that she sleeps around or is a chronic flirt doesn't matter. 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by Aksnoopy: 9:45am On Nov 15, 2021 |
Werey is even defending and vouching for her. Even she can't vouch for herself. Mr man you don't vouch for a teenager no matter what especially if she is a female. Use your head and age properly, I am also dating a 19yr old. You can only date young girls with your head and not your heart. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by 04Wale: 9:45am On Nov 15, 2021 |
My broda if she mature and good understand girl why not keep her,believe me if she appear to be northern girl she could have be come grama by this time |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by eventainment(m): 9:48am On Nov 15, 2021 |
South south people mentality really different from northerners. So far your intentions are pure. 1 Like |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by Nobody: 9:49am On Nov 15, 2021 |
Dont keep your Hopes high ... so you wont be like the current me 1 Like
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Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by BabbanBura(m): 9:50am On Nov 15, 2021 |
Vinnie2000: You are right but if she truly love him, she will listen and drop these things to descent level - my experience! |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by starlingbawa(m): 9:50am On Nov 15, 2021 |
She's more than 18, As such there ain't nothing wrong with it. Compatibility's all that matters!!! |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by litaninja(m): 9:50am On Nov 15, 2021 |
You never see girlfriend o |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by iamme1234(m): 9:51am On Nov 15, 2021 |
ersonleads: This your topic should be treated in the evening, not Monday morning jobless boy. |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by chris51(f): 9:52am On Nov 15, 2021 |
You have nothing to fear in terms of age difference. Women mature much faster than men. |
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